Cheating

First, I don't know if you are seeing him now, or you curious because you want a relationship with him. So, we are missing vital information here.

I'm going to assume you are interested in him and not seeing him. In this case, first look for a wedding ring. I would imagine you have already. Do you know someone who knows him? They can be a source of information. Do you talk with him? If you do, there is nothing wrong with bringing up some small talk, and ask him about his family. If you talk to him, you could say you were interested in getting a MySpace page, and what does he think of that. You can then ask him if he has one, and indicate you would like to see it. If he does, then this could be a source of information. Still, you could just ask him. I'm sure others can add to this. This may not be so helpful to you, but as I indicated, there is a lack of vital information that if I knew it, it could change my entire opinion. Best wishes!!

i am married 16 years i did somemany nice things for my husband and he still so cold with me

My advice: Stop cheating and resolve never to do it again. Keep yourself away from tempting situations. Forgive yourself and seek counseling if you find the guilt too much to bear. But if you've genuinely made a mistake and have resolved never to repeat it, I would advise not telling your wife. I'm not advocating dishonesty, but if there is no way she could find out, then what she never knows will never hurt her. If, however, there is a way she could find out, you might want to tell her first so that she hears it from you and not someone else. It's a sticky situation, but then when was cheating ever not complicated?

Gosh this is a question that covers a lot of territory. Yes it is possible even likely that you'd lose your desire for the man you cheated on. And yes to want to fix the marrage is also especially common. You need to get busy and start reading and learning everything you can about this sort of thing otherwise your marrage will remain at risk.

shes always leaving make shore you check her phone in the night if she does find the guy and beat the hell out of him and bury him in a ditch she will be flattered just don't tell what happened with the body i never told you this

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If you the husband will treat her fair and good as your partner. Never take her for granted because she can do everything. Make sure that not only your needs is important, if you only think about yourself and not hers, then that will be one reason she might think of cheating. Always tell her you love her, the word LOVE is what us wives likes to hear, not just once or twice a week. If you can do this, take my words for it, your wife will never betrayed you..

Only you know if your boyfriend has been true to you since you've been going together. You can tell if a guy is honest or not. If he's given you no problems before then there is no reason you should be second-guessing him now. Tell him to nix the trips to Canada! If he can't take you on a vacation then he can hit the road and have all the freedom he wants to chum with his buddies. Good luck Marcy

Yes, you are not being faithful.

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Yes if you are married it is. If you have a girlfriend it's also bad. But for single men

what can we say except it's not our business if they do.

The fact you knew he took his mistress on vacation means you are enabling his behavior of letting him have an affair in the first place. He should be taking you on a well deserved vacation and not his mistress. It's time you stood up for yourself and, if you have children it is well worth it to communicate how you feel to your husband and tell him the only way he can save the marriage is by going for marriage counseling. If he does not agree to do this and continues to see his mistress then you need to get your self respect back and start looking after any children you may have. If you don't have children then file for a divorce if your husband refuses to seek marriage counseling.

• You broke the golden rule of cheating and it's cheap and dishonest. If you didn't love your husband for reasons of your own or you simply fell out of love then you haven't communicated with your husband and tried harder to make the marriage work even if it meant marriage counseling. You took the easy way out and now find yourself in love with someone else. You have to decide if you are in love with love (missing the warmth and love you may find from this lover) and stop the affair or, make a decision; send your children to their grandparents; friends and sit down with your husband and be honest and file for divorce to be with your lover. Sooner or later your husband will find out about the affair and it will cause a nasty scene in the end which will be devastating to the children. Honesty is the best policy and staying in a loveless marriage is not good for children. Children are bright and can pick up on emotions between their parents very easily. You have to make the choice! The grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener! This means you could lose a lot if your lover just enjoys the idea of sneaking around, but is not into commitment. There is generally no going back to your husband once you have left because you will have hurt him deeply and you broke the bond of trust between the two of you. You could well be left without nothing. It is hard to retain a loving relationship in a marriage and it appears easier to cheat, but the truth of the matter is that working on resolving your differences with your partner in marriage is far easier than cheating and possibly being found out.
  

I was the betrayed wife and you will be surprise to my answer. Why would you shame or hurt the mistress? She's not the one that pursue your husband. She's probably had a normal life before this married man met her. Her only mistake is, she's probably believed your husband's lie and never say no to your husband. think about it, because it was your husband who can not keep his zipper close no matter what your problem is.

Like his world is collapsing. Not that there should be any particular sympathy, except for his wife.

He'll obviously have to find a new job/career, and it can be hoped that this won't impact his wife and family too much.

It can mean a great many different things.

Anyone can cheat, regardless of their zodiac sign. Factors in a given natal chart can indicate a native that seeks variety in their partnerships and thus may be given to straying. These usually involve Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune and the mutable signs Gemini and Sagittarius.

No. The best thing is not to jump into relationships easily unless you are sure about the person. Dont cheat your partner and believe in one love.

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Important things aren't always easy or fast. If he is truly back with you, then get counseling to help you both get on the road to rebuilding your relationship. The right therapist can help you understand the progression of feelings and offer advice to work through it. One thing I've read in several places is that your husband is going to have to seriously understand and listen to your venting.

only if you want to be really harsh on him and his girlfriend

No, it is not necessary, what is necessary is to talk about general details as why and how long was the affair. If you still want to stay, you will both need to work on trust issues and what to do now without looking backward. Good Luck

• Some men look at barely clad women or nude women online because it is the next best thing to looking at these women in a pornographic magazine. Cheating is when you actually take action to contact a person online. It is time you sat down with your husband and communicated on a better note and let him know you do not appreciate him looking at barely clad women.

If he is willing to cheat on his current boyfriend, why wouldn't he cheat on you when he gets bored with you. Doesn't mean you can't be with him, just be honest with yourself about the type of person he is.

It depends on your age and how long you've been going out for. If he's shy you might want to make the first move but be gentle and if he's uncomfortable stop. Always put him first! :)

== If you really like him you should stay.Hey you could get him a book to help him. If the relationship is worth it, and i you are both willing to put in some time and effort, then you may have a chance together. Try to explain to him in a way that will not bruise his ego too much, for example, "You're not doing it right!" Instead, try, "I really like it when you do this..." Then, show him. If after giving it some time, there is no improvement, and you are not happy, you will have to decide how important it is to you. For many people, it is a dealbreaker. Hope this helps. == you don't say if you are male or female, but this applies to both. If sex is very important to you and not the other person, this is a serious problem for most people. Many times the sexual "thermostat" is set very early and there is not much hope of making things right.

You have to talk to your partner (whose problem might be temporary!) and decide if it is worth the effort to come to terms. At the very least don't rush into marriage before you are satisfied with the result.

thaks but i already asked and he said that he doesnt noe wat hes doing and im starting 2 get bored with my boy-friend so im like really thinking about cheating on him so now the boy i like is telling me 2 cheat but hes raped up in so many girls he doesnt want 2 make me think that he wants a commited relationship but i noe he doesnt want a commitment but neather do i so it just stressing me out. Well he may like you and is saying that just to cover up so no one knows his secret. You should talk to him and find out the trueth. Good Luck I hope this is what you were looking for in a answer.

I would put that to a stop if they had a a deep relationship prior to breaking up or if they broke up not too long ago.. Answer It depends on your trust level . I would say YES, as long as you can be included, lol. Maybe it's not that you don't trust HER, you probably don't trust HIM, and I wouldn't blame you . He's snooping around for something because if it was friendly, it would NOT be done in a disrespectful manner and you WOULD be included. Honestly, your wife should respect you enough to NOT even think about communicating with her ex. Doesn't seem like she's thinking about how YOU may feel, or how this could taint your marriage and trust. I'm quite sure she would NOT be able to take YOU communicating with your ex. I look at it like this: If we ALL CAN'T be friends, then NONE of us can be friends. This is only if you want to compromise with her but MOST men would NOT allow this, especially if they're MARRIED. IT IS JUST AN OPEN DOOR WAITING FOR ONE OF THEM TO WALK THROUGH! Ask yourself: "Why do they STILL need to communicate? What the hell do they need to talk about?" It CAN'T be closure because that should have happened BEFORE the marriage. If you ask me, he doesn't deserve ANY of her free time because he didn't make good of his OWN time when he had her, and she shouldn't have ANY time to give to him. She should be making him eat his heart out over the fact that she's married, and he CAN'T have her OR ANY of her time. Hope this was helpful. Good Luck

Got same problem. Maybe suggest spending more time together and try and talk- if he no up for telling you- id have a wee watch out (wink) Does he wrk a lot- maybe he is tired- u should try and shake thing up a bit maybe .....