Cheating

Let see, for you to find a second wife, you must divorce your first wife first, if you are married. Other than that, you need to remove this thought off your head. In my own opinion..

Deserve has nothing to do with it, she may be better of not knowing about it.

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As human being and a good Christian person, that married man needs to tell or let me just use the words admit to his wife that he done something very wrong that might destroy their life and family. This married man owe his wife that much to be truthful to her.

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First off, REVENGE IS NOT THE ANSWER!!!!! You should be able to get over it, no matter how long it takes. Not act as bad as he did when he made his mistake.

I would first have to know how much it bothers you. I'm sure since you are asking it must so all you can do is to let her know that you would rather she didnt talk about it.Honesty is always the best policy.

There are different kinds of love. A man can love a woman deeply, but their personalities clash and they are miserable together (this may be the case with your boyfriend.) He loves her to a degree, but has to move on. Then he loves you for your qualities. This ex could have been his first love as well. As long as he's not seeing her any longer don't ruin your relationship over what he said to his ex. It's over or should be over! If he is still in contact with his ex then make it plan 'you don't share' and he has to make a decision between his ex and you.

Can you accept that he will continue to lie and gaslight you on this subject and possibly other affairs he will have in the future? How will you deal with the feelings of unease you will have every time he is late or doesn't show up, every time there is a strange phone call or text, or he mentions a woman 'friend' that was never brought up before? It's extremely difficult, if not impossible, to regain trust and confidence in someone who refuses to be honest with you. Unfortunately, it shows that he is still more concerned with saving his own skin rather than being truthful and letting you make the full choice of whether you still want to be with him or not. To love him and be in a relationship with him, you have to accept that he will place his needs above yours, including your need for monagamy and honesty from him.

• If she broke up with you then you probably still love her and don't like to see her with other guys and if this is the case try not to be in the same places as she is and go out with your friends and you just meet someone else you care about. If you broke up with her then you simply want your cake and eat it too. If you did break up with her, you still want to do as you please without any commitment to her, yet refuse to understand that the person that has been left behind gets on with their life and is free to date.
  

• Not all people will continue to lie when the truth is found out, but those that do may be compulsive liars (a psychological dysfunction) and truly believe that they did not lie. Other people are upset and perhaps can be in a rage over the fact they were found out they were lying and feel backed into a corner so they will continue to lie to try to squirm out of an embarrassing situation.

Pressure = Force/Area.

* You have to view if your mates cheating and if they have cheated once and seem to be trying in your relationship then 'to 'err is human' which means anyone can make a mistake. If he is continuously cheating then he has broken that bond of trust you have in him over and over again and it is not likely he will change. So, before you forgive think about the above statement and then decide if he is worth forgiving.

Because most men are stupid and dont know when they have something good in front of then. = )

There have been thousands of love triangle murder cases like this all over the globe. It would be impossible to list them all accurately. Are you looking for a particular case that happened in a certain place and era? If so, please re-ask the question with as much additional details as you can.

skype or face time are always good, try and be in her bed when calling your wife/husband it makes it more real and if gets nasty end the call :) hope this helps and have a good christmas!

In some cases yes. Depends on what he has to leave behind and what was the motivating for behind the fact that he stray. If he has financial ties that can be broken the other women is out of luck. Money is thicker then love. If he was just getting his rocks off because his wife doesnt give him none, again out of luck. If he is a habitual cheater, out of luck and if he cant bear to hurt her feelings, out of luck. If he is very unhappy in his relationship and doesnt have much to loose, then the other women has a slight chance. But if he is happpy with his life then he will not leave.

Spying is an invasion of privacy .. going through peoples things is a bit rude, ask yourself.. is snooping worth losing your husbands trust?

There are a myriad of ways and here are a few: * Cell phones (Blackberry, etc.) * Webcams * MySpace * UTube * Internet (chats, email, etc.) If someone you love and are dating or are married too and they spend way too much time on the computer and have no particular hobby or project going on that computer then check out where they have been. Check email and the deleted emails as well. On the website hit the arrow below the web address and it will show the different places that person has been on the web. I love WikiAnswers and spend what time I can on it because I enjoy helping people while also learning about other subjects. However, I involve my husband to a degree and let him know what it's all about. He trusts me anyway, but I want him to see what I do because I'm proud of it. Some people simply lose themselves on their computer and often leave their girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse out of the mix. Some partners aren't interested and could care less.

Most certainly - there is always a support sector that individuals when coping with things whether you are the one dealing with the actual problem or the partner or friend of the one with the issue. Support is very important when trying to deal with something and is very important and helpful for most.

If you are going to make the choice of letting someone know this is going on then be sure you realize there may be breakups of marriages and friendships but also remember they brought this on themselves and it isn't your problem or fault. You also have to decide if this is really any of your business and if it has anything to directly do with you.

Sweetie the only way you can forward the text that your boyfriend is making or receiving is if he is in your acct. or you are on his. You will have a hardtimes getting them if your acct. is not his, or vice versa.

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Heck yea! That s.o.b. can et in trouble only if they are braking a restraining order, or something else like that. If violence or assualt is involved it can.

If she's a true lesbian then she could have men for friends, but still like women. If she's bisexual then she could go either way. Are you sure whether she's lesbian or bisexual is the question here. It's appears you are sneaking into her private messages (not good) and it's best to COMMUNICATE to her how you feel rather than snooping to find out what she is up too. Second-guessing can only get you into trouble. There may be a logical explanation for this. Example: She may well want a massage (many men are trained in massage and provide therapy to both sexes) and he may have no idea your friend is a lesbian. If it is true that he mentioned being well hung, then he is not a professional massage therapist.

I have a friend in California that is lesbian and has had a partner for 9 years and she was hit on from the very doctor treating her for breast augmentation. ---- Actually as a lesbian myself, I can tell you it is quite normal for gays in general to be ashamed of who they are. They are not comfortable with with who they are or scared people will think they are lesser because they are gay. It may not make sense, but they often have affairs with the opposite sex to prove to themselves they are not different, to try and prove they are straight or sometimes to punish themselves for being gay. The real issue is their self esteem and self worth, NOT their sexuality in most cases. Think of something in life you were embarrassed of or felt guilty for doing. What did you do? You probably tried to prove you weren't that person. Sadly it's OK to just be yourself, but society puts these "labels" on you and many gay people are ashamed.

Well, you must be suspicious or you would not be asking the question.

Clues to cheating concerning personal habits:

#1 clue is A Change in habits,

Doesn't come home at the times she used to,

Says she 's hanging out with friends or going places with friends more than she did before,

Say's she has to work late more,

Finds a reason to get out with out you. more frequently,

Has cell phone conversations in the bathroom or at the back of the yard ect,

Seems jumpy when her cell rings and you can hear it,

Doesn't want to talk to you as much as she once did.

Doesn't want to plan things with you as much as she once did.

Wears her prettiest clothes when she goes out with out you.

All this may or may not mean a spouse is cheating , if may just be a sign that you are growing apart. Have a serious talk with her and if you wan to make the marriage work, Work on it.