Cheating

WELL ASK YOURSELF HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW HER. DID SHE STOP DOING CERTAIN THINGS TO YOU OR JUST GENERAL THINGS TO HELP THE RELATIONSHIP GO FURTHER. DOES HER MOOD CHANGE WHEN SHE IS AROUND YOU. NINE OUT OF TEN TIMES YOUR GUT FEELING IS THE RIGHT FEELING SO ASK HER AND IF YOU NOT SATISFIED WITH HER ANSWER BREAK UP WITH HER

Well, according to my wife, telling another woman that she is beautiful (in public) is being unfaithful Sangkai: This question is direct and yet required an indirect answer. Unfaithfulness is the negative of faithfulness. Then, the issue is, 'what is faithfulness?'. Let's put the scope into the relationship of husband and wife. They are two person who have so chosen to be the 'permanent' partner of one another by entering into an agreement with their consents and consciousness that they will bound one another under this legal sanctity of marriage and to honour whatever obligations that will rise along with that agreement. (the word 'permanent' used is to be exclusive from and subject to law for divorce)

Say, what are the obligations? Be it express, e.g. something which either the husband, or the wife, or the both of them have agreed to do after they have entered into the marriage. And, be it implied e.g., that the husband will maintain the wife and the wife to submit to her husband whenever it is appropriate for her husband to have sexual intercourse with her. These obligations need to be satisfied, faillure of fufilling it which could resulted in the dissolution of the marriage itself. (refer to family law)

Back to the question, when can it be said that, the husband/wife is being unfaithful. Let's take 'belief' as the operative word for faith here. What do you understand about marriage? If you believe that marriage is to give yourself completely to your spouse, and that implication of marriage is also a union which exclude all others, and also it is usually be regarded or intended to be permanent, then any action that would risk the sanctity of the vows you have made during the solemnisation of it would be regarded as being something which is contrary to your belief at the first place about what marriage is, and that is, to me, 'Unfaithful'.

To clarify my statement, unfaithful is when you do something in contravention to your own belief and you are doing it with clear consciousness as to the nature and result of that action. Try to think this, usually when a married man were just having a conversation with another woman, it is not regarded as unfaithful so long as no feeling of infatuation and love involve, but what if that man is aware of the nature of his wife who are not able to accept that it is just a harmless chat, and that in the awareness, he still doing it, is that unfaithful?

She might not have told you because she probably thought that you would throw it way out of hand. If it was just a friendship, she didn't want you to think it was anything more. Perhaps she and he were once lovers, and she didn't want you to know about their relationship. Or maybe they still are having an affair and the "we're just friends" story is a bunch of bull.

• Men fall in love with the women they have affairs with because it is a bright, shiny and exciting relationship they are getting into, but, men who have multiple affairs do so because they become bored with the woman they are with and they do not want to commit in a relationship for whatever reason the man may have. Sex is always at the top of the list and because of this for some men having multiple affairs it is like a kid in a candy shop.

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Well first think of the question. Some one cheated on you and you still like that person. I'm not positive, but if you got really hurt from he or she cheating on you I would let that person be. If he or she broke your heart why do you still like them? Maybe you could be friends, but be very careful. Mistakes happen more than once.

Just think of all the things you like( except that person and forget) like when my boyfriend cheated on me I just thought of the thugs that make me happy and I forgot. Unfortunately I have yonder him every day coz he goes to my school, but oh well. Hope this advice helps. :)

She may have little to no respect for you and your relationship with him. If she wants to be with him herself, she finds nothing wrong with it because of lack of respect, or if she really just wants to break you two up, she feels that's the best way.

Maybe it's because they want more excitement in their lives. Their husband could be boring and they want to find someone more intriguing. I think if the husband is also very harsh and heartless towards the wife and mistreats them they maybe more tempted to cheat. That's just my opinion though.

It might not be the husband's fault, maybe the wife is just doing it to get back at him for something, or maybe she just doesn't love him anymore.

Sweetie go to him and be honest to what you thought he is doing. If you don't and he is, a lot of people will get hurt especially you. Your father owe you this much by telling you the truth. You can also talk to your Mom so she can help you with the questions that you have about your dad. Please don't let this pass or it will be messy. I know because I have 2 daughters and my girls was really hurt and betrayed by their father that they worship since they were little girls....good luck!

• It is rare, but some women will give each other a peck on the lips as friends; but most will kiss on the left or right cheek of the face. If you are thinking of having a relationship with a woman; if you may be gay, then yes, a small kiss on the lips is flirtatious and can lead to cheating.

question asked did you cheat..if you didnt and you really know it then let him leave hes no use to you...but if you did then why you ask...lol all i can say is if he acused you and you say you didnt then its his fault for not beleaving you

Don't look back as whatever reason for your decision was probably not your fault anyway. Telling you it was is just self justification to them. They probably weren't worth it as they did not care for what they did. You couldn't fully trust them anymore, there are more fish in the sea, move on, don't keep looking for the sharks, look for the fish.

• You cannot trust your husband as he is in it for sex and you are enabling his behavior. He is like a Tom cat doing as he wants while hurting you deeply and also using the woman for his own enjoyment. You are enabling his behavior and need to sit him down and talk things out. Make sure he understands you are not putting up with his affairs.

• Since you truly suspect your girlfriend of cheating then you would know when she is absent from you and this is the time when you could get a friend with a car (if you are old enough to drive or your friend has a car) and follow her until you catch her red handed. Some indications of cheating are if she no longer pays much attention to you; doesn't speak to you much or keep in touch with you like she use too; making and breaking dates or telling you often she is going out with her girlfriends; secretly talking on her cell or having phone numbers of young men on memory or emails from mails. Check out FaceBook to search and find out if she could be flirting online.

Try to talk to that parent and ask why are you cheating the other parent. Tell him/her that it's not right to do that. Tell him/her your true feelings about this problem. If you're too scared or shy to talk then don't talk about it.

Powerful relationships can be very distructive and incredibly hard to pick up the pieces after. It is said that it takes 5 years to stop thinking of someone you were strongly linked to - so I would advise if you cannot make the relationship work you really need to make a clean break to allow yourself healing time. When you hit rock bottom and feel that life and love will never work out- believe me it will. Time is the greatest healer, there are no quick fixes but look to fill your thoughts and time with positive things like friends and take up one new thing that you have always thought about doing but never got the chance. This is your only shot at life - don't waste it - embrace your learning curves and turn them into positives. If you are young, the heart rules the head and this is something everybody experiences at least once - my big no no to you is to stay friends with the person that hurt you, it will delay the healing process and prevent you from moving on in your life. I wish you luck in your quest - all the best! If its too complicated then you have no other choice but to move on. That means no contact at all if children are not involved. It hurts very bad and you have to be patient as time will heal. I promise you if you have no contact, in one eyar you will be able to think of him and have fond memories without the absolute gut wrenching pain. In two months is probably when you will notice you can feel yourself again at times. You don't say why it's to complicated.If you really love one another you can work it out.Are you the only one who was hurt?Try talking with him than if you can't work together to make it work move on.Marty

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i think that you should let him go cause there are plenty of fish in the sea... being single is something great as well...but if you really love him then i think that the best possible way is to give him another chance... the best part is believing in your heart,its never wrong ;)

that is so right like that's what i would SAY

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A spouse hiding money is lacking in integrity towards their marriage. It's compounded if you're seeing other red flags---changes in schedule, unusual phone calls or behavior on your husband's part--that are suggestive of an affair. You can't have a relationship that survives without mutual honesty and trust. Lying and secrecy add (as you've discovered) to resentment which will fester and grow. For the time being, keep your eyes open and be prepared--discovery tends to trickle in. Just gather up what you have, and stash it away. When you finally reach the point where you are convinced he is having an affair, then it will be time to take some action. Keep quiet as well; if your husband figures out what you are doing, he will simply go to further lengths to bury his activities.

The idear of a person "disappearing" is a complicated issue. The term disappear is a relative term. By that I mean, if you say 'I want to disappear', then my response would be, 'Disappear from what or who?' As such you must identify what you are trying to disappear from. If it is Johnny Law or the FBI say you are trying to disappear from, then that would obviously be illegal. However if you are a simple old fashioned freedom lover then disappearing is both legal (to a lesser or greater extent) and easy to do. I would recommend you check out the company known as "Ariza Research" as they have an Ebook with pretty much everything you need to know about getting lost in todays modern age. Remeber, DONT BREAK THE LAW!

If you find him becoming more distant and less affectionate with you that is one possibillity, another is if he asks you certain questions like, "would you be angry if i kissed another girl". Also if you find him wanting you to wear clothes or make you be who you aren't. This means he wants you to be more like "Her". Your best option, is to talk to him about it. Tell him why and if you feel insecure its just probably best to take a break with him to save your 'problems' becoming 'worries'. You will find that is the best for both of you.........

If you have any other questions ask again........