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Grief Loss and Bereavement
Grief and bereavement are the result of losing something or someone that is emotionally significant to a person. Bereavement refers to the state of losing a loved one, while grief refers to the emotional and psychological reaction to the bereavement.
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What is the process of grief and loss?
A great book to help you understand is The Lightworker's Guide to Healing Grief by Tina Erwin. See chapter 3. http://www.amazon.com/Lightworkers-Guide-Healing-Grief/dp/0876045875/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpi_1 http://arebookstore.com/product.asp_Q_pn_E_647
What are the signs that someone is experrencing loss and grief?
The symptoms of grief and loss aren't always obvious. This is especially true when the person grieving is distressed over a loss that is not connected with a bereavement.
The best way to tell if someone is grieving is by being really aware of the different signs of grief. Symptoms generally fall into four distinct categories: physical, emotional, behavioral, and social symptoms.
Whether it is the loss of a loved one, pet, job, health, hope, or dream, people who are grieving will often:
- cry at the drop of a hat
- lack energy
- blame others
- have upset stomachs and headaches
- feel as if they are the only ones who have ever experienced this pain -- and they would be right, because for each of us grief is unique.
For a detailed description the stages and symptoms of grief, and how to help those who are grieving,
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.Which is the best way to handle your own grief after a loss?
Your grief is like your fingerprint-unique and personal to you.Others might not react to loss in the ways you do.That's ok.Everyone is different.
Be gentle with yourself and let yourself grieve.Find ways to let what's inside out.Talk it out,write it down,play music,create something..find whatever works for you.There will be good days and bad days,but you WILL get through this time.Grief is a process that takes time..
Can the death of a friend cause permanent depression?
Grief over a personal loss is not true depression and tends to lessen and resolve over time. Nevertheless, major life stressors, like the death of someone close to you, may play a role in triggering the development of major depressive disorder. This might happen particularly if you have an underlying vulnerability to depression (i.e., a history of previous bouts of depression, or ongoing dysthymia - that is, a subclinical level of negative feelings and thoughts - sort of like being a generally glum person), and/or other major stressors in your life too, like marriage, change of jobs, moving, having a baby, divorce. Major depressive disorder can persist for months and even sometimes years. Symptoms may wax and wane over time but never completely go away. If you are experiencing feelings of sadness, loss of interest and pleasure, and/or changes in your eating/sleeping/sex drive, more days than not, and these symptoms persist for more than a few weeks, then it is wise to discuss them with a physician. Depression is a serious condition that is highly treatable. And if what you are experiencing is "just" grief-related, you still may need help in dealing with it, and your doctor can help you to find support.
When a friend or family member dies, you will most likely feel grief.
OCD is diagnosed when symptoms start to become noticeable, which can be at any age. Most of the time, OCD symptoms become noticeable when a preteen/teen hits puberty. OCD can be diagnosed when someone is as young as 13 or as old as 60. It is different for everyone.
How do you stop crying about someone who has died?
You try to remember all the great times you had together....the person is alive while you keep the memories of him(her).... It is very hard to move on, but you should not! you should pass the memories to your children and always remember what that person would want you to do!
How do you deal with losing your parents?
You can't simply forget about about your parents, but the first you should do is be happy. Your parents wouldn't want you to be upset all the time because they moved on. They'd want what's best for you. What I do is I imagine they're in a better place where they don't have to worry about problems anymore. I always imagine them sad when I'm sad and happy when I'm happy. I have this amazing friend that seemed to get my mind off of my parents for a while. He's still with me and he always seems to make me feel better with jokes. All I'm really saying is all you need is a friend. I thank god everyday that he brought me one.
Are you someone who cuts themselves?
Cutting yourself is seldom a healthy activity but sometimes people suffering psychological pain / psychache try to exert control over their otherwise (perceived to be) hopeless lives by harming themselves. A different approach is to find a compassionate, qualified person who will listen to you as you explain (to them and to yourself) why you are 'cutting yourself' so as - perhaps - to find healthier, more productive, less potentially destructive ways to cope with the issues in your life. I wish you well.
What to do when your brother dies?
When you lose your brother, someone who is such an essential part of your life- who is more than a sibling because he is often a friend, teacher, hero... you have to find a way to grieve. some people grieve by crying, others by writing or getting up and doing something physical. don't be afraid to talk, let out your feelings. since your parents and close family and friends are also grieving it may be easier to find someone outside to talk to like a classmate or a coworker, a counselor... if you're a private person you can write your feelings in a journal or create a blog online and just say all you need to say. you can also just go to the place your brother has been laid to rest and talk to him, say all the things you never got the chance to say. I lost my brother more than 14 years ago & i am still grieving, its a process so take your time
Do people committ suicide because of family members?
Yes I think they do. Right now I'm considering it for the same reason.
Commentary...Humans are extremely social animals, so yes -- isolate a human and thoughts of suicide are pretty normal. This happens with all humans and it happens all the time. Interestingly, cure the isolation and things often get a lot better all at once.
There's good new though. People often fail to form attachments with others due to a fear of embarrassment. If you're actually considering killing yourself, doesn't embarrassment become something of a non-issue?
In fact, if you're really considering killing yourself, aren't you in a nearly unique position where you can try most anything you want, including establishing contact, without fear of long term negative results? :}
This then would be the time to ask the Prom Queen out!
If I sound flip, please know I'm not -- I'm utterly serious about this. Before writing everything off, try some new approaches -- what's the risk?
Can I get an Illinois f.o.i.d. card after a mental health issue?
You can, depending on what the mental health issue was. The recent legislation that went into effect June 2008 states that hospitals and mental health treatment centers only have to report people who pose a threat to themselves or others in the community, not everyone like previously. If you were suicidal/homicidal at the time of the mental health treatment, you have to wait 5 years before you can get a FOID card. Hope this helps! -Tara
I don't know where you're getting your information. The legislation that passed (Public Act 095-0564) does not state that mental health treatment centers only have to report people who pose a threat to themselves, others or the community. All mental health facilities are REQUIRED to enter the names of all persons admitted into the FOID reporting system, that DID NOT CHANGE!!. What changed is that now ALL public and private hospitals are required to report the name of any patient they deem a threat to themselves, the community etc.
To the original poster, if you are truthful on your application and denied, you can appeal the decision to the director of the ISP, and the case will be heard by an administrative law judge. Be prepared to bring in your your medical records and if there's any self destructive behavior documented or if it's documented you could be a threat to others, then you're on the waiting list for 5 years.
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What do people do to cope with death?
The best ways to cope with loss of a loved one are to share your feelings with people who will listen to them and not try to "fix" you, and cry when you need to.
Grief is our way of adjusting our world to life without the loved one. It is a normal process, and goes through predictable stages lasting from one to two years. It can be hastened by working your way through it and not fighting the process. Contact Hospice in your area for support, or your local mental health association.
How do you fall out of love with somebody?
If you're asking this so you can do it, looks like you're already not in love with 'em
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Over time, you will lose your affection for this person if you have no contact with them. If you broke up unexpectedly, you may think about what you could have done differently and want to try again. You'll need to avoid thinking about that somebody at all, and, certainly stop any contact whatsoever for a few months, at least. Regrets may live on, but look forward rather than back.
Why does grief affect some people differently?
Hi there, my name is kieran and I'll try and answer the question for you. I've interpreted the question as How to grieve, am i right?
grief is different to everybody and cant be defined but explained in general similarities. grief usually involves crying, illness and sadness.
- people feel the lose of a person was there fault
- people blame them self-es
- people try and reason with the reality, for example "I'll be good if you come back"
- disbelief
- regrets
- anger
- hatred
- a feeling of abandonment and loneliness's
- people very often feel lost in life and wont know what to do with themselves. they will have an idea in mind like going for a walk but rather than getting up and going for a walk they will simply sit and think about all the difficulties of going on such a walk
- happy
- joy
- peace
- even contempt
It is traditionally agreed upon that there are five major stages of grief as originally outlined by Elizabeth Kubler Ross. These stages are the emotional phases that people pass through when dealing with the loss of a loved one but they are also felt during other types of losses like break-ups or the loss of a much-loved job or pet. The first phase is usually denial. This is when you are trying to figure out what's going on and don't want to admit that what has happened has really happened. Once you acknowledge that it has happened, you will feel anger about the fact that it has happened. This will be followed by trying to bargain (with yourself, someone else or whatever god you believe in) to prevent the loss from continuing to happen. When you realize that it's still going to happen, you go into depression. Those are the first four stages of grief. What many people don't realize is that we may move back and forth between all of these stages again and again while processing our loss. We may feel some far stronger than others. Eventually, we will have done all of the processing that we need to do and we will finally reach the fifth stage of grief which is acceptance.
How can you deal with the loss of your grandma?
I am so very sorry that you your grandma has passed away. I was only eight years old when my grandma passed away and we were very close just like you and your grandma were. I cried and cried and couldn't understand why she had to leave.
The loss you are feeling is called 'grief' and all of us grieve when we lose someone we love very much and it's very normal. Sometimes people cry for days or weeks; question why their loved one had to die; then a person can get angry (sometimes at God) for taking the person they loved and then after awhile you will be at peace with the loss and be able to remember your grandma without feeling like your heart is breaking. You will be able to look at her pictures and all the fun you had and how kind and loving she was and only may have the odd tear rolling down your cheeks, but, your grandma is always with you (in your heart and soul) and don't forget the valuable lessons your grandma taught you throughout the time you had with her.
I don't know if you believe in God or not or what faith you are. I do believe that after most people pass away that they go to God and it's a wonderful place to be. They are at peace, no pain, and perhaps they can just look down upon the ones they love the most (your grandma looking down at you) and smile, knowing you will grow up to be a fine young person. Keep your grandma in your heart and remember the good things she taught you throughout your life and make her proud of you. You don't have to be famous for her to be proud of you, but just a loving, kind and understanding human being. Also your grandmother will go to heaven and look down at us. Did you ever want her to come to any of your basketball games or soccer games?? well now she can. Just remember even though you can't see her she can always see you
What is a Sentence with repress?
When Trina saw the A on her math paper, she could not repress a squeal of delight. When Trina saw the A on her math paper, she could not repress a squeal of delight.
How do you cope with the death if a child?
Everybody has their own personal way of grieving and you will find what yours is but start by remembering the good things and be forever grateful for the time you had with this person in your life and learn from what they brought to it. Don't be afraid to cry or laugh as this person would always want you to be happy remember. Also, just in case, make every good-bye very special, even if you're mad at that person. You never know.
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Take it one day at a time. Realize that you will never get over the person or the loss; however, you will learn to live without them. Reflect on the good times. And be thankful for the time you shared with them. Live your own life with passion and purpose knowning that each day really is a gift and there is no promise of tomorrow. I've lost my mom, dad, a sister and most recently a brother. It's hard. but, I am still blessed.
AnswerLots of prayer... this is the only thing that helped, me... Talk about that person as much as you feel comfortable with and keep them in your heart.
AnswerJust do things you like to do and be happy. Soon you will forget about the family member's death. And don't worry, they won't be ashamed of you! They'll be happy because you are doing what you like to do!
What is an acceptable grieving period of a loved one?
Whatever is right for you. No one else has a right to set limits for you, nor you for them. However, if grief is at an incapacitating level (interferes with normal dally functioning) after a couple of months, it would be a good idea to get some professional grief counseling -- never a bad idea in any case. Your local hospice center should be able to point you in the right direction. If not, contact your local mental health association. With all due respect, avoid clergy. They are seldom property trained to help resolve grief issues. A pity, but there it is.
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It helps to talk to others that have already gone through the grief process. If you have lost a child talking to other parents that have lost a child will help you because you can freely express yourself and they understand how you feel. If you are a new widow talking to other widows will help you to grieve and heal. There is nothing quite like the support of others that have already gone through the process. They can help you with your grieving time whatever that time should end up being.
It is a good idea to get some professional grief counseling if you find yourself going into a depression. Mental Health Association, Hospice and Churches have professionals so it's a matter of personal choices as to which institute you refer.
How do you deal with a friend's husband's death?
It takes time...a lot of time. Know that it's ok to cry, it's ok to grieve and it's ok to hurt. It's all natural and even though it doesn't feel like it at first, that deep hole you feel is left inside you, it will get better. It takes time as I said but you will find that the eventually the sadness will turn into warm memories that make you smile through your tears. It will get better eventually. Believe that.
according to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross (1969) the 5 stages of grief are
denial, anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. These stages apply to any major loss, there is no specific order in which they are followed, some stages maybe repeated ,and not everyone goes through all 5 stages.
