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Manners and Etiquette
The rules of social conduct, and procedures for interaction in polite society and official life. This is grease that makes the wheels of human congress turn smoothly. From the formal addressing of an envelope, to where to seat people at a dinner party, from the correct way to answer a business phone to the intricacies of wedding planning, we will try to find answers to all of your quandaries and do so in the most mannerly fashion possible.
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Who should speak first the woman or the man?
- Either the woman or the man can speak first depending on the subject. Example: If you are both talking to a man who is asking a question about mechanics then let the man answer him. If it is a general question either the man or woman or both could give their opinion.
How do you write a visa extension letter?
Using the letter format on the link below, use the reference line for your visa number. In the first paragraph state why you are writing. In the second paragraph, state the facts pertinent to the extension that you are requesting. The third paragraph should state your deadline dates and information for them to contact you if they require further information from you. Be sure to list anything that you are attaching to the letter at the end of the letter (enclosures). Keep the letter as simple as one, two, three; base your reasons on facts, not emotions. Don't forget to sign the letter.
What is a proper gift for an engagement party?
You know, I think things are getting out of hand. First you get a pretty little invitation in the mail........its a 'SAVE THE DATE' card............ then you get another invite..........it's the engagement party invite........ OH WHOOPIE!!!!!!!.................then you get another 'save the date' invite ---------its the SHOWER...................Then you get yet THE BIG INVITATION.........IT'S THE WEDDING!!!!!!!!! OEY VEY.... It's getting ridiculous........and I'm trying to remember...I don't think you should be required to bring a gift to the engagement party. Jeeze. Who can afford to do these things anymore? Just stick to............SHOWER...........WEDDING........ SIGH.......... no because I am not aeare the weeding before now
How do you address an ambassador in a letter?
If the Ambassador is currently active in the Diplomatic Service, it would be Mr. Ambassador or Madame [ Mme.] Ambassador.
Are manners commonly accepted behavior?
That depends on who you talk to. In general, yes, but there are many people that think that the manners they learned growing up should apply to all people, and traditional manners are different in different countries and different areas within the same country, and even in different families. So, yes, but some people will claim that basic manners compel us all to do certain things that are not commonly accepted in a certain area, because they come from a place where they are, or they think that they should be commonly accepted.
What is the difference between a lovers hug and a friends hug?
A lover's hug is very 'up close and personal' and may lead to other romantic gestures and actions.
Hugging a friend is simply wrapping your arms around their neck (or with arms diagonally holding them), possibly rocking back and forth with them a bit, a quick few pats on the back, and then backing off.
The are also differences in the proximity of each hug.
The lover's embrace usually involves full or very close body contact.
In a casual friend's hug, waists do not touch and only the upper body leans towards the other person.
What can you do to not embarrass yourself in front of a boy?
It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
1. Eat mannerly 2. speak politely 3. help others are best manner quality should be in a man
What does it mean for a person to act socially akward?
It means for a person to not have control over social situations. A person who is socially akward may have difficulty speaking in a way that others understand, could be too clumsy to stand or walk close to, could also be incredibly shy or nervous or stressed or angry.
What is protocol for grooms parents in wedding event?
Remember this wedding is not about the parents, it is about their child and they are there to bear witness, show support, and ensure neither the groom nor the bride decide they have cold feet and vanish.
How do you tell a co-worker they have body odor?
There are a couple of ways to tell a coworker that they have body odor. You can tell them in private so others will not here you and so it will not embarrass the person. You can also do it without words, you can leave a basket of soaps and shampoo on their desk or send them to their house.
Why do men have to take their hats off in a bilding in the old days?
It was custom, then. Men took off their hats in buildings, especially in elevators, and they even actually tipped their hats, or removed them altogether, in the presence of a lady.
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It is still proper for a man to do so. It is apparently not equired of women. This is likely either derivative of religous practice, or fashion (in case it would mess up their hair).
How often do you need to take a shower?
Well if you a girl you should shower every other day. Or mabey every 2 days. Just make sure you are clea, since we girls have periods. If you are a boy you should shower every 2 days. That's just common sense.
What it means when a Girl says you will get back to you?
if you mean "what does it mean when a girl says she will get back to you" then it means that she might be shocked by what you asked her. if its something like asking to a dance or something she might have other offers she may need to consider. if its on the phone when she says it it may just be she needs to get off the phone! there are so many things it could mean, but just wait and hopefully things will turn out for the best :)
Should step mother be invited to office bridal shower if mother is?
This is best determined by the bride. If she wants her there, then yes. If not, then no. It is not rude to not invite a person if it is forseen that this would provide displeasure. And it is never rude to refuse to invite a person to a shower, or any other event, for any reason. It may be wrong to tell a person why,but a shower should be pleasurable, first and foremost.
The president nominates the ambassadors. He or she also nominates public ministers or other officers of the U.S
What is the proper way to address a letter to a business?
- Your address at top left corner
- Date
- 3 spaces and then the address of the company
- If it is to a specific person and you don't know their name or if they are male or female use: Dear Sir/Madam
- If you do know it's a man then you can put ATTENTION: Mr. Robert Smith
- If you do know it's a woman then put ATTENTION: Ms. Sue Smith
If it's to the whole company put: Management & Staff (then address under that.)
How do you deal with my son having a girlsfriend?
It first depends on the age of your son. You should teach him how to treat women with respect and dignity. He should be informed about self-respect and decorum. He should also have accurate information about interactive relationships.
How do you tell someone they're a bad kisser?
You can tell someone that he or she is a bad kisser in the following manner. (For the sake of pronoun simplicity, let us assume that the bad kisser is a "he.")
First and foremost, if you have had a particularly unpleasant kissing experience, DO NOT think that by totally discontinuing your communication with this person you are telling him that he is a bad kisser*. Such an abrupt change in your relationship would simply be confusing, and it is unlikely that he will understand.
Given that kissing is a sensitive subject--especially when critiquing someone else's technique--you should take care to bring it up in an appropriately delicate way. If this is a boyfriend, lover, or someone else with whom you are in a relationship (and with whom would like to CONTINUE to be in a relationship), constructive criticism is absolutely essential. As far as bringing the topic up in conversation in the first place goes, wait until the two of you are in a position to talk in private, then try to steer the conversation towards more serious, "sensitive" matters, perhaps discussing the state of your relationship. If this is someone about whom you still care--and (again) with whom you'd like to continue to be in a relationship--it is best to precede any mention of kissing with a statement of affection. Here are two possible prefaces: "You know how much I care about you, right?" or, if you're comfortable with the L-word, "You know that I love you, right?" At this point, you can finally directly mention kissing in one of two ways. 1) If you and your kissing partner have a good, shared sense of humor, try dropping the bomb lightheartedly. "You know, I've actually been wanting to tell you something, for a while now..." He asks what, thinking it's something serious, at which point you say... "You're a terrible kisser." Although he might initially be offended, if you smile and add something along the lines of, "--but I love you anyway, and I want you to get better, so that we can kiss all the time, like total professionals" (or something of an equivalent level of affectionate playfulness), he will, with any luck, understand that it's not him, it's just his lips. If he still seems surprised or hurt, you may have to talk him up a bit, emphasizing that you still like (or love) him; otherwise, you can proceed to telling him what he's doing wrong. If you find him receptive to suggestions, now is the time to be straightforward. Is he opening his mouth too wide? Moving it awkwardly? Breathing weirdly? These problems are easily fixed if you tell him what would be better for you: don't open your mouth so wide, try not to breathe so heavily, etc. If the problem lies with the tongue, again: be straightforward. Especially for kissers with tongues that seem eager to explore the deepest recesses of your mouth, it is important to say not only what's wrong, but also that you do not like it. It's as simple as saying, "I don't like it when you use a lot of tongue." Although he may very well seem a bit mechanical and self-conscious the next few times you lock lips, you'll be glad you had this talk when he starts to get it right. Note: if you get your kissing partner to listen to your suggestions, try to say everything that's on your mind before kissing again. Inevitably, this conversation will lead to another, probably more awkward-than-usual make-out session; however, if you try to combine your suggestions with a genuine attempt at making out, you will most likely create an even MORE awkward (and possibly quite frustrating) "teaching session," seriously lacking in chemistry and comfort. Remember: get it off your chest, then let him try his best. 2) If you and your kissing partner do not have a particularly wonderful sense of humor, then sensitive and serious is the best way to go. Initiate the dialogue by first expressing that you have something important about which you need to talk to him, and that you do not want him to take it the wrong way. Reiterate your affection for him to show that you care about his feelings, then simply try to be as tactful as possible. Remember that the comments you make about his kissing skills may come across to your partner as a reflection on his manhood (being called a bad kisser is tantamount to being called romantically/sexually inexperienced). If you think he might be offended by the notion of being inexperienced, frame your suggestions as personal preferences, such as, "I like it better when you don't [insert undesirable kissing habit] while we're kissing." If you're not worried about treading on his insecurities, try (as in #1) stating what you don't like honestly and directly. After you've shared what's been on your mind, ask him if there's anything he'd like to tell you, about your kissing technique. Although this could potentially backfire (if he wants to kiss his way), it would show that you respect his opinions and don't think that you're perfect (or necessarily more experienced). Finally, try to follow your heart-to-heart with a lip-to-lip. This signal of romantic passion demonstrates that you still care about him and that you still WANT to kiss him-you just want him to get better at it.
Hopefully this helps. Muchos smooch-o's to all of you!
Footnote:
*(especially you, Jadee...thanks for not calling)
What are different ways to serve food?
Food can be served "family style" where all the meat servings are on one platter, all the side dish servings or salad servings are in large bowls and each person serves themselves from there.
Another style is "plated", like in a restaurant, where individual servings of the meat and side dishes are put onto one plate per person.
A third way is "buffet style" where larger quantities of food are set out on a long table with plates and utensils at hand and people serve themselves or attendants serve them onto the plates as they pick which items they want.
How do you not invite someone to your party?
I guess the only way you gotta lie if you don't wanna tell the truth. Maybe tell them your afrid that there won't be enough food lol or your mom only said that you can only invite whatever you want say people.
Where do your values come from?
Most of my values were instilled in me from my parents and from my Christian beliefs and teachings. They come from the bible. _______________________________________________________________________________ A person makes a choice to engage in activities that are considered good or evil. The choices people make are usually dependant on the psychological conditioning they are exposed to, from the moment of foetal conception, to the point of completion of their social/cultural programming. Children develop their values and social culture from the environment within which they are raised. Your emotional intelligence is shaped by the quality of care and attention you receive from a baby to approximately ten years of age. This social/cultural programming is similar to the programming of a computer's processor with data that is considered to be factual. The computer then compares all incoming data against its programmed intelligence, in order to generate a conclusion. Similarly the human intellect processes incoming data based on the morals/values they have been conditioned with. Some of these morals/values are inherited from genetic sources and the others are learnt from the environment to which the absorptive mind is exposed. If you were born to a family that practiced a particular brand of religion then you have been psychologically programmed by that cultural belief system. There are very few individuals who can honestly separate themselves from their formative psychological conditioning. The set of values with which individuals were nurtured will govern the choices they make in life. There are numerous influences and temptations bombarding the psyche of people today, via the global media (TV) and Internet. The minds of children are now governed by the suggestive influence of television programming which promote the use of intoxicating drugs and sexual escapades. The movie industry with all the disgusting sensationalism of gangsters, pirates, murders, rapists and the host of other miscreants have contributed significantly to the development of criminal minds. The adults are also influenced by suggestive programmings that promote promiscuity and other forms of deviant behaviors. The social environment within which teenager's associate, impacts upon their choices in life. Smoking, drinking alcohol and using drugs is first introduced into a person's life by their parents, friends or relatives. The use if these items are also introduced to the minds of youths through the movie industry. If our society has endorsed these practices as being elegantly acceptable then what do we expect the children to do?
Why does my man not buy me valentine gifts?
I'm not claiming that it is ok that he doesn't do that. But the much more important question is: How does he treat you and interact with you in general? It may be that if you have a real keeper, it's just as well not to push on getting gifts.
What do you do when someone invites themselves to your party?
- If you sent out invitations then this person is being rude inviting themselves to your party so don't feel bad saying 'no' because you have only so much room for so many people. If it was a verbal invitation to certain friends then word can get around that there is a party and some people consider this 'open house.' If the person doesn't bother you then consider 'what is one more potato in the pot' and let them come.
