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Abusive Families

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An abusive family is one whose member or members may be suffering physical, psychological mistreatment and even sexual abuse inflicted by other members of the family. Sadly, some children grow up in these families thinking that such atmosphere is normal.
This is a very tricky tactic used by an abusive person to make you crazy. Since ambient abuse can not sometimes be visible the victim may believe they are so bad and or are going nuts. The abuser may want to isolate their victim from other people as they provide the partner with reality checks such …
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Women stay in abusive relationships for a variety of reasons, it is never that simple. They may believe that they can work through issues with their partner and the abuse will diminish. It is never easy to leave someone when the heart is entangled, just because there is abuse doesn't mean there is n…
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Answer There are many kinds and types of abusers. It is impossible to define a single pathogenesis (origin and development of the pathological conduct). Culture and society also play a role. Abuse cuts across social-economic strata, geography, ethnic lines, and periods in history. It is associat…
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There are literally hundreds of support groups for victims of abuse. Search Yahoo groups, Google, and the Open Directory ( http://dmoz.org ) for relevant links (type the keyword "abuse" in the search dialog box).Participate in discussions about Abusive Relationships - click on these links:<A href…
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I don't really know the statistics on verbal abuse but I do know that 90% of men who physically abuse their wives also abuse the children but I also know from experience that it is possible for him to only abuse the wife and treat the children great. Even if he is not being mean to them directly it …
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the verbal abuse is a very serious matter for instance if a young child acidentilly spills a glass of milk a parent or both parents may start calling the child stupid and cursing and putting the child in a depressing stage feeling like sucide ,or cutting the wrists,maybe even bulling other people or…
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Domestic violence cases are most often filed against men in America due to the rarity that a women abuses a man in a domestic dispute.
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Find out the area code of the state dial "1" the area code then the person's number. If you do not know the number you can call directory assistance, 1-411 for both local and national numbers. THEN EAT YUMMY CHOCOLATE
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A 26 year old male should be living on their own (only if he is living in his father's home.) It is not uncommon for fathers and sons to disagree on many subjects, but, often when the young male gains more wisdom throughout life and matures it is possible for father and son to have a better relation…
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The abuser would constantly tell you how worthless you are and try to control everything that you do. They play guilt games, or yell and scream when you do nothing wrong; in order to beat you down. You could be told that you are stupid or worthless. You may asked questions like: "what good are you…
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Spousal abuse is two people living together and it doesn't matter if they are married or not and they are verbally or physically attacked by their partner. It just isn't men that can be abusive, but woman as well.MENTAL ABUSE: Calling the victim names. Criticizing their every move. Demeaning them in…
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If you can't prove this person actually stole anything then yes, it's abuse and it's also slander! If that person gets tired of you accusing them or spreading the rumor they have stolen they can take you to court. It's called "Defamation of Character."Unless you actually witness someone stealing it'…
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Answer Is the sociopath mother on medicine to control her behavior? If not and the sociopath is a danger, then the innocent spouse needs to take legal action to protect himself and the child immediately (contact a lawyer, the county should have some programs to help those who cannot afford one).…
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Catherine Roerva Christen Pelzer was Dave Pelzer's mother, who passed away in 1992. Catherine was an alcoholic who had been drinking from the age of 13. Brought up in the Mormon community of Salt Lake City, she would hide in the outhouse during Prohibition to wince down bootleg whiskey. Her parents …
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Dave pelzers mother is a sick, messed up woman whos desprate and to get rid of her anger is to be drunk and child abuse Dave pelzer and divorce man and hurt Dave she made Dave drink drugs like ammonia and breath gas and play a devil game called gas chamber and Dave pelzers mother stabbed him and try…
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Answer At least 2/3 of all marriages experience domestic violence at least once.
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Domestic violence This is violence within the home, within the family - hence the term domestic. It includes violence between spouses, the abuse of children and of the elderly. In recent years the concept has sometimes been extended to include the frequent use of biting sarcasm and frequent 'put…
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Go to her with a few other family or friends and have a intervention sort of. If her kids are small have someone else with kids have a play date and get the ball rolling on getting her to realize the damage it is causing her and will cause her children. She probably has low self esteem and no confid…
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This requires a complex answer that many people belive they have the answer to, but few, if any, fully understand sufficently to answer. People may act abusively to their children for many reasons. It has been commonly stated that those who where abused are more likely to abuse. This is a simple, k…
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AbuseMany people who abuse children were themselves abused. Sometimes, they just don't know any other way of handling child rearing. We do learn parenting skills from our parents. Other times it appears to be "payback", as the abuser is no longer small, scared and helpless, but now can be in charge.…
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Domestic Violence can be broadly defined as a pattern of abusive behaviors by one or both partners in an intimate relationship such as marriage, dating, family, friends or cohabitation. Domestic violence has many forms including physical aggression (hitting, kicking, biting, shoving, restraining, sl…
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Some mothers may hurt there children by mean comments and punishing there children unfairly. They may not let the child have something special to them or let siblings hurt them. Mental and/or physical child abuse is almost always the cause. I cannot think of any other reason than this.
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She didn't actually go to jail, but she did have to go to court and lost custody of David. thank God!!!
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maybe because the parents were abused when they were a child and now, as adult, maybe they think that its okay abusing their own children. Sometimes, when problems stacks up, they intend to take it all upon their children, they're gonna start blaming them for everything. They don't want to admit tha…
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This is the case of a very horrifically abused young boy who was brutalized by his mother Roerva Pelzer (aka: Catherine) an alcoholic. There were five boys in the family and not even David Pelzer knows why his mother singled him out. His father Stephen was a firefighter and an alcoholic and instead …
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When you find yourself in a relationship with someone whose mother hates you, several options present themselves: Avoid all contact with her until she dies (this may take decades, though!).Get a new boyfriend.Start dressing identically to her, and manner your speech patterns and gestures to resemble…
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because some people are just crazy or in other cases people just can't control their attitude and don't care about there child
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Catherine Roerva Christen Pelzer passed away in 1992. For more information about Catherine and her life, see: http://thequeenandking.blogspot.com/2009/08/did-dave-pelzers-mother-from-child.html
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i wouldn't say that a mother hates her daugther i would say dislike , myself i truly truly dislike my mother leaning towards hate a bit i do like who she is how she is and i am glad i never had to live or her raise me . So i would a mother can truly dislike her daughter but i will always love my mo…
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That is unfortunate. But you could think of it as you would for someone you'd like to be friends with. You can't force a person to be friends. Even the sound of that is strange. You just have to keep a low profile. Perhaps over time, and if you have a chance to see each other in family settings fro…
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Laws vary by state, but domestic abuse or domestic violence is generally defined as the crime of assault where the victim (of any sex) is a current or former spouse, parent, child, or any person with whom the defendant has a child in common, or a present or former household member, or a person who h…
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This is the case of a very horrifically abused young boy who was brutalized by his mother Roerva Pelzer (aka: Catherine) an alcoholic. There were five boys in the family and not even David Pelzer knows why his mother singled him out. His father Stephen was a firefighter and an alcoholic and instead …
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Trust is something that doesn't happen over night. It takes time to build up. The amount of quality and quantity of time spent with someone is key to building trust. Go out of your way to help the person. Prove to them you care.
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David Pelzers mother was a cruel woman who abused David and his brother Richard. Her name was Roerva Pelzer(aka:Catherine). She died January 1992 in her sleep from a heart attack. She was an alcoholic who had been drinking since age 13. She was brought up in the Mormon community of Salt Lake City. T…
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In addition to the victim's own mental, emotional and physical health, many things can be impacted by domestic abuse. For example, victims often have high absentee rates at school or work. Absences may result from emotionally or physically debilitating assaults in the home. These assaults can be phy…
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Those who are not capable of obtaining a thing or fulfilling their desires through a socially accepted manner try to have an alternate course at which they may not found any obstacle. Incompetent men know that a child having no sexual desire does not need satisfaction, whereas the man abusing a chil…
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Dave pelzer.com or you can do a Google search for Catherine Pelzer picture and one should come up
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I dont think that there are certain signs that you could look for as they are different in any person. How people react to pain or abuse like i stated before is different in each person. I think the best way to find out is by asking. But make sure you are not crossing her comfort zone when you ask j…
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i dont know, but i want to. -childabusepreventer-
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Start with therapy .
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If an emergency arose where violence erupted in an American city, it would most likely be handled by local police and state law enforcement. If necessary, the President can deploy National Guard troops.
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Catherine Roerva Pelzer
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Ok, your mother does not hate you. Maybe you're just going through a hard time with her. Well, if she actually unbelievably hates you, either:She has no senseYou should be worriedShe's an abusive motherIf any of these are true, go to graciebelley@comcast.net for more info on Abusive Mothers.Good day…
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Its violence or physical abuse directed toward your spouse or domestic partner; usually violence by men against woman
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Abusive relationships should NEVER be tolerated or "Coped" with. The father of my 1st son was extremely abusive, He broke my arm, tried to light me on fire by first pouring lighter fluid on me and then flicking matches at me from across the room and other assorted cruelties. The first thing to do is…
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Marvellous, amazing, beautiful
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The only way to get rid of Stockholm Syndrome is through therapy. You need to get the kids out of the house and ask a socialworker or a police for help and get help for all of you. What he does is criminal and molestation can easily lead to incest and rape. He doesn't care about any of you if he doe…
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It is often an exhibit of power by those who need to feel powerful. It is often learned from parents who are abusers and abused. A person that feels that abuse is power (male or female) tend to choose partners who have low self esteem and feel the abuse is warranted.
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Firstly cool your self down by taking deep breaths or counting up to 10.Secondly get a ball that you don't mind writing on and whenever you get angry ,take the stress out on the ball. Finally face your parents when you are completely cool go into the same room as them. You don't have to say anything…
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First are you able to care for the children? if so you need temporary custody, if not you need to find another relative to help or call social services, get your daughter help! She may need counseling to find out why she was beating the child. Get kids in counseling also. Social services is the last…
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In many states, the age at which a child is able to make this choice is about 13. Another route to go might be talking with the grandparent's and making it look like you're a handful and they are taking you off your dad's hands--get's you out. Also, depending upon how messed up the situation is, y…
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I'm 12 years old .me myself have thought of running away first ,then that didn't work out so i though of committing suicide.the reason for all of this is that i have been in the middle of being abused allot by my mum physically and sentimentally and it hurts too much to stay at home it happens day a…
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Try to get to know her and what she likes stuff like that.Treat her nice, then you should expect niceness back. If she doesn't and is still treating you bad then talk to your dad and tell him to talk to her about being nicer. She shouldn't just show up and then be rude! Talk to your dad. You might…
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If your mom is being mean to you then go into your room and have some alone time for about 30 minutes then talk to her very politely or in another case ask her very politely. Apologizing multiple times usually helps. If she says "do you mean it" then say yes even if you don't.
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There can be many reasons, but they usually stem back to the parent's own challenges growing up. This is a form of bullying that happens within families: sometimes a parent bullies one child, sometimes a sibling bullies another sibling--and sometimes bullying can involve one main scapegoat that the …
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misogyny - hatred of women wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
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touching a lot of alone time odd times meeting up
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"Boundaries define limits, mark off dividing lines. The purpose of a boundary is to make clear separations between different turf, different territory "The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves. We need to be able to tell other people when they are acting in ways tha…
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As of 7/20/11: PHIL YOUNGHUSBAND, AZKALS STRIKER
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they take out anger issues on their children as abuse. they abuse their children from past experiences,its like a way of taking out revenge but on your child not the person who abused or affected you.
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Research conducted by Murray A. Straus of the University of New Hampshire and Richard J. Gelles of the University of Rhode Island, both veterans of extensive research into family violence, found that approximately four million people each year are victims of some form of domestic assault, ranging fr…
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If your mom is beating u try to secretly call child abuse or if u want to stay with her try to have your dad talk to her about it and if your dad is bad call child abuse
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In 1857 the Massachusetts courts first recognized marital rape, and in 1871 the first U.S. law criminalizing marital physical abuse was passed. Since then the law has been expanding to cover more instances of abuse such as financial, emotional and psychological.
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No, she is Filipino.
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You will abuse and hurt others as an adult if abused as a child.
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Be it a man or woman it is called a simple term of 'woman hater.' Generally people who are women haters have been hurt once or more in their past by a woman and they tend to zero in on that trauma instead of getting past that trauma and going forward into the future knowing there are good women out …
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Verbal abuse is a type of abuse (leaves no scars with the acception of scarring the mental state of the person receiving the verbal abuse) so no, there is no law against verbal abuse.Yes, it is illegal for parents to emotionally abuse children. Often the emotional abuse has a physical part as well. …
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Answer: I would say it is not a good idea to run away, but to call the police (or visit them) and tell them what's happening and show them the bruises. They may be able to help. Also if you are under 18 then yes, unfortunately it is illegal Answer: It probably wont be illegal but i don't think it…
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It is up to your mother to get you and herself out of that situation but if she isn't emotionally strong enough, maybe you should report it.
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Anwer: I would say that you should arange a meeting with her and ask her why she is acting this way towards you, and understand that she is not right (you already know that, I'm sure). Tell her how you feel and that you want her behavior to stop now. This might be how she treats her real mom too. H…
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Added to This Opinion: Although there is not one clear cut answer for hating families, hate passed down from generation to generation. In addition to generations passing down a "spirit" or attitude of hatred, other issues that add to it is: Drug or alcohol abuse in the immediate family.Physical ab…
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Let him know you love him and try to stay out of his way when he's irrational. Don't be confrontational. It will only lead to trouble. PLEASE contact AlaTeen, where you can meet other kids with the same problems and get some support from people you can talk to openly. You can even talk online if th…
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yes it does Ahhh that really depends on the person....I always have music on when I am doing homework or whatever, because I cant concentrate without it, but some people find it very distracting so....xx
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No, it is not considered physical abuse unless it is done in a rough manner that can leave bruises.
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Your father has no respect for you, only his needs. Shower when he is not home or shower at school or a friends house. Also he is well and truly a pervert
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It can come in many forms, Sometimes it's screaming and yelling. Somtimes it's neglecting (not caring for there families needs.)They might hit you and then say they are sorry and will never do it again but before you know it they are beating on you again.Most of the time the guy next door would neve…
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dont ask questions. because he can if u have a problem with it then u can hack mr.baynes computer and lock ryans computer
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Call the police and report him. It may be scary, but something needs to be done. If you can't do that right now, call Kid's Help Phone. It won't show up on your phone bill, it's anonymous, and they can give you the help you need right now. 1-800-668-6868 I'm so sorry.
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they grow up thinking it is natural and they don't know that it is wrong
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This kind of complexity arises when we ignores that lack of decency as a woman or man may overtake a reaction of a father or daughter. It is simple - dont wear provocative dress - or undress yourself in front of others .. dont touch opposite sex - even if it is family members in a intimate way. Such…
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If she is recorded by the bank as being an authorized signatory on the account there's not a problem, she may do so. If she is signing her husband's name and it is suspected that she is doing so with the intent to commit a crime (fraud or embezzlement), she can be charged with an offense (forging an…
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If you have to ask then you need to rethink your relationship. If one of the people always want things their way and you always do things wrong, If no matter what you do pleases the other, If you get lashed out at all the time and they compare you to someone else to make you feel self conscious or b…
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No, he was proven innocent and released! Who are you asking silly questions about stuff you don't know about! Get a life!
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According to a report by the Every Child Matters Education Fund, Kentucky has the highest child abuse death rate with more than 4 deaths per 100,000 children yearly and 41 deaths in 2007. Other states with high child abuse death rates include South Dakota, Florida, Nebraska and Missouri. Every yea…
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Children are physically and emotionally abused for a variety of reasons. They can be abused by parents or guardians. They can be abused by children at school, they can even be abused by the teacher. All of the following reasons come down to someone not being able to control their anger in a producti…
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First, go to the emergency room and get checked out. Second, report him to the police. Third, leave him and don't look back.
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If your husband is physically abusive you need to get out of that marriage. You can call women's shelters. All hospital ERs should have a number you can call or you can get help with the Nurse who provides counselling and helps you get to a shelter where your husband can't find you for safety reason…
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A large amount of people have been abused. No specific total.
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No, Dave's mother did not apologize. But he did interview her before she died and she said this.."When I stabbed it it was an accident" she knew what she was doing was wrong, but didn't apologize.
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You need to get a lawyer right away! They will talk you through this and tell you your options. They will do this part for free and work out with you how to pay. There are lawyers who deal with family courts look them up in your area and start calling right away!
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Call the police. Have them come out and take a report. In a "domestic violence" situation like this, someone will probably get hauled down to jail. If you have an on-going problem with this, you need to file some sort of charges against your brother. You also need to get a restraining order. In othe…
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FIRST.... DON'T FIGHT!!!! SECOND... TALK NICE TO HIM/HER THIRD.... WALK AWAY FOURTH... IF NONE OF THE ABOVE WORK.... U MIGHT WANT TO TELL your parents
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People stay in abusive households for a variety of reasons. They may be afraid of what will happen to them when they do leave. They may still "love" the person and will stay in hopes of them changing. They may be threatened into staying or they may believe that they have no where else to go.
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Call Child Protective Services ASAP.Or call the police, as at eighteen the child may be considered an adult.
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I should think so, unless they are being held by bribes and threats from the abuser. Many kids in the US suffer from mistreatment, but are too afraid to seek help. Some are bottling it up, hiding in their rooms to seek the only peace that they are allowed. Look around. Do you see one particular kid …
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Get a marrige therapist, and if that does not work after a while then divorce him, if he does nto or refuses to change
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Passive aggressiveness seems like it would be a result of emotional abuse rather than a cause or type of emotional abuse. But if you think about it, maybe it could cause emotional abuse if like, your around a passive aggressive person consistantly like at home because you wouldn't know how to percie…
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You don't - either seek help through marriage counselling or through talking about it, or separate.
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Tell a trusted adult: a relative, a teacher, or a school counselor.
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