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Marriage
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.
7,386 Questions
Do wives fart around their husbands?
Yes, many wives feel comfortable farting around their husbands, especially in long-term, close relationships. Additionally, even if your husband is comfortable with your flatulence, it is important to remember that excessive gas or digestive issues may be a sign of a larger health problem.
There is no such thing as incestry.
Incest is sexual relations between close relatives, and such a relationship is sometimes called an incestuous relationship.
How should you express your love to a guy who is related to you if you find it difficult to do so?
Actually, it is considered incest to attempt a sexual or dating relationship with someone who is related to you. Incest is illegal in many areas.
Maybe you are confusing that love with the way any normal person would love someone in their family, extended or immediate. You should find another guy, who isn't related to you, to express your love to.
How do I make my marriage stronger after my wife has told me that she cheated on me for 3 years?
A breach of trust like that will probably require some serious work with a counselor to resolve all the issues. Otherwise, the marriage is very unlikely to heal. It is probably going to be an uphill battle anyway, unless you are a doormat who is willing to put up with just about anything. You have no idea how much it pains me to hear about cheating. It's as if you're stabbing me. The thought of a husband being cheated is hard for me to deal with, but the thought of not solving the problem is harder, so here are some initial steps: 1) Determine which of the three categories of "guys who get cheated on" you fall into: the Bore, the Chump, or the Jerk.
2) Realize that wives often give their husbands the keys to the kingdom; the men just need to take them. I've come across many marriages in which the wife is alert enough to know exactly what the problem is and how to articulate it. She tells her husband the problem, but he doesn't get it-for two main reasons: 1) she presents in a way that he's not interesting in hearing (complaining, whining, criticizing, etc.), and 2) he hasn't learned feminese. So do you know exactly what your wife wasn't getting from you that she felt compelled to seek it in another man? What have been her complaints about you? 3) Be magnetic. This is a detailed one, and I'm in the process of writing a whole report on it. But the idea is that if you're magnetically attractive as a man, your wife will always be drawn to you. She can only wander from you when your emotional pull isn't strong enough. Think of a magnet and a nail. Visualize the magnetic tension the magnet creates with the nail when the nail is maintained exactly the right distance from it. The nail actually trembles with longing for the magnet. 3 things have to be present for that tension to happen: 1) force, 2) distance, 3) closeness. If the magnet has no intrinsic force, it can't create that magnetic attraction and tension in the nail. If the magnet pulls the nail all the way in and allows no space, then there can be no tension (take note of this one, cuz it's counter-intuitive; it's where most guys fail, and it's the one ladies' men really understand). If the magnet is too far from the nail, then it can't have that impact either. So the secret is too have a balance between distance and closeness while maintaining the force, the magnetic pull. Those three elements are present in any sort of attraction, even in food that you can't resist. They just take different forms. When it comes to women, I've found that those three elements can be called: 1) appeal, 2) dominance, 3) intimacy. You have to constantly maintain appeal, dominance, and intimacy. Most relationship books only teach you about intimacy, but it's appeal and dominance that give you value in a woman's heart. Why would she care about intimacy with you if you have no value to her? Most guys try to convince a woman to be intimate to be intimate by demonstrating to her how much value *she* has *to him*. But the question is how much value does *he* have *to her*? Many guys (not all) who are cheated on fall into the category of the Chump. The Chump is a man who lacks Dominance. The Bore is one who lacks Appeal. And the Jerk is the one who lacks Intimacy. If you are a Chump, start becoming a more solid man. Get more Direction in your life. Establish more Control over your circumstances. For a start, I recommend you read David Deida's book "The Way of the Superior Man" and Stephen Nash's ebook "How to Get a Girlfriend" (don't be deceived by the title; it's actually useful to husbands, too). Also consider checking out Anthony Robbins's advice on relationships (and even on personal power). He's also one of the guys who "gets it."
You have been married for 18 years but you have feelings for someone else you don't what to do?
Be who you want ot be with. Do what you wanna do. Let him down gently but im sure hell understand. Or maybe..... But who cares... Its your life.. Be confident babes x Lovee You x
Is it possible for money to be in sequential order?
It is not possible for money to be in sequential order. This occurs because dollar bills come in 1's, 5's, 10's, 20's, 50's, and 100's.
Definition of marriage in Islam by yusif ali?
CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE IN ISLAM
MARRIAGE IN ISLAM.
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Islam, unlike other religions is a strong advocate of marriage. There is no place for celibacy like, for example the Roman Catholic priests and nuns. The prophet (pbuh) has said "there is no celibacy in Islam.
Marriage is a religious duty and is consequently a moral safeguard as well as a social necessity. Islam does not equal celibacy with high "taqwa" / "Iman". The prophet has also said, "Marriage is my tradition who so ever keeps away there from is not from amongst me".
Marriage acts as an outlet for sexual needs and regulate it so one does not become a slave to his/ her desires.
It is a social necessity because through marriage, families are established and the family is the fundamental unit of our society. Furthermore, marriage is the only legitimate or halal way to indulge in intimacy between a man and a woman.
Islam takes a middle of the road position to sexual relations , it neither condemns it like certain religions, nor does it allow it freely. Islam urges us to control and regulate our desires, whatever they may be so that we remain dignified and not become like animals.
The purpose of Marriage.
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The word "zawj" is used in the Qur'an to mean a pair or a mate. In general it usage refers to marriage. The general purpose of marriage is that the sexes can provide company to one another, love to one another, procreate children and live in peace and tranquility to the commandments of Allah.
* Marriage serves as a means to emotional and sexual gratification and as a means of tension reduction. It is also a form of Ibadah because it is obeying Allah and his messenger - i.e. Marriage is seen as the only possible way for the sexes to unite. One could choose to live in sin, however by choosing marriage one is displaying obedience to Allah.
Marriage is "mithaq" - a solemn covenant (agreement). It is not a matter which can be taken lightly. It should be entered into with total commitment and full knowledge of what it involves. It is not like buying a new dress where you can exchange it if you don't like it. Your partner should be your choice for life. One should be mature enough to understand the demands of marriage so that the union can be a lasting one. For a marriage to be valid certain conditions must be met.
1) consent of both parties.
2) " Mahr" a gift from the groom to his bride.
3) Witnesses- 2 male or female.
4) The marriage should be publicized, it should never be kept secret as it leads to suspicion and troubles within the community.
Is Marriage obligatory?
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According to Imams Abu Hanifah, Ahmad ibn Hanbal and Malik ibn Anas, marriage is recommendatory, however in certain individuals it becomes wajib/obligatory. Imam Shaafi'i considers it to be nafl or mubah (preferable). The general opinion is that if a person, male or female fears that if he/she does not marry they will commit fornication, then marriage becomes "wajib". If a person has strong sexual urges then it becomes "wajib" for that person to marry. Marriage should not be put off or delayed especially if one has the means to do so.
A man, however should not marry if he or she does not possess the means to maintain a wife and future family, or if he has no sex drive or if dislikes children, or if he feels marriage will seriously affect his religious obligation.
The general principle is that prophet (pbuh) enjoined up in the followers to marry.
He said "when a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion , so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half." This hadith is narrated by Anas. Islam greatly encourages marriage because it shields one from and upholds the family unit which Islam places great importance.
Selection of a partner:
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The choice of a partner should be the one with the most "taqwa" (piety). The prophet recommended the suitors see each other before going through with marriage. It is unreasonable for two people to be thrown together and be expected to relate and be intimate when they know nothing of each other. The couple are permitted to look at each other with a critical eye and not a lustful one. This ruling does not contradict the ayah which says that believing men and women should lower their gaze.
- The couple, however are not permitted to be alone in a closed room or go out together alone. As the hadith says "when a man and a woman are together alone, there is a third presence i.e. shaitan.
- There is no concept of courtship in Islam as it is practised in the west. There is no dating or living in defacto relationship or trying each other out before they commit to each other seriously. There is to be no physical relationship what so ever before marriage. The romantic notions that young people often have, have proven in most cases to be unrealistic and harmful to those involved. We only have to look at the alarming divorce rate in the west to understand this point. e.g. the couple know each other for years, are intimate, live together and so on yet somehow this does not guarantee the success of the future marriage. Romance and love simply do not equal a everlasting bond between two people.
Fact: Romance and love die out very quickly when we have to deal in the real world. The unrealistic expectations that young people have is what often contributes to the failure of their relationship.
- The west make fun of the Islamic way of marriage in particular arranged marriage, yet the irony is that statistically arranged marriages prove to be more successful and lasting than romantic types of courtship.
This is because people are blinded by the physical attraction and thus do not choose the compatible partner.
Love blinds people to potential problems in the relationship. There is an Arabic saying: which says "the mirror of love is blind, it makes zucchini into okra". Arranged marriages on the other hand, are based not on physical attraction or romantic notions but rather on critical evaluation of the compatibility of the couple.
This is why they often prove successful.
Consent of parties.
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There is a halal arranged marriage and a haram one. It is OK to arrange marriages by suggestion and recommendation as long as both parties are agreeable. The other arranged marriage is when parents choose the future spouse and the couple concerned are forced or have no choice in the matter.
One of the conditions of a valid marriage is consent of the couple.
Marriage by definition is a voluntary union of two people.
The choice of a partner by a Muslim virgin girl is subject to the approval of the father or guardian under Maliki school. This is to safeguard her welfare and interests. The prophet said "the widow and the divorced woman shall not be married until she has consented and the virgin shall not be married until her consent is obtained. The prophet did revoke the marriage of a girl who complained to him that her father had married her against her wishes.
The husband/wife relationship.
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-The wifes rights - the Husbands obligations.
(1) Maintenance
The husband is responsible for the wifes maintenance. This right is established by authority of the Qur'an and the sunnah. It is inconsequen tial whether the wife is a Muslim , non-Muslim, rich, poor, healthy or sick. A component of his role as "qawam" (leader) is to bear the financial responsibility of the family in a generous way so that his wife may be assured security and thus perform her role devotedly.
The wifes maintenance entails her right to lodging, clothing, food and general care, like medication, hospital bills etc. He must lodge her where he resides himself according to his means. The wifes lodge must be adequate so as to ensure her privacy, comfort and independence.
If a wife has been used to a maid or is unable to attend to her household duties, it is the husbands duty to provide her with a maid if he can afford to do so. The prophet is reported to have said: The best Muslim is one who is the best husband.
(2) "Mahr "
The wife is entitled to a marriage gift that is her own. This may be prompt or deferred depending on the agreement between the parties. A marriage is not valid without mahr. It does not have to be money or gold. It can be non-material like teaching her to read the Qur'an. " Mahr" is a gift from the groom to the bride. This is the Islamic law, unlike some cultures whereby the brides parents pay the future husband to marry the daughter. This practice degrades women and is contrary to the spirit of Islam. There is no specification in the Qur'an as to what or how much the Mahr has to be. It depends on the parties involved.
(3) Non-material rights.
A husband is commanded by the law of Allah to treat his wife with equity, respect her feelings and show kindness and consideration, especially if he has another wife. The prophet last sermon stresses kindness to women.
The wife obligations - the Husbands rights.
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One of the main duties of the wife is to contribute to the success and blissfulness of the marriage. She must be attentive to the comfort and wellbeing of her husband. The Qur'anic ayah which illustrates this point is:
"Our lord, grant us wives and offspring who will be the apples of our eyes and guide us to be models for the righteous"
The wife must be faithful, trustworthy and honest she must not deceive her husband by deliberately avoiding contraception. She must not allow any other person to have access to that which is exclusively the husband right i.e. sexual intimacy. She must not receive or entertain strange males in the house without his knowledge and consent. She should not be alone with a strange male. She should not accept gifts from other men without his approval. This is meant to avoid jealousy, suspicion and gossip. The husband possessions are her trust. She may not dispose of his belongings without his permission.
A wife should make herself sexually attractive to her husband and be responsive to his advances. The wife must not refuse her husband sexually as this can lead to marital problems and worse still - tempt the man to adultery. The husband of course should take into account the wifes health and general consideration should be given.
Obedience.
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The purpose of obedience in the relationship is to keep the family unit running as smoothly as possible. The man has been given the right to be obeyed because he is the leader and not because he is superior. If a leader is not obeyed , his leadership will become invalid -Imagine a king or a teacher or a parent without the necessary authority which has been entrusted to them.
Obedience does not mean blind obedience. It is subject to conditions:
(a) It is required only if what is asked from the wife is within the permissible categories of action.
(b) It must be maintained only with regard to matters that fall under the husband rights.
What to do in suhagraat with wife?
first see nobody is in your room.then off the light and throw your cloths and slowly throw her cloths also then put your anus to her vagina as you wish and then mut wil come out.put mut into her cos then you will get a son.
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If you are still living together, consider counceling before divorce. If you are separated, then divorce seem inevitable and you should file or ask him to do it within the week at his convenience. Remind him that he said he would and find out what is going on. Is it possible he is having second thoughts? You will want to explore the issue at hand, this is where a therapist becomes very handy.
you must be sending signals to her that you don't or you just dont do it as often as she would like you to.. so just tell her that you do and than just show her because actions speak louder than words.
What are the parallels between Tom and Daisy's marriage and the Wilson's marriage?
Both are unhappy and cheating!
What is a Ceremonial Marriage also known as?
A. Common law
B. Custodial
C. Solemnized
ANSWER: C Solemnized
How do i start over when husband wants divorce?
You can always start over from scraps.
Ask for forgiveness, and try to get his trust back.
To help you further, we have to know the source of your problems, a professional marriage counselor can help you.
Should you be offended if your wife is Accepting money from another man?
I assume by your question that the other man is not your wife's employer, or providing money to your wife's charity or other myriad plausible and respectable scenarios.
If that's the case then the money is the least of your problems. Selection of a good divorce attorney is your more pressing issue.
What can I do when my wife says the spark is gone in our marriage?
The best person to answer your question is your wife. You need to ask her just what she means and what she would suggest you two do together to rekindle the sparks. Good luck!
He ejaculated in you and you feel cramps immediately and that lasts for all day?
If you are concerned about being pregnant, that is waytoo soon! Conception usually occurs about 3-7 days after intercourse and pregnacny symptoms usually will not occur until about one to two weeks after that.
Is it better to love or to be loved?
Answer I don't know about you, but I'd sooner be loved than be the one to love. It's better to be loved by everyone than to love everyone and get nothing in return. When you have someone who loves you, what else do you need in life?
What does the phrase he is your bird mean?
In England young men would often call the opposite sex 'birds' so if this person has called you his 'bird' he means girlfriend.
It seems as though he feels sex is very intimate and wants to see how connection is between you and if you both still have the passion - he may miss the passion and possibly with that connection for him comes his emotions and love.
