0
Marriage
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.
7,386 Questions
Why Hindu people follow arrange marriage?
As per Indian culture the marriage is not considered as union of two individuals, but the union of two families, at times union of two cultures, at times, union of two states. The young ones are not mature enough to decide the fate in proper way. They are short sighted. When the old and wise people get involved the the marriage, the out come is likely to be good. The family is the basic unit, which forms the society. The good society can come from the good families only. The Hindu family used to be a joint family. There were many advantages associated with joint family. The arrange marriage is much better than the love marriage.
Refuse to answer his calls (if you don't have 'Call Display' get it from your phone company ... it's cheap and you'll see his # and name.) Don't email him back or IM. If he bothers you at work or follows you then report him to the police and get a Restraining Order put on him. Although Restraining Orders aren't work the paper it's written on it is still a legal document and he breaks it you can take him to court. Hopefully you'll have a nice guy you'll be dating and usually when that happens the ex will split. Mine did. Good luck!
Should a spouse turn off the light when the other has to go to sleep?
If your partner has to go to sleep of course you should turn off the light, after all if you wish to read or something you can always do it elsewhere while your partner obviously needs to be in bed in order to sleep.
Why man or woman get married if all they do is end up cheating on your spouse?
well when they cheat they're probaly drunk or sudden, but they possibly can be crazy.
Is your husband a risk taker when it comes to cheating?
- Cheating on a spouse in unacceptable, but it does happen. If a husband continues to cheat then yes, he is a risk taker. Some husbands grow bored with their marriage and are looking for excitement; they want to see if they are still able to attract the opposite sex, yet some men love the chase and the secrecy of cheating. Most men know they will get caught sooner or later, but with some of these cheating husbands it actually gives them a thrill to have a high of being caught.
How can someone fix a marriage after affair if the husband don't want to stop?
I don't see how they could. Why would you want to be married to someone who sleeps with other people? Even once would be the end for me.
I guess you could learn to live with sharing your husband or find someone who is worth your time.
Why does your wife choose her friends over your marriage?
I'm sorry, but we don't know your wife, we don't know you. She may be preferential to her friends because she feel more comfortable with them, they like the things that she likes, they treat her well, she's spoiled, she's not aware that she's doing that, they care about how she feels, they know how to feed her ego... You see what a variety of reasons there could be, some good, some bad, some innocent. Simple steps to get to the bottom of it: ask her; think about how you treat her; think about how you make her feel; communicate. If you can't do any of these things on your own, talk to a professional, either on your own or as a couple.
What province bans same-sex marriage?
You didn't say which country. None of the provinces in Canada ban same-sex marriage, nor any provinces in Argentina, Netherlands, Norway, South Africa or Spain.
How do you get married properly?
Proper marriage is recognized by the law, and this depends on the country. For US for example proper marriage should take place in a church ordained by a minister or Reverend. While other countries recognize court marriage.
Why are some mistress get upset if her married man is wearing the wedding band?
- This married man is not 'your man' because he is married and has a wife and he belongs to her no matter what he has told you. If he loved you over her then all he has to do is file for divorce and marry you. The percentage of married men marrying their mistress is extremely low and with men that cheat it is all about thrills and sex with no commitment attached. Of course a mistress would get upset if she saw him wearing his wedding band because it reminds her that the wife still holds control over her husband and the mistress is losing! If you want a good future then nix the married men and the free ride of being looked after financially or for other reasons and free yourself up to meet a nice single young man that you can build a future with. You reap what you sow ... in other words, you pay the consequences for your actions.
ANSWER;
Yes some mistress do because it's a sign that her married lover might be thinking of stopping the relationship they have. She will always be thinking that their affair will stay forever, so the threat of wearing his wedding band is the one that scaring her.
What does it mean when a women takes off her wedding rings?
she is interested in sum1 else..or she doesnt want it to get dirty ;)
Is a second marriage more successful than the first?
Answer 1: First, people in first marriages are usually young, have no children, few or any assets or debt, and tend to be more carefree and "in for the adventure." By the time people get to a second marriage, though, most or all of those things have changed; and so, then, when couples bring more such baggage into their second marriages, they are sometimes unprepared for the consequences... both of their own baggage's effect on their partners, and vice versa.
Secondly, age doesn't necessarily equate to wisdom; and so, many end-up making the same spousal-choice-mistakes in their second marriages as they did in their first ones. The heart wants what it wants, but sometimes what it wants isn't healthy. For example, many people whose first marriages are broken-up by drug or alcohol abuse will, nevertheless, choose a partner for their second marriage who has similar problems... or at least other kinds of addictive-spectrum behviors and/or problems. Before getting into a second marrage -- or even beginning dating after a first -- most people should probably get some counseling and figure out if their marriage partner bad choices have a deeper cause.
Third, an expansion of one thing in the first item, here: Children. No child wants his/her parent to re-marry. In many marriages, step-parents don't have the same parental authority as natural parents, and so have no control over their step-children (and shame on the natural parent for allowing same), and so resentments, all 'round, begin and are continually fed. Usually younger, but often older and even adult children will never accept the step-parent, and will spend literally lifetimes doing everything in their power to make trouble in, or even break-up, their parents' second marriages. Partners with children in second marriages have to lay down some very serious rules for both themselves and their children -- usually withe the help of such as step-parenting seminars, or even counseling -- so that children cannot and will not have their selfish way in sabotaging the second marriage.
Fourth, related to the immediately previous: Visitations and their schedules, conflicts, resentments and even sabotage. In every second marriage with children in it, there's always the non-custodial parent and his/her rights of visitation. Some children love it, some hate it, and there always seems to be trouble keeping the schedule, and maintaining respect and civility all 'round. The divorced parents of the custodial children living in the second marriage with a step-parent need to be adults, for godsake, and sit down, without the children around, and come to some adult agreement about how they will conduct themselves; what they say to children about the other two adults involved; what they'll disabuse their children of believing, saying and doing; how they'll react when something happens, or the children involved allege or complain about something; and so on, and so on, and so on. They then need to sit down with the children and explain how things are gonna' be; and make sure the children understand that they've got said children's number, and that it will be the adults who circle the wagons against the children who try to make childish trouble. The adults, of course, then need to live-out that to which they've agreed, and not be petty with one another (or at least to only so do when the kids aren't around); and to be supportive of the divorced parents' new marriages and lives. One of the key things they all need to do is make sure the children know that they are not the reason the divorce happened. Kids will blame themselves -- usually insensibly -- and will often not tell any of the adults in their lifes about it; and then the adults need to act as if they understand that, and take upon themselves the sometimes painfully-honest truth and blame for whatever happened to break-up the first marriage.
Fifth, an expansion of something in the first thing: Money, and its baggage. New second-marriage wives can resent and/or miss the loss of alimony from the now-divorced-from first husband; new second marriage husbands who are paying child support to a former wife can feel the stress and pain of that, while, at the same time, trying to support his new family. The debt of either 2nd marriage partners' former spouses (after all, debt is joint, under the law; and if the first marriage spouse won't pay, then the courts go after the spouse now in a second marriage) can irritate and make resentful the 2nd marriage's other spouse. And the list can go on and on. Again, baggage.
Sixth, second marriages are often the result of one or both parties in a first marriage having had an affair. If a second marriage consists of at least one partner who cheated on his/her first spouse with his/her new husband/wife, then the partner in the second marriage who hadn't done the cheating on a spouse before said second marriage had better be mindful of the old, and provably true adage: A person who cheats with you will cheat on you. Having an affair while married is bad enough; and those having said affair will often marry one another after the spouse in what will become the 2nd marriage finally divorces whomever was being cheated on in the first... and often before the ink on said divorce is even dry. That, alone, is a huge mistake. But, worse, the mentality of a cheater is such that it often ends-up not mattering which marriage is involved, s/he will end-up cheating on it, regardless. Never have an affair with a married person; and even if you do, never subsequently marry him/her. You'll just get cheated on, yourself, in time. Additionally, even if a divorced person meets, soon after said divorce, someone new, don't be too quick to jump-in to a second marriage. Let some time elapse... some serious time. The truth is, most people are worthless as relationship or marriage partners for at least three years after they divorce... sometimes longer. No one should jump-in to a new marriage too quickly after ending one... no matter how okay it seems. Self-discipline, in this regard, is crucial.
Seventh, any divorce attorney will tell you that people in second marriages, espcially, always vow that they'll never divorce again; but the statistics show that once a person divorces, it becomes easier for them to divorce in the future. Some persons in second marriages, then, no longer fear divorce; they survived one, they can survive another.
Eighth, if there are children involved, then the parent of said children in the new, 2nd marriage may never, ever, be fully divorced/separated from the former spouse who's the other parent... and, especially, his/her parents: The 2nd marriage partner's in-laws... and the rest of their family. Figuring out where the children are supposed to go during holidays, or on special visitations; or if the in-laws are allowed to pick them up, or if they have any "rights" at all... and so on, and so on, and so on... it can all be very stressful; and many partners in 2nd marriages who much endure all that finally get fed-up.
Once a first marriage has failed, stop and regroup. And I mean seriously regroup. Do nothing in the way of beginning to date again; and if the reason you divorced was because you had an affair, then whatever you do, do not marry the person with whom you had said affair.
Don't even date, in fact, for at least a year or two... preferably three. Think about what happened, and why. Get some counseling. Read some books. Learn to be a single adult who's got a life that could do as well, at least functionally, with or without a partner.
But, of course, never lose sight of that even such a self-sufficient life with someone is usually better than such a life alone; and then don't hesitate, eventually, to date again, and even to remarry. But, if so, make sure that both you and your new partner are well-grounded, just generally; that at least you, as someone formerly married (and your new partner, too, if s/he was also once marriage) have been through both individual and, as new partners, couples therapy. And that you've read all the right books, and sufficiently contemplated your own navels in life.
If there are children involved, contemplate and plan for all the contingencies; for their other parent and his/her family; and for how the children may sabotage things. In fact, when first dating, don't be so quick to introduce children to the new potential spouse so that it doesn't seem to said children like a revolving door.
If you have assets and/or liabilties, discuss how that's all going to be handled; consult with an attorney, first, if you have to. As unromantic as they may be, prenuptial agreements are often executed in second or successive marriages... even if for no other reason than to protect assets and the childrens' rights thereto, either in the event of death, and even divorce.
Second marriages can be blessed, indeed... a place where wiser and more experiencd new partners can act on what they've learned, and be together for life. But it takes some serious thinking and planning and self-assessment, else it, too, will fail. And as both the question suggests, and this answer explains, the odds are against it from the outset.
A wedding ring is round with no seams what does this mean?
The fact that a wedding ring is round with no seams symbolizes eternity and unbroken love. The circle shape represents never-ending love and commitment, while the absence of seams indicates a continuous and seamless bond between the partners.
yellow-hug
pink-hickey
orange-kiss
purple-sex
red-lap dance
green-oral sex on a girl
clear-whatever the snapper wants
blue-oral sex on a guy
black-missionary sex
white-flash
What is experiential Symbolic family therapy techniques?
I found the following on www.coping.org/write/C6444/Family%20Therapy.ppt, a power point by James Messina, Ph.D. on March 21, 2009 on Carl Whitaker's Experiential Symbolic Therapy:
-A freewheeling, intuitive, sometimes outrageous approach aiming to: - Unmask pretense, create new meaning, and liberate family members to be themselves - Techniques are secondary to the therapeutic relationship - Pragmatic and atheoretical - Interventions create turmoil and intensify what is going on here and now in the family - Subjective Focus: subjective needs of the family members - Assumption all family members have a right to be themselves - Needs of family may be suppressing rights of the individual - Goal for authenticity, no right or wrong way to be - Pragmatic stance - Theory can be hindrance to clinical work - Often times theory is way for therapist to create distance from clients and control anxiety of the therapist to hide behind - Intensify present experiencing of family members to reach unconscious to understand what is really going on in the family - Process to help tap into: Family secrets just keeping the secrets keeps the family crazy - Facilitate individual autonomy and a sense of belonging in the family - Help individuals achieve more intimacy by increasing their awareness and their experiencing - Encourage members to be themselves by freely expressing what they are thinking and feeling - Support spontaneity, creativity, the ability to play, and the willingness to be "crazy" - Create family turmoil - Coach family how to get out of the turmoil - Highly involved therapist model: must be transparent, take risks, get involved with family in the sessions - Help family member experience the here and now by therapist "BEING WITH" the family - Three phases: engagement (all powerful), involvement (dominant parent figure, adviser) & disentanglement (more personal, less involved)
You will have happiness and love?
Yes, as i believe anyway. When you find the person you really love then yeah, you'll have happiness and love.
What should one do if one's best friend is married and he tells one that he's in love with one?
Firstly, you need to consider the fact that one might not be loved by one's best friend as he may be confused (Mixing the feelings of sex/friendship is not hard for men)
One should also investigate more into one's best friends marriage (Is his partner happy? Do they argue a lot?)
Two main routes to take would be one of the following:-
A) Tell him to back off and try to get him on-track with his marriage.
B) Tell him you're interested (And hopefully tell him that you will only progress with him if he leaves his parter)
How does a woman gain enough strength to leave an unhappy marriage?
I do understand where you are coming from because it happened to me. I was married at 21 and even when I walked down the aisle of that church I knew I made a mistake, but thought I had the "jitters" so got married. It didn't take long to realize I had done the wrong thing, because it wasn't long after my new husband was cheating on me with more than one woman and I was in denial. He was a cheater, but never an abuser, until one day, he started being mentally abusive and it got worse, then it started into physical abuse and I knew I should get away from him. Still, I found my mind was in a fog and I had always planned on staying married for the rest of my life (this was back in the 60s) and didn't know where to turn. I was too embarrassed and too full of pride to seek help from my parents, and didn't dare trust a friend with the fact my marriage had failed. I only trusted one male friend I had known for years. Other than that I kept it to myself and realized that my health was failing from all the stress. I was working one day and it suddenly hit me that I couldn't take it anymore, so I started looking for an apartment. When I found one I kicked my abusive husband upstairs in the house where his mother lived (we rented the basement suite) and on another day came home from work and took half of everything and moved into my apartment. I had even shocked myself at my own actions. I can't say it was easy at first and it took about a month for me to realize I was actually free to do as I wanted and to have peace in my life. I did have many nights of crying myself to sleep and even felt very alone, but, that passed, and I quit my job, got a better one, and started looking after myself for a change. I dated, but no one really seriously, went out with my girlfriends and had fun. I began to figure out who I was and what I was about and I grew stronger and more confident by the day. One day I was introduced to a wonderful young man and I married him in 1972 and we have been happily married for 33 years. I think it's not the lack of courage or strength that you stay, but rather timing (although you may not realize it) and I do feel delay in this situation is for a reason. For now, get out with friends, see more of what society has to offer and if you aren't working get a job, and if you are working and don't like your job then change jobs. Slowly you will gain more confidence and suddenly one day you'll do just what I did, come home, lay the cards on the table, ask for a divorce and you'll hit the bricks. If you own a home or property together then you must seek legal counsel and be sure your rights are secured. A wife is entitled to half and also half of her husband's pension, etc. Protect yourself! If you have children then you will have to adjust the custody suitable for the divorce. Something most women don't think of if they have children or even if they are alone is that you can get a housekeeper or nanny in. Right away women think, "but I can't afford this" but you can and here is how you do it. There are Mexicans, Asians, etc., that immigrate into the U.S. or Canada and they need a place to stay as well. Not only would you have some help raising your children, but if living alone you would have some company as well. It is the cheapest way to do things and it is helping both you and the person who has immigrated. Works out great and I have friends that have done it. I find that women that want to leave a loveless marriage fear loneliness more than anything, then it's security. Women don't realize just how strong they are and once they quite being afraid, and just get plain angry, the world is at their finger tips. Stay strong! Good luck Marcy
Why would a divorced woman repeat an affair with a married man who went back with his wife?
She shouldn't. The first thing is that a woman should have never allowed herself to be with a married man, but I know that if he went back with his wife then he thinks that whatever their problems are, they have hope to be resolved and he must lover her. If a woman saw that she was getting in the way of that then she should have enough or whatever it takes to stay away from him and wish him the best, that is, if she really cared for him. It depends on the age of the woman. If she is older she realizes there aren't too many available men and she's lonely. Still, it's not the right thing to do and seeing a married man is fruitless. If he loved her he'd divorce his wife and marry her. * I didn't realize that a married man would have no choice in engaging in a relationship with a woman regardless of her marital status. AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!!!! This woman would of been like that at 20, 30, 40, 50. She may be old say 45 or older but that does not matter. Shes addicted probably to the drama. She should care about his poor wife.
If you sleep with someone do you marry them?
Marriage is normally based upon the belief that the person you are marrying is the best available partner for you to have, who will be supportive and loving for the rest of your life, and who is (in most cases at least) the person with whom you not only want to have sex, but also want to have children whom you will raise together. Sex is easy, child raising is difficult (but can be very rewarding). So while you might very well want to marry someone you have slept with, that is not in itself enough to justify marriage. Sometimes sleeping with someone is just one night's entertainment, and nothing more.
What if the woman knew you were married but continued to pursue your husband?
i'd stop, cause what if it was you, going through that? or confront them tell them exactly what i said, in a calm voice though, no matter how mad u are.......
What is the trend of taking off garter in weddings?
I think when the husband goes in under the dress and brings it out with his teeth is so incredibly sexy and a total preview of what will happen after the wedding when everyone goes home
