Breakups

Maybe dont play with somebodies emotions and date them for a dare?

How to put your foot down? Yes, I know, he'll be angry if you put your foot down! And some will say that you need to control your anger! And others will tell you that anger does not solve anything! Bull! Anger clears the emotions. And, in case you don't know it, anger is an emotion. In stands in clear opposition to reason. But sometimes we do not want to use reason. We want to let the other person know how we "feel." Nothing wrong with that. For if we do not vent our emotions first, we cannot reason, because our reasonable self will be burdened by our feelings that are still locked inside. So let your ex-husband know how you feel, maybe even give him a chance to express his own feelings and then deal with whatever you have to deal with. More on anger and how to let it out on my Bio Page.

break up with him!!!! if he'll do it once, he'll do it again!

nothing. does it matter at this point of time?

why would you need to talk to your ex? If there is no children or property involved you should stay foucsed in not speaking and going on with your life. If by chance you run into that person be friendly but with the thought i am on a continued mission to do better for myself. ctr

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No. He obviously dumped you for a reason and if he hasn't contacted you then he has either moved on or just lost feelings. don't call him let him call you first. if he does then he at least still wants your friendship. a man always want the girl to crack first because we are very weak- minded. show him he's wrong. Please do NOT call him for any reason. It will blow up in your face, and you will be set back in your healing from this relationship. Narcissists and people with strong N traits have no interest in being forgiven and will only view you as weak and trying to get back with him. Just forgive him in your own heart and move on. Even if you think you DO want to get back with him, please resist this urge. It is self-destructive, and he will only use it to further upset and hurt you. They get worse with each "comeback", and if you've done without him for two months, you can keep going. Find some new friends and activities and move on. This man was poison in your life. Good for you for forgiving--it's a big step toward getting over this. But do it from afar.

He's made up his mind and he must have reasons he doesn't want to share and it may not have anything to do with you. The best thing you can do is start going out with friends and getting back into the dating circuit. This way if he realizes you aren't sitting around moping over him he may just have second thoughts and come back. If he does tell him you don't like playing games. Be your own person and NEVER lose your dignity over something like this. Love hurts, but, if you play it cool there is a possibility he could well come back. If he doesn't while you are dating you may just find that special someone that you'll fall in love with. Here's a better question: Why in the world would you want him back in the first place?! Honestly this guy is toying with your emotions! he doesn't love you at all. All he's doing is stringing you along and you're letting him. Let me tell you I've been there and done that too many times. I've learned the hard way that if a man treats you like that, he really doesn't love you at all. He's more considered about having that little piece on the side then what you are really feeling.My advice to you is, please move on from him. He's not worth the heartache. Don't let him string you along like a puppy. Be strong! Love and commitment go hand in hand. Prime example: I love my best friend. He is my world. I am committed to making sure that he's okay and that he always has someone to talk to. So its a bunch of BS what this guy is feeding you. Don't fall for his crap and find yourself someone better. Cuz while you're dwelling about this, he's probably out having a grand ol' time with different girls; not thinking twice about you. Be wise. Be strong. You deserve better.

just tell him if u keep leaving then he will think that there is something wrong with him and im sure you dot want that. the best thing wud b to say we can still b together but maybe we need more time to b away from each other and b with friends x

• You either have a lack of self confidence or are simply physically attracted to this person and do not understand what true love is. True love is about loving someone for who they are; honesty; loyalty; encouragement and a sense of peace between the two of you. A person that treats another person horribly has no respect for themselves and basically not able to respect you because you keep taking this terrible abuse and come back for more and thus, the person has a lack of respect for you. Never let anyone treat you without the respect you give them and it's time to kick this person to the curb where they belong.

it means she does love u and u will go out again

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Sorry to hear that. I would suggest talking to him one last time. But give him a few days to process the information first. You both need a time out period to get your thoughts together. If this man loves you, he will realise you are under alot of stress and your reaction/s are not a reflection of the woman he fell in love with.Sometimes a break for a couple days can help to gain perspective and make us realise what we have and how good we have it.Give him a couple days of uninterrupted peace and don't phone him. Then in 3-4 days call him. Talk this out. But take care of yourself. You wont be any good to anyone if you don't take care of you.If you want to post another message I would like to hear how it worked out.Best wishes.

Pele

you have a problem there :) i had one like this when a boy who had asbergers asked me out and i didnt want to offend him and make him angry but i thought of him as just a friend and then i said no but he took it well and we are still friends today. if your friend cant do this then hes a jerk and he isn't mush of a best friend. crushes are part of life and you will soon get over it :D x

• Some men do miss their mate when they decide not to stay together. Those that don't miss the person may be because of arguments and hurtful words said to each other; possibly the loss of trust have caused them more hurt so that they forget the good memories they had with their mate. It is human nature that in order to survive in many areas of life such as a broken heart for example one has to move on in their life. Men never forget the women they were with whether they are good or bad memories.
  

You can know because they look at you a lot, they come over to you and sigh as they walk away, and how you know when they want to tell you that they want to be friends again is that when they first start a sentence off with, "So...uuhh..do you...umm" that means they're going to ask you to be friends with them again and if they invite you to a party, they want to tell you that they want to be friends again at the party.

As long as she feels necessary. If it continues, however, and he won't stop, break up with him.

well,that is selfish.maybe your parents will make her breack up with him.MAYBE you should try to talk to the guy.was i any help?

sad to say but it cost $120 dollars and I found out this information because I want to have custody of my son or I guess u can say adopt your own child?... I've also got this information from New Chardon Court House..

hope this was helpful

YES U SHOULD IF IT DOESNT HURT U... SOMETIMES WE MAKE OURSELVES BELIEVE WHAT WE WANNA BELIEVE BECAUSE WE'RE MAD OR SOMETHING. YOUR GUT WILL LIE! IF YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN IN YOUR HEART THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG OR RIGHT I SAY GO WITH IT BUT DONT ALWAYS GO WITH A GUT FEELING.. IT COULD BE JUST INDIGESTION! =)

There are two ways you can handle this. You can consider yourself lucky (even if he did break off with you) because he'd be one pain in the butt because he's full of himself. You can logically look at him and this new partner and know in your heart that she will soon be going through the same thing you are. You can start seeing friends and dating OUTSIDE THE OFFICE and when you see them smile, say nothing, and don't let him in on what you are doing on your free time. When you don't act like you care about the split-up that will really get this narcissistic jerk and he'll wonder what your feelings were really like because you will appear to have lost interest in him so quickly. You CAN get the ball back in your court. Secondly, you can change jobs and get away from the whole darn mess. I suggest you try the above. Of course your are hurt, grieving at the moment, feeling empty, as if it were your fault, and wondering what you did wrong. 9 chances out of 10 you did nothing wrong. Narcissistic people grow weary of their relationships fairly quickly, so he won't be with this girl that long and he'll move onto another. I would count your blessings instead of being too upset. After all, you could have married this jerk! Good luck hon Marcy I just want to add that.... I think you should consider this a Godsend that he's out of your life. Finding a new job seems logical and you certainly deserve better than pretending that an abusive fantasy is a safe loving place you'd want to be. Good luck and do some research and healing before you begin seeing someone else. Tremusan

Yes, you should even if its not yours. 'cause shes going to need your help and need your support. so i think it would be a good thing to help her raise the child