Cheating

Maybe, maybe not, it doesnt necessarily mean hes cheating but there could be a possibility. A lot of times in a long relationship or marriage couples drift apart in some ways, are'nt as close as they once were. In new relationships people feel a stronger desire to kiss and have sex more its because they havent explored each other much yet and things are new. After a long relationship sometimes people begin to loose these desires, especially if you have many arguments or have encountered some problems. Many people that do cheat come home to their wives and still kiss and have sex with them just like there are people that dont touch there wives much any more but still love them and never would want to be with anyone else. If you want him to kiss you again try doing something new. get a hot new outfit, turn him on. make yourself tempting and desirable. If your still worried about him cheating maybe its time you start doing some snooping around.

Yes it can be true and I know 3 of these guys. Not all men chase women like alley cats on a hot summer night and try to bed everyone that moves. Some men are shy, some care enough to meet the right girl and some men are old fashioned about dating. Sure nothing wrong with that and in todays boring modern world it's all rather refreshing. Many people don't cheat on purpose. Things happen in their lives or in their marriage and each story is different. Even if the wife is a good wife or a husband is a good husband, sometimes one of the two can get bored especially when they start reaching around 40 because they are still young enough to change their life, but rolling down the hill at top speed towards old age. So, they are really looking for their youth and will often have an affair with someone younger than themselves. Still, it doesn't make it right.

• Women of any age should not date married men! Respectful women have a code where they do not cheat withsomeones boyfriend or husband and that code has never stopped, but obviously some people choose to ignore it. Some men can get to a certain age and want to regain their youth and basically test the fact a younger woman or another woman would be interested in them. This is a phase some men can go through and even though he is cheating it does not mean he will leave his wife for you. In most cases when a man has a mistress (he see her on the side) the percentages are very low that the man will divorce his wife and marry his mistress. If he should get a divorce he would rather be foot loose and fancy free instead of tied down to one woman. At least this married man is honest and admits your relationship is lust (all about sex) and if you don't start having respect for yourself then you will be considered no better than a prostitute (but they get paid.) Of course he likes you as you are probably a very nice person and he's getting what he wants from you. You should consider breaking off this relationship with this married man and set out on your own and regain your self respect. Date single men and at least you will have a chance for a future. There is always that special someone out there that is meant for most individuals. Don't waste your life on a married man.
  

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I wouldn't encourage it, to be honest, it doesn't sound like a good idea at all. If he's married, that could cause issues with his wife, for instance, she may think something is going on betweent the two of you. And friendships don't always stay friendships, sometimes, they go a wee bit further.

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I would not suggest it. It's like putting salt in an open wound. Most married men can't be trusted and it doesn't matter if they are just friends. But if this single woman and the married man has another person sharing a room, that will be fine.

It was honest of you to tell the truth but as you say knowing what you did was wrong sometimes you have to pay a price for a mistake you knowingly made. You breached his trust and it is understandable that he is upset. The only thing you can do now is to tell him how you feel and then give him some time and space to think about things. If he still continues to be upset with you this may not have the outcome that you will have hoped for. Good Luck. If you are both willing marriage counselling could help you both to move forward together and get by this.

USUALLLY THE MEN. IT'S NOT BECAUSE I'M A WOMAN BUT MEN TEND TO BE IT BECAUSE OF THE CLASSIC THEORY THAT MEN ARE JUST BEING MEN AND IF A WOMEN DOES IT SHE'S PERMISCUOUS. IT'S NOT THAT WOMEN AREN'T IT'S JUST PROBABLY BECAUSE WE HAVE MORE TO LOSE WE'RE MORE COUSIOS OF HOW IT'S DONE. SOME SAY EVEN MEN THAT IT'S IN THERE NATURE BUT THAT'S JUST AND EXCUSE, THEY ARE HOW EVER LET INTO THAT TRAIN OF THOUGHT BECAUSE OF THE GENERATIONS OF INSTILLING INTO THEM BE IT DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY. THE QUESTION WAS FRASED VERY CORRECTLY "LESS" MONAGOMOUS, BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE THE ABILITY IN NATURE TO BE UNFAITHFULL, IT ALL COMES DOWN TO WHO IS MORE CAUSIOUS. BYE BYE.

You are fooling yourself! If he was so unhappily married he has the freedom to file for a separation or a divorce. There is more to this guy than meets the eye. Stay out of it! He's married so let it be. If you really like him then you'll have to be patient to see if he takes the initiative. If you think being his mistress will be good enough then you to think very hard on this one because mistress' generally lose out. If the man does get a divorce and is free of his wife he's been burned from marriage and wants his freedom so you won't fit into his person future equation. I agree. Stay away. Don't get involved with someone already involved. I would even try and refrain from being friends. It might be too tempting. Just move on. His marriage deserves the best chance and cheating on his wife would not help. If the marriage fails then you can approach him, but stay away until then.

He probably does want to be with her..... but the wife (if she found out) uses her control over him to force him into not being with her. Sometimes it depends on how deep the affair with the mistress was.

I think you should talk to your husband first regarding this other person and explain to him how you feel about what is going on. It may not be anything at all. If it still concerns you after you have talked to him, ask him to contact her in front of you and have him ask her not to contact him anymore. (That is what I did) If it would make you feel better than while he has her on the phone you can talk to her too and let her know how it looks to you and how you feel (not in a rude way, It will just make both of them mad). It is never good to hide things from your spouce, even a phone call. Hope this helps

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An intimate affair with anyone includes sex, is usually based upon sex and only sex.

Most likely.

it depends on what type of person you are in the customs you have adapted to that person.

Yes...If they love each other why not!! As long as the man and woman love each other then why not..Although i am trying to imagine a 25 year old groom on his wedding night making love to his new bride who is 61 and his excitement as his 61 year old wife lies naked on the bed waiting for her 25year old husband to penetrate her.

LET ME MAKE THIS VERY CLEAR: NICK NEVER WAS OR EVER WILL BE CHEATING ON A GIRL!!!!! ALL OF YALL NEED TO STOP MILEY IS A JERK JUST LIKE JOSE IS!

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YOU SAY HE CLERALY WANTS OUT? HOW CLEAR IS CLEAR? DID HE SAY IT ?PROBABLY DIDN'T MEAN IT JUST TALKING TO BE WASTING AIR. OH HE DID MEAN IT AND HE'S STILL THERE? OH...UM...NO PLACE TO GO, CHILDREN, HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO, IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER,LESS BILLS FOR HIM , DOESN'T HAVE TO COOK , NOBODY WILL PUT UP WITH THAT "STUFF" BUT YOU SWEETHEART,ETC.ETC.ETC. MAYBE WHAT YOU DID IN THE BEDROOM GOT HIM STUCK...(SMILE) He is scared to leave, but wants to leave. He may also still care for you and doesnot want to hurt you or the kids. Marriage is sometimes an obligation and this is how he feels obligated to stay.

If it's some new thing.. I would say to get out of your marriage or go to counseling. It means her mind has been wondering places it shouldn't have been. If it's an old flame.. she needs to get over it! She is now a married woman and has no business thinking of his return. She is wondering if he will come back, which means possibly a desire for a reunion.

I'm a military wife, that's our job to wonder when our men are coming back. Not your wife's.

Meet face to face, and discuss the issue -- preferably with someone uninvolved as a referee, such as a counselor or therapist. Blood runs deep...and so do resentments of relatives. This will require determined work from both of you.

you probly think he/she is cheating on you

Because he is living out a fantasy that boosts his ego and gives him a power trip that she is in when they are together but in reality he wants a wife and the family life. Well lets face it he wants it all. greedy selfish insecure men will do this...to make them feel good about themselves.

A jag is a sharp projection or a fragment of something which has been broken off.

Chill. It's not the end of the world. He can't help it if someone flirts with him.

Girl, don't flip your wig. If he flirts back leave him there flirting. When he comes home later have his stuff on the front porch, and tell him to out of your house!

male menopause its true. If your husband is 20 - 39 he could just be depressed. If he's 40 orup he is going through 'Andropause' which is male menopause. They use to simply call it 'midlife crisis.' Men were misled and made all sorts of mistakes because they were depressed, felt the best years your behind them; left their wives to find a younger woman; or just generally didn't feel well and could have hot flashes, mood swings, depressed or even angry one minute and subdued the next. Go onto: www.google.com Type in: Andropause or Male menopause You will find out all sorts of information. Read it and then meet with your husband and discuss it with him. See if he will go for a complete physical and also have his testerone check out (it can often be low.) Good luck!