Cheating

I'd say this is a big no-no unless you are friends with the husband as well and he understands, if this is so a simple friend hug will work.

sometimes it could mean he is busy or he is tired, not that he doesnt love you. maybe you might have upset him and he needs time to think. maybe it had taken him 3 days to call you, but how long would it have taken you to call him? you cant always depend on one person to make the first move in the relationship. what if he thinks exactly the same thing about why you didnt get intouch with him within those 3 days? if he didnt like you or didnt love you then he wouldn't still want to be in a relationship with you. just swap it round and put it from there point of view maybe he was worried tha you hadnt called him and he thought he upset you and then plucked up the courage to call? don't be paranoid, you just need to talk to him. communicate with him, put your mind at rest. only he knows.

danile

yeah. .all men are born to be liars and cheaters No. If you really love someone, you won't cheat on them.

YOU have to shoulder some of the blame. You have not addressed your marital issues with YOUR WIFE! To put it bluntly you act very smug and have made up your mind it's all her fault and then dragged a clergy into it thinking this would cleanse her soul! Have you ever once asked yourself how you treat her or how she feels about the way you treat her. One does not just get married, raise children and continue on as if that person weren't present and was lucky enough to get a nod from your direction. It also appears you are the ruler of your house and don't give her a chance to communicate. I have a gut instinct your wife is a nice woman and she feels trapped and doesn't know how to deal with the relationship at all or you simply aren't listening! You pressured her into seeing a clergy and I do believe she meant to keep her promise. What have you done to improve your relationship? Probably nothing because you are too busy blaming her. It's time to communicate on a common level and ask how she feels and then tell her how you feel. Women need to know they are loved and need to hear those words every so often or that they are appreciated for what they do. If you are so unhappy with her and truly feel she just cheats to make your life miserable then it's time to leave the relationship. There is nowhere in the Bible that says when married you are to take abuse. I was married before to a verbal/physical abuser and got out! I divorced him and a few years later met and married a wonderful man and we have been married 34 years. I don't feel cursed by God for making this decision.

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I read a statistic once that said that 85% of women who suspect their husbands are cheating are correct in their suspicions, and 50% of men who suspect their wives are cheating are correct. To answer your question, of course anything is possible. I wouldn't focus on the standard "signs" as much as I would focus on trusting your own instincts.

You will know once he starts acting like a complete different person. If the kisses aren't the same or sex than question what is wrong with him. Or if he is making excuses frequently than usual.

If you would drop your friend over smething as unimportant as that then you were a friend in the first place.

well if you like this guy play hard to get and try making him jealous by talking to other guys.

what the heck?! three years ok ovbiously he didn't fully love his wife. that isn't an acidental mistake. he could easily do it again, and to the person he was with on the side for three years, he doesn't love her enough either because he wouldn't leave his wife for her, as in she has just been used. the time frame of this says it all. if you are the side women, leave him because he isn't going to leave her and will probably cheat on you. if you are the wife wow, don't forgive him, there is no answer for a 3 year side relationsip. seriously. Sorry to both women.

Read his autobiography which will be released Oct. 12, 2010 for that answer.

If you can accept the fact that you are in a polyamorous relationship and that the fun is that you are something new for now than by all means, but if you are thinking that your passion will sway him from his long life lover just forget it, save your self from his bad chick habit and scat.

* There is nothing illegal about telling another woman who is coming onto your husband to stay away. However, if the husband is fueling the fire the wife should have the communication skills to sit down with her husband and let him know she doesn't share with other women and he's going to have to make some choices or he'll be kicked to the curb. Women should communicate with their mates and listen to what their mate has to say while getting her point across and perhaps the relationship can be saved. No one's relationship is 100% and it takes a lot of work. When a woman learns how strong she really is and doesn't need to depend on a man that is when relationships are far more successful.

Obviously there is something about this person that makes you feel like he's not trustworthy and he's been cheating. I wonder what makes you finally believe that this person wasn't cheating? I would suggest examaning your relationship with him. Is this a person that you feel that you can trust with your life? After all, a cheating partner is jepordizing your health/life. Something inside of you indicates that you shouldn't be so trusting of him. Either that or you have a trust issue that you might seek counseling for so that you have healthy relationships in the future. Trust is an important issue in a healthy relationship.

that's the question you need to ask yourself what is he not giving you that you need to go find it with someone else after you've figured that out talk to him about it and see if there is some way you too can solve it together rather have you destroy this happy relationship that you say you have and another thing if you were so happy why do feel like cheating deal with your feelings before you talk to your husband AnswerThis is quite common in both men and women. When we first go together and are first married life is a bowl of cherries, but when responsibilities and the reality of life hits us square between the eyes we have to face problems and solve them, pay bills, usually both couples work and at the end of the day most of us are exhausted. The magic has simply gone out like a flickering candle. It takes work to have a successful marriage. I have been married 34 years to a wonderful man (and don't I know it) and I want to keep him. We work together on keeping our marriage as happy as possible and we do it by communicating every single day and talk about what we are truly feeling inside. We not only say it like it is, but we actually listen to each other and then work on the problem or do something when we feel bored. I find by my husband going out fishing, golfing or a pub night with his male friends and myself keeping in touch with my girlfriends and going out together refreshing. Being fused at the hip will make any marriage stale. If you can't entertain yourself then you are in for a few bumps in life. THE GRASS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE isn't as green as you may think, but your feelings are common. Is it worth it? In most cases no! If you start to entertain the idea of having an extra marital affair you are going to run a high risk of losing not only the respect of your mate, but losing him completely.

No. And to avoid the humorous double meaning of it - and it's actually a triple meaning - it's customary just to refer to a woman performing such a role as "hostess" or "MC".

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I dont find any thing wrong with kissing a best guy friend as long as he was responsive and didn't get up set. Sometimes taking the intivive takes a lot but the out come could be great!

• Yes, often times a separation is a good thing when one spouse has had an affair. It gives each spouse a chance to stand back and reflect on how they feel and if they really love their spouse or whether to move on from the marriage. Once a spouse has cheated it is difficult to earn the trust back from the other spouse. Perhaps put a few months limit on the separation and then meet to discuss how both of you feel about each other. The quote, 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder' may apply in this case. Sometimes spouses don't know how lucky they are and how much they love their spouse until they are no longer there.

• When a wife gives her husband her blessings so he can return to his mistress he is not expecting this and his wife is as much as saying 'I don't care.' Her husband is wary of her giving up so easily and most likely feels she is having an affair as well and oddly enough while the husband feels it is fine to have a mistress he does not like the idea of his wife having a lover. Therefore, this could be bad for the mistress because the husband is more likely to stay with his wife.

would accpet if a gril asked you out ? Yes/No Why

• It takes Cognitive thinking which is simply looking at the ways of the lover and the husband. Remembering when you first met your husband and how you fell in love; the memories and why you both got married. It is extremely easy for a lover to pick up the shreds of a marriage when a wife gets bored with her husband or feels her husband is not paying enough attention to her. Like it or not it is generally up to the woman to take the lead and start good communication skills between her husband and herself. Couples are not mind readers. You took a vow to be with your husband and as long as he is a good man and treats you well and with respect then you owe him that respect. Lovers comes in hordes, but good husbands don't. It is much wiser to communicate with your husband regarding your needs and also asking what his needs are in order to have a decent marriage (no marriage is perfect.) There are two sayings that are so true 'marriage isn't for sissies' and 'old age isn't for sissies.'

Depends on the person, and how much the person meant to you.

If you really love your wife and care about her, then you would try to work it out. If she cheats again the second time, most likely she would keep cheating on you. Some people change and some people do not. It's up to you on how your marriage is going playa! good luck!!