Cheating

There can be two good reasons why a woman is strong and stubborn. She's either had to come through life on her own steam, or, you haven't been there taking some of the knocks of life along with her. This is one you are going to have to figure out. I get angry myself, as a woman, that men go to work, come home, sit there staring into space, may pop open a beer or have a glass of wine and let a sigh out of them as if God put ALL problems on their very shoulders. Most men never look at their girlfriends or wives and say "Hey, how was your day?" Odd isn't it! Some women not only have to work, they have to come home and cook, clean, look after kids, run the kids here and there, pay bills, etc., and then their husbands actually can't figure out why these women are too tired to have sex. Amazes me every time! I would suggest you sit and talk to your wife. Ask her right out about HER feelings. Sit and really listen! Most men just don't listen and it's the most annoying trait a man has that most woman detest. My attitude is "if you can listen to your boss or clients all day then you can listen and understand what your girlfriend/wife is saying." If you attack your wife on any subject that old trait of self protection is going to come right out and hit you in the face. Just ask her how she feels, what she wants out of life and what she can see for her future. Why don't you (if you can afford it) go on at least a mini holiday (just the two of you) or if you can afford it go somewhere nice for 2 - 3 weeks. Sometimes we just need a rest and get away from the same old scenery and all the frustrations and worries. If you don't ask your wife how she feels, then you are just never going to resolve this problem. If you have done all this and nothing works, then simply say, "Well, you are so unhappy, I don't know what else to do, but I do know one thing .. I'm not sitting around here taking this and I don't want the rest of my life ruined by fighting with you." Either she'll agree to a divorce or you're shock her into realizing she has to work at herself too. Good luck Marcy

She is being dishonest to you and probably cheating. Get to the bottom of it and ask her what is going on. If she says they are just friends then why does she have to talk to them at midnight and lie to you. Let her know how it feels and I would say, Well, if they are your friends I would like to meet them, see what she says then.

i guess it is normal

i mean, i guess they might not be friends anymore because they're ashamed

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A 100% normal, if this man is trying to deal and undo what he done to his wife.

But if this married man never care he will find the way to reconnect with his mistress.

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God yes, it is normal and only the right thing to do. I don't know the whole story of the couples and the mistress but this married man needs to correct or even rebuild his relationship to his wife. The ex mistress needs to be out of his life, she will not help him if all she wants is for them to chit chat like an old friends. The other woman already helped this man to ruined the life of his wife and her role is only his friend with benefit. Affair is fun but with consequences, its time for this ex mistress to go and stop all contact even if the married man fell in love with her, or wants to talk to her. It's a sin and immoral.

If he's not helping to work on your marriage , he is just waiting for the storm to blow over and you won't bother him any more. Tell him to get with the program [ marriage counseling ] or you'll go on with out him.

Either you are having other problems in your marriage, or you are looking at the odd other woman. Tell me a man that doesn't. It's alright to 'look but not touch' and women do the same thing. You need to communicate with your wife more and let her know that she can't say she hasn't looked at another man. just let her know how much you love her and she is beautiful no comparision. If you havent already reassure her that you are in love with her and dont want anyone else. She is being unreasonable in the sense that you have eyes and cant help but look, as long as you arent disrespectful and drool and drag it out or make comments. Now if she is feeling insecure then she needs to do something about that and sometimes all it takes is a little more doting then usual. On the other hand, you need to find out if she is feeling a little guilty about something, they say sometimes when someone is accusing you that they are doing the same thing. Get down to the bottom of it and figure why she is so immature about other women, she should realize you are with her and going home with her, so what if you look, if you do. If you dont then theres something going on.

it might be most helpful just to say yes.but only if you like him. it might be most helpful just to say yes.but only if you like him. it might be most helpful just to say yes.but only if you like him.

It's tough to give advice when everything is so out of context, but no matter what the circumstances, letting her know that you're there for her and care about her is majorly important. You could always go over what a backstabbing prick he is, make him the scapegoat so that she feels better (it sounds like he totally deserves it). But mostly, just make sure she knows that one guy isn't the end of the world. She has much better things to look forward to in the future. :)

I feel bad for you and i hope you can get through this but I think you should sit down with each other and talk about it. Ask him what he thinks and if his answers don't make you feel any better call his ex and ask her if she really wants him back. If they do love each other than I'm sorry but they do. I think that if it's ok with you and him then you should file for divorce.

• If your husband was an alcoholic and he got drunk this once then you must try and talk him into going back (if he ever went) or go to AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) for help with his addiction. Once an alcoholic and if they are lucky to sustain from alcohol for several years they are still considered an alcoholic because one drink is one too many. Alcoholism is a disease and the person cannot generally stop at one drink. If your husband never did drink, but got drunk at home; party or out with his friends and made a fool of himself this is not a big deal to forgive and once he hears how he looked and acted he may well try to control his drinking or even sustain from drinking. Some people can drink a great deal and show no signs of being drunk, while one person can have one or two drinks and show all signs of being drunk.

ask his current gf if they are still together and then let him know you love him back and you wanna go out with him

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The dissolution of the abuser's marriage or other meaningful (romantic, business, or other) relationships constitutes a major life crisis and a scathing narcissistic injury. To soothe and salve the pain of disillusionment, he administers to his aching soul a mixture of lies, distortions, half-truths and outlandish interpretations of events around him.

Yes, but try leaving! This is a game, a ploy. A woman can't win. He will have already made the woman think she is ugly, of no use, a bad wife and mother, no one likes her, she can't keep a job, does a lousy job of housework and cooking, etc. By now the woman is so far down the tubes she actually will believe she can't cope in the outside world. Abuse is all about control. If you left he may like it, but don't be surprised if he comes after you.

Believe it or not some abusive men know exactly what they are doing and actually hate themselves for it, but can't stop. It's usually a learned behavior from their own parents or whoever raised them.

Ignoring an abused wife keeps the wife on her toes and she feels her heart beating faster and is walking around of egg shells. She becomes absolutely submissive to his every whim and that is not what he wants! These men like scrappers, but of course a woman is really no match for a man in strength. If you are abused please seek help by an "Abused Women's Center." They will protect you!

Sit down and talk to her about it-work something out.

Woman or man, they simply get lonely and want to meet someone. Sometimes it's easier to meet someone over IMing (not a good idea because you never know who is at the other end) and then emailing each other and it can come to phoning each other. Loneliness is the worse thing to deal with in life. She may have been on a holiday; visited relatives or a friend and met this man. Her biggest mistake is being in love with a married man. Decent women have a code between them that they don't go after other women's husbands and simply don't date married men no matter what his excuse is about his wife. There is a very low percentage that married men will run to their mistress after any breakup with the wife because he will want his freedom and not want to get tied up in another relationship so quickly. The mistress usually loses out. This woman has to sort her own life out. She's an adult, she knows it's not right dating a married man and she already knows she is playing second fiddle to his wife. Some men simply want a little fun on the side, but the bubble will eventually burst. He may become bored with her and dump her or the wife finds out and dumps him. This doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination that this will release him from his wife in order to marry his mistress. Being a mistress to a married man is no different than being a prostitute and women can argue that until they are blue in the face, but it's true. Women who date married men sometimes do so because they are well aware they don't have to fear commitment and just want to have a fling and fun. Other women become seriously in love with a married man. Either way the mistress generally loses and she'll have a lot of regrets to deal with during the aftermath.

it depends

it depends on what kind of person they are. sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. most of the times they don't, and why would you want to date someone who you know will cheat on you? We all deserve better than that

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If you really love a woman, then you can be faithful with no problem. If you don't - there's only one way out - better for both.

• If your girlfriend is fondling and doing other things to another girl's breasts then she is exploring her own sexuality and trying to figure out who she is. Not all girls do this and it is not the norm so your girlfriend may be bisexual or even perhaps gay. If you accept her actions then you enable the behavior or it's titillating you, but you may end up the loser in all of this. You need to have a serious talk with your girlfriend.

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He is Probaly cheating on u xx sorry xx

If she is sorry for it then be nice. treat her kindly..the guilt will sink in. Then either try to restart from scratch or just tell her you can't be with her anymore since she what she did was wrong and wish her the best of luck.

need more details,not a lot of information.

Using the term "sociopath" is serious. People are often labeled with names that are wrong or misplaced. Find out what a sociopath is before throwing stones.