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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What could happen if I keep loving a married man when I am already married?
- Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
- They are no different than anyone else you know. Some will cheat and some won't. There are no statistics on how many flight attendants cheat. I have known flight attendants (and pilots) that make no bones about cheating, but I also hear many of them can't wait to get back to their mate or children. It's a toss up.
- Yes they do!! there are to many temptations and opportunities for them to get away with it.then if they do get caught all it takes is another trip to get away from whatever situation they where in no matter how bad it hurts the people they should, but don't care about the most.
i have had my share of flt attendants and yes they all cheat. or they have at one time. the love to just go to the bar and get drunk and go back to the room. I was stupid enough to marry one. She is always with the pilots or male attendants that are not gay ..if they fly international that is all they do..trust me drink and have sex.. then come home and try to pretend it was just another hard day at the office.
Is holding your best friends hand called cheating?
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Holding your friends hands can't be cheating. If your talking about maybe kissing in the mouth, well you need to think it twice because if you already have a partner and you still love to flirt, then that is a big no-no. Pardon me if I insult you...
How do you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
Tell him the truth even if it means its going to hurt him. If you love him but you just got in the wrong croud tell him any way. He will want to here it from you not from some one else. It will hurt him if one of your friends tell him for you. If you can cheet then at leats br big and tell him face to face not on the phone not in a letter but (FACE to FACE) it help...... good luck because you'll need it really...
The most common cheating signs are as follows:-
more vacant towards yourself.
keeps going out without you.
deletes messages from phone as soon as they have read them. sometimes when people cheat they get super sweet and act all happy, other times they get nasty,it all depends on the person and the level of guilt they feel.
He does not understand love to begin with. By cheating on his wife and having an affair, he is simply showing that he loves himself more than he loves other. He is chasing the dream of self fulfillment and the "New Age" religious thought process of making ourselves happy and putting ourselves first and foremost! Love is not self-serving and all affairs are self-serving! Most people are misinterpreting the definition of love, they want to be glorified and not loved.
AnswerHe may love them both, but the important question may be more like which one is he being honest with? Cheating is an issue of loss of trust. If he still loves you and the two of you can work it out, then maybe you can forgive him. You really need to talk to him to find out. A word of caution, if he is abusive, it may be very dangerous for you to confront him about his cheating. Ask him how he really feels and ask him if he still loves you. How that conversation plays out will be a big part of this. It also depends if the affair was with only one woman for a very long time or just once, or a few weeks. Was it a serious relationship? You should never let a relationship get stale. Although if he says he's in love with the other woman you might have to really talk that out with him. ANSWERA married man that has an affair is usually doing so out of his own selfishness and personal needs. He will tell you anything you want hear to keep you interested and will string you along until he is done with you or there is an option of being caught. In most cases he has no intentions of leaving his wife for you although he may develop some feelings for you he will not choose you over his wife/family in the end. An affair never ends on a good note - it is best to end one as soon as possible and move on. AnswerI agree with the above poster (but this goes for women that cheat on their husbands as well.)Some men can't just have one woman in their life so they cheat. Some men may well love their wife, but, instead of communication to her if he's unhappy he may have an affair (it isn't always love) with another woman but to fill his (mainly) sexual needs.
Some men in the 40 year old bracket can have what they call 'Andropause' (similar to women's menopause) and feel they have a need to prove they are attractive to the opposite sex and also to do some of the things they missed out on in life. Although this is still not an excuse for cheating this is a dangerous time in some men's lives.
It is true that the statistics prove that if a man should cheat, get caught or leave the relationship doesn't mean he'll run to his mistress and you can bet he will probably not marry her. He has found his freedom to do as he wishes, while other men that leave their wives soon regret it. Just read some of the posts under 'Relationships ... cheating' where both men and women have cheated and lost something very precious .... the respect and trust of their mate!
Most people feel if someone cheats once they will do it again and there is a ring of truth to that.
tell them to pick if they love you they'll pick you if thy don't you and his wife are being used and you should get out of there .
What are the solutions to the negative influences of the media?
- The only solution to stopping negative influences of the media is to either be wise enough to believe half of what you hear or ignore the media altogether. It is true that the media dwells mainly on the bad news (bad news travels fast) and little about all the good things people do in this world. It is because a high percentage of the public demand details and are interested in the blood and guts of a story with all the details in tack. Years ago newspapers were only interested in the truth, but throughout the years they seek sensationalism to stay on top and now it hits the TV and Internet. Some important issues regarding gossip in politics; worldly events, etc., are often muzzled by the powerful and the newspapers and other forms of media can only print what is demanded by one or more people in power. The integrity of the media has lowered itself to serve those with power to stop the truth in some cases and add to the frenzy of propaganda in many areas of world events.
How will you know if a guy is cheating on his long distance fiance?
To know if a guy is cheating on his long distance fiance one has to keep a watch over them. One has to read the signs of cheating if there are any. One has to read the speech etc to know that.
Is dating a guy and kissing another guy bad?
I would say that if you date one guy, and kiss another, that would be cheating. And cheating is bad.
That would depend on how you define cheating.
Most people define it as meaning having a sexual relationship with a person other than the spouse. Talking to people is not generally considered cheating, nor is an indiscreet revelation.
Is there an explanation for extreme attraction with someone other than the spouse?
Yes, and a perfectly logical one. Hormones control sexual urges - sometimes taking over rational logical thought. However, only your mind can bring to the surface the concequences of following through with those urges. Down, tiger.
What do you do if you catch your husband signing up on dating websites looking for a man?
I would say it's time to call a divorce lawyer. When your husband is more attracted to men than women...well, there's really nothing you can do about that. There's nothing he can do about it, either.
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Sweetie it's time for you to talk to your husband. Before everything falls apart, you need to find out how, when it started. Right now your husband really need a friend that will not judge him. Be that person and help him. Just listen to him and don't let him tell you that nothing can be done. You are his best friend in front of God when the two of you got married, so don't abandon him. Good luck and God bless
- Cheating has never gotten most people anywhere and now you are paying the price. All you have to do is say the relationship is over and walk away, but be prepared for the worst and face up to your indiscretion. This unmarried woman can threaten to tell your wife (blackmail) or possibly your boss if she should work in the company where you do. A small percentage of women that have affairs with men and he breaks off the affair can be very dangerous and even attempt to harm the man she was involved with or his wife. You would be wise to tell your wife the truth right after you break up with this unmarried woman and if she continues to bother you then put a restraining order against her.
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I sure don't want to be in your shoes right now. Your world is falling apart and you can't stop it. This unmarried woman that you had an affair with is finally letting you know what she wanted from you. I don't know why you choose to have the affair in the first place, and now your wondering if you can break your relationship with her. It's a lesson and learn for you,and your mistress will not just play dead because you say so. Do accept my apology for being blunt to you but you can't" bake a cake and eat to." You remind me of my husband, after using his mistress he wants to call it quit for some odd reason.
The worst scenario that he did was he told her he loves her. spoiled her with all the attention he can give her. He said, he was planning to break it up with her but was waiting for the right time to tell her so he wouldn't hurt her, but instead of just tell her that it's over, he kept calling her and visited her. And now I am dealing with his ex mistress.
Do you think you deserve of what's going on with your life now, if you only didn't have the affair?
Why would a married woman call a single man everyday at or after work to speak with him?
Unless they are good friends, I think she is trying to start affair.
What does it mean if you feel the urge to cheat on someone who loves you?
It means you are looking for something that you're lacking in your current situation. DO NOT CHEAT. If you truly care about the person who loves you, talk to them. Cheating will make them hate you. If you're that unhappy...leave the one you're with and pursue other avenues. DO NOT CHEAT. Cheating does nothing but destroy.
Tough one, that. You see, I have no problem with anyone falling madly in love with someone else, but I do wonder how real it is when it might well be fueled by the fact that you are dying to get away from your current husband. I'm not saying that it isn't the right thing to do to move out and find somewhere else, and I understand that is a pretty scary proposition. I bet you'd really like this other guy to say, No problem, just come move in with me, and the fact that he hasn't leads me to wonder if your "mad love" isn't just a bit too much for the guy. Some guys don't really want a girl "madly" in love with them; it can be pretty annoying once you've run through the Karma Sutra a couple of times. So, if you no longer want to be with your husband, so be it. Move out, get your own place. But treat the guy to some space to come into if he wants to. He might be "madly in love" with you because he thinks he can't have you, and if you turned up on his doorstep with a suitcase, you'd probably see him turn every shade of white in quick succession. Get your priorities right first; get your personal life back on track, fix up an apartment of buy a house, and then see what happens with the men. Because if I were in Vegas I would put a fair chunk of change that if you left your husband "for this other guy" he would be gone before Christmas. Phil
What do you do if you are married but are in love with someonefrom your past?
If you are no longer in love with the person you are married to, you should get a divorce. You should first explain the situation to the person you are married to, then talk to the person from your past that you are in love with and see if that person shares the same feelings that you do. You should not stay with a person who you are not in love with and you should not cheat. The best way to handle the situation is to communicate your thoughts and feelings.
What should i do if girlfiend is in prison and an old girlfriend wants to go out?
You have to choose who you wanna be with. Imagine yourself in your gfs situation. If you were in prison and her ex wanted to go out with her - would that be OK with you? No one wants to get cheated on and in prison it's gonna hit her even harder.
How do you know if your boyfriends cheating?
The only way you can tell is by his behavior and reaction. You are the only one that knows him. Sensing his action might be hard for you, so the best way is go to him and ask him face to face. Some say "No" but, try being with him alot and check his texts once in a while.
What happens when a wife cheats on her husband and gets pregnant?
Hopefully you had sex with your husband on, or about the time that you conceived. Tell your husband the happy news that he is about to be a father. He will raise the child as his own. And for goodness sake be more careful next time.
Tell the truth or keep the truth to yourself?
tell the truth. whatever is being hidden, it hurts to keep it hidden when hedden long enough. its always better to share it, if its with a preist, a friend, or a man of the law. lying will only get someone in more trouble when they are caught.
Can you find yourself again while coping with your husband's infidelity?
- Yes, most women are the strongest species between male and female. True they are more romantics than men and far more emotional, but they have a built-in mechanism to survive many traumas in their lives. All women go through one or two (or more) events in their lives where they may lose themselves for a little while because most women tend to put others before themselves and thus, they are hurt when the person they love hurts them. If your husband is still cheating on you then read him the riot act and tell him 'no more' and he either wises up and seeks marriage counseling or another type of counseling or the marriage is over. If you allow him to continue to cheat then you enable his behavior. It is more common than you think where boyfriends or husbands cheat on their partner at least once and women of all ages are almost neck in neck with the men for cheating (not accusing you.) Part of it is immaturity; some men have grown up with a parent or parents that have cheated or, they may have been cheated on once or more by former girlfriends and this leaves this type of man vulnerable where he is afraid of being hurt. No matter what the excuse it is not an excuse to cheat! Communication skills are a must in a marriage where the couple can discuss anything without arguing and coming to an amicable agreement on whatever problem they are dealing with. Your husband has broken the bond of trust in your marriage and it is going to take some time for him to earn your trust and respect again. The good news is, this is a wake up call for women who's husband's cheat but are still in the marriage. Women start to learn they are intelligent and can either further their education; go to work (if they are not working) volunteer; treat themselves to a few new clothes; a new look as far as hairstyle and getting out more with girlfriends (at least once a week) and be more independent rather than sitting at home and denying herself the right to express an interest she may want to pursue in her life. Women may cry over a man that cheats, but, once the crying is over there is nothing worse than the wrath of a woman scorned! Don't get even and drop to his level, but start doing some things you want to do and work on good communication skills with your husband. Although it may feel your marriage will not work many do if you both try hard enough and you start to put yourself first for a change.
What is the name of the movie about a girl who boyfriend is cheating on her but she wont leave him?
ok there is many movies that have that
