Cheating

Whats done in the dark doesn't come to the light unless you allow it.

No as long as you don't reciprocate the kiss it is not your fault.

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Whyte men aren't that stupid. She's married to some black drug smuggling criminal.

If he has cheated on you more than once that you know of then keep walking! If this is the first time he's cheated, people make mistakes and give him a chance, but don't make it easy for him to slide back into your life or he won't respect you. Believe it or not you are in total control of this situation. Make him work his butt off by gaining your trust back. Never make it easy, but also learn when enough is enough so you don't discourage him. Meet with him and say, "You have broken a bond of trust between us, but I realize people can make a mistake. I don't trust you 100% so you're going to have to earn it. Meanwhile, I'm going to just go on with my life and if you want to date you phone me like anyone else!" It makes men crazy when you say this because they never quite understand where a woman's mind is coming from. It's simple really ... it means that you are willing to date him, but you don't trust him 100% and you aren't going to commit to him fully until he proves himself to you. This also means that you are free to date whomever you wish to date. Nice position to be in girl! Give it all you've got! Good luck Marcy == Just keep a safe disatance and be "just friends" with him. Date other men. Hang out with other people. This actually happened to me years ago. Caught my fiance screwing around on me big time. Wrote him a tactful letter not so nice that basically said as far as jerks go he takes the cake. I let him go and got involved with someone else who just happened to be his best friend. It hurt him big time but i wasnt about to go back because i found someone better. And like an idiot i let the better guy slip away several years later.

He sounds inconsiderate and full of crap, besides the fact that he cheated on you. You're only worth contacting when he needs sympathy or attention, so is it worthwhile to pay any notice to him? Keep him out of your life.

It is nearly impossible to tell if someone is lying through a text message. So you should either call the person or ask them in person

it's not wrong to have two or more boyfriends that are aware of eachother and are also free to explore other romantic and/or sexual interests of their own. what is wrong is to lead two or more men to think they have your complete devotion and that they are the only one you love romanticly. unless you have a moral standpoint that says its ok to hurt people by decieving them, then your solid, just keep it hidden unless you want a lot of drama. tl;dr people are all different, make your own choices.

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you? you will never feel loved and there can be no good from a relationship like that. You need to move on and find something to occupy yourself with while you try to get over it.

* Cheating is immature; selfish and low because it hurts the person that you are cheating on. When you commit to a mate whether it's steady dating; engagement or you are married then the moral issue is that you commit yourself to that one person. People who cheat end up the losers. If there are problems in your relationship and both of the individuals are mature enough they can work out any problems that may come their way even if the end result is breaking up.

of course he is on the defensive!! He has now been found out, kick him to the curb, cheat once, there is ALWAYS a 2nd time!! If you want to put up with it of course that is your business, but no self respecting woman will, there are so many really nice decent men out there that would love to have a good woman in their lives.

Relationships are built on not only Love, and committment, but are built on "the big one, and this is trust". It is recommended to move on. If this relation ship is what you claim it is from your question, it is time. No one needs that type of grief in their lives. With out the trust, there is no relationship. Even if you try to work this thing out,it is highly unlikely it will ever be the same. You see you do not trust your partner anymore, and in the back of your mind you never will. People make choices in their lives and the other person has made theirs. Make your choice by leaving and moving on to a happier place in life. Life is too short. This is the Ultimate form of Betrayal.

Unless you are not independent and are hanging around for financial support, Get Educated, and LEAVE!

My advice would be to leave and love from a distance because next time it may be HIV and your life is to important to loose to someone who cheats on you take time out from relationships and get your life on track than when you're ready go and find that special someone and wear a condum when that time come.

Big mistakes and it will not work. You can't play on both side so you can decide which one is really the one. You need to ask yourself if your making the right decision. You can also ask yourself if it's love not just lust or admiration. If you do this, you can move on. Don't be hurt by the old saying," what goes around, comes around" Playing on two fires is not good for everyone, especially to you.

it would be the honest thing to do

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Listen. What you need to do is tell your husband that you think you might be developing feelings for this man and that he needs to move out. Anything else WILL destroy you, your husband, your marriage, your friend, and his relationship with you and your husband. It WILL NOT end in a happy ever after, it will end with broken hearts, pain, misery and loneliness for you ALL. Neither will forgive you for ruining a happy home and friendship, trust me on this one because I've been there, done that and worn the BITCH t-shirt. This is a love triangle if I ever heard of one. You must steer clear of this. I think you are projecting what your husband doesnt do for you that this guy can. It is daring and interesting to think of the what if. When you live in the same house with another man, you wonder, which is totally natural but you must maintain your respect for yourself and that of your husband. I think you need to either get him out of the picture and see if you feel the same way, dont make a move until you know for sure that you like him in that way and be honest with your husband. If you cant have him move out for financial reasons you have to detach yourself from any further, emotional feelings of affection for this person, its not fair to your husband. Watch the movie "I think I love my wife" with chris rock, even though I didnt appreciate the references to white people, throught out the whole movie, the moral of the story is strong.

It really depends on if they want to be happy but it is possible. Some people dont know what they got until its gone.

Some married men may feel their life is almost over and they would like to regain their youth and feel like they are single and enjoy the attraction they get from other women. Some men (a low percentage) will leave their wives for the mistress, but this man in particular most likely still loves his wife and feels guilty for cheating and doesn't want to lose her. He and his wife have invested years into their marriage and he is comfortable being with her. Now he risks losing her and, as it turns out most times when a woman chooses a married man and they both agree to an affair the mistress generally loses out.

Well they are the popular girls in school, who sandy hooks up with when she arrives. They hook up with the popular group of boys, the t-birds.

I am assuming the confession came after you were married. It hurts,... it hurts to be betrayed and lied to and made a fool of. That kind of pain and distrust will take years to heal from. I had never trusted a man in all my life until I met my husband and for some reason, I loved him so wholly and completely that I also trusted him. He did not have sex with someone else. He thought he fell in love with them. That hurt. The body you can control, the heart is a whole different story. I was horrified. It was the worst pain I had ever felt in my life. But I Loved him more than I hated him for hurting me. The only thing that allowed me to trust him again was we started church together, and he devoted his heart and life to God, and to me and our kids. That has given me the trust and security that I was looking for, and has helped take away the painful memories. Good luck... I hope everything works out so that you can be happy.

You cannot do nothing big about that. Just go and confront him and ask him. If he agrees it is fine and if he does not you cannot do anything about that either.

So many times I have heard the statement "I can't live without him/her." This simply isn't true. We can all live without that true love in our lives when and if we have too. Life just goes on and so does future happiness. No one has that much control over us (even if we love that person with all our heart) that we can't exist without them. People are doing it as we speak .... widows, widowers, friends, etc. We all lose people in our lives, but we all manage to keep on stroking. It is extremely hard to accuse someone without proof that they are cheating or even liars (the two go hand-in-hand.) If you are fearful of wasting your time on this guy, then the only thing you can do is take the risk of hiring someone to follow him (or you do it with a friend.) Cheaters can generally be caught if one chooses to catch them. Sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees. When he isn't around write down on a piece of paper what has happened to the two of you in the past 4 months (the good/bad) and also write down why you suspect him of cheating and what things don't add up. Put the paper away for 2 - 3 days and then haul it out. You'll have your answer! Good luck Marcy

• Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!