Cheating

== == There are many reasons people lie pathologically. It could be from family abuse (covering up or lying so they aren't beaten.) It can be immaturity (afraid of the world in general) or it can simply be the person doesn't think they rank high on the ladder of life and make up stories to make themselves look better to others, or because they want sympathy or attention that they are not getting. There are just too many reasons. Pathological Liars are not terrible people and often times can be quite funny just trying to squirm out of a lie someone has caught them in, but it does put a monkey wrench into any relationship they have with family, friends and their mates. They can be sneaky; you can date them and believe a lot of what they say and then you're caught in the web. If you find out they are, it's time to move on.

In addition, it's said that pathological liars have 22% more white matter in their prefrontal cortex than "normal" people. This could explain why pathological liars are so believable. I saw a special about this once, and they said that they can convince people so easily, because in a way they believe the lie themselves. They muddle the boundaries between what is real and the fantasies they create in their minds. Inevitably they will damn themselves but cause a lot of hurt and pain along the way, because they truly cannot care about the feelings of "loved" ones while they are creating their web of lies and deceit.

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Some last a few weeks, some for years. The percentage of the person one is cheating with becoming married or in a strong relationship is extremely low statistically. Once a person cheats on their mate for another, the other guy/girl will wonder eventually if this could happen again. Some people cheat because they are missing something out of their marriage or they just love men or women. If one is having problems in their marriage they could try harder to communicate, seek marriage counseling, etc., and there is no need to cheat. If the girl/guy just loves the opposite sex and wants no commitments then they should say so up front. If the above doesn't help the marriage then the two should at least separate. There are simply no excuses for cheating! Extramarital affairs can last forever, as long as its working for the cheaters.

Yes! This isn't only effecting you and your "mister", especially if he has children. Try not to just think about yourself, put yourself in this woman's shoes. It doesn't matter if she's a horrible person or whatever, the point is if she finds out it will hurt her even if she pretends it doesn't. And if this guy has kids it will hurt there WHOLE family. Is that really something you want on your shoulders? Is a guy really worth that?

Plus ask yourself why would you even want to be in a relationship with someone who is married and committed to someone else? If your thinking you can steal him away, chances are that won't happen, and even if it does who's to say he won't cheat on YOU down the road? It sounds like you have some commitment and maybe even some self-esteem issues to work on if you get a kick out of running around with someone else's husband.

Definition: Extreme self-interest which prevents one from allowing other people to come between oneself and the achievement of one's desires. A person who is governed by extreme self-interest.

We all have a little egomania in us and it can be healthy, but some people take it to the max and are less than desireable material for relationships of any sort.

CHARACTERISTICS OF EGOMANIA ... Self absorption and not allowing anyone into their world. They constantly talk about themselves. They think they are the best looking person God ever put on the face of the earth. If popular they use this to their own advantage and don't really care about other's feelings. They talk with "I", "me" constantly and seldom when speaking do they involve another person even if that person was involved. Example: The egomaniac can work with a person on a project and could get the reward for it, but would never admit they couldn't have done it without the other person. They know they couldn't have done it without the other person(s), but egomaniacs are out to take all the bows in every aspect of their lives. Egomaniacs talk constantly about themselves and seldom ask anyone else they are talking too how they are doing and are NEVER interested in any accomplishments the other person has achieved. They also feel they are far more superior in most aspects of their life than others.

NORMAL EGOMANIA ... You work hard on a project and you are rewarded for it. You are proud of yourself so you shout it from the roof tops and tell family and friends. You're proud of yourself and well you should be. The difference is, if someone helped you with this project you'd say something like, "I couldn't have done it without the help of ________________." Even a comment such as "I simply got lucky.

Well, this can be an easy one OR a hard one. That depends on Why you want to end it. For the obvious reason of him being married you should have ended it as soon as you found out. Because not only has he been cheating on his wife he had been lying to you as well. You can tell him you do not feel right in your heart because this is hurting another person (his wife) and you cant do that. You would prefer to have the freedom of a relationship that does not have to be hidden from the public for fear of his wife finding out. A lot of women would agree also that once a man is a cheater-always a cheater. He may end up cheating on you too.

The person that gave the first answer is right. What will you accomplish if you stay with this married man? How can you sleep at night knowing that you are destroying someones family. Unless you are a cold person and do not want to find a single man to love you. The only thing that you will have is a part time lover to him, people will disrespect you. Your family and friends will loose confidence on you because you are ruining a family that do not know you. And what ever you are doing now, it will come back to you in the near future. If for some odd reason you found a man that will marry you, who would say that this might happene to you because of what you are doing now.

People of any gender may lie for various reasons, such as fear of consequences, desire to protect themselves or others, or to avoid conflict. It is important to communicate openly and honestly in any relationship to maintain trust and understanding.

Often an emotional affair can begin very innocently with a friendship from work, church or the neighborhood. A flirtatious online relationship can also develop into an emotional affair. Couples who're not emotionally connecting are in greatest risk of falling into a difficult affair with someone else. This new connection brings about a fresh excitement, a spark, particularly when someone you find attractive shows a sincere interest in you as a person and "gets" you a lot more than you feel your partner does.

No short or simple answer to this sorry. Very often, affairs of married men stem from their desire to prove that they are more powerful than the norm, that they are capable and deserving of many things, many women and many pleasures. It is how men are genetically constructed. Women on the other hand often have affairs because of love or desire to feel more loved.

Should you go back to a cheating husband? Firstly one must ask "was there some dissatisfaction or boredom or strained relationship that led him to wander out? Why did he have an affair to begin with?" Secondly as Dr. Phil says "the biggest predictor of future behavior is past behavior". So chances are good that he will have another affair at some point. Science has shown that men who have secret affairs usually feel younger and stronger because the testosterone levels, the endorphine and the serotonin levels increase. It is very very hard, biologically, to move away from these happiness-causing hormones. Thirdly: most men would feel some level of guilt about the breach of trust and the risks of breaking their family. It must be asked: does he want me back because of me? Or because he is afraid of losing respect in the community? Or is he afraid of being labelled in society and at work and in his professional circles and in his religious gatherings etc?

Therefore you must decide whether to go back to your husband and:

a) accept the continuation of a dissatisfactory or boring or strained relationship?

b) expose yourself to the risks and heartbreaks and hurts and disappointments of yet another affair in the future?

c) always live in an air of uncertainty wondering if he wants you back because he genuinely loves you or if he wants you back merely to retain his control and power base or to soothe the pains of his guilt and protect his reputation?

Finally you must ask what are your prospects if you leave the marriage? Very often, it does not turn out nearly as bad as one fears!

He needs to get off his 'but'. I disagree! it is quite common for a man to have an affair, but at the same time attempt to hold on to his relationship or marriage. I have seen this hundreds of times over. Is he wrong? Yes! But, the key to getting him back is to uncover why he cheated in the first place. it's not what you think it is!

* Yes, women of almost any age can get married whether they have been single all that time; divorced or widowed. Some women prefer their independence while others choose to go through life with a partner. True, it is more difficult to meet single men as one gets older, but they are out there and just as lonely as a lot of women. A reputable Dating Service (do your homework) can help. Some women and men take cruises to meet new and interesting people.

If she lied to you a lot in the past, she had her reasons. Accept it. And start looking for another girlfriend because you DO NOT want to spend more time and energy with her. No negatives on you or her. Just rebait your hook and start fishing again. Let her go her way, and find yourself another partner. Life is too short. Move on. if she is the one lying to you all the time then you cant! if she was not sorry the second time she lied to you then she will never be sorry! the first time she lied to you maybe a mistake, the second time she knew what she was doing! so let me tell you a little wisdom, first time shame on her,second time shame on YOU for letting it happen again, third time you like to be punished!!!

I answered so many guestions but a guy thinks different then girls so if the boy makes the wrong move then what a girl thinks then give him a chance if boys cheat ask him why he did that but remember he could lie also give him only 5 or less chances

that's easy! when u not satisfying ur man or women!!!!!!!

That woman is called unmarried or single.

If your boyfriend has a girlfriend then you should be getting out of this situation as fast as you can - let him go and move forward. If you decided together to date others then no you should not contact her as it was decided it was ok. If you were to be monogamous - get out and get out now as this is just cheating, dirty and wrong.

first think about this :=1.) does he spend more time with her than you==2.) does he act different or the same==3.) does he treat her better than you ??==4.) does he go places with her alone with no one else=is this break - up or relationship worth it ??

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If you are the one who is part of this affair then you should just tell them its quits, put yourself in his wife's position how devastated she would be. If a man is unsatisfied with a relationship he should not go out and find other woman to make him happy he should try and work things out with the girl who made him happy from day one. But if you know of a man who is having an affair maybe its best that you bring it to his intention that you know and that it is unfair to his wife, if he does not care than bring it to his wife's attention. If he is not going to do anything about it than maybe someone else should

When a spouse is unfaithful and has intimate relations with someone other than the married mate is adultery. When dating and one individual has intimate relations with

someone else other than the girlfriend/boyfriend is fornication. Cheating can also be done in your mind. When you desire someone you are not with you covet that individual, but have not yet taken action due to not having the opportune time, but when the time

comes you act on that desire.

if you see he seems a bit ancious in his voice. sit him down and ask him why u are doing it and try and help him stop ! the signs are if they are acting suspiious lloooooool

what could she do? Is she going to break up with her husband by saying "iim in love with someone elsee"? NOOPE. dontt everr see that guy that this "woman" is in loved withh.

well it depends,how long was she married to her current husband,was it an abusive marriage,does she have children.and if none tof these things appy and she really has a good marriage,then she should stop and ask herself if the new fellow is worth throwing away everything she has now.but the first thing should think about is the children and how its going to effect them.before i throw all that away i would seek some counsiling with the husband and at give it my best shot on trying to make it work

Well if he is not talking to you very much or doesn't seem quite happy then maybe or go to his ex and have a nice conversation and ask her to tell the truth. One thing that i know ill work is o pray.