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Marriage

Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.

7,386 Questions

Did you ever regret marrying your spouse after he betrayed you?

If you are on this question you are dissatisfied with your marriage. I regret marrying my husband because I am poor and now my husband is poor. Call me cheap but I could have married someone rich and made my life better but I married him coz of love. Love is ok and all, but I was looking at a lovely laptop today. Guess what? I can never have it! I can never have anything I want coz I m poor and I will be poor for the rest of my life. Really think before you make your decision. If you can get out of it before you have babies....do that!

If you are unhappy and no longer in love with your spouse but in love with the person you are having an affair should you stay married just for the kids?

no it is unhealthy for u and if the spouse knows it is unhealthy for him/her too but u don't have to hate each other break it off slow and stay friends if u are trying to do what is best for the kid.

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We can't ever use our kids because we are not happy. If you don't love your wife anymore and your in love with the other woman, you will do them a huge favor, let them go so that way, the respect and what ever love your kids have for you will not go away. You can start fresh with your mistress who you found love. Our big mistake are putting our children in the middle even though we not happy and miserable with our wife or husband. Divorce is not such a bad and sad life, it's a new fresh new start and you can avoid all the heartaches.

How do you find out for sure if your husband has fathered other children outside of your marriage?

There has to be a lack of communication in your relationship. The only way you are going to find out is by asking him. Talk to him calmly and ask him and be sure he knows that you will understand if he admits to it. However, if he should have a child and is not supporting that child then he's a slacker and I'd ditch him.

How do you fix when your husband falls out of love?

Ask wayward mate is he is trying to justify infidelity or if he has a crush on another. Just the statement in itself,"I have fallen out of love with you." will damage your relationship and possibly your self esteem if the committment doesn't drive your mate to sincerely communicate his feelings. You and your mate should seek couseling together, and if not, seperately. Does he want to save your relationship?

Why would a married man slowly start to brush off his mistress?

* The magic word is 'married.' He may have gone off the righteous path and realized he had made a mistake or he simply doesn't want to cheat on his wife any longer no matter how tantalizing the prospect may be. If he was dating you then realize some married men want the excitement of an affair, but the woman involved in the affair is seldom the woman he will leave his wife for and if he should leave his wife he generally wants his freedom and doesn't want to commit to another women at the present time.

How long do you have to live together in Washington state to be a common-law marriage?

7 years

Actually, WA state does not recognize common-law marriage. If you have a common-law marriage from another state, WA will recognize that, as every state recognizes the validity of marriages in another state. The best you can do in WA is make a domestic partnership agreement, but there are restrictions on them. If you live together in WA state, you will not be afforded marriage benefits no matter how long you live together

How to seduce a Muslim girl?

  • Seriously, one of the problems of a guy liking a girl and then impressing her is just very ridiculous. Guys, impress her as much as you want, but in the end 99% never works. Just be yourself, put yourself in the girls shoes and relate to what she has. Talk to her normally, don't stare at her, be nice to her AT TIMES and tell some stupid jokes. Cause that's what she likes really. If she needs something give it to her, just not every little thing she asks. Try to get to know her. You'll somehow be great friends. And in the end, you know each other so much you'll have a moment where both of you fall in love
  • First of all if you are real, let me say that I'm glad there's someone out there, like you who are focus on how to impress a girl. You can do a lot, because us girls loves walk in the beach, conversation about anything , candle lite, get to know her about her likes and dislikes, what makes her happy or sad. If you can do this and really mean it, this girl will start liking you.
  • Now I have one question to you and believe me this always happen, not just a myth. If for some odd reason she becomes amazed towards you and she already told you that she likes you a lot, will you continue to impress her, make her feel special in all the things she do, always tell her how much you appreciated her personality. Or will you stop because you already got her heart? My advice to you, if you are sincere don't stop impressing her, or else you might loose her in the future. My own personal experience, the man I married becomes comfortable with our life, and he stop impressing me or makes me feel special in his eyes, why? because he knows he already have me, so he didn't bother to check how our relationship is...
  • Girls hate it when a guy tries to be different. Just be yourself. If she really likes you then she won't judge you. If she doesn't date you then you know she wasn't the right girl for you.
  • It completely depends on the girl and what she is interested in. So, get to know her and go from there.
  • First make friends with her(it's a good excuse) and invite her to hangout at your house. Then when she comes over then show her all the best things in your house then start playing truth or dare with her. Ask her a whole bunch of flirty questions and put a few good sincere ones in between. Then ask her if you can kiss her.
  • I want to suggest you five simple ways, I am sure if you have these qualities then you will be success to impress a girl....
1- Speak Loud

2-Take Up Space

3- Maintain Eye Contact

4-Have Fun

5- convey your Intent

  • Every guy, who wonders how to impress a girl, should pay attention to the following alpha personalities. Confidence is the essence of a man. If a man doesn't have self-confidence, he won't be able to impress a girl. Girls usually have a better antenna than guys and they can sense whether a guy has faith
  • Be hot and be romantic or sporty be sweet, funny, romantic an be yourself
  • Act cool work out for about 3 months and get at least 3 abbs but if you want to make her jealous then go out with another girl. If it dissent work snog the girl in front of the girl you want to impress and if no one goes out with you then just use my idea and hit the gym if you don't want to go to the gym then look nice! like shave your hair, shave beard or mustache, dress smart and wear lynx.
  • Show her your interested first like last year when i was 14 this kid was mates with my mate and she gave him my number first he gave me compliments then he started saying good things bout himself like how fast a runner he was etc find out what she likes than try and work with it to impress her and that is where he went wrong we didn't last more than a week and a half that's why I'm single you see no one has tried to impress me so i haven't been bother to even try with boys
  • Flowers, box of chocolates, even something as simple as being yourself can impress someone. don't worry yourself or try to act like someone else. they like real people, and they know when you aren't being real. trust me, I've been through enough relationships to know.
  • I'm a girl and we LOVE it when boys hang around you listen to you stick up for you and are NOT afraid to be with you near their friends.

Was Daniel Bryan And AJ dating in real life?

No, AJ Lee is married to former "WWE superstar" CM Punk, and Daniel Bryan is married to "WWE Diva" Brie Bella in real-life.

Do teenagers have the same views on marriage as their parents?

not many people have the same veiws of life as their parents, partially because they are from two differnet generations in which some things that never used to be socially acceptable are now, especially not marriage. MY parents tell me to wait until i am at least 25 but when i think about it i would be ready for marriage and a family at the age of 21. watever you choose just make sure its a wise choice. although nowadays marriage is taken for granted and it is far to easy to get a divorce.

Why does a husband stay away from wife always busy also does not talk to her?

There are many possible causes. Suggest you see a therapist for advice on what you can do for him since he will likely not tell you what is going on (he probably does not know anyway). Google workaholic. He probably is in much soul pain and does not know how to deal with it.

How do you find the perfect partner?

Ask yourself:

1) Is he willing to get tested for HIV and related STi's & STD's etc?

2) Does he respect when you say no? or your preference/s of using protection to feel safer etc?

3) Does he make you feel 100% comfortable, appreciated and desired, in spite of your physical hang-ups?

4) Is he in it for himself or is there give and take?

5) Does he appreciate that you have shared yourself with him or does he i.e. get up and go make a sandwich or watch tv soon after one or both of you have climaxed?

6) Do you feel comfortable enough to voice your likes and dislikes sexually to "spice it up"? i.e. mess around with Karma sutra moves for fun etc.

7) Do you feel you always need to take charge to receive pleasure from him?

8) Can you trust that he will not give a detailed report to his friends of your sexual relationship.

I have had the experience of being able to completely let go of everything around me. My focus 'zoned" in on him and what I am experiencing because I receive 100% of him in return.

Should I tell my cousin that his wife was playing footsies with me under the table?

No. Just don't participate. Telling your cousin will only hurt your relationship with him.

Is your marriage over?

If the person starts fighting with you for silly reasons, stops attending your calls and stops replying your messages, tries to show that he/she is busy when you know that he/she is not, stops hanging out with you and various other things; then the answer is most probably yes.

Can a 53 year old man love a12 year old?

Yes, it is not unheard of for an older man to want a younger woman. A possible reason for this could be that the man wants to once again feel young, and he feels a young woman would bring back this youth.

Disadvantages of wedding?

There are many disadvantages to a wedding. The main disadvantage is that they can be very costly to have a good one.

What do you do when you find out you're married to a pathological liar who has a dependent personality disorder?

You deal with the child in any way that works for you. Usually this involves setting boundaries as to how much you will help them, whether with housing or money or otherwise. Above all, you cannot risk your wellbeing doing things that the other person can do for themselves. Despite hard luck stories, people search for the easiest way to obtain what they want and need and you don't need to be their "go-to" person. However, you can still love the child, offer them time and emotional encouragement while keeping your distance. Find a good friend or therapist who will help keep you on track with the dilemmas I am sure the child presents.

What are the various wedding anniversaries called?

1-paper 2-cotton 3-leather 4-flowers 5-wood 6-iron 7-copper 8-bronve 9-pottery 10-tin 11-steel 12-silk 13-lace 14-ivory 15-crystal 20-china(not the country)25-Silver 30-pearl

35-coral 40-ruby 45-sapphire 50-gold 55-emerald 60-diamond is forever

Are you for or against early marriage Why or Why Not?

It truly depends on the couple, and if they are ready for it.

My husband and I met when we were 16, and we were married when we were 21. 13 years later, we are still together and totally happy. His parents and mine also started dating in high school, were married shortly after, and are still happily together. I think if the young couple are actually in love, are mature enough to put their marriage first, and are capable of supporting themselves, then yes, I am in favor of it. I think young marriages have a great chance of working out.

There are some downsides. For instance, they may be more likely to neglect further education. Also, the pressures of just starting out and being broke are pretty high. The couple has to be mature. By mature, I don't mean that they don't watch Spongebob anymore. I mean that when you have starter jobs and you are both making $10 and trying to pay $700 in rent and a car payment, you don't yell at him that he never takes you anywhere. You have to be able to eat beans and rice several nights in a row, and not fuss that she never buys good food. You have to be mature enough to have a long term plan, and to stick to it.

Another opinion:

It depends on the social and cultural aspects. In some families like mine education is foremost, my mother decided to marry in her late twenties after finishing her doctorate in Pol Sci.

Another opinion:

No, young people of Western Culture should not get married early as they should enjoy their freedom of youth because it is so short compared to their entire life span. If they go ahead and get married it generally ends in divorce because they are not prepared for the financial burden; not being able to continue their education; not qualified for good paying jobs and not mature enough to raise children.

Why does husband always defend ex wife?

At some point, he loved and trusted this woman with all his heart. He had some great times with her for years and not all his memories of that time are bad. When you make fun of her a bit too much, you are making fun of his choice of a wife. It cuts deep and will make him defensive which may make him defend her. He isn't really defending her though, he is defending himself and a choice her made that just didn't work out. You don't have to love or even like the other woman, but you can never insult memories away. And he can love you without hating her. You gain nothing by trying to make another person smaller anyway, try making yourself bigger instead.

How do you marry an inmate in NYS?

The inmate has to go to his/her counselor and apply for a marriage licence. If approved which most of the time they are. the counselor will set a meeting with you and the inmate and go over what has to be done. The counselor will also go over the inmates charges and criminal record and ask you if you still want to go through with proceedings. Once everything is cleared the counselor will set a date when a justice of the peace will come to the facility and marry the couple.

How do you deal with insecurity?

Answer If you have feelings of insecurity then perhaps you have a reason to feel that way. Perhaps it's time for a sit down with your husband and express to him how you feel and see his reaction. If he tries to make light of the issue perhaps you aren't feeling insecure for no reason. If on the other hand he tries to comfort you then perhaps you need to go and see a professional as maybe you have a problem that is now just coming to surfice from your childhood. Professionals often say that things that happened to us in our childhoods surface in us when we grow older, but we don't understand them. This may sound confusing but in reality it's not.

Is normal for married women to have sexual fantasies about other men she knows?

Yes, it is normal. And I am glad to hear that you've never done anything with any of these infatuations. It takes a strong person to resist temptation. So many people these days take their marriage vows far too lightly.

I've been married for almost 20 years and I find myself attracted to some cute younger guy quite often.

Years ago, my husband and I came up with an unconventional solution for dealing with temptation. It has worked for us, but I certainly won't/can't recommend it for everyone.

We decided that the main reason other men or women are tempting is because they are 'forbidden fruit.'And it seems to be human nature to want what we can't have. So we decided to always be honest with each other, first of all. Deception and sneaking aroung break trust, which is hard to regain once lost. We discuss our little 'crushes' openly - like what exactly attracts you to this person, etc. We agreed a long time ago, that if either of us felt tempted to cheat, to tell the other one about it and we'd discuss having a threesome with this person.

I know! Hear me out before calling us immoral or perverted or whatever.

Since we made this agreement, we've talked about different people, and shared fantasies, but neither one of us has ever pursued the threesome option. I seems that - for us anyway - just knowing that the possibility of having our 'crush' exists takes the edge off of the temptation; makes the 'forbidden fruit' a little less forbidden, therefore a little less seductive. (It doesn't hurt that we are both heterosexual, and neither of us relishes a 3some with a member of the same sex!!)

And the resulting fantasies haven't hurt our sex life at all. ;)

Like I said, this solution is definitely not for everyone, in fact, I can easily see how it could backfire. But it's worked for us. We don't get jealous or suspicious of each other, we communicate well, and we don't mind if the other one looks at someone else because we know we can trust each other. In fact, we tease/kid each other by pointing people we think the other one might like.

We've had friends - even siblings - tell us that they are envious of our relationship; that they wish they could have a relationship as good and stable as ours. Sounds ironic, doesn't it?

Nevertheless, as so many men like to point out, you are married, not dead.

Look and fantasize all you want, but don't touch. And if the temptation starts to get to be too much...stop, just for a moment and consider how you would feel if the situation were reversed, if it was your husband who was thinking about cheating. Wouldn't feel too good, eh?

This is a problem that's cause goes back to our earliest ancestors. At different times during your cycle you will be attracted to different types of men. Most of the time you will be attracted to your long term partner, it is likely that he wont have huge muscles or a thick brow. This is an indication that there is a fair amount of the female hormone "eastrogen" in his blood. This means that he should be more enclined to monogomy and generaly take better care of you (important to pregnant cavewomen). When you are approaching your period you will find men with more testosterone (male hormone) much more attractive as they should be more fertile and will have a better chance of giving you a child (cavewomans last chance of getting pregnant that cycle).Interestingly at this point in your cycle you are more enclined to showing a bit of flesh when picking your clothes.

Anyway all completely natural, prewired into your brain and completely out of your control (doesnt mean your husband would like to hear about it though lol)

I have been happily married for nine years and still have great sex with my husband. I love him more than anything and would never cheat on him. But there is a part of me that is curious about how it would feel to have sexual intercourse with other men. At first I felt guilty about having fantasies. But now I realize that fantasizing about other men can be a safe and healthy way to explore your lustful feelings without cheating.

What advice is there for a newly married couple?

Advice For Getting Married Get married for all the right reasons for example the two of you really communicate super well. You love each other for the person each of you are, not the persons you'd like each other to be. You have the same goals in life, you both either want or don't want children and the list goes on. Just make sure that when you marry your wants and needs are the same as the person you are marrying, that way you both should be happy for a very long time. Leave any of the above out, or marry for all the wrong reasons, such as pregnancy, and you both could end up regretting it for the rest of your lives.