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Wedding Engagements
The pre-marriage period known as Engagement. Proper etiquette concerning this special time between dating and marriage is discussed here.
193 Questions
What are causes of moral degeneration among youth?
There are many factors that contribute to the moral degeneration among youth. This is an incredibly complex question and requires a proper response from a social psychologist.
I'll get the ball rolling with my personal opinions and invite discussion.
For one, there are too many media images, movies and games that not only neutralize violence but often glorify it, so kids develop a sense of fun from all of this, rather than being horrified or afraid.
There is not enough tough love from parents and guardians to help youth understand there are consequences to actions and that there are boundaries we must maintain to keep our society somewhat healthy.
Some of us want our children to grow up being 'individuals' who can follow their dreams so we give too much leeway and responsibility without expectations or guidance.
Some of us have no time to spend with our kids since we either work too much or we are busy following our own dreams. Our kids grow up learning boundaries and rules from social media and games.
Some of us ply kids with electronics and electronic media without any monitoring and where kids find social acceptance or even glory from intangible actions which builds a confidence that is removed from reality.
Some parents and guardians are just so dysfunctional they shouldn't be allowed to raise children.
I used to love someone before getting engaged and now you feel that he wants you what to do?
- Since you are engaged now and an old ex has turned up and now you are wondering what to do means you are not ready to commit to any engagement to anyone. You get engaged to someone you love and that asks you to marry him. If your fiance is a great guy; you thought you loved him then you need to ask yourself why you feel this way. If you have set a wedding date soon then it would be wise to reset that wedding date until you have decided if you want to be with your fiance or your ex. I suggest you reflect back without a romantic view of your ex and ask yourself why the two of you broke up. It's doubtful your ex has changed.
What does a guy call a girl if they are engaged?
The feminine form of an engaged woman is fiancée.
The masculine form is fiancé.
Therefore, the man will call his wife-to-be his fiancée.
Is It right to get engaged at 15?
- Fifteen is far too young to be engaged. Although fifteen year old teens believe they are mature and know almost everything they do not and it takes years to gain knowledge and make some serious decisions. Sometimes young people get 'Promise to get engaged' rings. A promise is made to really get engaged sometime in the future.
How do you write a congratulations note?
Express your pride, joy, or whatever feelings you feel towards the recipient. Be sure to make it relevant to what you are congratulating them for.
Is a marriage legal if a marriage certificate is not issued?
That would depend upon the laws of the state in which the union occurred. However, state laws require that the person who can perform legal marriages must issue a certificate of marriage to the couple after the ceremony has been performed. A copy of the certificate is then made a part of public record. Certain government agencies such as the Social Security Administration require a certificate of marriage before they will change the woman's name on SS records (assuming she wants to take her husband's surname). A marriage license is not acceptable proof that the marriage has taken place.
I think that depends on the couple in the relationship.You need to have a serious talk about your goals as a couple. If you're worried about "losing" something by getting married;maybe you should reconsider what you really want.If it's really right, then marriage shouldn't change it, in that way. It really depends on the two people involved and what they want. Don't let anyone try to tell you there is a right or a wrong way, just do what is right for you both.
What does being engaged really mean?
GETTING ENGAGED:The engagement period is a critical one for every couple. It's a time for meeting the parents. It's customary for the man to buy an engagement ring. The ring is a circle that has no beginning and no end, which is how marriage should mean, but we all know that's asking a little too much. Being engaged means promising each other that you will love each other for eternity, be loyal, true, and commit.
Thought you would enjoy a little history on the engagement ring:
The history of the engagement ring is more myth and fantasy than actual fact. It wasn't until the beginning of the 20th Century when a mark turn of events shaped the public view regarding "the ring."
Most people believe that "the ring" is a symbol of everlasting love, purity, devotion and commitment between 2 people.
Earlier records show that Archduke Maximilian of Hamburg may have started the trend among the European wealthy and royalty of giving diamond engagement rings in 1477. He gave a ring to Mary of Burgundy (betrothal ring.)
ANCIENT HISTORY:Women called their engagement ring the betrothal (Truth) ring. The Romans wore the ring on the 3rd finger of the left hand.
Tradition seems to stem from the Egyptian belief that the vein from this went straight to the heart. It's thought that the Romans were the first to start engraving their rings.
MIDDLE AGESThe Gimmal or "bond" ring was invented, but it's doubtful that this was an engagement ring design. Sapphires, Emeralds, and Rubies would have been the norm for those who could afford them. Diamonds are the hardest and strongest mineral on earth and resisted fire and steel and thus, symbolize the unbending union of a man and woman in wedlock. So it became more commonplace for the European wealthy and royalty to give the diamond engagement ring. Less wealthy citizens would have given a Fede (faith) ring in the form of 2 clasped hands more akin to the more modern claddagh (clasped hands) engagement rings.
19TH CENTURYIn South Africa in 1870, the vast, newly discovered diamond region began to flood the market with not so rare a gem after all. The supply increased whilst the prices fell. Within 10 years the now famous De Beers Consolidated Mines Ltd., was formed by the Englishman Cecil John Rhodes to control the sale of diamonds throughout the world. Even today they control 65% of the world's diamond trade.
20th CENTURY1880 De Beers were able to control the supply (and price). Just as platinum started to become popular in diamond engagement rings, diamonds were becoming less valued. Platinum was banned for all, but war use during WW2 and so the platinum diamond engagement rings as we know them today almost died out. De Beers slogan "Diamonds Are Forever."
21st CENTURYThe history of the engagement ring has moved on and demand for diamonds and platinum diamond engagement rings is still rising. The tradition is here to stay. Estimated 78% of all engagement rings sold every year are diamond.
AnswerIt means you are planning on getting married. I think you should date a long time before getting engaged---3 or 4 years is not too much. Then when you do get engaged, pick a wedding date and get on with it.
Is 19 years of age too young to get engaged?
No. But you shouldn't be getting married until you're at least 18. I myself am 16 and im with someone i love very much and plan to marry some day if things go right. that's IF they go right. you don't want to rush into things because people change alot as they age. you might love things the way they are right now but after a while things will change and its something no one can avoid. so just wait until he is ready . if you know your ready then its a game of waiting.this is my first time 2 do this so hope it helped someone :) .. and boys???? .... MAN UP AND PROPOE ALREADY :P
Engagement is not actually a legally binding agreement and as such it's fine to get engaged at the age of 16.
Marriage though, I have to agree, is something far more serious. 18 is early to marry as well because you still have a lot of "growing" to do. Not physically (hopefully) but mentally and spiritually. You are going to change our mind about many things, and you are going to see things from a different perspective.
Hopefully the love for your boyfriend/girlfriend will remain and you will only feel more sure of each other after staying together for a few years. If it is meant to be, waiting will make no difference :)
How do you tell your parents you want to get engaged if you are only 16?
Sounds like you think they might not be keen to the idea. You are 20, of age, hopefully with a job and taking care of all your affairs. You hopefully have a plan in mind for your future, too. I think it would be best for you to either get together with both sets of parents, like a dinner party or restaurant, and both you and your future spouse announce together, the engagement. If you are the girl, then in the old fashioned way, your boyfriend, can ask your parents blessing for your hand in marriage and if you are the boy, with the girl, you profess your love for her and impending engagement. There may be questions of "how will you"??? so be ready with solid answers that will make them feel better and included in your future plans.
Is 4 months too soon to get engaged?
No. There isn't a "too soon"... As long as the two of you feel it's right - who cares what anyone else thinks. I know people that have been engaged for 2 years - now headed for divorce court. I have a friend who knew her ex-husband 9 years and they divorced within 6 months. It's your life... do what you think is best for you. I met a man a month ago and I know this is the man for me... he feels the same way. We might feel this way because we are older - so we know what we want out of life... Good luck!
How do you call a woman when a man is getting engaged to her?
just pick up the phone and call her if your nervous its fine its better to call and have her know and her never know at all and she could love and be marring the wrong man and she would never know
How do Jews celebrate their engagement?
They go with their families for a party and celebrate with wine and goose! They give each other jupons!
How much to give a grandchild as a wedding present?
Some Seniors can't afford much, so whatever you can afford would be appreciated. If you can afford more then ask your grandchildren's parents what that particular grandchild is saving up for (could be computer or programs that go with the computer.) I usually give money as gifts for the children in the family (in their teens to 20s) and give what I can afford.
Yes, you can, you probably have already thought about it, it's not a good idea to get involved in a relationship at such age, but it's up to you. If it is a productive relationship, you both will be happy, supporting each other mutually to reach your educative goals in life first.
You need to be emotionally, intellectually and financially compatible to get married, it isn't just about love, unfortunately.
How do you propose same-sex marriage?
In the same way as male same-sex marriage happens, follow the link:
Does the groom pay for the wedding dress after the wedding has been called off?
i would say that it would be primarily the responsibility of the bride, but hopefully, the groom will offer to cover the expense. why did the groom call off the wedding? that makes the biggest difference in the answer. did he fall in love with someone else? did the bride cheat on him? all these reasons are something to look at. Since the bride asked her friends and family to be bridesmaids, i would think the right thing to do would be to pay for the dresses, to cover the expense, and hopefully the bride and groom can work out the financial issue together privately.
What are some reasons to get engaged?
There is absolutely only ONE reason to get engaged. Because you KNOW that you KNOW that you KNOW that this is the person you want to share your life with UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART. There is no point to getting engaged unless that is the reason. You should NEVER feel obligated to get engaged (ie., pregnancy, because someone else wants you to, because you feel guilty) because this is a choice that will change your life forever. Before you get engaged make sure that you KNOW that this is the one person you are CHOOSING to share the rest of forever with.
A partial list:
--you have been in a solid relationship for at least a 1 1/2-2 years. You are not getting married for financial or social reasons, or as an "escape" from a current living situation.
---you trust, respect and love this person, and are concerned for their welfare. They feel the same way torwards you.
--if you don't see them for periods of time, you still feel the same, and you do not get bored as time goes on
--neither of you is abusive, verbally or psychically. Neither of you domineers the other.
--neither of you has been married repeatedly over the years, or has had numerous broken engagements.
--neither of you has had an affair while involved in your relationship. Neither of you has a history of cheating on all your partners.
--you agree on finances, how to live, whether to purchase a home or rent. You both can live within in a budget, and do not have serious financial problems.
--you agree on whether or not to have children, and how many to have
--you each get along with the other person's families.
When you pass the stage of infatuation and realise that this is the one with whom you not only allready without a doubt truly love, but with whom you also know your love has only just begun and that it will forever keep growing. If you can honestly belive you will cherish every moment even through troubled times with this person and you are willing to sacrifice your very heart and soul for this one. Then yes you are entitled to make a declaration of your lasting committment through engagement the eternal binding of your heart, mind & soul.
If you truly love each other, then waiting three years more shouldn't make a difference...If this is truly marriage material, then after three years it will still be wonderful...always wait three years from the moment you think its time...then youll see if it truly is. This advice is harsh but GOLD and can save ur life...u don't know how many ppls lives are wasted by wrong marriages.
If you have to ask...you'r not ready!!!
Every relationship is different because it is based on the values of the people involved. Abusive situations aside, "reasons" may not be the right word.
If you and your significant other find that you can bring each other joy over a sustained period of time, that you can support each other even when you don't want to (i.e., able to put another person before yourself), and that you can allow the other to help you shoulder burdens and sorrows, then you are probably mature enough to contemplate marriage.
If you are trying to determin if you want to and can spend the rest of your life with someone, then think about the least flattering or worst aspects of that person and your life with that person. Annoying habits can be worked around (like having separate blankets to avoid "blanket hog"arguements), and no one is free of personality flaws and annoying quirks. The question is, do you love this person enough (and them, you) to love them in spite of their faults? Can you balance your needs, the other person's needs, and your needs as a couple evenly? This is easiest when those needs align.
Think about what it will be like paying bills with this person, selecting a car with this person, arguing with this person of stupid things like toothpaste, talking about (possibly) uncomfortable things like politics, religion, prenuptual agreements, and sex. What can you expect things to be like if one of you suffers a great loss, like the death of a sibling, parent, or child? How would you two cope (together) if you both lost your jobs at the same time? What would happen if one spouse cheated on the other? Is that a deal-breaker?
Marriage is about the good as much as it is about getting through the bad. And it isn't getting through it, it is coping with it by relying on each other, which in turn strengthens your relationship for the next good or bad thing.
Be thoughtful. Be purposeful. Discuss together, in depth. And then decide.
Don't do something you'll regret, by either getting engaged, or by not getting engaged.
Just don't get comfortable with just being together as you are. I know alot of men that think that they can just go on for the rest of their lives as boyfriend and girlfriend, because it's "perfect". Don't kid yourself. If you have commitment issues you need to own up and tell your girl what you are thinking, and you need to do some real soul searching with what you really want out of life. This "perfect" setup you have now, won't last when you get to be 50, 80, or even 100 years old. You're going to want more later, and if you let your girl go because you can't commit, even if she treats you good and you love her and she loves you, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Because you love that person and can't live without them
Because you have already decided to marry her.
No, not if you love the girl/guy your with. I'm 15 almost 16 and me and my bf(18) are engaged we are however waiting til after he gets back from the army to get married that way ill be 18
How much would 5 wedding ring?
About US $20/-, you will have to have your own interpretation of wedding Ring. It could be 10kt, 18kt, 22kt, 23kt, yellow,white or Colored Gold,925 silver Gold Plated etc; The Key factor is your definition of a wedding Ring/Band.........
What does it mean if you dream that you are preparing for your wedding and your dress is shiny red?
maybe you want a husband! you are very desperate and are looking for one. hey no rush! just live your life!you'll know whos right for you!
Did you see anything about wedding or wedding dress lately? Or are you falling in love with somebody, kinda wanna get married?
Its for boy and girl. The word is not feminine or masculine.
Can a married man get engaged?
He can, since there is no legality involved. However, life and expectations are so much better if the man has his final divorce decree before making such a commitment to someone else. The period during and for awhile after divorce can be an emotional roller coaster.
