Make sure that there is still nothing going on between the two of them. If nothing is going on, then just leave it alone. DID ANYTHING HAPPEN BETWEEN THEM, IF NOT DO NOTHING, IF YES LEAVE HIM THERE ARE BETTER OUT THERE
You have to make it clear to him that your son needs him and that you are not pleased by the fact that he doesn't get any attention from him. Your son can't get him to spend time with him so go ahead and tell your husband how you feel about it and make sure he spends some time with him. Its unfair for you but mostly for your son. Oh and why don't you arrange some play dates with both the kids.
Do you know the warning sign that your husband could be having an affair?
There is such a thing as "womens intuition" for a reason. If your gut tells you that something is going on, unfortunately you may be right. Some signs are unexplained absences, late night phone calls, new clothes, new cologne, a change in appearance or attitude, money missing, he may receive unexplained gifts, doesnt answer your calls, showing a lack of interest in sex with you, etc. If you're really concerned, you could have him followed. Be careful because he may not be doing anything wrong & accusing him without any proof could potentially ruin your marriage. Good Luck!
My husband says that he doesn't think he's good enough for me?
Answer Perhaps your husband is suffering from an inferority complex and probably you aren't the only person he says this too. Perhaps it might be wise to get him to go to a professional and see what can be done to make him feel better about himself.
What is proper to use last or lastly when you have used first?
last is an adjective you use it to modify a noun or a pronoun or a phrase functioning as a noun.
The last Starfighter
The last of the Mohegan
lastly is an adverb you use it to modify verbs, adjectives, and other adverbs.
He ran quickly.
She happily agreed.
Firstly I would like to say how happy I am to enthusiastically support this, our first functioning prototype.
Lastly I would like to give this $40,000,000 cheque to our last contestant.
What ring goes on first weddingband or engagement?
I think it depends on design of the Bridal Set. Because when I was searching a bridal set for my wife before our marriage. I saw some designs in which Wedding Band comes in front and in some at back of Engagement Ring.
Just shut your woman mouth and do the dishes and cook him food. And on occasion be a pal and make hot steamy love to him.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? GO BACK TO YOUR OWN COUNTRY IF YOU WANT TO ACT LIKE THAT! WE ARE LOOKING FOR DECENT ANSWERS FROM DECENT PEOPLE. PLEASE DON'T WASTE OUR TIME AND HURT OUR FEELINGS TRYING TO BE FUNNY OR WITTY! IT IS A GROSS UNDERSTATEMENT BY SAYING THAT YOU NEED TO FIND GOD, AND GROW! WHERE ARE YOU FROM ANYWAY? HAVE YOU EVER READ THE BIBLE? I CERTAINLY PRAY THAT THERE IS NO WOMAN SUBMITTING TO YOU....
GOD BLESS.....
"If a divorce order stipulates that the defendant forfeits all benefits of the marriage and is responsible for all debts incurred in marriage Does the defendant have to sign the papers in order to sell?"
it depends on the girl and type of situation. and the way the man treats her. if you treated her well than maybe shell stay longer.
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The person is right, it depends on individual, but I will use my own personal experience from my husband ( now ex). I forgave this man once already, and for him to do it for the second time was enough for me to know what needs to be done. I discovered his love affair right before Christmas, so the following year I file and I'm just grateful that it took only 4 months to get out from the life he ruined. Knowing California law, I was very lucky I didn't wait.
Kris Lemche is 39 years old (unconfirmed birthday is February 23, 1978).
How long have you waited for him already? Since he is married and such? If you've waited a long time, you have to decide for yourself just how much longer you're willing to wait. If you're willing, you wait for him. But if he prolongs that divorce, you leave, but if your love has just started blossoming and was just revealed, you shouldn't expect him to divorce instantly because you'll be telling him to throw away a life that he promised himself into. It all just depends on you and how long you've waited already.
Are you mental? No matter who he's in love with a) the kids ALWAYS come first, he wouldn't want them to hate him. 2) he's probably happy about coming back from work to the house you've spent time with your family in. 3) He's probably old-ish if he has 2 kids. So what 's he gonna do when he is out of HIS house which he lived in with HIS WIFE AND KIDS at that age?
LET HIM GO NOW! you don't want to be the girl who broke up a marriage and it would be even worse if there are kids involved. Just break it off.
AnswerDo you want an actual relationship with him? Tell him bluntly that you're ending the relationship and that he can contact you when the ink on his divorce papers is dry. Because at this point, he's getting his cake and giving you crumbs. He's not getting a divorce, he's comfortable in the current situation. Whatver feelings he has for you will do not interfere with his marriage. Maybe he claims to not love his wife, or stays with her just for his kids, but he is happy in his comfort zone marriage, with an affair on the side.
Affairs thrive on excitement and seem more intense, simply because of the constraints of time on the people involved. You don't live with him, you don't see his bad traits, how he treats his family and friends, deals with stress, etc. Even if he did decide to leave his marriage and be with you, you'll be in for a rude awakening over his flaws.
AnswerYou cannot base your happiness on the unhappiness of others. I could probably tell you word for word what he says about his wife, his sex life, his children and his reasons for having affairs, and so could thousands of other women...unfortunately, you will not be his first affair and you will not be his last affair. Please protect yourself emotionally and, if you must continue your relationship, do so with the realization that there is absolutely no future in it for you. It's not a question of 'letting hiime go', because he is not really 'there' - it's more a question of putting yourself first! Please give yourself a chance to do that...
AnswerWhen you meet "The One", you want him to be someone with integrity; someone who is happy and trustworthy. Unfortunately, this guy is none of those things. He is still connected to another person by marriage, which is a commitment that goes beyond the heart, with children, finances in common and so on. And, he hasn't done what he needs to do for your best interests and his. Any man you start a relationship with should be unmarried, complete with signed divorce papers before you even start. Expect more and you can get it!
Is it wrong to want to do everything with your husband and should he have guy time or alone time?
There are two ways that work well, and one that does not.
What lasts is either:
1. both partners will have a life outside the relationship, or
2. for both partners, the relationship is their life.
Either of those scenarios can work fine.
What doesn't work is:
3. one person has a life outside the relationship and one does not.
Jealousy and frustration ensue.
He should definitely have alone time if he wants it.
IF he does not want it, he should not be forced into it.
If you notice that he spends a lot of time sleeping, showering, watching tv, working in the yard or at the gym, or drinking/drugging, then perhaps you are smothering him and he needs a few minutes of "me time" each day to breathe.
Generally, if that break can be when he comes home from work (give him time to decompress after work/commute), then he'll come to you when he's ready to hang out with you all night.
Do not leave the current marriage too soon. Break it off with the other guy entirely and embrace the second chance with your husband. As always, there are different choices in life, but you will not be sorry if you honor your committment to this good man who is willing to work with you. Statistically, if a man cheats on a woman, he will cheat on her if she becomes his wife. Let him go.
Why would a married guy who seems like his wife has him on a leash act like he don't care about it?
Maybe he's the kind of guy who wants a woman who keeps him on a leash.