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Marriage
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony.
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What to do when your spouse says I don't love you anymore?
Ask them why the fell in love with you in the first place, and be more of that person. communicate. And remind them of for better or worse.
Should you tell your husband you have feelings for someone else?
You should make sure how you really feel, and if you feel like it might ruin your relationship then tell him the you love him but you have feelings for your friend. Remind him that you really love him though.
While I think he's wrong and it DOES matter, i don't think it's worth throwing away 14 years of marriage. I would suggest some counseling though as this is something that you'll carry around with you!
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Sweetie men will say that to us, even though they know that it will hurt us. Maybe it doesn't matter to your husband now because it's been years, but he owe you this much to explain what he did behind your back. Men wouldn't care what they did before because they will say that the two of you weren't married then.
As the matter of facts it did happened to me to but in a different way. I discovered what he did after we got married. what hurts the most is he made the decision for me, but not telling me before we got married Being married means honesty, and sharing, but some men will not care about it. So when I found out that he betrayed me before we got married, my trust for him never been the same.
We married in both styles, we had both religious rituals for baptism and naamkarna...and nowwe are both not practising our religions in full blown style bcos Christianity does not allow idol worship and Hinduism is based on it.
Whatever I teach the kids is base don the concept of there being onegod and one supreme being. I am trying to teach them simple basic rules about God and spirituality. Nothing very chritisan and nothing at all strictly Hindu.
Only you can answer that question but you have to ask yourself is it worth leaving for a what you are missing or could you stay and still both be happy doing things "on your own"? I realize it would be hard to stay with someone that there is no affection with anymore but if you are still close and have put up with it this long is it really worth leaving to be alone for sex - when lets face it is something you could do on your own.
Maybe, you could both try to be "close" and see how it goes it may rekindle if you both let go of your inhibitions and walls you both have put up for some reason. Put some spice back into your life, sometimes things get this far because it becomes routine and really isn't that interesting anymore - be more spontaneous and uninhibited it may put that umph your looking for back into both your lives.
If you feel that you have a conversation concerning leaving due to the above and both agreed then maybe it is the best for both of you. Good Luck and take care - remember the grass isn't always greener.
The evidence supports cheating but she still won't admit it?
Many men and women who aren't confident in there own sexuality and ability believe they have EVIDENCE their lover is cheating. Chance are she's not. In fact the statistics say you are much more likely to cheat than she is. But of this you can be sure. If you keep acusing her of cheating she most defineatley will. Now if she really is cheating what do you plan to do about it if she does admit it. Do you love her enough to forgive AND forget? If not you probably need to rethink you whole relationship anyway. Because if you think she is cheating, whether she is or not, you are not happy. If she is cheating she is not happy and if you are acusing her unfairly she is not happy. IT's time to MAN UP. Do you want a relationship with this woman or not? if you do, work on it. If you don't .....leave and find someone you can trust.
How do you know when someone is true when they've been mean to you and now starting to be nice?
Ask yourself what that person would have to gain by being nice to you. Are they trying to pursue someone you hang out with?
Remember: fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
Is it proper for you to wear purple at your 50TH Wedding Anniversary Celebration?
Wow! A Golden Anniversary.
This is very rare, congratulations!
It depends on how comfortable you feel in what you're wearing, because the 50th anniversary's flower is represented by violet which is purple doesn't always mean you have to wear purple, or even gold. But it will definitely be very symbolic of the anniversary if you do so.
Here's a link added, it'll show you how to request a greeting from the whitehouse for this rare occasion:-)
How do you know if your husband loves you after 25 years?
The only way to tell if a husband loves his wife after 25 years is through his actions. If the husband still cares for the wife, buys her present and always wants to be in company of the wife they he still loves the wife.
There would have to be more of an explanation to this and it sounds complicated such as: Did she run away from him, taking the children? Did they split-up and she moved because he wouldn't leave her alone? How did he find her? Was she in any contact with him when she left? Did they go through lawyers and the court system? In order to get rid of her abusive husband she is going to have to come up with some proof. If he's phoning her with abusive calls ... tape the calls! If he is phoning her at work, tape those calls as well. If the police were ever called to their home for domestic abuse then get her to see a lawyer so he can get these records from the police department. She needs legal council immediately, to get custody of the children and for her own safety. She then needs to take this proof to a lawyer and go through the legal system to get rid of this guy. However, sounds like he's going to make a fight of it so be prepared. For now, she can go to a Women's Abuse Center for help and they too will provide legal council. They will be listed in your phone book and if you have a tough time finding it go to THE STATE YOUR SISTER IS IN and have her see Mental Health and they will put her in the right direction. Good luck Marcy
What does it mean if your wife has not given you any love or affection?
It can mean a lot of things. Sometimes women get exhausted in their daily chores and don't feel up to intimacy. Sometimes they carry bad feelings about something that happened weeks ago. Sometimes they just need a little excitement and romance. Try a mini-vacation. Go away from home, someplace that she would like, and try to understand what it is that SHE needs. If all else fails, you may need to go to a marriage counselor to work it out.
well no don't think he is going to leave his kids for you because he won't and you should take time off and ask yourself if you just another girl on side. While you ask yourself think about things he has done in the past and present. You should not still be with him because the longer you stay with him the more you are becoming invisible and i know your feeling disappointed so i think you should ask him to be friends and that's it. I hope you understand what I'm saying in other words don't get caught up in the baby momma drama.
If you are in a fight and he calls you degrating names is it ok?
No it is not OK. I have been there before and can tell you it doesn't get any better. I was in a verbally abusive (yes, that is verbal abuse) and controlling marriage for 7 years...it only got worse. 7 years and 3 kids later, I stopped making excuses for him and convincing myself it wasn't that bad and I left. I had to call the police for the 3rd time because he was in one of his fits of yelling and name calling because we were fighting and then I took my kids and whatever fit in my van and left...and NEVER looked back. That was 2 1/2 years ago, my divorce is slow going and I've been thru hell with non-payment of child support (which ended in me taking him to court on a violation and getting a judgment for the arrears)...but the struggle is worth it. The thing that did it for me was when I went to a domestic violence counselor and she gave me the slap in the face I needed by saying but 2 things..."Do you want your daughters to grow up and marry this man? Because if you show them that it is acceptable, they will." and "Do you want your son to grow up and be this man? Because if you show him it is acceptable, he will". Those words hit like a punch in the gut...and helped me decide to get out. Now I have a wonderful boyfriend of 2 years who has NEVER called me a name...EVER....and it feels great!
very unlikely...unless that man is VERY forgiving or is desperate
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You got to be kidding right? If your husband told you that he don't want to loose his mistress friendship, he never really wanted to stop talking to her. Do you think if you let him stay friend with his ex mistress, he wouldn't think of getting back together again? If you let it, guess what you will give them both the key to continued what they shared together. Doesn't it bothers you that this woman shared the same man with you if you will stay with your husband? You are more braver than me, because the thought of it made me sick in my stomach. Yes my husband once told me from his email while he was on the trip to the east coast and I quote " what's wrong if she become a Christian sister." And that's when I really gotten sick after reading his email to me.
The best solution for you is tell him you don't like the idea, or just tell him what you think, and if he still pursue it, maybe divorce? Think about it..
How do you make relationship with rich aunty?
If she is older offer to go and help her around her house
NOt Exactly, Its more like Lying.... Your husband should be honest with you. Even if he doesnt consider this a "big thing", he should still tell you where he drives the car, and who he is friends with as part of communicating, one of the most important aspects of ANY relaitonship. Hope this helps... richardmedina594@hotmail.com Goodluck! Yes
Why is your wife always bored?
its the time where you need to do something with her to make her happy
Who was Robert Emmet's fiance?
Sarah Curran, daughter of the famous http://www.answers.com/topic/barrister, John Philpot Curran.
My goodness, I feel so very sorry this has happened to you. Even if you are finacially dependent on this man, this is not a reason to stay. You have to make a plan to leave. Get on that phone a call a Center for Women. There should be numbers in your phone book to call. They are there for you. They will help you with a long term life plan, which includes, financial assistance, education, houseing etc. to get you out and on your own, and independent. If you are finacially independent and stable, get out of there and move on. This man has committed the Ultimate betrayal, and his unlove and respect for you say's it all. Ask yourself, why should any one stay in a relationship if it is clearly evident that there is no love, respect and trust. Clearly, there is no RELATIONSHIP.
What if my husband confessed that he is physically attracted with someone else, but constantly telling me that he only loves me. What will be my next move? They constantly talk over the phone everyday since the girl she met moved to other state. It hurts me so bad then we have sex and have a baby
If he is talking to her every day, tell him to cut the crap and remember his marital VOWS!!!! They should not be taken lightly! If he wont stop it and you feel he may cheat on you, LEAVE HIM!! Even the Bible says that infidelity (even infidelity of the mind) is grounds for divorce.
And if your husband is in love with someone else, get out of that marriage as fast as you possibly can! It is better to move on from an unfaithful man with some pain involved than to hurt yourself forever by staying with him.
I dont think its right. Shes not a teenager and shes married. She has an obligation to be at home for the night. I would not accept this. Its spoiled to behave this way. It is if you trust her? I like to go out w/my girlfriends for dinner and then go and watch a movie at their house and have a slumber party. I have children and it is nice to get out and away from the house w/o spending a lot of money. I don't do a thing that would make it unacceptable. Go buy her some nail polish, popcorn, soda and give it to her and tell her to have a great time you'll look forward to seeing her in the morning. :) If she is married then she is an adult. Adults should decide what they want to do and accept the responsibiity of that decision, rather than allowing someone else (even a spouse) to decide for them. Personally, I would never even consider asking my spouse if he found it acceptable for me to spend the night at a friend's, take a trip (business or otherwise) and so forth. You didn't mention if this married friend was a male. If so, it could be a problem. If this is just a married girlfriend then there is nothing at all wrong if your wife so decides to spend an over-nighter with her as long as she has contacted you and told you so you won't worry about her. It appears there is a trust issue going on either on your part or you have good reason to have a trust issue. If in doubt call her at her friend's house with some excuse.
