Marriage

If you want your husband to be more romantic, then tell him what you want. Don't hint or dissemble be straight up about it and be prepared to give examples of what you consider romantic, also see if he'd like a little more romance from you. Marriage is an investment and you can't get out of it what you're not willing to put in to it.

The amount of time it will take to finish the divorce depends on where they were in the process (ie longer than the minimum amount of time required after filing) and how many issues are contested between the two of them.

Affairs.

• Many men do not like confrontation and depending on what your marriage problems are some men are in complete denial. You are in control you 'your life' so instead of letting him ignore the situation tell him like it is .... 'You either do your part in this marriage and we either get marriage counseling or start communicating on a better basis to improve our marriage or I'm filing for divorce!' This will either shock him or, if he is on the quiet side he may say or do nothing and then you will have to make the choice as to whether you want the rest of your life spent with a person that does not want to communicate or improve the marriage.
  

Dont get me wrong, I love my husband dearly, but literally as soon as we got married, all the effort and the romance that I fell in love with him for just disappeared. I know he loves me, but its like that love has changed before I was ready for it to. We didnt go away anywhere for our honeymoon, that was ok, I knew we couldn't afford that, but I thought we would at least lay in bed all day or have some nice romantic time together, instead its me doing exactly what I did in my first marriage, rolling up my sleeves and tackling the washing, cooking, cleaning, I didnt think my second marriage would be as monotonous as my first, because my new husband is a totally different sort of person to my first husband. For a start, I happen to love this man. I have tried talking to him, and he knows something is wrong but doesnt know what. I don't think anything is wrong with our relationship, he just needs to put some effort in because its a two way street. How do we work together to get that effort and the spark back? After 1 week of marriage, I shouldn't even be asking this!!!

You can meet people (men) in all social gatherings.

From churches to sports venues.

From a man's point of view, social networking is the key. The more people you meet in common interest areas will vastly increase your odds. Avoid bars and the internet (in most cases) as they are frequented by liars, cheats, and a myriad of disfunctional problem children. Laundromats and grocery stores are good hunting spots because in these areas, even good men are generally helpless. Strike up a coversation on personal preference or cooking methods at the grocery. Be sure to look for the ring. Single, unattached and sepperated men generally remove them as soon as possible. Remember, there are millions walking the earth alone and in desperate need for human company and companionship but have no idea how to rectify the situation. Ignore your own personal defects (we all have them and are self conscious about them), instead go forth with the mindset that an attractive personality is far more exciting than a perfect body. Those men that move too fast have not taken the time to try to understand women and are quite possibly shallow or in the self-gratification mode. Better to move on if pressure persists. My interpersonal relationship trinity consists of: meet the mind, capture the heart and she'll give me the body. A bit chauvanistic perhaps, a leftover from my youth but quite honest. Good luck in your search and remember for every specific type of person, there is an appropriate counterpart that believes that you and your age, shape, appearance or whatever is the best thing since sliced cheese. I hope this was helpful. -Ken

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There are few things that a wife can't show to her husband but she can to people she knows, a wedding pictures. engagement ring and maybe her wedding band. And sometimes a bouquet of flowers that her husband gave to her. There's also a surprise birthday party for her husband.

Unless you provoke him to hit you (which still isn't ok) then you should leave him. Theres no excuse for anyone hitting you, theres no disease out there that 'forces' them to hit you. The old saying "if you love something let it go" would be the best time to act it out.

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Darling, there is no excuse in the world for a man to hit a woman, unless the woman is buffed, a tomboy, tattooed, and kicks her husbands butt as well.

If he doesnt listen to reason if you explain to him that you are NOT to be hit.. that you love him, but cant take it anymore, the answer is simple, ask your friends, im sure they would back you up, then if you really want to go all the way, get a divorce, and a restraining order.

don't tell your friends because they willl just tell u want u want to hear and that ain't good but yeah if your getting sick of it and want to leave then do it its not worth it

• There are many reasons why some women can disrespect their husbands: he is lazy and will not hold down a job; does drugs or drinks too much; cheats on her; is rude to her friends; a compulsive liar; she may not think he is making enough money; he doesn't spend quality time with her; his hygiene is poor; he may be messy and not care what he looks like or messes up the home in which he lives; disrespects his wife; doesn't take the time to compliment his wife or celebrate special occasions; is verbally or physically abusive.

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Most of the time, whether or not you cheat depends on what kind of person you are. Often if you get into the discussion about cheating with a male you'll get to know what kind of mindset they're in. Personally, I find the males that don't cheat are ones with strong morals, ones that really love you and/or ones that have been cheated on before and know how much it hurts. Its all about finding the right guy... or the right kind of guy.

If you're already in a relationship than its a bit harder. You can do a few things, but these aren't foolproof and if he's a cheater, than chances are he'll still cheat. You shouldn't be threatening like 'If you cheat I'll cut your....' because then he just wont tell you that he's cheated, just let him know non-threateningly that it would hurt you so much if he ever did. Also, you need to make sure he knows you love him. Have you ever been in a relationship where you've felt like seeking affection from another guy because you aren't getting affection from yours?... Guys are the same, if they're not fufilled they may be tempted to wander, and if he's your golden mr right than he shouldn't, but you don't want to temp him to cheat... or even leave you for someone who he knows feels strongly for him.

Humans are sexual, this will sound horrible, but you don't want to make him feel inadequite about his sexuality and if you're in a sexual relationship than maybe you're going to have to help him out with a little bit of sexual relief every know and again, so you're not sending him out as a loaded canon with instincts to plant his sperm in the nearest woman. If you're not having intercourse for reasons, than maybe oral sex, or even just using your hands can help. You've got your hands tied a bit here if you're religious though, but if you aren't up for anything sexual, just make sure he knows how you feel about him.

Try to go with him places, if he wants you to come to his Christmas party at work, than go. Don't go 'I hate meeting new people, go buy yourself', you know how you'd feel if your partner refused to go and you had to go dateless. You might get to talking to the other person in the room whose partner refused to come and one thing might lead to another.

You can always make sure he doesn't cheat, by going everywhere with him, living with him, working in the same place as him and/or always making sure you know exaclty where he is and when he's not at work he's with you. I wouldn't go for this option because you don't want to make him think like you don't trust him and smother him at the same time.

The most important thing is trust. You need to trust him and keep him happy at home and he'll have no reason to wander. But keep in mind, that if he's a cheater already, than chances are you might not be able to change him. Even guys who are changing for the better have relapses, so unless you're ready to have your heart stomped on you need to realise when some guys are a lost cause.

In Georgia how long does it take for a request of judgement to be granted?"

15

There is someone out there for everyone, you have just got to look for it.

Please i am wish to state that an urgent kind of work, application pattern may be, forwarded to me, and oblige

Yes you can put it as single , and the system will regconise it right away. As you have bee4n divorced for the past five years , and at the time of making the application you were vewry much single.

Mrs. Phil

Just kidding. Robin Jameson.

ANSWER:

We all can't judge people no matter who they are. Being illiterate is not fun and embarrassing. It doesn't matter if this person didn't finish high school, she deserve respect and kindness from everyone.

My first step would be to change all the locks in the house/apartment. Go to the bank next and remove any money in the checking/savings accounts before he can get there. Close all credit cards or remove his name. Change your car insurance from his name to yours and if you have the pink slip drop his name from the title. Make copies of all past years tax forms, at least 5 years and just keep them. You may need them. Remove his personal items from the house and put them in the garage. Don't throw them out because he can sue you for the value. Get a locker if you need to. Go get the meanest hardest divorce lawyer you can afford and get all you can ( the house, child support, pensions). Get mad and only feel sorry what what has happened AFTER you do all of the above.

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First of all, I will make sure that he knows I will not stop him. I will give him my blessing and hope he will never betrayed this other woman he chooses to have. Then I will file for a divorce which I did, so I can move on and have my own life with my children. Last but not the least I will let him know, that he can't come back if his relationship with the other woman, didn't work. In reality I did divorce him and I wasn't sorry for what I did, letting him go.

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someone you can be with 100% all the time you'll know your meant for each other and everything would be right with the world you don't care about your problems and the only thing you'll ever fear in your life would be losing that person. That is true happiness. I really wish i find a person like that...................................

Well, it all depends on the climate of your marriage. Obviously it isn't good, given the fact that you are having an affair and have fallen in love with your mistress. Perhaps seeing a therapist initially on your own to discern the correct approach to hurting your wife, not only because you want to leave her, but because you are in love with another woman.

Most women know when something is up, even if they choose not to see it. Your wife will be deeply injured, but I'm guessing she already has an idea that something is awry.

At any rate, you need to concern yourself with her feelings in your approach, and not just absolving yourself of the guilt by confessing.

good luck!