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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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"Dumping him" is one of those decisions that only the person involved can make. but, NO ONE SHOULD EVER TOLERATE BEING ABUSED!....emotionally and/or physically under any conditions. An abuser will make all sorts of excuses, like "she or he pushes me until I don't have a choice". It is NOT the fault of the person who suffers the abuse, EVER! The reality is once abuse begins it only escalates, therefore the issue of ending such a relationship should be obvious to those who are willing to listen. National Domestic Abuse Hotline..1-800-799-SAFE, www.ndvh.org.
AnswerThe scary part about someone like this is that you never know when he is going to snap. He has control issues and you should not be treated badly by someone because they having a bad day or just because they think that can. You must remind yourself that someone who loves you or cares for you is not going to hurt you or lie to you. I would certainly end such a relationship however it is your call. Your safety and well being is certainly more important then staying in an abusive relationship. It is not your duty to help him with this issue and don't think he will change for you. Too many girls end up dead or beaten because they stick around to see if he'll change. If you do end it, make sure you are in a public place and don't let him drive you home. Upsetting news may trigger an outrage and he may want to hurt you. Be tactful and honest, but out yourself first. You are deserve better and you will find better with time. Stay safe. AnswerI was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend who broke my phone recently...I have been with him for 2 years, and he used to be charming, but he still had major issues even in the beginning.
He just recently lied to me about taking his ex out for drinks late on a Sunday night. I saw the receipt, and he finally admitted to it. He had lied to me before about this same issue.
Breaking my phone was a result of "hearing a guys voice on my voicemail." Funny thing is it was an old message he had left that I hadn't erased, but the damage was done. He looked so evil at that moment, taking my shirt and ripping it, then throwing me down.
He has been full of verbal abuse, and is always blaming everything on me, even if its not my fault.
He apologizes, but soon its back to yelling at me.
Last Sat is when I caught him in that lie about taking his ex out for drinks, and he was sorry at first, but he hasn't ACTED sorry. Every time I act hurt, he calls it DRAMA, and he has been so completely cruel its beyond me. He has given me silent treatment these past few days, and calls when HE wants.
I tried to right him an email, saying i forgave him (stupid i know) and I no longer want to talk about what he did. There were other things I said too, but he his response was exactly this: "cant you live with out DRAMA ...I come home from work to this email.. woman doesnt anything else come from you? Nice huh, after what he did to me.
My question is do I even owe him a goodbye? Obviosly this is worth leaving him, so what is the best way to go about it. Yesterday he called me after he saw my email, and he was pissed off over it, said he would call me back, and never did. Just ignore him??
AnswerHiI'm in a similar situation. My boyfriend went routing through my phone and found a girl's name that he didn't recognise then went about accusing me of talking to blokes on my mobile but disguising them with girl's names!My new Sony Ericsson was thrown to the floor and smashed.The other day he threw the meal I had cooked for him against my wall, I was so angry at him that I smashed the empty plate on his back that it didn't hurt him at all, but the bits fell on my bare foot which made it bleed and was sore for days.All this and I still stay with him. It's always my fault in his mind of course, and while I never really believe it is my fault, the tears come from his eyes and I always end up feeling he needs me.
Sexually I haven't been interested in weeks and it's my birthday tomorrow and he's telling me he has no money to get me anytning, but he's always managed to find money to go out with his mates down the pub.He can be my best friend, but my worst enemy. He wants us to stay together, but I keep trying to split but he always manages to persuade me to stay.
So yeah I know what you're going through, but what road do you take. His was my best mate from college, I've known him for years. Do I hang onto that, stick by him? Or lose him and start again?
AnswerThe person who was abused is NOT GUILTY or RESPONSIBLE for the situation. Therefore they do not "owe" the abuser anything,(including a "good-bye"). Perhaps the best (hopefully safest) option is to cease all communication and concentrate on making a positive, emotionally stable, enjoyable life for their self. AnswerI can't believe I came across this posting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I thought I was dreaming and it was my own life!Six months ago my boyfriend broke my phone, when I grabbed his (both which I had paid for!) he twisted by wrist almost to the point of breaking it and threw me to the floor....All of this because he was representing himself as being single to girls that he had met online, when I confronted him about what I had found he went crazy. He went to Jail. He got out and apologized and we got back together.The sad thing is, I'm still with him and the violence escalated. A month ago I decided to leave him again over the same thing, he pulled a knife out this time and cut my bag up into little pieces and in the process cut my hand. I swore I would never talk to him again.
He emailed me telling me how desperate he was and that everyone abandoned him and he had no one; and would I please just talk to him.
I am in therapy and my counselor told me to go ahead and write him back.....So I did and know I am back under his spell. He was smoking a lot of marijuana back when he was abusive and he has since quit. So, he convinced me to give him another chance. Well, everything has been "great" for the past 1 1/2 months that we've been talking again......But I'm starting to feel "icky" like this is wrong. My family and friends hate him....His own family has disowned him......
I am a college-educated. business owning woman. I haven't been in many relationships, 2 before this one and I am 30 years old. I know what I am doing is wrong and that I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him but he has made some really great changes in his life and he is showing great promise....Part of me doesn't want to give up on him, but the other part of me knows that he will hurt me again.....Maybe worse than last time.
He blames all of his past behavior on pot smoking, saying that it made him violent.....I think there are excuses up the ying-yang as far as he is concerned.....I guess the reason I'm posting this is..... If you have the strength to leave him do it! It's not going to get any easier......If anything it gets worse.
When did Alex O'Loughlin split up from Malia Jones as he is not mentioned on her wikipedia page?
As of my last update, Alex O'Loughlin and Malia Jones split up in 2019. It is important to note that Wikipedia pages may not always be up to date with the latest information, especially regarding personal relationships. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to refer to recent news articles or official statements from the individuals involved.
What does it mean when a girl calls you a weirdo?
- When a girl calls you a weirdo it means you are strange and either do not dress or your actions all around are not normal like other people she knows. If you were joking with her she could have made that commit in a good way.
Sand is primarily silica particles that are virtually " ground" by the constant ebb and flow of water/tides and time acting on them.Constant crashing into rocks,shells, and other things in the oceans that are harder than the silicates reducie them to various sized particles.It should also be noted that sands from different places ( shorelines) on earth are different colours relative to the silicates found therein
Can one parent start loving you less than before?
They can get frustrated with you but they will always love you!
Time. That's all you can do. Just give it time. I was only with my boyfriend for 9 1/2 months and he broke up with me. I was sooo in love with him. We were broken up for 3 months and got back together and I still wasnt over him after the 3 months. That's why I got back with him! But I do know that you just have to give it time. It may take lots and lots of time. Just don't ruin your life over it. You will find that one person. God has a plan for everyone. And he's made a significant other for everyone also. You will find "the one" at some point in your life. You should maybe look. Or not look and they may come to you by fate. Like I said, it just takes time. Im sorry for your loss but life does go on.
If you could say just one last word for the rest of your life what would it be and why?
F-word, because I'd be so pissed that I couldn't say anything else.
There is no scientific evidence or research to support the idea that a person's height has any correlation with their level of sexual desire or behavior. Sexual desire is a complex and individual aspect of human behavior that can be influenced by a variety of factors such as hormones, genetics, upbringing, and personal experiences. It is important to avoid making assumptions or generalizations about individuals based on physical characteristics such as height.
Why do girls call after break-ups?
they think that you are still going to be their friend and still talk to them as if nothing has ever happened or they just don't know how to let you go or realize that you are not going to get back together and have a problem with that or they blame themselfs for it.
Because some women ain't that bright.
i agree with the some women ain't that bright idea and the fact they want to be friends but before that they go out with you then they dump you and go back out with you there so f####d up its random
If common sense reasoning doesn't work, tell him you would ask your new spouse to answer the phone. Politely ask your new spouse to answer the phone.
How do you let go of a relationship when you both still care for each other?
If you both have sat down and mutally decide it would be best for both of you to move on then you both have to respect one anothers space and time - you need to distance yourselves from one another for some time to allow one another to get by this. It is easier said then done but time heals all wounds and people do it everyday - it is possible and things will get better.
YES! In some Chinese languages 142 means:
1= I
4 = love (for the four letters)
2 = 你 or "ni" meaning you.
143 also means i love u
1-i
4-love
3-you
What are some interestin facts about knighthood?
- Knighthood is a title granted by a monarch or other leader in recognition of a person's outstanding service or achievements.
- Knights were typically trained in combat and chivalry, and they played a significant role in medieval warfare and society.
- The Code of Chivalry governed the behavior of knights, emphasizing virtues such as honor, loyalty, and courtesy.
Why can't you have a relationship with someone at work?
Having a relationship with a coworker can create conflicts of interest, bias, and potential ethical issues. It may impact productivity, team dynamics, and create a hostile work environment if things go sour. Many companies have policies prohibiting relationships between employees to maintain professionalism and protect the work environment.
What are your emotional and physical needs?
emotional needs r the one which consoles u when you cry and which celebrates when your happy.Physical needs r depend on age group .If your married perfect sex lyf is condidered as physical need and if ur not married kissess and hugs is said to be physical needs.....but both the needs should be fullfilled from two side to make a perfect love
Explain the chemistry and physics of fire?
Yes. Fire has both chemical and physical components. The fire fighter knows this, and plans attacks accordingly. The fire itself represents chemical changes, but heat rising is a physical property of matter. It's physics. A lot of the behavior of fire is physics because of the heat and the movement of air and materials around the fire. Fire represents something with strong chemistry and strong physics in play.
Astronaut John Young has been to space the most times, I think four times.
he obviously doesn't want you to be involved and get hit with the effects of what is going on in his life. he probably wants to make sure that you dont have to deal with the crap that he is dealing with
How do the seasons come and go in space?
In space, there are no seasons like on Earth due to the lack of atmosphere and changing tilt of the planet. However, some celestial bodies, like Mars, experience seasonal changes in temperature and weather patterns based on their orbit around the sun. These changes are driven by the planet's position relative to the sun, not by the tilt of its axis.
How do i get my girl back who i love and still has feelings for me?
Have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and listen to her perspective. Show her that you are willing to make changes and work on the relationship. Give her space and time to think things through, and respect her decisions.
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Do men recover from breakups faster than women?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Each individual processes and copes with breakups differently, regardless of gender. Factors such as personality, support system, past experiences, and the nature of the relationship play a significant role in determining how quickly someone may recover from a breakup.
