Cheating

Dollar bills.

The magic word is 'married!' There is no excitement or a feeling of being special because a married man is interested in you and these types of men are 'hunting females' and trust me, you won't end up being special to him.

You can either ignore his text or you can by saying 'not interested, don't text me again!' If you're smart you'll stay away from married men.

How is he destroying your reputation (unless you're the one he's cheating with)? You can't handle what he does, but you can handle how you act. Stop seeing him, cut off all contact and don't respond to his calls. If anyone brings him up to you, say you're not interested in talking about him and change the subject. Don't stoop to his level by badmouthing him--keep him out of sight and out of mind as much as you can. A person's reputation is very valuable. And if you can see this why cant they. If they are your ex, apparently for a reason, then you need to back off and let them take care of this situation on their own. If for whatever reason you have remained friends with this person, I would give it one heart to heart talk and after that back off. You may get pulled into their bull and why would you want that.

Yes. Period.

Women that go for married men are moochers and many are after the money if the man is older. No matter if a woman really loves a man and later finds out he's married the code and respect is you simply don't go after other wive's husbands. I've never dated a married man in my life. However, I did work with a CGA and we had to work closely and things were changing so we decided it was best he sent someone else in to do the job and he moved on. We never let anything get out of hand. It was wrong and we both knew it. Women that date married men are in for the shock of their lives. The percentage of married men ever leaving their wives, or if they do they sure want their freedom seldom ever marry the mistress. When a woman dates a married man or tries to get in between the husband and wife because she is in love with him has lost all her self respect and she'll have to pay the piper sooner or later (and it's usually sooner.)

Best answer for you, on a forum like this, get some help. A therapist can help you answer all of these questions and help you to have a better quality of life.

humans are given power of gut feeling by god, if you feel that you have suspicion on a person with whom you are supposed to spend your entire life, my earnest advise is not to go for the wedding, after all its about a lifetime commitment.

not a agony aunt yet another advise is to confront your fiance with your doubts, sort out the differences and get married.

No - you are ex's for a reason and if she has obviously moved on you should as well. Leave the past in the past and direct your interest else where.

seduce her

when she\he talks to you and dont look in to your eyes

If you truly love someone then you should only have eyes for them and flirting should be out of the question. This guy is a jerk. You have two options ... control the situation by telling him you aren't putting up with his immature nonsense or, leave! If I were you I'd pick the latter.

um... the phrase " 3 year affair" is a good sign he wants her. "3 years" is a long time

to carry on. . some things are deal breakers. . respect yourself enough to move on.

• Cheating is dishonest and selfish and there is absolutely no excuse for it. If one caves in every time they have a problem with their partner then they are immature and have not learned to communicate and discuss problems with their partner. You feel bad about cheating (a good thing) because you know it's wrong and if your partner finds out it will hurt them to the core and more importantly, you will have broken the bond of trust. You have a decision to make ... you don't love the partner you are with and you should be honest and tell them and break up or, you risk the chance of losing them in the end and that partner will end up finding out and leaving you with little regard or respect for you. Once this happens there is generally no going back and you could well find out you loved the person you were with all along. The grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener!
  

• Some people become serial cheaters because they should have stayed single. It is a myth that all individuals should get married and there are many single people that enjoy being single. The obsessed cheater is immature; self centered; has no moral values and is narcissistic to not care what their partner thinks of their cheating.

Barbara strizen

Take a risk. If you don't, then you're always going to wonder and in turn be miserable. Same thing happened here. I'm now married to the other man, we have a beautiful and happy little boy, and we're doing wonderful. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Do what makes you happy, or you will never be happy. Do you remember those things called "vows" that you took when you chose to marry your husband? I think you should seek counseling before acting out on how you feel. It doesn't appear that you have made much of an effort to try to rectify problems in your marriage. Communication is everything in a marriage and your husband just shouldn't be your lover, but your best friend. I don't see anywhere where it's written in stone that marriage is easy. Grow up! Get some help and don't hurt your husband by fooling around with other men. If after counseling you feel there is no hope in your marriage then have the guts to face your husband and tell him you want a divorce and why.

You're screwed up, bro. Dump them both and move on with your life. You don't deserve either one of them.

Many relationships can actually be mended after infidelity believe it or not. Before you find the way back to happiness after infidelity breaches your relationship you first must find the root of the infidelity. Women are much more emotional and cheat for different reasons than men do. Many times women are seeking validation of themselves when their mate often ignores them or doesn't spend adequate time kissing their backside.... You know... Telling them how perfect, wonderful and beautiful they are. Other women will cheat for fiancial gain. Ie their husband doesn't buy them enough gifts or simply isn't up to par in treating them like a goddess.

Here's the thing.... Women need everything to be perfect in order for them to stay true to one partner. The mate must be good looking, wealthy, spend TONS of time pampering the hell out of her, buying her expensive jewelry, cars etc.... In order to back on track with a woman of this type there are three things you can do.... Either go out and get a MUCH better job or hit the lottery and buy her her own island. On this island she must have servants who remind her of her everlasting beauty at each moment. The third thing is to make sure this woman stays in complete isolation because at the first site of a bigger lottery ticket, she's GONE! See what I'm saying?

Why do men cheat? Simply put.... Men cheat because they get bored of the same old thing each and everyday. That coupled with the fact that they like variety. I don't care how great the steak is....After five years of eating the same damn steak.... You see what I'm saying? Men cheat because they like variety and in most cases it's "just sex." What does that mean? It means that they view the partner as nothing more than just an object. I'm not saying they don't respect them or that they don't like them. In many cases they do. It's just that they would rarely ever choose this person over their wife who they probably love a great deal. Sex is just sex, afterall.....

By now you've probably figured out that this piece was meant to lighten the situation of the person looking this up because their significant other probably cheated on them. It's not in any wy shape or form meant to give real advice.... Hitting the lottery or buying an island are completely unrealistic unless you're 90 years old with only a cat in your will or Jay Z.

I don't condone cheating nor do I believe that women only cheat because they like to be pampered. Some women just need to have the bottom knocked out of them by a strapping young buck every now and again. It happens!

If your spouse cheated on you and you want to get things back on track here's what you need to do... Either trust them or get the F out of dodge and tell them to have a nice life! Once someone cheats, the realization that they will most likely do it again.....and again.....and again...... and again will probably set in and more than likely doomed. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. That's the only FACT in this entire thing. Good luck

• A very small percentage of online relationships seldom work out because humans have their needs to see each other and be in physical contact. There is also no way of telling who is on the other end when having an online relationship such as whether they are married; playing you for a fool; being a pervert or worse. Since he is married he kept it a secret on purpose and that is why it is called 'cheating'; he not only cheated on his wife, but you and probably several other girls and he has used all of you to please himself making him immature; irresponsible and not caring how he hurts people along the way. Once he told you he was married then it was your fault for not discontinuing the relationship and you enabled his behavior. It's time to walk away from someone as useless as this and get on with your life and meet men the good old fashion way ... face to face.

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sometimes, [in my opinion] if your around to make you feel better. But it depends on where he is going with these answers, or maybe the way he was raise, you have to remember that being who he is, and where he came from, developed his background and makes him the person you love so much. Some men can be just as secretive in their thoughts as some women. He may either have kinky thoughts about women and say disgusting things or, he may absolutely detest women for reasons only known to him. If it were my husband I'd get to the bottom of it because I'd wonder where I fit into this whole scenario. Also, if my husband uttered crude comments about ANY woman, lets just say he'd be walking sideways like a crab! LOL

Yes - I have done it.

• There are no concise statistics that men are more susceptible than women to emotional affairs. If male or females feel lonely; rejected or ignored by their spouse they can innocently find friendship in the opposite sex which runs a high risk of becoming an affair.
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• Absolutely even if they hide it, it comes our during affair or discovery of the affair and this include my ex...