Jealousy

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Can you elaborate more on why you think its ok?

Go up to the person WHEN HE/SHE IS ALONE. Ask them if they are lonely. If they are, great luck! Tell them to hang with you because you are lonely. If they agree, be as nice to them as possible. Ask them what their favourite thing to do is. Even if you hate what the like, say "I like that too! Let's do it!" BE as nice to them as possible. Hopefully they like you now!!! HAVE FUN! BE YOUR SELF< OR THEY WILL

Because he is a chauvinist! He is going by the fact he is man and this is expected of him. Thank heavens most men aren't like this.

Personally I do not understand why you let him get away with this behavior 4 more times. Anyone can make a mistake once, but then you should learn from it.

Oh, by the way, sounds like the both of you are playing little games and you are trying to make him jealous. When two people go together, then they go together. If he enjoys other women, and you have 5 men hanging around you then neither of you are ready to settle down into a relationship.

Please talk to each other and decide what each of you wants.

Good luckMarcy

It could be many different things, but the most likely could be guilt for how he treated you, insecurity, or feeling as if you may want to "get even" with him for his cheating. I would have to be more concerned with the fact that he cheated on you 5 times. That indicates a severe lack of respect for your feelings,your health and your life.

Why is he still your boyfriend..please don't settle for this guy!!! If u stay with him, try to work on these trust issues he has with you and other guys. He may just be afraid u r capable of the things he did. I think u deserve LOADS better.

The lack of trust most likely stems from his inability to keep a monogomous relationship and and his motives during interactions with the opposite sex...

In ths case, also carefully examine how he views relationships.. they will most likely have an ulterior motive in mind other than friendship... thus his instinct looks at the way you are interacting with other male friends as the same..

I find that the majority of heterosexual men are not into a friendship unless (my general concensus)

1) they have known you forever since childhood (or equivalent) days2) they are attracted to you in some way

I find with women (not all..just generally) can base a solid friendship no matter whether man or woman, without having the above requirements!

but seriously, buddy should shape up and ship out if he is in a relationship.. i would consider parting from this person or at least taking a step down from a one on one relationship because it in COMPLETELY unfair that he is holding you to standards he cannot uphold himself..

a good book to read "he's just not that into you" (can't remember the author)... it's excellent and describes thing in plain sense. look at the standards cause they are worth thinking about.

Because he knows what he did to you and is afraid that you will do the same. Isn't it funny how we will do things to others then get mad when it's done us?

hi again, its the guy, first of all ladies, if you let him cheat, (take him back) he will always cheat again. you hanging out with guys makes him feel like your looking to cheat yourself.

because he's a total jerk who does not deserve a wonderfull girl like you. DUMP HIM

• You shouldn't be trying to make anyone jealous. All it causes is drama, and emotional pain for the person that you're trying to make jealous more-so. You should put yourself in his shoes and think what if he was doing that to you.

It is not fair to be accused of something that you are not guilty of. Your wife has reason to feel the way she does. You need to find out what that reason is in order to get beyond it. Talk with her about why she is feeling the way that she does. It may or may not have anything to do with you but finding out, addressing it and being as supportive as possible to resolve the issue is necessary if you want it to stop. Although (from personal experience) there are times that all efforts may be unsuccessful. Then seeking help through a counsler (which would include you) may be necessary. If you love your wife then address it and do what ever it takes to repair and move forward. Sticks and stones may break your bones but don't let the untrue words hurt you. False accusations of wrongdoing and crime, and spreading malicious gossip about a spouse (or other member of one's family) are common forms of abuse. However, it's impossible to answer the question (as to whether or nor it is abuse) in the abstract. If you are being wrongly accused, why is your spouse making these accusations? Has she perhaps misunderstood something? Most important of all, is this part of a wider, long-standing, systematic attempt to make you feel bad? Is she trying to exericise power over you by making false accusations? If it's part of a pattern of behaviour involving wielding power over you and not a misunderstanding, then it's a form of abuse.

A jealous significant other is someone like a girlfriend boyfriend, husband, wife that is jealous of you, if you get what im saying :s

basically someone significant that's jealous bout something.

Jealousy is usually a sign of distrust within a relationship. It can also be attributed to simple human nature. We have the instincts of a predatory animal, and jealousy can be an instinctual way of "marking one's territory."

With that being said, it all depends on who the jealousy is being directed towards.

If you (or she) is making it known to the object of your jealousy (another person usually) that she is your girlfriend or you are her boyfriend, then that is generally territorial and not as harmful as the other kind of jealousy- the type where you are only telling your girlfriend/boyfriend you are jealous and not marking your territory.

Jealously is a sign of insecurity as well, and usually spells out trouble in any relationship, especially if it is bad enough that you have to ask about it.

This is something that is generally understood, so when she gets jealous she is essentially saying that she does not trust you. When you return the jealousy, she understands that you are telling her you do not trust her, which she thinks is ridiculous because why wouldn't you?

What it comes down to is communication, there are deeper issues at work here than simple jealousy, and you need to sit down and communicate with each other what they are in order to move past the jealousy.

If this is not possible, than maybe you are not in the right relationship.

Just tell him that you love him so much that you would do anything for him. let him come out with you all the time, and don't give any other guys the time of day except him. make sure that you are always staring at him and when he asks you why just say "i am so lucky to have an amazing person in my life and you are the only guy for me" that should reasure him.

Ask yourself honestly if you have given him any cause whatsoever to be jealous, or to feel insecure in your relationship. If the answer is "no", then my advice would be to run a mile in the opposite direction, as I know from experience jealous men become more and more controlling the longer you are with them. Never marry a jealous man, as your life will be made miserable by his demands and insecurities.

The alternative would be to tell your b/friend firmly you do not intend to pander to his jealousy as you have never been unfaithful to him, and from then on you refuse to react to any jealous remarks he makes to you. Then you just hope that in time he will come to feel more secure the longer you are together.

If your boyfriend still loves you, there is no problem with this.

But if you find that he is spending more time in contacting with his ex one, you should think of tell it him straight out, ask him if he still loves you. Remember, not to seem jealous as you do so.

Hope you and he will overcome this.

Good luck

Well, if you're sibling seems a little sad when you get something and they don't, that means they're jealous. When you're mom gets you something from the store and your sibling asks if your mom got anything for them, that means they're jealous.

This young man is acting up according to his age. There is nothing better for a young man (or woman) than to have 2 people of the opposite sex interested in them. He's playing this game for all it's worth and YOU have to break the chain. Since he's your ex, then you are free to date anyone you like ... do it! If he cares for you then you'll be together and if he doesn't, still gets jealous at least you know one thing about him "he wants his cake and eat it too." He wants to have you waiting on the sidelines until he has decided what young woman he wants to be with. Don't let him do that to you. By the way, in case your best friend is dating your ex boyfriend, that's no friend! If she hasn't bothered to date him then she's one smart girl. No man or woman should come between brothers, sisters, or friends. Good luck Marcy

It's natural for siblings to be jealous of their siblings especially if they are younger.

People show jealousy in a variety of bad manners, for example if someone is jealous about your new shoe they may tell someone that it doesn't look good on you. But jealousy about other peoples relationships is far worse because someone tries to spread false information about the two people in an affair so that so how they break up or fail to be happy that's if they listen to them. A jealous person will compare your relationship to some other people so that you can see what is missing in yours such that you fail to appreciate your relationship. They will spread rumors that are not true in public such that you break up. The jealous person at times wants all that you have and when in their relationship will keep on comparing their own to other peoples relationship. Jealous people also can abuse those in a relationship with words like you are not meant for each other or like i wonder what he sees in that small and short woman. They never accept that good things are happening in your relationship.

How to make ur mate jealous... 1.Go out with the boy she fancies 2.Become great mates with everyone and become popular 3.Always wear the new trends and become stylish This is how i made my best friend jealous when she said i was a tiny prick.

being jealous is a feeling. if you are jealous of your friends or something talk to them. if you are jealous because your parents dont get you things your friends get then tell your parents how you feel. try it now and see if it works, communicating is the best way to get questions answered

#1 Don't call them a prudeFind out why they do not want to open up with the person.Ask them why.And if they don't want to open up just leave them alone!The person has to feel safe and secure with you before they will open up. Trusting you will use the private and personal information to better their existence and not use it against them, ever.

You need to be more secure in your relationship with your boyfriend and more trusting of your friend. If you find that it seems more than what it should be then you should step in and sit down and talk with both of them.

well , if someone is jealous with someone then they would get angry , sad *

I think it would be unlikely that Asperger's Syndrome (AS) would be misidentified as high IQ; however, a person with Asperger's Syndrome might also have a high IQ. A person with AS will have various symptoms, some of which might cause a misdiagnosis of an attention deficit disorder (ADD or ADHD), obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), a learning disability, or other conditions. As an example, it seems unlikely that a medical professional would explain rarely speaking, an intense interest in doorknobs, lack of eye contact, or experiencing extreme anxiety when lights flash as having a high IQ.

A person can have both Asperger's Syndrome and a high IQ, only Asperger's Syndrome, or only a high IQ. Some people with Asperger's Syndrome have a high IQ. Most people with a high IQ do not have Asperger's Syndrome.

Because people don't like you cheating with their wife.

It's not a easy going relationship. It's uncompromising. If your in this type of relationship then it probably won't work out.

an OBVIOUS discrepancy. but no, sorry. sin jealous is wanting something so much that you don't have that you hate the person who has it. god jealous is loving us so much he wants us to be with him. anyways we are rightfully his as his creation. its also translated as "zealous". people are zealous for god because he is jealous for us. like a husband: he wouldn't say, yes wife, go be happy with whoever and do whatever! He would love her and protect her and keep her and if she was taken away, he would be jealous for her.

What's there to be jealous. Do you expect your boyfriend to hang out with other girls or Uncle & aunties.

Obviously he is supposed to hang out with his own friends and that too boys. Its something very natural.

I don't know, are you? You are the only one who can answer that and do something about it.

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I wouldn't marry under those circumstances. Big mistake. Don't do it.