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Manners and Etiquette

The rules of social conduct, and procedures for interaction in polite society and official life. This is grease that makes the wheels of human congress turn smoothly. From the formal addressing of an envelope, to where to seat people at a dinner party, from the correct way to answer a business phone to the intricacies of wedding planning, we will try to find answers to all of your quandaries and do so in the most mannerly fashion possible.

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Should a widow send thank you notes for funeral flowers?

Yes, that would be polite to do. It is always alright to send thank you notes in most situations. I am truly sorry for the widow we speak of , I wish the best for you.

In cases of extreme bereavement, the bereaved may designate someone to write the Thank you notes for him or her.

How do you tip for a massage?

  • It is generally 15% of the total bill, so leave the tip until you are going to pay the cashier.

What is the proper way to eat at a dinner table?

I suppose you're talking about in America. Your back should be up straight, and your elbows should be off the table. Take small bites, and chew with your mouth closed. Use napkins to keep you and your area clean.

How do you slap girls butt without getting is any trouble?

All you do is walk past her and swing your hand backwards but,you have to be in a crowd or in a place with a lot of people.You can squeeze as hard as you want!!!!

Should bullies be prosecuted?

yes because the school/college/work place would not want the poplice to be at ur place of work that its why tou are always told to tell someone at your place of work to talk to about it.the police can prosecute the bullies but you only need evidence i.e scars,marks or a witness.

What are the manners in public places?

Always, the usual courtesies, plus things like giving the right of way on a sidewalk, holding the door for ladies or elders or anyone obviously struggling, saying " Excuse me." or " I beg your pardon ." if you inadverdantly bump into someone.Keeping your place in line.Keeping your fingers out of any orifice and not scratching , because someone WILL see you, no matter how unobtrusive you may think you are being.Being careful to cover coughs and sneezes so as not to spread droplet infections . Making sure you are decently covered for the place you are at. Not using profane or vulgar language , and modulating your voice to be situation-appropiate.

Is it good manners to place your napkin over your plate when finished?

There may be food residue on your plate, which will make the napkin even less clean than ever. Your best bet is to fold it with the cleanest part outwards and place it to the left of your plate.

What is proper attire to wear to a baby shower?

Check with the hostess of the shower, she should be able to guide you in this. Otherwise, place it is being held, time of day, week and year will effect the decision. A garden party in spring, or a restaurant party after work in the city are examples of what this means.

What should you write in your guy friends birthday card?

For A Special Boyfriend On His Birthday

Just being with you, I realize every day

You're so special to me, more than words could say.

Everything that's wonderful, is wished for you today

Because you're someone special, in a warm, wonderful way.

And all the happiness you bring, to others all year through

Is what is wished, with loving thoughts, especially for you.

Happy Birthday

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Title for a lady?

If you are using "lady" meaning a person of feminine gender, you may use:

Missus (Mrs.) used when addressing a married woman.

Miss used when addressing an unmarried woman.

Ms. used when addressing of indeterminate marital status.

Mistress, is an antiquated term for a woman who runs her husband's (or sometimes father's) household - these days it has other meanings.

Madame, is a word borrowed from the French and used when addressing a woman of indeterminate marital status - most frequently by someone of lesser station.

Ma'am, is commonly used in the southern United States when addressing any woman.

If the woman in question holds a doctorate she is addressed as Doctor Whomever

A woman Judge is Your Honour.

A woman Mayor or other personage of political title is referred to as The Honourable, whomever.

A woman of the cloth is address as Story, Reverend, Sister, Reverend Mother, Rabbi, etc.

A woman in any branch of the Armed Forces is addressed by her rank or simply Ma'am.

If you are referring to a woman who is married to a Lord or gentleman then the term Lady is used, often with her husband's (and these days her own) titled lands. ie. Alice, Lady Belfor.

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Can a younger adult sister sit on her older adult brother's lap just for fun and with innocent intention?

When that is done, something dirty is normally implyed, so therefore I must say no. If siblings do stuff like that with one another, that is called incest, which is discusting. People in the olden days would have children with family members and that would result in disorders and body deformations. They have the same blood, they came from within the same person, so that is very wrong.

Another PerspectiveThe question, as asked, does not indicate the age of the siblings involved. Toddlers and very young girls should feel free to sit on the lap of an older brother. Naturally, once a girl passes through puberty, propriety dictates that people act differently.

Unfortunately, there are many who have extreme views on anything that may even be remotely linked to sexual activity.

How do you sign a letter from a married couple?

Depending on the degree of formality in the letter it can be Mr. and Mrs. Smith, or John and Jane Smith.

Of course if the couple retained their pre-married names, you would use John Smith and Jane Doe (or Jane Doe and John Smith) ;)

What should you bring to a cocktail party?

It is typical to bring what is termed a 'hostess gift.' It can be flowers, a bottle of wine, a small gift such as a box of nuts or candy, perhaps a small dish or a box of coffee. And a thank you note is always a touch of class!

What do you put in a birthday party invitation?

Date, (day, month),

Time (when it will start and when it will end),

Place (full address as well as extra information, ie use side gate, this is a garden party)

Name of the guest of Honour,

Any special instructions (ie surprise party, please arrive 1/2 hour early or no gifts please, or bring a bathing suit this is a pool party).

What should you do if someone objects during your wedding ceremony?

Objecting at a wedding ceremony can be very hurtful and embarrassing so all objections should be given before the wedding. Never do to others what you wouldn't want someone to do to you. Making a public spectacle to highlight your objections would suggest a bitter motive. Many service orders no longer even include the option for obvious reasons.

However if the people being married are committing a crime by getting married you must object. Of course you can only object for a valid legal reason, like bigamy; not because you simply don't like the idea of the two people getting married. The Minister requires anyone to "show just cause" why they cannot be married. Note the word "just", this means a cause that would be sustained in a court of law.

How do you address an Episcopalian priest and his wife on a formal invitation?

Traditionally one writes The Reverend Adam Benson and Mrs. Benson. (The use of The Reverend and Mrs. Adam Benson is traditionally considered just a shade uneducated). However, I would expect people to be tolerant and not take such details too seriously.

Do you think that good manners are infectious and why?

For some, not all, good manners can be infectious because good manners in the right places polish the person's personality and rounds out their character. Just because some people may lead a life that is more laid back and they are not into high social events where manners are most expected doesn't mean that person is a lesser individual.

The purpose of manners is to make social interactions work more smoothly. When things go more smoothly, it increases the likelihood that people will consider the needs of others in addition to their own. Therefore, one person showing consideration for others can have a beneficial effect on everyone. However, manners are learned behavior, and it is unlikely that exposure to good manners will make a boorish person more mannerly unless that person truly wants to learn and change.

What do you say to someone whose had a tough life?

You say the same as you would to anyone. If a person has had a tough life, I'm sure that cheerful subject matter is always welcome. If all the person wants to talk about is their tough life, just be patient and let them talk. You only need to say something if asked. Don't forget, about half the people you will meet in your life will have had a 'tough' life, you just won't be aware of it.

What do you do when someone does not answer your invitation to an event?

It is rude for the receiver of an invitation to not answer the mailed invitation or at least phone or email the person to let them know if they are coming or not. However, it is more common than one thinks. The best thing to telephone that person and if they do not answer after two attempts then email them (keep the email) and if they do not respond cross them off your list of guests. If they try to come to the event then it's fine to tell them they had not answered their invitation and 'no admittance.'

What is the formal address on an envelope for a married couple when the wife is a doctor?

  • The envelope should read: Mr. John Doe & Dr. Jane Doe. If you don't know her first name then put: Mr. & Dr. John Doe.

What is a good comeback when a chick calls you gay?

Hey you don't turn off females that much

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Say to her, "Whatever makes you feel better about your own sexuality..." say to her: that's funny hearing that from a chick with a dick.

Can you wear shorts to a funeral?

No. It is disrespectful and not the place to wear them. A funeral is like church where you wear an appropriate outfit.

What are the kinds of modesty?

when someone doesn't think too highly of themselves for example

Jane: Oh my god Sasha you look GORGEOUS today!

Sasha: Oh wow thank you that's so kind of you :)! But i don't look THAT good. Now you, you look great!

Sasha is modest modesty is usually seen as a good thing as long as the person doesn't think poorly of themselves
Similar to shy but used for old fashion values concerning dress & how revealing.
mod·es·ty (md-st)n.1. The state or quality of being modest.

2. Reserve or propriety in speech, dress, or behavior.

3. Lack of pretentiousness; simplicity.

When buying a wedding shower gift and cannot go to the wedding do you still have to buy a gift?

Yes, if your child plays with the child having the birthday or goes to school with them. You could get a gift, card and take your child over to let them hand it to them at an earlier date.

Yes, if the child is a relative or the child of a friend that you are close to. If it's just a co-workers child or a child of someone you don't know well, no.