Peer Pressure

• Having a sexual relationship should be a beautiful experience and not just something to boast about. You should have simply told them the truth that you did not have sex even if they teased you about it. It's time to tell your close friends and the person you like the truth. Let them know you thought just said you had sex for fear you wouldn't fit in with the group. Honesty is the best policy.

Yes, A conclusion is ending up on what your story is mainly about, So, Today at the Fair, I had an amazing time! I hope I can go again soon.

No, it's mostly untrue anyway. No you should not worry about gossip unless you are the one who is gossiping. A pastor once told a story and it went like this, " There once was a man who spoke untruthfully of his neighbor. The man envied his neighbor for being more successful and handsome than himself, so it made him feel better to bring someone else down to his level by slandering him. One day the neighbor found out about this gossip and was very disappointed in his neighbor. He went to the gossiping neighbor's home and took a feather pillow with him. He said, 'hello neighbor, how good to see you, come with me.' The gossiping man went with his neighbor to a windy hill that overlooked the whole town. Suddenly the man who had been slandered and lied about took the pillow he had brought with him and shredded it, feathers blowing everywhere. He then said, 'neighbor, it hurts me that you have lied about me and slandered my name'. The bad gossiping man genuinely responded, 'I am so sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you but to make you equal to myself instead of always being above me in some way. Please forgive me.' So the neighbor who had been slandered responded, 'I can forgive you, but you have now ruined my reputation, and once you have said something, there is no way to un-say it. It is nearly impossible to end the quickly traveling rumors you have told about me. As impossible as it is to collect all those feathers and rebuild this pillow.'" Gossip is fast to travel and very difficult to unsay, but just like the feathers, eventually it all blows over, but do not forget the harm gossiping can do to a person.

There is not one definition of normal. Everyone is different. That is what makes people beautiful and unique. Asian eyes ARE normal on Asian girls. Everybody is just right as they were created.

Asian eyes are as beautiful as European/non-slanted eyes and anyone who tells you different is immature and beyond your consideration.

However, if you really dislike the shape of your eyes you could invest on an Asian Blepharoplasty, which is a surgery in which the skin of the eyes is reshaped to create an eyelid crease.

But don't let others' opinions influence what you do. You are beautiful just the way you are! How would people feel if Caucasian girls had their epicanthal folds enhanced?

You stand up and be a bigger person and let them know that you dont see her that way and you would appreciate the comments stop. Find something about the people who are picking her apart and point it out, they will not like it. Dont over think the sex part. If something does happen you better be sure that she understands how you feel about her, dont use her for your first sexual experience then dump her, that would be really mean......Be a good person and become a better man... Have some compassion for the Bettys out their, they have feelings too....

Sounds like you two are close enough friends for you to ask him if it would be all right for you to kiss him. If he says yes, give it a try and see where it goes. But you have to be comfortable with what you're risking.

He may freak out -- especially if he gets turned on. He may pull away from you and "cool" your friendship. He may say no, you can't kiss me. (If he does, don't push it. That is almost certain to hurt the friendship.) And if he says yes, be prepared for him to ask that you keep it very, very secret!

Haha lol dont let go of him, or start making out with him. Or you could just leave him for me. lol that was a joke but seriously dont let him go or just start making out with him maybee hes prude and you should teach him something.

Oh well I am a 10th grader and my ex was like that so what I did was Start kissing her, but I guess she didnt want to because she later pulled away and I let her but she finally got use to it after a while and started kissing me when I wasnt thinking of kissing her, so you could just try that,I dont know if you already have but you can talk to him about it and try and convince him to atleast try, and sorry for that joke maybee it was a little to rude lol.

The best thing to do is to talk to him. Tell him how you feel about him and how uncomfortable you are when he says 'bye future wife'. Talking things over, will help you understand his perspective in a dept form. When you talk to him, make him realize that what he's saying to you, is not appropriate. Hopefully, after talking to him, everything will be fine.

To play hard to get without being mean you could tell a boy that you can't do or go to a place with him because you have a family emergency or a similar excuse. The projected outcome is that he'll want you more because he thinks he can't have you.

Be cause if you did , you're not going to have a voice . It's okay to know their opinions about the situation , what they think about it and what they think you should do . But you have to listen to your self too . You have to know what you want , need and what you feel about the decision you should make or the thing you need an advice with or any other matter . Listening to their opinions and thoughts can make you do the right decisions and do the right things . They can be very helpful . But be careful , they can make you do the wrong thing and put you in an ugly situation . If you need help , ask the right people like family and friends . Good friends of course . And it's always important what you think first . And of course , having good luck can be very handy .

Probably not. The 9 year old probably hasn't started puberty yet and really doesn't have much if any idea what sex is. The 13 year old doesn't either, but his hormones are starting to flow and he is starting to get interested in the process. Even if the 9 year old is willing, neither of you is really very good at keeping secrets and if your parents found out, it probably wouldn't be very good for either of you.

painful, use lots of spit or lube

First, I would not recommend trying to ruin her life. I'll tell you why. It might feel good at the time, but then it will come back to hurt you later on. You will also be acting just like her-- and do you really want to do that? Another thing to consider, regarding losing your friends. If you are talking about middle school or high school, you are talking about kids who are often immature. They may have seemed like your friends, but if they were really your friends, nobody would be able to steal them away. A good friend is loyal and does not believe gossip about you.

So, while this is a painful and unfair experience, the good news is that it's temporary (her popularity will be temporary too-- wait and see). You will soon meet better people and make better friends. It may not seem like it now, but it will happen. Right now, you may really want revenge, but that never works out well. Fortunately, the school year is almost over, and soon you won't have to be around any of these kids. So, focus on keeping busy. Do some volunteer work. Learn something new, like a new language. Take an interesting course that lets you be creative and introduces you to new people. But don't come down to her level and don't become bitter. I survived middle school and high school (I was bullied and teased a lot) and I ended up with some very good friends and a good career. So will you!

Everybody that has a heart does because it is heartbreaking to be mean!

Peer pressure is being urged to do what your friends (peers) are doing, even if you don't really want to do it, in order to "fit in" with the group. For example, if you see your friends skipping school or smoking illegal drugs, you might go and do it -- not because you actually want to, but only to be able to hang with your friends.

If all of your friends are smoking but you are the only one who's not they might be saying "try it its good" and they keep putting pressure on you more and more until you try it.

It's a group thing, doing the same activities can bring the group closer together and bring a sense of belonging. It can be good when you're doing good stuff, but bad when the group gathers around bad stuff : shoplifting, smoking, skipping school, bullying others.

There is also such a thing as "good" peer pressure. For example, if you need to finish an essay but your friends are telling you to go outside and play. You have to choose what's right to do, because the other students will all do their essays. No one is making you go outside and play, and you still want to, but you can stop yourself and finish your essay instead.

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Peer pressure means conforming to what your peers have made the "expected" behavior.

Girls can be over obsessed in popularity and want guys to like them or even other girls to like them and be accepted so they will do anything to fit in. It is basicly what teachers tell you. Listen to them they were teenagers once to. They know a lot.

walk in with a bunch of people and then when someones ask you where is your date say prob in the restroom. and then slow dance with someone that you are good friends with n if they ask is that your bf or gf say dont ruin the moment.. ha good luck

This is the ability to think clearly and rationally. This ability also involves the ability to think independently and be reflective. one with this type of skills can understand logical connections.

The statistics for clothing as a result of peer pressure are alarming especially for teens. Over 65 percent of clothing trends are influenced by peer pressure.

he might be gay, or he thinks you look weird or something

Guys do it because it gives them a rush they feel good because they doing something they shouldn't. Like breaking the law or stealing something its exciting for them. Its sad to say but its true but if a guy really loves someone he will ignore the feeling and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about his girlfriend. Don't worry if someone's cheating on you there is always on guy who will never.

you do drugs smoke get high and have sex under the age of 18...good enough for you?