What is the condition in which people do not openly show emotion?
This isn't something that is a condition. Some people can just openly show there emotions and some cant. I think also it depends on how the relationship is going and if true love is there. True love is unconditional and between the two anything should be able to be shared or you will never move on and get out of that rut.
How do you handle manipulative people?
You don't. If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, then if they're manipulating you, they don't care about you. Manipulative people are often very self-absorbed or even narcissistic. It's best to not let yourself feet dragged down, and just end the relationship with them. It'll only hurt you and be harder to get over the longer you're around it.
I personally think violence is never the answer, but some people are ghetto so they start to beat up people.
Human behavior has always included violence. Generally, the violence is triggered by fear, anger, frustration, ignorance, or occasionally some form of mental disease or condition. Humans are prone to violence as a form of our innate trait to defend our lives.
When a group of people gang up on a person to beat them up, it's a form of group empowerment, usually fired by adrenalin. But it still based on the triggers mentioned above.
I have always hated violence. Brings up nothing. Makes everything worse. I think those people who fight have problems that's all.
How can you recognize a 'narcissist'?
(Note: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that can only be identified by a mental health professional who has examined the person in question. Other than that, "narcissist" is a word meaning "loves oneself excessively" and is susceptible to varying interpretations.)
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A Narcissist is someone who takes their self-esteem from the way others view them. Their personality will therefore center around how he or she is viewed.
Narcissism looks like this... Your partner treats you and perhaps your children very different in private than in public. In public he may ignore you giving all of his attention to others, or pretend to be the perfect husband or father, while in private he may be sarcastic, haughty and insulting. He may put people down behind their back. He may have a very inflated sense of entitlement and ego, thinking he deserves things that he hasn't worked for or earned and he may manipulate situations for attention, acting a bit too good to be true. This can fool people and so few of them will believe how he talks to his family in private (I say 'he', because I write from our experience, but there are plenty of abusive women with narcissism). He may also show little or no regard for your well being or your feelings.
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Unfortunately that's not all...
He may lie about you or paint a bad picture of you to gain sympathy from others and to justify his own bad behaviour. You probably have no idea of all of the lies he is telling you and the bad things he may be saying about you to others ...
If he makes fights when you try and talk about money he may be hiding credit cards or money transactions from you and his narcissism will cause him to pretend these fights are your fault.
Many narcissists are obsessed by the fantasy of an ideal relationship that is 'perfect' (and therefore fantasy!) and are skilled liars. So if the above symptoms of narcissism describe your partner, you should also be aware that he may habitually have secret crushes on other women, be having affairs, using pornography habitually, and/or conducting 'cyber' affairs (while lying that he is single) all without you having any knowledge of this. If you notice that your partners mind is often somewhere else, and they show narcissistic tendencies, this could be the reason. This obsession with his own inner fantasy life is part of what makes him unavailable, impatient and cross with you. It is a major symptom of the disorder.
Not all people with narcissism are physically abusive, but it is also a significant indicator that you will wind up being part of a domestic violent marriage. The physical abuse is not always perpetrated by the narcissist either. It is normal to become very angry with someone who manipulates you and puts you down. It is normal after years of this treatment, (especially if you discover that they have been lying to and cheating on you) to even want to kill them or wish them dead, so getting the right help and support is very important, and can be very hard to find.
There are very few people who understand narcissism or believe there is any cure, and those who say to 'leave and have no contact' are giving you very dangerous advice. If you want to leave, please get advice first on how to do it safely.
Trying to diagnose someone with a disorder is not a really a good idea when there are many who will then say that you must divorce them and have no contact and that there is no cure.
If your partner displays this behaviour it is not important to figure out the correct diagnosis, what you need to do is take steps to protect yourself and save your marriage before it is too late.
My husband was diagnosed NPD and yet still he got better and we have a great marriage now. We help partners of narcissists save their marriages too.
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WRONG. The correct answer is - you can not recognize a narcissist. At least not a smart, experienced narcissist. It is a matter of survival for them to not let anyone know there true nature. (See note at top of page)
Your husband is abusive and now is going to anger management your question is do you go home?
Ask the person in charge or the anger management class how your husband is doing. When he/she feels your husband is dealing with his anger well, go back home and see if your husband is ok. If he is not, and was only pretending, a divorce is truly the best option
This is a genetic predisposition that dates back to the tribal emergence of modern humans over Neanderthals, roughly 50,000 years ago. The sexual division of community labor separated men and women into hunters and gatherers. Productivity for a female-gatherer was based on endurance and extended hours of lower-level exertion. A male, however, was expected to hunt, which required extensive/silent waiting/watching, punctuated with relatively brief intervals of extreme exertion. These inherited characteristics remain with us today and are understood by marketing professionals who, for example, design store-layouts that will accommodate males, females or both separately. Men burst into a store, find the first suitable item as quickly as possible, tie it on their cars and leave, whereas women are content to pick through every rack in a store as if it were a field of berries. To a woman, a man who silently watches television whenever he is home from work appears to be "lazy". To a man, a woman is ... well, that is outside the scope of this question.
Most men are lazy because they do not get enough sex!
Is it possible to have Histrionic Personality Disorder and have a great fear of sexual contact?
Histrionic Personality Disorder is a psychiatric disorder that is characterized by engaging in risky and inappropriate behaviors for attention. Though patients often exhibit provocative behavior, that is only one symptom out of many, so a person could theoretically still have the condition, but also have a fear of sexual contact.
What is the 'stockholm syndrome'?
Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological response that is sometimes seen in abducted hostages. The hostage(s) show signs of loyalty to the kidnapper, because sub-consciously, they think that if they get along better with the kidnapper, the kidnapper will be nicer to them and won't do them much harm or kill them, and may even release them.
What are signs of controlling behavior?
Isolating you from your friends or family. Not letting you go out of the house without him, ie. grocery store, mall, post office, relatives. Not letting you call or talk to people who are close to you. Blaming you for things that are irrelavant, ie. not picking the right food to cook for dinner, not cleaning something in the house. etc. "If you would of cooked dinner by the time I would of gotten home, I wouldn't of had to hit you, So it's you fault. You make me do it." Having to give your partner your paycheck, show receipts for what you bought, giving you an allowance. emotional abuse: putting you down, name calling, telling you that you are worthless, telling you that you are crazy physical abuse: pushing, shoving, slapping, hitting, kicking, spitting, punching, etc.
Should you ignore your narcissist when he is abusive?
Yes, you should ignore him or anybody who is abusive. The truth is: nobody is perfect and sometimes we need people to teach us a lesson. Ignoring him is the best thing you could do for him and for YOU. If he really loves you, he will eventually realize he made a mistake but this would only happen if you ignore him long enough, and this means, ignoring his first attempts to contact you, it is hard but at the end it is worth it. Good luck =)
How do you deal with angry lovers?
You deal with them by noticing the tendency early on and not becoming involved. They do not improve with time. They can become physically dangerous, so make your plans to leave them behind. You may need to change your locks, leave town for a period of time and so on, depending on your perception of the situation. Definitely do avoid places that you shared in common.
Why do men tend to tend to take out their stress on their women not their friends?
i feel we all tend to take out our stress on those closest to us. men especially do not like to talk to other men about stress as it makes them appear less manly. they take it out on their women because they feel (wrongly sometimes) that women are more understanding and that they will be more tolerant. another reason that we take stress out on those dearest to us is that we feel secure with these people and that we wil not be judged for the opinions etc that we have.
What is extremely self-serving personality?
Narcissists are self-absorbed, ego-centric, selfish, vain people whose interaction with others is based largely, if not exclusively, on what they can derive from -- or "get out of" -- other people. They have little if any regard for the feelings or needs of others. They are "users" who manipulate people emotionally and frequently end relationships when they perceive there's nothing in it for them of if they think the exchange is unfair. There are hundreds, if not thousands, of questions related to narcissism on this site. Use the search tool at the top to look for them.
Why are there so many bad boyfriends?
There are many reasons why someone may exhibit harmful behavior in a relationship, such as lack of emotional intelligence, poor communication skills, or unresolved personal issues. It's important to recognize red flags and prioritize healthy boundaries in relationships to avoid being with a bad partner. Communication, mutual respect, and self-awareness are key components of a successful and fulfilling relationship.
Why do women like to be humilated?
It's not accurate to say that all women like to be humiliated. Preferences for sexual activities and dynamics vary greatly among individuals regardless of gender. It's important to communicate openly and respectfully within a relationship to ensure that both partners are comfortable and can explore their desires in a consensual manner.
It's not mixed emotions on his part--he enjoys having sex with you but is fully aware that he doesn't have any romantic feelings for you. If he did, he would make it obvious that he wants to date you. He may tell you he "doesn't want/need a relationship" or that you mean more to him than just a friend because it's not in his interests to be honest with you. If he was fully honest with you--he enjoys the sex but has no interest in dating you--you'd be (rightfully) angry and upset and you might cut off the sex he's getting. Can you accept being only sex buddies? Will you accept the time when he no longer is interested in you sexually and starts dating someone else? Are you comfortable with being someone's backup or easy available option? This is not meant to be hurtful, but this is how he is treating you. It's not what a true friend acts. If you truly want to see how he feels, tell him, "I would like to be an actual relationship with you. Do you agree?" If he hedges or gives excuses, you know exactly where you stand with him.
Why is there so much domestic violence?
Many reasons. Mental problems, differences in values, jealousy, betrayal, alcoholism, mistreatment, so many that trying to list them would take a lot of time and letters. Domestic violence is not normal behavior, it is just how violent people act. I think it is because some people don't respect each other.
Which age group is most likey to suffer domestic violence?
Research has shown that women between the ages of 18-34 are at the highest risk of experiencing domestic violence. However, it is important to note that domestic violence can affect individuals across all age groups.
Causes of domestic violence in families?
Reason can be many, Cultural difference if the marriage inter-caste, Monetary factors, Shying away from responsibilities, Medical reasons, Psychological problems, Joint Family adjustments and various other reasons.
Why are some men so controlling?
They don't know any better you have to whip them into shape. Sometimes it is even a test, before me and my boyfriend started dating and i thought he was being selfish, but he was really just giving me that test.
What is the percent of marriages that end because of domestic violence?
On average, studies estimate that around 30% of marriages that end do so as a result of domestic violence. This can vary depending on the population being studied and the methodology used in research.
When is Victimization most likely to occur?
Victimization is most likely to occur when individuals are in vulnerable situations, such as being alone in an unsafe area, under the influence of alcohol or drugs, or when carrying valuable items. It can also happen in situations where there is a power imbalance, such as in cases of domestic abuse or workplace harassment.
What percentage of children are abused in the US each year?
You will never get a correct percentage on this because many abuses are never reported to the police. Most of the percentages come from hospital reports or doctor's reports. Parents who have children come into ER with their children suffering from anything from broken limbs to bad bruises or welts on their little bodies.
A victim is anyone who suffers from a crime, abuse, bullying, malpractice, an accident, an illness, or a natural disaster.
In the case of violence, a victimizer or criminal is who hurts the victim. Sometimes the victimizer has a more specific term based on what they do. A bully would victimize someone with bullying, a rapist victimizes someone sexually, and an arsonist victimizes someone using fire.
In the case of accidents, it is the other person or their property (such as a car under their control) that harms the victim.
In the case of malpractice, it is whatever professional who did the malpractice. You could be the victim of a bad doctor, bad lawyer, etc. And in some cases, it might be an honest mistake.