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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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It's wrong to keep seeing ex boyfriends while you have a new boyfriend and I think you already knew the answer to that question. Put it this way ... how would you like your new boyfriend seeing some of his ex girlfriends? You may say you don't mind, but I highly doubt that and I think it would bother you. You shouldn't have a problem making a choice here at all. If you love your new boyfriend then give up the ex's! No, your new boyfriend is not over-possessive and yes, he probably does feel threatened that you may go back with one of your ex boyfriends. In most cases when you split-up from a boyfriend he moves on and so should you. I was married before and although my ex's brothers and a sister wanted to keep in touch with me, I met with them to express my feelings. I cared a lot for them, but that was my past life and it wouldn't have worked out well because my ex would surely be around and I didn't think it was fair to my 2nd husband. It was time to move on with my new life. I hope you really think of this and stop seeing those ex's and have a good relationship with your new boyfriend. Good luck Marcy omg marcy your questions are everywhere O.o X.x
You can't trust her anymore. Give up.
Being in jail or prison isn't the best experience anyone can have. Depending on what he was in jail for, I would rethink about getting back with him. IF, he is dealing drugs, belongs to a gang, or steals, get rid of this guy. Crime has gone back to the 20s of Al Capone with drive-by shootings (drug deals gone bad or turf searching by other gangs.) Drive-bys weren't just invented in this generation. If he is a nice guy and made one bad mistake, then go for a walk and ask him what's wrong. He may not want to talk about it, but if he does, listen! Don't interrupt him and let him get it off his chest. Marcy
Get out with what's left of your pride.
Answer Make sure that you two still stay in contact with each other, by e-mail's, phone calls and letters to each other. Just because he is talking to his ex doesn't mean that they are dating. They could still be friends. Don't get jealous, it will just make the distance seem even further. My sister is dating a guy but she is still friends with her ex. Even her boyfriend and her ex get along with each other. You just have to be grown up about it. Good luck to the both of you:)What does it mean if your wife leaves but has the house key and clothes at home?
being female, i would have to say she is planning on coming back. her return could be to collect her belongings and move on. or, she just needs some time to cool off at the moment, think things over. if she made it clear upon her exist she wasn't coming back, i would suggest changing the locks and packing up her clothes and other personal belongings and informing her she has 30 days in which to collect or all will be given to a local charity. good luck.
"Ex" means that two people are no longer going together. While a small percentage can become friends most can't and move on. In his own way he feels bad he doesn't have the same feelings he once had for you (happens to a lot of us) and hates to see the hurt he has caused you and feels so guilty he probably wants to remain friends. He loves you as a person, but not as a lover. He does care what happens to you and hopes you move on with your life. I hope you do too. The hurt will eventually go away and you're heart will open up again and you'll find the right guy for you. Start going out with girlfriends and having a little fun and when you are ready start getting back into the dating circuit. Good luck
How do you get over a controlling man who is your best friend?
If you wish to continue this one-sided relationship, detachment might be the answer. You let go with love, have no expectations of the person. I knew a woman once who told us about her husband who used to have "kinniptions." One day she walked out of the room. He stopped ranting. He found out that it is no fun to rant without someone to scream at. She never allowed this kind of abuse to happen again. I think you should consider the question: Is this friendship? Probably best to drop the so-called friend.
Whenever you are with your girlfriend you always see a yellow butterfly why is that?
your tripping man
Your best friends dating ex boyfriends?
that is a really tough one to get over just as you have got over you past boyfriend your BEST friend than gets something going with them.
I bet what you are thinking at the moment "some friend she turned out to be!"
But then your just as bad try to support her without getting to involved try to distance yourself when she and your ex are together. Hang with other friends until you feel ready the last thing you want to do is break friends with your best friend because it just makes you look jealous.
What is the three R's of avoiding domestic violence?
Recognize , resist , and report ( forgot remove yourself)
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Legally, NO YOU CAN NOT! She has the right to have you arrested for theft. Your best bet is to just chop it as a lost, or take her to court and file a civil suit! good luck
What if your ex is in love and pregnant by someone else but she tells you she miss you?
Don't read into it. Just be her friend and if that's not enough tell her and just walk away. It sucks but we all have to learn to deal.
Should you reconcile with your husband after you cheated?
I think the question really is, what is he willing to do with this information? You should expect to go through hoops and counseling to get things back on track--not ever an easy thing to do.
Answer: Does your husband want a reconciliation? Cheating is adultery, the ultimate form of deceit, a violation of a trust, and a horrific defilement of the marriage bed. Adultery wreaks havoc in families and the hurt can be unbearable. Adultery in detestable in God's eyes.
What does it mean if your boyfriend wants to take a break and still be friends?
That is complicated. Well, if he didn't ask you to be friends wit him den give him some time and see the way he reacts around you. If its a bad sign then dat means he's ova u!!
How do you avoid your ex boyfriend from messaging and calling you?
Call upon the Daemon God Cthulhu to cleanse your relationship!
For the sacrifice of three human children he will make it clear to your ex that it is over and that you should both move on to other people!
HAIL CTHULU!
it means he cant commet and wants it to be over so its time to breake up with him.
It seems she may want to keep you as an option waiting in the wings in case her marriage does not work out the way she wants then she has something/someone to fall back on - this is just plain wrong. It would be in your best interest to cut all ties and contact with this person, let go and move forward with your life and do what is best for you. Don't allow someone to control or treat you in such a manner for their own selfish needs.
Explain on how is every person like all other person?
Every person is like every person because we're all part of the human race.
Every person is like some other people because we all have a cultural background where we have similar beliefs, values, ethics, knowledge, attitudes, or any combination of these traits.
and every person is like no other person because we are all unique individuals.
He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either or see you move on its a control issue and your letting him still have control of you after you breakup. You must break free and let go.
Teen mum's are mainly left to raise the child on their own, most probably because the teen father is to much of a coward to face up to what has happened. Girl's cannot get themselve's pregnant its down to the boy's as well, it takes two to tango, if boy's cannot face up to getting a girl pregnant at such a young age then they shouldn't be out having sex. !
How do you break up with your husband after 16 years together and you know he is cheating?
My first husband cheated and cheated on his mistress too. The only thing that makes any sense is to divorce. File for divorce and either have him tossed out until you sell your home and divide everything up according to the law and move on. It's not as hard as you think. Once a cheater always a cheater.
I'd first make sure 100%! not just a hunch some SOLIDevidence that he is before you possibly throw away 16 years. (Not trying to defend but there is always that small chance.)
I regret not changing / speaking up about ma past happened but I can't regret it happening BECAUSE if ma past never happened I wouldn't b where I am and who I am today...
How can I regret what has happened and how much stronger I am because of it?_____________________________________________________________________ i regret the first few months of seventh grade, a lot. but i agree with the above me, it has made me stronger to control my emotions.* No young woman should give up her freedom to live with someone for four years without a commitment. It generally ends in tragedy such as what has happened to you. It's wise not to live with a boyfriend if possible and not to hang around a boyfriend who has no future plans with you. There is nothing you can do, but there is one important thing you can do for yourself ... dust yourself off, get moving; go out with friends and get back into the dating scene once again. Consider what you have gone through as a lesson in life (and all of us go through them) and let him know you are your own person; you want respect when you get it and you are independent. Independent women have much more control over their lives and it appears many men enjoy being around an independent woman and are more ready to commit to a permanent relationship.
How do you tell your boyfriend it's over?
Well first tell him........................
" Iv had the best time with you but, I need to see what else there is. I hope you can understand and if you want to, but dont feel presured, we can stay friends."
If he says no he doesnt want to be friends, then you have to be fine with it, just smile and say gently " ok, bye." smile again and walk out.
If he runs after you saying " wait ill make this work , please just one more chance" tell him your sorry but " Please dont make this hard for me." pat his arm and walk away.
If he says he does want to stay friends tell him " ok but I have to go now, see you later. bye."
