Can women at the age of 34 go through menopause?
Yes, I think so, I went through menopause at 38. Make sure you find medical assistance that accepts that you are having an early menopause otherwise you may be treated for a range of other disorders including psychological, and, if you are menopausing your hormones will be all over the place and you are at risk of complications.
You have small black spots on your vaginal lips any idea what they could be?
Sometimes your skin doesn't need much of a reason to develop a spot of pigmentation. Unless they grow, become tender, irritated or discolored you can safely ignore them. If you think of them as genital freckles you'd be fairly close. If you don't trust it or if you are not sure what the spots are, I strongly recommend you to see a doctor. Don't hestitate to make a call right now, just to know for sure.
Gum pain can have many causes. Some of the causes include gingivitis, periodontitis, hormonal changes due to pregnancy, and localized ulcers.
Is Hormone replacement therapy legal?
Yes, in the United States hormone replacement is legal. In fact, there are specialists in the area of age management. Ask your general practitioner for a referral or recommendation to a bioidentical hormone doctor.
You are fifteen and you haven't had your period should you be worried?
At 12 you're likely to be irregular anyway so I shouldn't worry too much about it. The only circumstances where you should perhaps take further steps is if there is the possibility that you could be pregnant.
How should a man handle a woman he considers abusive especially when the abuse often triggers rage?
I think the man should separate from the woman...immediately. This is not to condone the rage or angry behavior (shouting?), but it seems to be an imperfect response to inexcusable behavior. It is a vicious cycle and is not good for either party. If it is early in the relationship and otherwise things are good, a good communication class for both parties might be in order. But if the abusive behavior continues, then it is a deal breaker to the relationship.
There is little difference between male and female abusers. See the external links further down this page.
Before I could offer any suggestions - I need to have EXPLAINED what is meant by "the rage such abuse often triggers?" It sounds like - when you are abused? you then rage. Is this the case??? If you are raging at her then in all probability and from experience - she is trying to defend herself!!!!!!!!!!
Abuse is abuse period. I am a man that recently left an abusive relationship with a female Narcissist. The abuse was mostly non-verbal - silent treatment, withdrawing and other manipulating, control tactics that infected me like a slow poison over time. I made a stand and left the woman, which is the only viable option. It hurt tremendously, but you have to respect yourself.
One method abusers use is to revicitmize the vicitm by including the naive commmunity in on joining him in order to do so.
It is best to leave abusive relationships in the past.
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Stalkers and the Borderline Personality
The Borderline Personality
In recent years psychologists have learned about and done case studies on a new personality disorder which the DSM-III-R classifies as an Axis II disorder- the Borderline Personality . This classification includes such personality disorders as the Anti-social Personality, the Histrionic Personality and the Narcissistic Personality. Several psychologists (including myself) diagonosed my stalker as afflicted with the Borderline Personality. Characteristic of the Borderline (derived from research done by Kreisman & Straus, 1989) are:
a shaky sense of identity
sudden, violent outbursts
oversensitivity to real or imagined rejection
brief, turbulent love affairs
frequent periods of intense depression
eating disorders, drug abuse, and other self-destructive tendencies
an irrational fear of abandonment and an inability to be alone
Not much research has been done on the Borderline Personality, and for many years it was difficult to diagnose- and to treat. A Borderline often feels as though his/her life is marked with a distinctive emptiness; a void in which a relationship often acts to fill. Many times the Borderline is a victim of an early dysfunctional family situation and/or emotional/physical abuse by those he/she trusted early on in childhood.
The Borderline is psychotic , in the original, psychological meaning of the term: he/she is not in control and not in touch with reality. To the Borderline, a softly spoken word of advice can be construed as a threat on his/her emotional stability. An outsider's viewpoint that the Borderline is not in touch with reality often ends in a bitter and irrational dissassociation from the outsider on the part of the Borderline. Often, the Borderline ends up very much alone and victim to his/her disillusions.
The Borderline stalker is very apt to see his/her actions as perfectly justified; he/she has paranoid disillusions which support these-often with disturbing frequency. The Borderline often has brief love affairs which end abruptly, turbulently and leave the Borderline with enhanced feelings of self-hatred, self-doubt and a fear that is not often experienced by rational people. When the Borderline's relationships turn sour, the Borderline often begins to, at first, harass the estranged partner with unnecessary apologies and/or apologetic behavior (i.e. letters of apology 'from the heart', flowers delivered at one's place of employment, early morning weeping phonecalls, etc.). However, the Borderline does not construe his/her behavior as harassment- to the Borderline he/she is being 'responsible' for his/her past behaviors.
The next phase of the Borderline Personality develops relatively quickly and soon he/she feels suddenly betrayed, hurt, etc. and seeks to victimize the estranged partner in any way he/she can. Strangely enough, this deleterious behavior is always coupled with a need to be near or in constant contact with the estranged partner . While sending threats to the estranged partner, it is very common for the Borderline to begin to stalk his/her estranged partner in an effort to maintain contact. This effort is motivated by the excruciating fear that the Borderline will end up alone and anger that [the estranged partner] has put him/her in this position. We are finding, in many cases, that a great deal of stalking behavior is associated with Borderline or related personality disorders. Earlier research did not incorporate the Borderline Personality in stalking profiles; research now is beginning to focus on the Borderline in such disorders as Erotomania, etc.
IF I have understood the question correctly, it sounds as if the abuser (in this case a woman) may be trying to provoke her male partner into attacking her physically. If this is the case, DON'T fall for it. DON'T get into a rage; just walk out. What she is doing sounds like calculated trickery based on the knowledge that for many people the key image of domestic violence is that of a man beating up his female partner. Although professionals, such as social workers and judges may be theoretically aware that there are many forms of emotional abuse, many have real problems getting to grips with the concept. Consider, too, that if your abuser can 'turn the tables' on you and make you appear the abuser, she will feel morally as high as high can be.
IF I've understood the situation correctly, and it's quite possible that I haven't, and IF your partner is succeeding in sending you into a monumental rage, then arguably you are two consenting adults playing a very dangerous game of 'abuse me'. (I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but something in the relationship seems odd over and above the abuse. On the face of it, you seem to be claiming the right to rage on the grounds that the abuse is so painful. Get out before something worse happens.
What will you do if you have a dysmenoria?
The medical term for menstrual cramps is dysmenorrhea. There are two types of
dysmenorrhea, primary and secondary. Read below in recommended links - "Menstrual Cramps" and "Natural Remedies for Menstrual Cramps".
In primary dysmenorrhea, there is no underlying gynecologic problem causing the pain. This type of cramping may begin within six months to a year following menarche (the beginning of menstruation), the time when a girl starts having menstrual periods. Menstrual cramps typically do not begin until ovulatory menstrual cycles (when an egg is released from the ovaries) occur, and actual menstrual bleeding usually begins before the onset of ovulation. Therefore, an adolescent girl may not experience dysmenorrhea until months to years following the onset of menstruation.
In secondary dysmenorrhea, some underlying abnormal condition (usually involving a
woman's reproductive system) contributes to the menstrual pain. Secondary dysmenorrhea may be evident at menarche but, more often, the condition develops later.
Is there any post-menapausal symptoms or conditions one should be aware of?
If you have not had a period for more than a year and experience menstrual bleeding you should get checked. Pap smears should be done regularly especially after menopause because if a woman still has periods in earlier years a sudden change in amount of bleeding can alert her, but not after menopause. Post-menopausal women who have not had a hormone level test should get one if they feel below par or develop hair growth on upper lip that is noticeable. This hair growth could indicate a hormone imbalance which can be corrected.
Could it quite possibly be Menopause? It's normal for Women around your wife's age.
Why does the reproductive age of a woman start from menarche and end at menopause?
Everything seems to have a beginning and an end so fertility in a woman has to start and end somewhere & Menarche is the word we give to the beginning & Menopause is the word we give to the end. Between the two will be most of her life and all of her reproductive, child bearing years.
OK the basics; Menarche is from the Greek meaning BEGINNING & is the term commonly used for the onset of the first period for a girl. That first period indicated the onset of fertility. Getting the first period is a big deal for most girls and is a date most remember throughout their life. For many it is the symbolic "coming of age, becoming a woman, moment".
The average age for Menarche in most girls will be somewhere in the 12th year. & that fertility will continue until the FERTILITY cycle of life has run its course for that woman, that end of cycles is called MENOPAUSE.
Unlike the onset of fertility, Most women will be in MENOPAUSE for several years and it does not come at a precise moment. MENOPAUSE IS A PROCESS THAT USUALLY TAKES A FEW YEARS.
ERRATIC MONTHLY CYCLES, MORE THAN A YEAR WITHOUT A CYCLE, THE END OF FERTILITY, LOW TESTOSTERONE & ESTROGEN, HOT FLASHES, JOINT PAIN, VAGINAL DRYNESS & A LOSS OF SEX DRIVE ARE ALL INDICATORS OF MENOPAUSE.
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What could cause a feeling of phlegm in right side of throat from nose?
Not exactly sure what you are asking but nasal passages are all connected with throat,could be post nasal drip coming from your nose to your throat.One cause could be smoking another could be head cold.I don't relly have enough info to help & figure it out.You could try a decongestent to see if that helps.
Well the doctors could have done something wrong. Try a pregnancy test or go to the doctor and get yourself checked out.
How do you know if your in menopous-?
You might know if you are in menopause if you are having hot flashes and irregular periods coupled with drastic mood changes. Check with your family doctor.
If you want to be a OB do you have to be a GYN?
OB/GYN is a subspecialty of medicine that involves the reproductive health of women. If you go to medical school and pick this specialty, in essence you are picking both.
Those who study gynecology will study the anatomy, physiology, and pathology of female organs, both internal and external.
Those who study obstetrics study those issues related to pregnancy, labor and delivery and the postpartum period.
How do you satisfy sexually a girl wildly?
eat her out, lick her vagina, stick your tongue deep into her and wiggle it around