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• A wife will never know for sure if their husband actually told the other woman to stay away or he is encouraging it. The only way the wife can prove if he is telling the truth is to tell him to press harassment charges against her. If she is showing up at their home or is everywhere the husband is then he is either provoking the situation or she is stalking him. If the husband uses excuses not to press charges the wife should give him no outs and tell him to do so (or she will) or, he can go back to her.

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to be possesed by a demon means a evil spirit ( so called demon ) finds a way to get inside your body and takes over and makes you do things you do not want to do and you cant make them stop if you were possesed by a demon you would probly die of malnutrition of dehydration.

dont marry him if you dont love him. you would just be leading him on, nothing can good can come out of this whatsoever!

He possibly feels unapreciated and maybe even unloved, possibly a little scared of confrontation (feels nothing he does is right by you). Don't blame yourself, chances are he is lazy at home and deserves to be yelled at, but if you take the time to talk to him about his day and sit down for a coffee or whatever when he gets home, he should gradually come around and start to spend more time with you.

There are many retailers that have cheap gifts one could buy for a second anniversary. One could buy such gifts from 'Amazon', 'Walmart', 'Target' or 'Macy's'.

I believe you can't!

Technically the wife and husband own the home while the husband is the only one who owes money to the lender. The property has been pledged to the lender to secure the loan. If the loan has a due on sale clause or other restrictions then there could be a situation where the lender will call the loan due. It is rare for a lender to make a loan to only 1 party who is on the deed. Normally what has happened is an individual took out a loan secured by a property when they were the sole owner. Later the other party, the spouse, was added to the property's title. Normally this is a technically violation of the Due On Sale (DOS) clause in the mortgage contract if you check the fine print. The transfer while valid has triggered a situation where the lender is free to call the loan due. In many cases a better solution that to put the wife on title when the husband already owns the property is to have the husband deed the property to a trust and then have the trust set up so the wife retains the ability to live in the property and to otherwise gain the same benefits as owning the property. The key with a trust is the DOS clause is not triggered when the trust is being used for estate planning. Providing for one's spouse after something happens is exactly what estate planning addresses. If the wife is on title and the husband is no longer alive, the wife may or may not be asked to pay off the loan. If that is the case she can refinance or use savings to pay off the loan. In many cases the lender will not take any action if the payments remain current. Insurance is one possible way to help the wife protect her interest if the husband was to die or otherwise not be able to work and she is on title. It may or may not be the right solution in any particular situation. Insurance can also be a good solution even if the property is in trust as it can provide a lump sum so the wife has fewer economic problems. Assuming the wife is being asked to pay off the loan and she lacks the means to either refinance or pay off the loan from savings then a sale of the property becomes the normal solution. Otherwise the lender can start a foreclosure action to force a sale at auction.

well from a womans prospective i would have your current wife meet ur ex so she can see that maybe she can see ur ex is harmless to your relationship..and maybe they could even become friends..or enemies!!

Yes. She clearly has feelings for you and it is apparent that there is some major reason you are not together. Most likely that major reason has non negotiable qualities.

A Fiancé. A Fiancée is a wife to be.

I believe in "old souls" and I have had the delight of meeting many. A child of 3 can have that look and a quiet air about them and you can just feel by their actions they are much older than their little bodies foretell and it can be deceiving. I have met teens and people in their 20s that are much older for their years and I've met people 40 and older that act like children. We can't always base wisdom or anything else on age alone. Some people can grow old, but never learn much, while others are younger and learn much beyond their years. Yes, I think that a 22 year old man could look beyond a considerable age gap, but it's rare. I find if a young man (or woman) is looking for someone considerably older than themselves then they are probably looking for a mother or father figure even though they may not realize it. They are looking far beyond sex and fun, but for assurance and someone to stroke their ego. It's best to stay in one's age bracket, and I'd say (my own opinion) that a 10 - 12 year gap is enough. My sister-in-law's husband is almost 8 years younger than her and they have been married 38 years; I have a girlfriend whose husband is 11 years younger than her and I am 4 years older than my husband. All of these marriages seem to be working out fine. The secret to it all is, is when you meet. My sister-in-law, girlfriend and myself all met our mates when we were in our early 30s so the age gap didn't seem so bad. If one met a 24 year old man and the woman was almost 50 this could cause a big problem. It's really up to the individual. It depends on personalities. If both parties are quiet, love long walks, are intellectual and prefer a quiet way of life then it could work, but if either are full of vim and vigor and on the go constantly and the other isn't this could pose a problem and it could cause the younger partner to cheat. Marcy

Praise be to Allaah.

It is not permissible for a man to be married to two sisters at the same time or to a woman and her paternal or maternal aunt at the same time, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"Forbidden to you (for marriage) are: your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your father's sisters, your mother's sisters, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster mothers who gave you suck, your foster milk suckling sisters, your wives' mothers, your stepdaughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom you have gone in - but there is no sin on you if you have not gone in them (to marry their daughters), - the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins, and two sisters in wedlock at the same time, except for what has already passed; verily, Allaah is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful"

[al-Nisa' 4:23].

Shaykh 'Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa'di (may Allah have mercy on him) said in his Tafseer (1/173): These verses refer to those who are haraam in marriage because of blood ties, those who are haraam because of breastfeeding, those who are haraam because of ties through marriage, those who are haraam because it is not permitted to be married to them and another woman at the same time, and women who are permissible in marriage.

With regard to those who are haraam because it is not permitted to be married to them and another woman at the same time, Allah mentions being married to two sisters at the same time and describes it as haraam. And the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) forbade being married to a woman and her paternal or maternal aunt at the same time. So if we take a pair of women who are related to one another, if we imagine that one of them is male and the other is female, if it would be haraam for them to get married, then it is haraam for them to be co-wives. That is because of what would result from that of severing ties between relatives. End quote.

Al-Bukhaari (5109) and Muslim (1408) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "One should not be married to a woman and her paternal aunt, or a woman and her maternal aunt, at the same time."

Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said, explaining the women who are forbidden in marriage: "married to a woman and her paternal aunt, or a woman and her maternal aunt, at the same time" - Ibn al-Mundhir said: The scholars are unanimously agreed on this matter and there is no difference of opinion concerning it, praise be to Allah, except that some of the innovators whose difference of opinion does not count, namely the Raafidis and Khawaarij, do not regard that as forbidden and they do not follow the Sunnah that is proven from the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), as it says in the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (quoted above).

The reason for the prohibition on being married to two sisters at the same time is that it would cause enmity among relatives and lead to severing the sacred ties of kinship, and this reason is also applicable in the case of marriage to a woman and her maternal or paternal aunt at the same time.

If they quote as evidence the general meaning of the words of Allah (interpretation of the meaning): "All others are lawful," [al-Nisa' 4:24], then the report we have narrated makes exceptions from that. End quote from al-Mughni, 7/89.

Type your answer here... YES

While there are a number of laws and guidelines surrounding prenuptial agreements, a cohabitation agreement can include (or not include) just about anything you want. This flexibility however means that the enforcement of cohabs are less ensured than it would be for a valid prenup. That said, a cohab does give you some legal standing and if it is entered into willingly and is witnessed and notarized, it will often be treated as a binding contract by the courts.

by hypnotising i thing By divorcing her, then seeing her on a regular basis. Otherwise she is still your wife.

Seems this is more complicate than you can put in your questions on the board and I recognize your posts re the "Ns". Please answer my response and tell the board more about this situation because it sounds more complicated than the first 2 posts I answered for you. Marcy Well..here goes...my first husband was a minister and pastored fairly large churches. He has influence and an audience. His real person was not the man who stood in the pulpit, but no one knew that. To expose him was to cut off our livlihood. We were married for 33 years. I was afraid to do what it took to get out because I was terrified of the manipulation oppurtunity he had with his church and nearby churches as well. I stayed in the marriage to protect myself (I thought). Toward the end of the marriage, I realized that he had been trashing my character to church members all along....and they were believing what he said and spreading the word. For years I couldn't figure out why the ladies in the church were giving me the cold shoulder and their husbands weren't. I really thought I was losing my mind...and maybe did. A time or two, I pointblank asked him if he had said something about me that could cause me to be receiving this treatment. He said, "That would be a terrible thing to do!" He would tell me that one man or another was looking at me a lot or had a crush on me from time to time. I would be unaware of this. Then he would start calling me names and telling me that I was doing something to cause them to lust after me. I spent so much time trying to prove to him that his accusations were untrue. Nothing worked. I became so self conscious that I couldn't even walk naturally for fear that he would make something out of every step. There was some physical violence here and there. We were asked to leave his last two pastorates, and he claimed that it was my fault that he was asked to leave. When we were no longer living in a church parsonage, I filled for divorce. He then started assassinating my morals and character to everyone he could get to including my blood relatives. They had been listening to his insinuations for years without telling me about it. He was a "man of God." No one wanted to think he might be lying. He claimed that I had "run around" on him ever since we had been married...that I had had one man after another....told it every where. I could do nothing. Simply denying it would not have changed a thing....it was my word against his...and his word carried more weight. He made it a point also to get this false information across to our children. He has convinced them that I am the lier and he isn't. He attempted suicide, but my untimely arrival on the scene resulted in his life being saved. Upon regaining consciousness in the hospital, he began to receive many concerned visitors, former church members, fellow pastors, relatives (his and mine), and friends. He told them that I had driven him to do what he did because he couldn't stop me from running around on him. He gained much sympathy. He claimed that I was impossible to live with, had to have my way in everything, would never be capable of loving anyone but myself, and was stripping him of everything he owned. I was treated harshly and coldly by friends, acquaintainces, and family. People believed him without even discussing anything with me. I got to the point of being confused as to which one of us was insane. I thought it might be me. He received some in-hospital psychiatric treatment, then moved to his sister's home in another city. I remained in the town where we had lived, trying to put a life together for myself. I was an outcast for a while. But I trudged forward. It was so hard. I worked two jobs to make basic expenses. I remember the difficulty of the loss of friends and family and trying to meet basic expenses and needs on a low income. I remarried 10 years ago, and would have left this not so healthy partnership early on but for being fearful that my exhusband (who never stops trying to make me look bad concerning our breakup) will have some comments to make to my grown children who already give him preference over me, perhaps saying , "See...I told you that your mother was the crazy one. No one can live with her." Along with that, my second husband will most likely tell my children the same thing. I guess my biggest fear is that I really am crazy. Hi there First off YOU ARE NOT CRAZY! Thank you for letting me into your personal life and it does explain things better and the posters can give you a much better answer. I don't usually bring my Christian beliefs or political beliefs to the board if possible, but your post really made me feel sad, and that not only your ex, but your children and family as well as others have condemned you so badly without hearing your side of it all. Christianity is about trying to understand, helping and forgiving. I am truly so sorry you are going through this, but let's see what we can do to get you to jump up, dust yourself off and start all over again. There has been more damage (wars and poor relationships and the Puritans in America killing off so-called witches at the whim of a child's murmur) in the name of religion. Some people are under the illusion because they see their Pastor, Minister, etc., that they are God themselves! They don't realize that they are just human beings and can be many things: mental/physical abusers, child abusers (look at the Catholic Church), alcoholics, drug abusers, etc. Most parishioners wouldn't even want to consider the fact that the man standing on the pulpit is indeed not "pure of heart." It would fray the very reason they go to church and so, they are blinded by faith alone. Not all who preach are bad. I am in total shock that not one person on either side of the family, including the parishioners would have the wisdom to get to the root of the problem and have a chat with you as there is always two sides to every story. Your ex husband is not a well man and should never have held a position in ANY church and once let go from the one church he should have never been given the authority to preach again! The church let you down! I am a Christian, but don't go to church (my own opinon and choice) for some of the very things you mentioned (clacking, gossiping tongues ... not against me, but some other ladies.) I guess you could say I'm a free-spirited Christian. I believe that ANYONE of any race, sexual preference, etc., has a right to walk into ANY church and receive help if they so choose or to pray to God. I walked away from the Church and find that God is everywhere around us. Walking down a country lane, watching the ocean, being by a quiet lake is as close to God as one could get. The warmth of family, friends and nature as a whole is proof enough to me and I have absolutely no fear that I am a heathen because I don't attend church. I too have been married before to a mental/physical abuser and got the same run around. The very friends that told me to kick this guy to the curb turned on me when I did (with the exception of a very few and his brothers who knew the truth and encouraged me to leave. We remained friends for awhile after that, but I decided to move on with my life.) I knew in my heart I was a good person and what my husband had been and still was, so I packed up everything and got a new job, new friends and I am thankful my immediate family backed me on all of this. I feel badly that your own family is taking his side. Let's start putting things into perspective here: I am going to refresh your memory on what the Bible stands for and what Jesus gave his life for. First off the Bible quotes "Man" and many people assume it means "male" when, in fact, it means "human beings" and that includes both species, male/female. It's because of the word "man" that some men who take up a staunch stand on religion rule their family with an iron fist. Some men decide they have "heard the word of God" and that they should preach. These men are highly dangerous because it's really down to a matter of choice (like any other profession) when it comes to being a Pastor or Minister. With that comes very strict rules and the laws of God. Your husband has broken so many laws of the Bible he'll be peddling in hell for the rest of eternity. In his mind, he thinks he is not doing anything wrong, but in truth, he is a very mentally sick individual. I know that you have lived with the twisted faith of God, and also, are confused as to what true Christians are or even what God is truly about, so here is are some quotes hon, to make you see, that truly, you are one of God's children and have done nothing wrong: Quotes: Those who have not sinned cast the first stone THE FOOLISH SHALL NOT STAND IN THY SIGHT; THOU HATEST ALL WORKERS OF INIQUITY. THOU SHALT DESTROY THEM AND SPEAK LEASING: THE LORD WILL ABHOR THE BLOODY AND DECEITFUL MAN (****YOUR HUSBAND!) PSALMS 5 "THEN WAS OUR MOUTHS FILLED WITH LAUGHTER, AND OUR TONGUE WITH SINGING: THEN SAID THEY AMONG THE HEATHEN, THE LORD HATH DONE GREAT THINGS FOR THEM. PSALMS 126.2 (****THIS MEANS YOU! Your husbands tongue is "forked" as the Indians have so well put it in the past. God is about love, and he teaches us to laugh and say kind words with our tongue and music is the world's universal language. I gave the quotes to you for a good reason. The last one is speaking of man (your husband). As humans we become angry and say angry words or harbor bad thoughts (which is normal) but, if we believe in God, eventually, we pray to lead a strong and loyal path through life. God protects you against the sinners such as those who's tongue are wagging without giving you a chance to redeem yourself. You don't need their approval! In your heart you know that you are a good and kind person. We also all go through life making mistakes, but, the catch is, we must learn from our mistakes and move on. If we don't then we are miserable in our own lives. God gave us the freedom of mind and heart, so it's our choice! I want you to stand tall and strong! You know in your heart what you are and put the anger behind you of those that persecuted you. They aren't worth it! As a Christian I have a tendency to give a little more understanding to things than normal and NEVER judge most people until I've walked a mile in their shoes. It sounds as if you are surrounded by a bunch of "holier than thou" people ... the church, your husband and your family. While Christianity is certainly a good thing, it's a tool and we can either use it for the good of man or for evil. Your husband has chosen the latter and the followers he has gathered have also chosen this path. Gone are the days of the "Salem Witch Trials." You are a very strong woman and you've been through a lot. Your children were brought up in that house and they can't say they didn't see what was going on. They could be siding with him out of fear (he seems to be good at that) but they are also condemning you without hearing your voice. It's time you got together with your children and told them the truth! They either swallow it and deal with it or you walk out the door and let them get on with the shallow lives they are leading. It's very odd that children would ever go against their mother when they are adults. As children I can see it, but not when you are grown up and out in the world. Your ex has done a good job of brain-washing them. In your ex's eyes you have committed the ultimate sin of leaving him and divorcing him. Well, God didn't expect our mate to disrespect us and it says so in the Bible (if you ex ever does read the Bible.) He's using Christianity to instill fear in those around him. He will destroy himself! There is proof in that right now because of his fragile state of mind. "VENGENCE IS MINE SAYETH THE LORD." Just as some abused women pick another abused mate, you have slid into the same type of character with your second husband. I suggest that you consider leaving him (if all else fails) and move to another city or town because that is the only way you are ever going to get out from under the thumb of this ex of yours, your family and the town in general. This whole thing sounds like a bad movie, and I know it must feel like that to you. Please keep in contact with us and let us know how you are doing. Don't second-guess yourself and take all the blame for everything that has gone on. It takes two! Never let anyone take your soul away from you and you deep in your heart you are a good and kind person so move on and away from this whole mess. God Bless Marcy

Harm is a relative term. What may be taken into consideration damaging to one person may not to one more. There are various kinds of harm: physical, emotional, spiritual, monetary, and so on. As a result, injury is an individual factor that is knowledgeable as well as is a bit subjective. So, when we ask just how marital relationships harm anyone, we need to check out greater than simply one facet.

Don't let him. If he tries to bring another woman, leave.

If you want the benefits and legal rights of a legal marriage then, yes, it will have to be made legal, although common law spouses do have much the same rights.

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Answer 1
It is forbidden in Christianity although a minority of churches allow same sex marriage. This led many Christians to seek sex outside marriage when they get into problems with their licit partners.

Per Islam teachings, it is allowed for a man to marry up to four wives but subject to specific conditions that make it not so widely applied unless in a very specific cases. One of these conditions is to treat wives equally. Another condition is to seek approval of former wife (or wives) otherwise they have the right to seek divorce. One of the reasons that may justify marriage with a second wife is to have your first wife so ill that she can't perform sexual relation with her husband. Another reason may arise when a wife got widowed and has children and needs a husband to share the responsibilities of raising up her children and save her from practicing illegal sexual relationships that are strictly forbidden per Islam teachings.

Answer 2
In most Western countries, polygamy is forbidden. In several Muslim-majority countries it is permitted.

Very rich.

He's just not that into you