Abusive Relationships and Domestic Violence

yea when there young they think of you as a teddy bear when there little only if ur a girly girl

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it is just something we do because our man is for us and we feel that even kno they wear the pants we want to feel like we have a say im not saying talk about your man cause that willl make him question does she really love u r not cause shes acting really stupid

1 in 3 women experience physical assault

women are most likely to be killed by husband, ex boyfriend , boyfriend , spouses and ex spouses

women ages 19 - 29 and make an income of 10,000$ or less are likely to be victims of domestic violence.

physical abuse is hiting

Yes, but it is so much more!

The intent of physical and psychological abuse is to get the victim to DO something they aren't doing or to get the victim to STOP DOING something they are doing. So with that in mind.....

Physical abuse is any unwanted touching either directly or indirectly. This can include hitting, punching, spitting, choking, slapping etc. It also includes physically restraining, and blocking their movement (such as a door so they can't leave). Throwing something such as a glass of water at or on the victim.

Psychological abuse is anything which attacks the individual as a person with the intent of scaring, threatening, belittling, confusing, overpowering, humiliating and embarrassing the victim.

I think for many it is experiencing the sensation of being thrilled or scared in ways that most people do not get to experience in real life.

At the same time you know that a film can never really hurt you and so it adds to the fun because you also know you are safe.

People also like watching horror films because they love watching something scary.

By looking at the reaction of the dog to its owner's movement. If for example the owner suddenly waves his hand or gets up real fast from a chair, and the dog gets jumpy and scared, there you have it. If the owner is petting him in front of you and the dog looks anything but comfortable, that's also another good sign.

The percentage of men getting abused is about 29%. Just because it rarely happens does not mean that it doesn't have, it is just not widely recognized because it is more common for women to be abused.

no i dont believe that you should. things will get worse before you know it. If you really love this person an intervention with the whole family might help. But dont be scared to do something about it. Many women are scared to leave, but once you do you learn to be strong and say no more.

That's something only the legal system can answer and depending on what State you live in. I sure wish it were true in British Columbia where I live. Many countries around the world have a strict policy that if you break their laws then you are either imprisoned or deported and well it should be for all countries. There are laws for a reason in each country (no matter whether we think them fair or not) and once in that country, we know the rules so if we break the law then you pay the price. To answer the question, yes. There is a special deportation charge for any legal alien that is convicted of a domestic assault violation of the criminal law. It would ultimately be the decision on the Immigration Judge if the alien is ordered deported.

Yes!!! It most certainly IS abusive. Abuse is much more than physical. Please, please get yourself to a councelor. The sooner the better.

There are no benefits to abusing a child, other than the risk of being taken to prison or jail to prevent further abuse.

If the abuser was tried and convicted of a felony such as assault, then yes, it will show up in a criminal record. If never convicted, then no.

Domestic Violence.

Humans rarely listen to advice. What you would not do is try to get between your son and his wife. What you would do is recognize her point of view and politely let her know you see it (with examples). "Honey, I know you love my son, but if you lie to him he will find out, this is why I am honest. When you _____ I saw ____." Then expect denial and do not bother arguing or responding to the denial, just walk away. Do not ever respond to her in any way electronically or in writing.

Realize that she is more than likely living a pattern, like a building mathematical sequence, she will not change. Any attempts to change her behavior will result in misery for yourself, and growth of the mathematical procession (making things she does worse).

On relating, which is a big part of my book which is coming out next year, try and put yourself in her shoes. It will be difficult, but it is possible to see what her primary goal is, and you may even find she has a singular goal, (separation from family, control, lust, children, and money are some primary human goals) which her life revolves around. Once you find this, her actions will be clear before she does them. Unfortunately primary goals never change in a person no matter what the external or environmental input.

From here you will be able to reasonably ask, "Does what she did directly affect my life?" If so then talk to her, if her actions are devious enough, in front of your son, not sitting them down, just thrown at them while together and not around other family members. "Oh by the way it was very rude when you...." walking away from denial, just leave the room.

If what she does has no negative influence on your life you have to step back and let it go. It stinks because you love your son dearly, but he has made his choice and once that threshold is crossed the best you can hope for is that he will see it someday as you do. But do not bother trying to get him to relate to your feelings of her, it won't work in your favor.

If you do politely say something and she becomes agitated and you walk away do not bother mentioning anything again, ever. It is at this point that you must realize that the reason she has been put on the Earth is to teach people how not to act, and unfortunately there are allot of these people out there. After all if everything was perfect would we know what perfect was? :)

Good Luck

Thomas

Abuse definitely has a strong effect on the victim. The pain that the individual receives from the abuser, whether physical or mental, has a negative influence on the way the victim lives his or her life. With physical abuse, the physical abilities of the victim may be impaired for a temporary or permanent time span. With mental abuse, the victim may suffer from depression because of the abuse he or she has been forced to deal with. Also, the victim may have low self esteem because the individual believes that he or she is being abused because of his or her worthlessness.

First of all, go to your therapist and stop all types of contact with your abusive partner. You have to learn to defend yourself and if you need any police assistance then don't hesitate to call police. Find new friends and involve yourself in non romantic relationships.

Some people have a difficult time with commitments in a relationship and you sound like you have one of these types of guys. He probably wants to be with you, but is either afraid or just doesn't like responsibility. He could also be checking to see if you are dating anyone. If you want this relationship to go anywhere, be pleasant on the phone to him, but start dating and don't make yourself so available to him. That's should get the lead out of his butt! Let him know you are waiting around. Good luck Marcy Sounds as though the other partner cannot come to terms with the break up and is still caught up with the old routine. Let your phone go to voicemail on occasion. Time is what is required. It sounds like he is still madly in love with you. If he didn't care about you he would'nt be calling. I feel the same way, it's hard when you don't get to say goodbye's. I believe everyone that has a heart, needs some type of closure. That's what makes us human after all, those who don't, well I guess they are heartless and have no soul.

Science Answer: We have done most of our evolution in a prehistoric setting where social interaction only served to advance the interests of an individual. Vindictive behavior serves to get to the top of a social group by force.

Religion Answer: Sin is a natural part of life that comes from free will. Vindictive behavior occurs because of our free will and the fact that we are naturally 'evil' to a certain extent.

Really the two answers do not conflict greatly.

In the law these are usually referred to as "Fighting Words." They can include (but are not limited to) such things as: Racial insults - Religious insults - Ethnic insults - Slurs against family members (particularly against Mothers) - Sexual orientation insults - etc - etc) Just about any phrases that you might think of that could be used to intentionally goad the insulted party into a fight. However - they would have to be considered strong enough or heinous enough to actually draw that kind of honest reaction. Responding to day-to-day minor insults and "colorful language" would probably not be a defense.

A frying pan 'up side of his head usually puts a stop to this condition. If not, distract him, then a quick roll down a flight of stairs will do the trick. Really, I am trying to lighten a very serious situation. Just do not ever tolerate verbal abuse, even once. Get out. Fast. You deserve better, and do not go back. No money, or home, or car, or clothes, or any material possession is worth your soul. Which you will lose when you allow yourself to continue in a sick relationship.

Assault is one of the most common criminal charges. Assault is charged by degree, first through third, with First Degree Assault being the most serious. By far the most common of the three types of assault is Third Degree Assault. This is a misdemeanor offense, and because it is labeled an Extraordinary Risk Crime, carries a maximum sentence of two years in county jail.

Added: As with any crime, there are no set punishments or sentences. The court must consider the applicable state law, the facts and circumstances, the defendant's prior history, and any other mitigating or aggravating factors to come to a fair and appropriate sentence.