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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
What excuse a girl uses to break up with you?
You're ugly.
You're fat.
I like your friend better.
You conflict with my purse.
You never listen to anything I say.
You always stare at my chest.
You hate my family.
My family hates you.
You don't have a job.
You won't make a committment
You cheated on me.
You never do anything special.
We never go anywhere.
You're not making anything of yourself.
Will the back suspension from a BG Mazda 323 fit in a BF Mazda 323?
No sorry they are completely different.
If you are a committed couple living together can the man kick you out of his house?
If your name is also on the deed or the mortgage of the house then he can't. If it isn't then I am pretty sure that he can. Call an attorney that will give you free over the phone advice...There are a lot of them in the yellow pages....call a few in fact and see what they say. I'm sure that you can get a definite answer this way.
What does a guy really mean when he says its not you its me?
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If you truly are meant to be a couple. Privacy wouldn't be and issue unless it excessive and secretive. To also not be able to take one another means that there are issues that need to be resolved or you will never, ever have a meaningful relationship. You sit down as two mature adults and calmly speak to one another, not at one another and no barking. One at a time talking and no finger pointing. If you cant do this then move on, not worth wasting precious time over each other. You may have to face the truth, you may "love" one another on some level but not ENOUGH to give yourselfs each other.
That's a very low thing to do and there are no circumstances where you should do this. Even if a girlfriend stole your boyfriend he is old enough to say "no". No help from me on this one!
Remember this "the head of the snake always turns around and bites you in the butt" and I've seen it happen so many times, so if you dish out trouble, you'll get it back in spades.
LISTEN TO MY ANSWER AND YOU WILL BE HAPPY:
-Trying to get in between a relationship is wrong, not only sad but wrong. I understand how you feel so im gonna give you some advice.
1.-Let it go and move on
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2.-If the couple are your friends then let them no, infrom then of your feelings for who you like and how you feel about them being together.
If that doesn't work then tell your friends and ask them to help.
Try to get the couples attention by doing something .. unusual-NOT CRAZY OR WEIRD just unusual. Beg if its that important to you..
Hope i helped you out! :) Good luck hun :P
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How do you make up after an argument?
MAKE UP SEX!!!! or apologize for what yall have done, and take her out to dinner....tell her you were wrong. that makes a girl happy .
How do you forgive someone who is not even sorry?
Another problem with not forgiving someone is that it gives them power over you. Think about it. You're upset, maybe even raging about what they did. Probably spending much more time and effort on it than it's worth. Point in fact, you are giving them power over you because you are choosing to devote time and effort to the problem. But... if you forgive them for what they did it's over. Now, I did not say you're supposed to forget what happened, only fools forget. Just forgive them. After all, why should you let them ruin your day any more?
The bottom line to all this is that forgiveness really is a one-way street. Though it's hard to forgive someone who does not show remorse, and may not even feel remorse, it is a decision that we can make regardless. For your own health, '''decide''' to forgive them.
answerForgiving is unconditional. It nourishes the spirit. ANSWERi see so many people abusing other people because the other person forgives them, its not on.no-one should abuse anyone and not be sorry and be forgiven to continue to do it again
sorry is something we all have to be at some point to learn true 'moral values' and people who are not sorry end up with self grandourous beliefs,narcissistic tenancies and hurt a lot of people
(and i know plenty of people like this, and plenty people who got like this due to never being asked to really be sorry )
if the person did this once, forgiving them will ease your mind that's true,
that is indeed a power they cant take away from you
but if they do it again, that will ease nothing.
and by doing it again they then are taking the power away from you
the person will have some problem that is making them internally angry and taking it out on you.
forgiving them every time only invites you to be hurt every time, invites them to never heal whatever problem they have and that's not helping anyone.
forgiveness is something that does have to be earned sometimes
you cant go about forgiving everyone for everything all the time,
look at society
there would be no punishment, no law, society would be pretty much anarchy.
people would do what ever they want with no fear of reprisal and confrontation
and those reprisals, the consequences are part of the reasons we don't all go around breaking the law willy nilly
is is really fair fair that you are a good person who can be sorry when you hurt someone but be hurt by someone who doesn't care enough about you to be sorry for that?.
some people do things to hurt on purpose they don't need forgiveness, they need to be taught like a child stealing another's sweet that that kind of thing is wrong,
forgiveness like everything else in life has its time and place.
only you will know if this person deserves your forgiveness, and only you will know if they have done or are likely to do this again, and only you can know if forgiving them will make you happy.
to forgive someone who isn't sorry, although it depends on what has happened , what they did, why they did it etc,
i can say when i had to forgive someone for something that ruined my life, and who wasnt sorry
i found that realizing and accepting that the person wasnt really to blame was what helped heal me and helped me eventually forgive them.
forgive them by realizing that really internally they have a problem that causes them to act out,
that maybe it isn't their fault (if that is true, ie maybe they have a mental illness or a disability)
that maybe they are doing all they can to 'fix' themselves (as long as they really are)
if they accept they have a problem and ask for help its always easier to empathise and consider what they must be feeling and to forgive them
New answerForgiveness is not about the other person. It is about you. The word actually means- to give for. Anytime we have an experience that we would have liked to have seen go better, we can imagine how it could be better and decide how we will respond in a similar circumstance next time. In doing this you are deciding what you intend to give for a better way. This represents a more productive use of energy. The return will be productive as well. Do not insist that the return be from any specific person, place, or thing. That will keep things the same and the whole idea is to change. As your attention is used imagining what you want rather than what you don't want, you will experience more of what you want. With your attention on changing the other person, you're missing the point.Why did Lori Loughlin divorce Michael Burns?
were not sure she didn't talk about her divorce [ never ]
If Mike Holmes Holmes on Homes is in a committed relationship who would that person be?
The Acknowledgement page in his "Make it Right" book, mentions his three children and "Anna".....
How do i start a conversation with my ex?
We have no idea why you even want to talk with your ex unless it's to do with custody of your children. You didn't really explain your situation and we would appreciate it if you would give us a little more information so we better answer your question. Thank you
That depends on if you want to go through everything all over again. Remember he is your ex for various reasons and maybe you should move forward with your life without him at this point.
I think you would be adding to your woes if you worry about this other person. If this acquaintance believes what the N is telling him/her, then he is in the throes of the N, and is a source of Narcissistic Supply. Therefore, if you let it bother you, if you approach this person before they approach you, they will tell the N and then you will be in the vicious N circle of involvement again. Let it go. If this person actually approaches you, be truthful. Say something simple like, "I did the best I could and our relationship did not work out". Leave it at that and get on with the good things in life. Be strong. Peace, mbme dont go out of your way to be nice. just be polite and neutral if situations necessitate contact of any kind. Dont bring his name up at all or discuss your personal life. I had a situation at work where the N was telling a coworker lies about me and basically had her hating my guts. We had our ins and outs. I just kept my distance. Then circumstances dictated i share close office quarters with her. By then he had done some things to piss her off, we learned to get along (co-worker and I) and she saw him for what he really is. All the hard feelings between the coworker and i evaporated. Now we have anew girl in the ofice with us that is frinds with him and we are working on how to handle it the best we can. IT really helps to have someone on your side that understands. If this person he turned against you has ANY common sense he/she will see the truth and come to resent him and might be your friend someday. Just give it time. C
Atalie Honaker should really stop asking these questions.
No one likes her, she can get over it. (:
How can you tell if a boy is jelous of your boyfriend?
- first off they occasionally stare at them.
- they say bad things behind their backs.
- they show they are angery at them.
well that's all i can think of. see im in that sorta situation right now. :l
.. Answer, They Dont Talk You If YOur With Them .. They Try and Flirt With you When There Not around , they talk behind there backs . and they don't even look at you guys when your together.
If your boyfriend buys you a car do you have to return it if you break up?
If it was a gift, no. But if you have paid for it in some way he'll be able to argue in court that it wasn't a gift. In any case, the ethical thing to do would be to return the car if you break up, especially if you initiate the breakup.
How to move on in life after breaup?
Look you have to choose life or love because in your case you can not get both at the time not at least with this guy/girl you have had the break up with. A simple solution is to stick strictly with the choice you have made and forget about the second one completely as if it never existed. Trust me it takes at most 3 months to forget even the true love of your life. Don't call or reach this person at all. Make new friends and don't discuss this with them. You can also have a pet to keep you busy and make you feel that you are loved. I know you can do it best of luck,
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from my understadning yes he does, you both are on the lease, he cant make you leave and you cant make him either.
Is there a spell that can make someone fall in love with you all over again?
Use perfume a mild one every time you meet him/her... 😁
Does an abuser hurt during a breakup?
yes that's why they use violence to try to keep people in the relationship. but they will move on to the next person and the next and the next. Abusing them all. Most of us detest abusers (stronger sex against the weaker) but women can be abusive towards their boyfriends or husbands as well and most of it is never reported because the male is too embarrassed or feels no one would understand or care. There is help for men as well when it comes to an abusive mate. Since abusers are usually considered lower than a snake's belly we often forget (and most of us don't care) that they are in a mental hell and are like a runaway locomotive and can't stop hurting the one's they love. Yes, they do love and we've often heard the saying, "You always hurt the ones you love" is very true. They do actually feel sorry for beating up their mate that they love, but can't stop. These individuals are frustrated, detest their peers, feel they have been slighted in society and deserve more and they take their frustrations out on their mate. Can they change? In most cases no because the abuser will seldom feel they need counseling and therefore never learn the tools to control their aspect of controlling others.
Does your girlfriend miss you and is thinking about you after she broke up with you?
That depends on you situation and the reason she left. If it was on no so great of terms she may be thinking of you but possibly not fond thoughts. She may miss you but if she made the decision she likely is ready to move on.
Why is it so difficult to find easy advice?
It would in all likelihood depend on the issue. For example, if the person asks if it is a good idea to jump off a bridge? One can assume the response will be a quick 'absolutely not!' If the question is 'Should I sell all my belongings and move to a deserted island?' One can assume the person asked would give it thought before rendering an opinion.
AnswerWell if you look at it their are people out their that will mistreat you no matter what so theirs people that will give you sorry advice If you wont good advised go to some one you trust more that any other in the world.
AnswerPerhaps only easy questions can get easy answers?
AnswerIt is difficult to find easy advice because people don't want to be held liable for anything that you do based on that advice. Also, you're not paying them for the advice, why would they give it to you? It's time consuming to give advice for free, people feel they have better things to do with their time. Remember the cornerstone of all economics is theory of rational self interest which states: a person will rationally choose an alternative that is in his\or her own best interest. What is this saying? Everybody is in it for themselves, naturally. What's in it for me? To sit around giving free advice, you must be in a position to be able to do so, obviously you earn no wages when your giving other people free information.
Additional ResponseFrequently, when this question arises on WikiAnswers, avoidance is the initial response as my response is conflicting. The reason it is conflicting is that from personal experience, advice is readily available; however, the advice provided is based upon someone else's experience. Basically, it is easier to give advice than to follow it. Often, advice given may be wise and utlimately the best decision ever, but due to emotional, social, and possibly unkown or unforseen elements, the advice might not be followed...even by those who provide it.
From what you say it seems she's worked out that the relationship won't last much longer.
How do you make your ex-girlfriend like you again?
I know you don't want to hear this, but if she is your ex girlfriend, getting back together with her will just cause you more pain.
Simply ask her out again. If she says no, accept it ans move in. It will be hard, but in 10 years, will you still feel bad about it? Of course not!
Tough it out, meet new people, and find someone else. Living well is the best revenge, after all.
