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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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If you have slept with a coworker and they told you that they would not tell anyone in the workplace why would they turn around and then do so?

There are two things I trust in 100% ... God and myself! When you make the decision to sleep with someone from where you work you should know you run the risk of it getting back to others. Whether it be a man or a woman telling tales behind your back, hold your head up high and walk right by! Don't let them get to you. There will be another scandal in the office soon enough and your news will be old news. I always notice it's the tongues clicking the loudest that have some little dark secret they are hiding themselves! Just wait and you shall see. Consider this a quick lesson in life and make a habit of not dating anyone at your workplace. Marcy

What do you do after you've discovered your spouse is cheating with the same women you already caught him cheating with?

Hes Gotta go in my thought but its up to yourself

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The only thing I can tell you about your problem is, your husband is already showing the sign that he fell in love with this woman. If it's only sex, he will find another one to sleep with. One thing you can do is talk to him and tell him what you wanted and what you can't accept from him..

Why does she keep her cell phone on her at home?

There is only two possible answers for this question!

1). She is afraid of losing it, and or is one of those people that feels naked without their cell phone>

or

2). If she particularly makes sure to remove the cell phone from the room when you are around then there is a chance that she has some incriminating(extra-marital activities) to hide from you.

I don't know the situation, but would 95% of the time be willing to be that it is just second nature for her to always have her cell phone with her, but I will leave it up to you to decide.

How do you get your dad to stop cheating?

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first of all if you are the kid, I do am sorry if your father is having an affair. Now you want to know how you can tell your dad to stop? by talking to him and tell him that if he loves you, he needs to stop what he was doing, or you can ask him to move out before things gets bad and hurt so many people. Once again I am sorry..

Why do girls smoke?

At first, to impress their friends and maybe to rebel against the parents and teachers. After that phase, it is the combination of assimilation with the peer group and pure addiction.

What can you do if your husband's ex-wife and her mother have been causing problems and making harassing phone calls?

The SIMPLE thing to do is to change your phone # Get caller ID Use an answering machine Do you have child visitation to content with? How about a Conciliation Court meeting? Finally - you can get a Restraining Order Absolutely-get an order of protection against them-but make sure there are proper grounds, otherwise it could backfire

this comes from www.privacyrights.org

How often do I have to get these calls to make it harassment? Just one unwelcome call can be harassing; but usually your local phone company will not take action unless the calls are frequent. However, if a call specifically threatens you or your family with bodily harm, the phone company will generally take immediate action.

Who should I contact when I get harassing calls? Local phone companies have varying policies on whether to call the phone company or the police first. Some recommend that you first call the phone company's business office and explain the problem. A representative will connect you with the "annoyance desk." Other phone companies may require you to file a formal complaint with local law enforcement before they will deal with the matter. To find out what your phone company's policy is, contact the business office and ask for assistance. For serious threats, if life or property are threatened, or if calls are obscene, you should call the police and file a report. Provide as much information to law enforcement as you can. Indicate the gender of the caller and describe the caller's voice. Note the time and date of the call(s). What did the caller say? How old did he/she sound? Did the caller seem intoxicated? Did he/she have an accent or speech impediment? Was there any background noise? Was a phone number/name displayed on the Caller ID device?

How can you approach an act of infidelity by you or your partner in such a way that it actually contributes something positive to your relationship?

* Communication in a relationship is a far greater tool than just sex. Anyone can have a sexual relationship, but it takes time and patience to communicate in a trustworthy fashion. If in love, both partners should feel free to express their feelings about anything. Breaking the bond of trust is difficult and hurtful to the other mate and it will take time for wounds to heal because more people feel if one cheats once they will again (not always true.) There is no brochure of instruction for marriage and humans make mistakes so both of you should know there is no such thing as perfection in humans. Hopefully people learn from their mistakes and don't repeat the same one twice. It would be wise for the two individuals to have a long talk about why infidelity even happened and then if both feel the relationship is worth saving they should seek counselling to learn the tools so their relationship becomes stronger.

What should you do if your ex-boyfriend gets jealous because you accidentally sent him a message talking about getting stood up by someone else?

First of all, if you truly didnt mean to send him that, who cares? he's your ex. but if you sent it to him and are just telling him and people that it was by accident, then that's playing games. if it was an accident and you care about how he feels. you still have feelings for himAnswerYou two are broken up...your ex still may be upset about the breakup, but he has no right to get angry with you over who you now see.

You don't have any need to apologize, other than to explain that the email was sent acidentally to him. It might help your ex move on if you two stopped contacting each other for now and not being a part of each other's lives.

Should you keep hanging out with you ex individually when you are in a relationship?

  • No a person should not still be seeing their ex individually when they are in a relationship because that relationship is over and both exes should move on. If in doubt one should put themselves in the shoes of the person they are now having a relationship with.

Is he bored with you when he spends more time on his phone when we are in bed having sex.Each call he breaks off and takes. PS. we are having an affair and had not seen each other for a year?

He has no respect for you and treats you like a blow up doll. If he really cared he would put the phone away. Bored Idk, depends on what expectation he has but if all he wants is sex that is all you can expect. Move on to a man that cares for you and loose this one.

What movie is about a woman who is having an affair dies in a plane crash?

Wow you go back in time! this was an early techno-fiction picture called Christopher Strong. ( sounds like a Tarzan type, but isn:t) the lead character is the Aviatrix Lady Cynthia Darrington ( or Darlington) between missions, to make a long story short, she finds out she is pregnant. the crash you describe, yes it happens on screen and camera angles and shots clearly imply a suicidal intent. at a very high altitude- the flight was supposed to be a stratosphere record-breaker. She soberly disconnects her life support system and lets gravity take its course. This was a very controversial film in the depths of the depression, suggesting pregnancy of the wrong type motivating a suicidal ( accident) I don"t think the film has ever been shown on TV. the powers that be wanted to make an alternate (cleaned up) version where she comes out of the dive or the whole thing turns out to be a nightmare but the suicidal crash angle made the scene- and screen. a very sad and depressing film starring Katharine Hepburn as the woman flyer, and Colin Clive as Sir Christopher Strong, the title character.

How can you set your husband up to cheat on you so that you can catch him once and for all?

You have to have some proof such as women's phone #'s you've found in his wallet or women phoning your home or someone you know that has seen him out with someone else to accuse him of cheating. What if you are wrong? If you have had some proof (word of mouth from a friend) then really, all you have to do is follow him yourself. I did this with my first husband. I asked a girlfriend to help me and someone he didn't know and we followed him in her car. I found him at a bar cheating on me with TWO GIRLS! Good luck Marcy

How can you tell if your lover is cheating?

Do you know the reason why some women look for another companionship? For married woman from the time she marry her husband she will be this perfect wife doing all the responsibilities as a wife do to make her husband happy and satisfied. For a while their life will be perfect, until the husband becomes comfortable in his life and romance stop. So if you think you can trust this woman, don't you think its only fair if you talk to her and tell her how you feel. No head games just be blunt..

What is good-faith?

A good faith is all about your belief in life, your relationship, your marriage, your friend, and family.

Wife cheated now she is loose why?

There is no link between cheating and being loose. Only after several childbirths would her muscles become loose. This is either in your head or she is just not squeezing her muscles when you are having sex.

Can you sue someone for sleeping with your ex wife while you were married?

No we can't. Our husband is the one that pursued the other woman. The only fault of the other woman is she didn't say no to your husband. What you can do is talk to your husband and ask him why. If he lied then it's time to rearrange your life without him...

How can you prove that man is married?

A man can be proved to be married via his marriage certificate. It contains all the details regarding to a person's marriage.

Is it wrong to be friends with your supervisor and to visit each other alone at each other's apartments if you're of the opposite sex but you have a significant other?

Unless it's work related then yes, it's wrong and you know it. I have a feeling you almost wish something would happen and you're struggling with this. I've been a secretary to two important business men and not once did I go to their home or have them to mine. I went out on their yacht once, but I knew their wives would be there and we just had a good time. On occasion we met in a lounge and discussed business, but that was it. You can still be good friends, and if he wants to discuss business keep it in the office, a restaurant or a lounge. Marcy

Is it appropriate for a married woman of 13 years to go to happy hour with her co-workers who are mostly male and single?

Would you want your husband to go out to happy hour with mostly single women co workers? Once you answer that, you have your answer. Personally, I wouldn't go out with a bunch of single men without my hubby, but that's just me. It wouldn't worry me or my husband, but the fact that you have asked the question means it would worry you and/or your husband, you have your answer. It depends on how loyal and mature the man and wife are. My husband and I have total trust in each other. I use to work at an Oil Company and was the only gal in the office. All the men were married, so was I and on occasion they would ask me to go for a couple of drinks (we were just buddies and I knew a lot of the wives). I'd put my finger up to them, dial the phone, check with my husband and he had no problem! He has gone out with a couple of women on business and I don't get all bent out of shape because he's called me about it. We've been married 35 years and never had a problem.

Can cheating revitalize a dying marriage?

  • A spouse or spouses cheating does not revitalize a dying marriage because it breaks that bond of trust they had for each other and that trust is hard to earn back. If a couple wants to revitalize their marriage then they can either see a marriage counselor to learn tools to enrich their marriage; perhaps go on a romantic vacation even if it is a weekend vacation or, they could temporarily separate legally so each person has enough time to consider if they want to continue on with the marriage.

What do you do when your best guy friend stops talking to you and then after cheating on other girls says he is trying to guard your heart?

He thinks he can't talk to you BECAUSE he is cheating on you. If you ask him why, he won't have an answer and he could just, walk away. I had something like this happen to me once.

Why do men who claim to be in love look at other women?

Loving men looking at other womenBeing in love with one woman doesn't stop other women from being visually pleasing. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it doesn't mean he's an inch away from leaving you at any given moment. Few men upon falling in love forget every woman on the planet except you and his mother.

If he takes a few glances every now and then, probably absolutely nothing to worry about.

If he is constantly staring at other women and generally ignores you when doing so, there might be an issue.

Disclaimer: Each situation is unique. Use good judgement.

AnswerBecause men are idiots! AnswerSOME PEOPLE SAY ITS IN A MANS NATURE BUT COMMON WOMEN CAN YOU HONESTLY SAY THAT YOU HAVEN'T OR DONT NOTICE OTHER MEN? MEN TEND TO DO IT OUT IN THE OPEN WHERE WOMEN DO IT DESCRETLY. NO MATTER IF YOU ARE A MAN OR A WOMAN IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU ARE WALKING DOWN THE STREET AND YOU HAPPEN TO NOTICE A CERTAIN SOMEONE THAT IS ATTRACTIVE TO YOU DONT DROWL RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE WITH. THAT IS JUST DISRESPECTFUL. ITS ALL ABOUT RESPECT FOR THE ONE YOU ARE WITH.

It's rude to look and a waste of time. Why make your spouse feel any less about themselves in any way? If you are committed to someone and you appreciate who they are and what they do and your lives together, is looking at someone else to think about them later or fantasize about them in any way a good thing for your relationship? Sure there are attractive people, but it is exhausting to have to always be thinking that the person you're with is finding everyone around you attractive. It only makes, especially women, feel bad about themselves because images of women are EVERYWHERE....we are all being brainwashed with sexual images of women and how can a women not feel insecure with the men in their life going around and consuming all these images and using them to fantasize with? Is this what life is about? How about spending the time to work on a project, or visit a family member, or volunteer...

What to do when you and your friends ex have great feelings for each other and really want to pursue it... we really like each other and we had these feelings even when they where together?

  • As long as you are single the first thing you should do out of courtesy is to talk to the friend's ex and explain your feelings and you would like to pursue the relationship. 'Ex' means the relationship is over so either your friend can accept the two of you will be seeing more of each other or you may have to walk away from that friendship. Other than being honest with the other partner in the picture there is no reason (only if you feel you both love each other) that you can't pursue the relationship.