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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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A guy moved in with you The relationship has gone south Only your name on lease you told him to leave and he told you he had squatters rights How do I get him out of my home?

squatters rights are only available in an empty house, one viod of furnishings or recognisable signs of someone living there. noone can squat in an occupied house

Does a live in spouse have any rights in a breakup?

Spouse means your married and thus yes they have alot of rights which a lawyer will usually refresh your memory on. If you mean girlfriend/boyfriend they are not a spouse

Is it okay that my girlfriend accepted her ex's friend request on facebook after being in a relationship with him for 7 years and also engaged to him?

I don't know this one. I accepted my ex's friend request on facebook. My current boyfriend wasn't happy about it. The only reason he wasn't happy about it is because after 4 years of dating ( we started dating at the age of 12 ) he said he wanted to take the relationship a bit further. I didn't want to , even though i truly loved him. But he forced himself on me and got me pregnant. My daughter is now 6. But eventually my fiance had to deal with it because it was my daughters father.

Basically, i think you should give it the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes. If conversations between the two become too explicit , explain your worries to her. If she truly loved you , she would listen and understand how you feel about the situation

Good Luck for the future :)) xxx

When people say goodbye what do they mean by So long?

mabey so long since ive seen you, or it will be so long until i see you again.

Is the best revenge when being dumped to act matter of fact and say at least you know the truth and can get on with your life and not go through that type of pain then leave?

It's obvious you are a bright individual and a true survivor, but you only got one thing wrong ... you just don't move on. You need to feel the hurt a little more and to grieve a little (not too long though) and then hit that saddle once again and get on with life. NO ONE is worth destroying your life over. For every jerk out there (man/woman) there are 5 that are great individuals. When we share our minds and bodies with someone we think or do love and they don't treat us with the respect we should get, then it darn well hurts. I have come to realize that even bad things that happen to us (love gone wrong) has many lessons for us to learn and it's a learning curve to make us wiser and more independent and self sufficient. I saw a wonderful movie called, "The Diary of a Mad Black Woman" and it is a must-see movie. This young black woman who was married to a rich black man had to be embarrassed and degraded by him when he brought his mistress into the house and literally pulled his wife across the marble floor and threw her out of the mansion and locked the front door on her. Revenge was all she could think of. Her wise old aunt told her this: "Forgive him, because if you can't forgive then he still have control over you." When you forgive someone it doesn't mean you have to like them. You should feel sorry for this person because they haven't learned how to treat another with the respect they deserve and I always say, "the head of the snake will turn around and bite you in the butt" meaning: If you dish out the uglies to others, then you get it back 10 fold and they do! You have the right attitude, but experience what you feel; cry, get angry, kick a door, scream, and then get out and have some fun because there is someone out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. Good luck Marcy

How long do you have to keep a marriage license after a divorce?

The Final Divorce Decree in esense nulls the Marriage License, so it does not need to be kept any longer than one feels necessary. In the divorce documents the fact is made that the union between the married couple is to be dissolved, so unless you want to keep it for nostalgic reasons, then it's ok to discard it. If there are kids involved in this divorce, they may wish to keep it for some reason.

If you left your narcissist because you hoped it would make him see what he was doing to you will he come back if you've had no contact with him for a week?

Until he realizes he has a mental disorder and believes he nees help, he will not change. He will not think he is treating you bad. He will believe that you treated him bad and "weren't there for him." He will castigate and malign you to those you mutually know. He may seek you out again as a source of emotional/sexual supply or he will decide to be with another person who will provide what you did or give him even more attention and regard. If he feels he can replace you, he will. Narcissists are emotional vampires--they feed off of the feelings of others and give nothing in return. The only way you could stay in a long term relationship with one is by submlimating your own feelings, needs and desires, and going along with everything the narcissist wants. Again, this only works as long as the narcissist wants it to--if he bores of you or finds a "better" person to supply his needs, he will abandon you. Does this sound like a relationship you want to get back into?

If your ex cheated on his girlfriend 9 times with you why is he now texting you and saying mean things?

Because she probably caught him and he's in big trouble! This guy is worse than pond scum and you should be giving your head a shake for letting him see you 9 times behind his girlfriends back. What he did to her, he'll do to you! Keep your self respect and don't give it up so easily for a jerk like this. Tell him to get lost!

Is is illegal to make a threat over the phone?

it is still illegal to make a threat over the telephone.If the other person were to contact the police you could be done for threatening behavior.Also if it is done using a mobile phone the police also have the power to have your phone blocked.

How do you say high school in Spanish?

La escuela secundaria is high school in Spanish.

Spanish(Mexico): Preparatoria

Why would a legally divorced couple of 8 years still be living together as husband and wife?

Sometimes it due to the fact that they are in a business venture together. Other times it could be for the childrens sake. We have a couple of friends where the husband lives downstairs and the wife lives upstairs. Odd, but it seems to work for the children's sake. Then there could be the possibility that the wife feels afraid and insecure living alone in the house (in this day and age I don't blame her if that's the case.) They could also just be friends and enjoy each others company and each of them may be dating other people and have an understanding between them. Marcy I think a lot of couples feel a lot of pressure when they get married, or they feel like the other person is now "stuck" with them so they can never be sure that s/he still loves them. It is possible this couple was happier when they weren't married yet and decided that being married just wasn't for them.

I need serious relationship advice i have an ex girlfriend who im now seeing again who keeps texting other lads and lieing about it i dont trust her one bit but i love her What should i do?

Shes lying to you about it of course you don't trust her....she isn't behaving like she is trustworthy. You need to aceept that she isn't trustworthy and move on. Dump her she isn't worht your time and effort. You can not reform her so quit it and find a woman who is worth it.

How do you make my husband divorce me?

Ya know, if you don't like the guy you don't have to make him divorce you, you can just divorce him.

If you have had a falling out with a guy why would he constantly ring your home phone and when you pick up he does not say anything?

possibly nervous or still has emotions and is too afraid to express it. he might be crying and then feels too dumb to talk to you. As devils advocate I must say that he might be trying to creep you out, as the opposite of the two cheerier answers

What should you do if your friends and family aren't there for you anymore and you're still in love with your ex-boyfriend?

Yeah, if everything was that easy. Well what happend, we were together for 8 months, I know its no thtat long, but I had the greastest times of my life with him. My parents was the hole deal of break us up. First they would break us up, then let us date, it felt like a cycle for them. Now they even went to the extremes to get a restaining order on him. I have never been so down in my life let me tell you. I tired talking them out of it but then they just flip and say they don't want me to be their daughter anymore, my friends are sick of me because, I guess, I cause to much drama, and I mess up alot. But I don't get it, why do I have to be punished for being in love with him? And this I mean let's just say this is the first love, I have never felt so alive in my life, until I met him. Now I just feel like giving up. Love, is truly a battle feild.

AnswerIt sounds like you are obviously living on your own. This means you are independent and need to try to make some decisions for yourself. Sometimes (like the rest of us) you'll be right and sometimes wrong. You must first ask yourself why you and your boyfriend split and if it was your idea or a mutual agreement then there is no reason you can't find out if he has a new girlfriend or not and if he doesn't then try to get in contact with him. Hopefully this is the case and if so then take it slow and easy in your relationship.

Good luck!

My boyfriend admits he still loves his ex wife how long should I give him to get over it?

protect your heartgive up and find someone else. If he truly loves her you will always be in the backseat! And eventually he may go back to her. Trust me I was in love with my ex and ended a five year marriage to someone else to go back to him. Alot of people got hurt. Just protect yourself.

Hello, 7/1/12

I am not sure when you wrote this question, but I am going through the same thing right now. My boyfriend of 4 months has always talked about his ex wife of 4 years!! It is not worth the time unless you understand the love for him is worth the pain, but it still should not continue. I confronted him about it and he just didn't realize the insecure and jealous feelings it gave me, and we are over it now. What kind of love anyway. . one that was abused or something new that you can only give him?

My daughter's boyfriend has a ex girlfriend that keeps texting him and telling him that she was going to kill his new girlfriend which is my daughter and the police wont do anything what to do?

well keep calling the police. change your number. if you are actually scared for your daughters life, get out of town. leave in the middle of the night. go to thehopeline.com. talk to a trained coach who is ready to talk to you. that is all the advice i have, i hope your gonna be okay! hang in there! and pray!!!!

How do you handle an ex-wife who wont leave the picture and wants to remain in the life of the step children?

the best you can do is to ignore her IF the said children are her biological children as it is very difficult to cut off the cord no matter the story behind the break up.

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