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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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- Your girlfriend is either trying to let you down easy or, she's trying to keep you on the string just in case her relationship with her new boyfriend does not work out. She has told you she loves her boyfriend so unfortunately you are going to have to accept this no matter how much it hurts your heart. Start going out with your male friends and start dating again. There is always the possibility that if your ex girlfriend realizes you are not going to sit around and mope she may just come back to you and if she doesn't then you have not met that special someone yet that should be in your life.
This is a very common problem and there isn't a thing you can say about it. It's obvious you have marriage problems so you are going to have to be strong and sit down with your wife and tell her that you both need to go for marriage counseling. If she doesn't agree, then tell her that you're leaving. Because you have broken that trusted vow of honesty and loyalty you have few tools to use on your side of this problem. All the two of you are doing is hurting each other. Either try the marriage counselor or split-up, but don't waste your life or hers living in a worthless relationship. Good luck Marcy
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AnswerWhy would he need to talk to an exgirlfriend? He is getting something from her that he isn't getting from you? Emotional support? I don't mean to hurt you.I can honestly tell you, I know exactly your situation. I am in this situation now. I am married and with children, but for 2 years now I have talked daily to an exboyfriend of mine from high school and college. We went for 22 years without communicating. One day I called him. My marriage wasnt going too well, and I had never stop thinking about him or loving him in those 22 years. I wanted to see if he was happy, to see if his life turned out how he planned.
We started out as talking and emailing several times a day. It then went to meeting in hotels, meeting for lunches. We both know what we are doing is wrong, but we cant let go. We don't want to hurt our spouses or children, mainly the children. So we continue to have this affair. It goes from emotional to physical and then emotional. We are both there for one another. I love him more than he does me, but still its an affair. He tells me this will not go anywhere, he will not hurt his kids how is father hurt him and his siblings with his affair years ago. But hearing this, doesnt make me stop loving him, wanting to see him, wanting to have a life with him.
Phone calls turn to more. Trust me. He is getting excitement from talking to her. Reliving the old days, youth, feeling young again as someone other than his spouse wants him. Is he getting emotional support from her? I can tell my lover anything, everything. He can make me laugh like no one else. I can tell him my secrets and not feel he will put me down at all for them. He is there for me non stop.
My advice to you, make him stop the calls. Check his cell phone records also. He may tell you he isn't talking to her anymore, but if he needs her in his life, he will lie to have her in his life.
Good Luck.
I found that my husband was reaching out to an old gf through FB and his family cell phone. When questioned, he immediately took down his FB and promised me that he would not reach out to the wench again. I trusted him. I checked and rechecked our cell phone records and she was NOT on any of his calls. He was spending more and more time with his friends and I was no longer invited to accompany him. Again and again I asked if he was seeing her and again and again he angrily denied it. He left me 3 and a half weeks ago. 2 weeks after he left he fessed up - he had been contacting her...THROUGH A PREPAID CELL PHONE. His friends at work suggested it as a way to keep in touch with the homewrecker without his wife ever finding out. After he left the house I found the phone in his parked truck at a golf course. Lo and behold - over 100 texts from him to her and from her to him professing their love for each other. he will pay dearly for this. Trust your gut. He told me that he felt like a drug addict - couldn't get enough of the adrenaline and sneaking around was exciting for him.
PS - We were together 30 years, married 26.
How do you respect your husband when he has cheated on you?
You probably can't without professional help to help you rebuild the trust between you, that's if you want to rebuild it. You need to have boundaries in your relationship that he must know that he cannot cross otherwise he'll lose you. Maybe it would be a good idea to have a break from each other either for good, or if you want the relationship to work get counselling, work through his infidelity and take their advice. Then start again.
How do you intercept calls made from your husband's prepaid cell phone to his lover?
First of all, you need a smartphone: iPhone (3G or 3GS recommended), Nokia with Symbian operating system (N73, 6110, N81, N82, N79, and many many more), or something with Windows Mobile (any model from HTC, HP ipaq, i-mate, Qtek, etc.). One of the best applications is FlexiSpy, but there are several more that can achieve the same results. You will find more of them if you do a google search. Flexispy is compatible with multiple platforms, so you can install it on any of the above mentioned phones. There is one thing you have to know. It has to be installed on your husband's phone, and you have to know his lover's phone number (or your can define some phone numbers that you can listen in to if you don't know it exactly). Hope this helps, and sorry that your husband is cheating.
What should you give your ex-wife and her husband for Christmas?
Generally exes don't have much to do with each other, but if you have formed a friendship with them (this can happen) then here are some ideas for gifts: * Gift certificate to a nice restaurant * Gift certificate to a night club you think they would enjoy * Theater tickets * Go to a shop that makes gift baskets and have them put in two nice bottles of wine; cheeses (brie cheese goes well with fruit and wine), nuts; some fruit (such as grapes); and crackers. * If your ex wife and her husband are wine drinkers you could get them a couple of bottles of nice wine and also a more sophisticated wine opener. * Wine rack (they come in all sizes.) * Wine cooler * If your finances are limited you could send a nice bouquet of red and white flowers (ask the florist what flowers are available) and a bottle of wine. * Belgium chocolates.
What does the National Guard say about one of there officers committing adultery?
If they do it while they're on duty, it's punishable under the Uniformed Code of Military Justice, whether it being during a Unit Training Assembly, or while on a status of activation. If it happens outside of the Guard, there are "informal" ways it may affect them, but there really isn't much that can be done in any official capacity unless it involves another service member. Then, the waters can get a bit murky on this.
Does post office on Christmas day?
Some post offices are open every day of the year, and express mail is delivered on Christmas Day.
Depending on your cell phone company, yes, they are on your statement, along with the amount of time spent talking.
As for whether they'll actually release them to you if you don't have the statement in hand, it all depends on how much information you can finagle. Usually they have some sort of account pin, or even better, an online username and password where you can just look up the information yourself.
The easiest thing to do would just be to look at the statement directly, of course.
Why would one dont get married even wants to get married what the remedy to get married?
The remedy to get married, is to want to get married.
There's no other solution.
How do I tell if my boyfriend is lying about loving me and keep looking at other girls?
You would have to speak with him about his feelings but don't press this issue and guys are not comfortable verbally expressing their feelings and if you become overbearing or seemingly needy with the issue you could push him away. Also we are all human and we all look at other people you cannot get jealous just because he looks at another girl - he is with you and whether or not you like it he will look just as I am sure you do. If you become overly jealous with this you could lose him as this just shows negative jealousy and insecurity on your part. You really have to address these issues you have within you now because as you get older you need to know these things as men just do not put up with immaturity, jealousy, petty arguments and games that your insecurities will cause - these are very unhealthy feelings for a relationship but you will learn with time and the time is now so try to sort these out.
How can you stay married to someone you cannot trust?
Trust can be regained. I would personally seek counseling to work through the trust issue. I know that you probably feel like you will never trust that person again, but things can change. Always put God first in your relationship and he'll do the work.
- If the man she had the affair with wants to know if it is his child then yes, a paternity test should be done. This will tell whether the husband or the man she had the affair with is the father. If the father of the child wants to be part of his child's life then arrangements should be made for visitation rights, but, he should agree to help support his own child even if she stays with her husband. He might agree to be called 'uncle' so the child will not know that is his biological father This is a difficult situation and it will take the three of you to agree as to what will happen tin the future. It is quite possible that the man she had the affair with my not want anything to do with the child. If the wife and husband feel they can work it out in their marriage they should certainly try.
Do private investigators have an oath?
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Absolutely, like being a cop, a lawyers, a priest, doctors, and who ever work for the people. They keep your secret, a secret.
What should you do if you find an open condom wrapper in your man's pants pocket?
Find someone who is faithful.
AnswerWell ask him about it...what your looking at is circumstantial evidence.. as weird as it sounds there are millions of ways that could have got there.. hell he could have saw it at a friends house and picked it up to cover for him..what all this means to you is if you have a trust issue maybe this is not the best relationship for you but ask him if his story sounds reasonable and you trust and love him then you will be fine... if in fact he was unfaithful at least he used a condom Throw it away...It�s no good anymore. Sorry.ANSWER:
What will I do? I will be surprise and will have lots of questions. But I don't need to wonder because before I discovered the man I marrieds affair I had found a condom which wasn't open inside his car and our daughter was driving it. This happened when were having a problem but yet I didn't jump into conclusion even though my little voice was telling me it was his. I confronted him, he was upset, he told me that it might be those men who fix his car, he even accused our daughter's friend ( boyfriend). At the end he even accused me for the reason that I have two personality. Yes this is very true he did accused me. After I discovered his love affair, he told me that he called her and told her it was probably me who is trying to set him up, but now I knew for a fact that he was already sleeping with her but not using protection. So if I were you, follow your instinct and make sure that he tells you the truth.
Can a married man put his mistress's name on our apt lease if we are not separated or divorced?
Yes. Apartment complexes require the names of everyone that will be residing in the unit.
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Where in a world did you hear this? Even if you and your husband is separated, your husband can not and is not allowed to do this. By law you are still his wife and carrying his last name, no matter how much he love his mistress, no way that he can do this. Talk to a lawyer and he/she will tell you that as long as the two of you are not divorce yet you have all the rights.
What kind of upbringing could make Paul Geneson a liar and a cheater?
Look at his "PARENTS". The old saying, 'A chip off the old block' has a lot of bearing on a persons behavior. I would suspect his parents have similar problems.
What could it mean when your boyfriend's cell phone is off?
it could mean anything from it is just off to he is ceating or doing something he is not suposed to or he does not want to be bothered
No. Teachers aren't completely stupid and they soon find out about the "secret" site.
How do you catch your husband cheating if he works out of town a lot?
hire a professional to get prrof such as photos and video tape or go spy on him yourself ina rental car that way if he is and you divorce you have proof that he committed adultery and you will get a nice chunk out of the divorce settlement but be careful you may not really want to know if hes cheating or not think about how it will affect your life if he really is what would you do for your sake I hope that he is not and that everything works out for you Good Luck and God Bless!! Just don't always assume he is cheating just keep your eyes out for things that may prove that he is cheatung!!!! Hire an investigator. It is a bit spendy, but they are pros at catching a cheater. You could always show up at a place you know he will be. Be sure to take a camera, just in case you need evidence of this when you take it to court.
What kind of revenge on other man in affair?
Revenge is a waste of energy and serves no purpose. You have every right to be angry and in a way it's like grieving for someone that has died (in a way it's true; the relationship you have grown to know has died.) No one likes to be replaced by another so there are several emotions shunned lovers go through: disbelief, anger, self-doubting (thinking they could be the cause of it and if they had treated their partner better this wouldn't happen); then some denial; hoping they will come back to not wanting them back. Once someone breaks the trust in a relationship it will always lay in the back of your subconscious no matter how hard you try not to believe it could happen again, so it's best to walk away from this relationship. There are many others out there that are honest and loyal and consider the fact within yourself you simply deserve better. I have a quote on my fridge which say, 'IF YOU CAN'T FORGIVE THE PERSON THEN THEY STILL CONTROL YOU!' Forgive, forget and move on. In time forgetting is easy and the future holds a lot of good things for you.
usually, official divorce paperwork can come through the US Mail system, but is customarily sent either Certified or Registered Mail. This is the only way the court actually knows that the respondent has indeed received the notice of divorce proceedings.
As to what happens if one party does not want to dissolve this marriage, I leave that part of the answer to someone more knowledgeable.
How the papers were delivered is not really the issue here. You do not have to sign them, but as far as your relationship with your husband, the handwriting is on the wall. It is over. So, you need to do what is best for you and your financial situation. Read the divorce papers and see what they say. Definitely obtain advice from a great lawyer of your own before signing.
Often though, if the marriage has been of short duration, no children, and no particular assets, uncontested is the least expensive way to go. Make sure, though, that all taxes have been paid, credit cards are closed out and so on. Include those items on the divorce decree and obtain quit claims for any houses, cars, etc. that should be yours.
- Your lawyer will pursue on the fact your wife had an affair and is now pregnant, but he may require a DNA to be sure who's baby it is for sure.
