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Cheating
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You should be discussing this with your lawyer. He could also suggest that you hire a private detective to catch your husband with this female. That in itself will speak volumes and you won't need the text messages or photos. You should be able to track his text messages or pictures through his computer. Ask a friend for help that is computer knowledgeable. If you want to keep this more private, then phone a computer technician in the phone book and ask how you can track the text messages. You don't need to go into detail with him. If he wants to know tell him you left some and need to track them down. Sorry you are going through this.
Is it right to have an extra marital affair if its true love?
Yes it is, if you are being unfaithful or keeping secrets from your other then it is cheating, if you love someone else, let the other one go. You can't have it both ways, someone will be hurt from this ,but its better then lies and deceit.
Is your husband cheating if you discovered he has a secret email address?
Men are scum, especially airplane pilots. They will cheat every chance they get, and they all have girlfriends on the side -- or women who WISH they were their girlfriends. God knows why. An honest person doesn't need more than two email addresses; one for messages and one for spam. Not all men are scum, but the above poster is correct in saying that a high percentage of airplane pilots can leave a girl in every country. Truckers, etc., can also be like this. I agree with the above poster that your husband SHOULD NOT have a secret email address. Time to start kicking some butt! I should know, I knew my husband's email address and I even had his password. I never saw anything unusual in his email but I had a suspicion of cheating. I found out he had another account that he only logged into while on the road or when I was asleep he used to carry on his emotional affair. I got ahold of these emails and divorced him. believe me, thanks to the secret email address I got more money than had I stayed with that overweight, lying, dishonest bastard. It was totally worth it. CASH IN, LADIES! Yes, why would he need a secret email? Something is going on that he doesnt want you to know. Believe me, I have an email that no one knows about for just the same thing.
Do you have to be married or a direct family member to be on someone else's insurance?
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Sorry you can not. It's just like driving a car, if you have a friend in your car and you had an accident, the insurance company can not take care of that person because he or she is not insured in your policy..
What if you caught your Husband cheating what can the wife get out of the divorce?
Yes the wife can get a decent settlement from the divorce.
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If you caught your husband with another woman, the best thing is ask yourself if this man is worthy of your love, time, trust, and respect. Then if you really want out because you know that he might do it again, it's time to think about YOU and if you have children just think about them first.
Don't let yourself be on this situation, it's very hard, and the pain will be worst. Always remember that if its not meant to be, its not meant to be. Some where out there is another man that can be the best and maybe be the one that will only love you and only you.
Is your fiance cheating if he has women's phone numbers in his wallet?
Unless there is a woman's name written down with that phone number I wouldn't jump to conclusions. If you don't want to ask him about it, then write the number down and phone those numbers. My husband carries a few phone numbers in his wallet, but they are strictly business. He does put the name by the number so that helps. If they are women's phone numbers don't waste one more breath on this guy and kick him to the curb. You'll never be able to trust him again.
- If the mistress is completely out of the picture then the husband should take his wife out for dinner and admit what a fool he was and he has realized that 'the grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener. If the husband has not cheated before he can remind his wife that humans make mistakes and he has learned from those mistakes. If the wife accepts his apology and is willing to work on the marriage and if the children are old enough to understand; as a family all should sit down and the father should explain his feelings to his children, but assure them that he has never stopped loving them and realizes just how much he does love their mother and his children and would like to earn the trust and respect from all of them. It will be a long difficult road (the cheating man better mean what he says) because once the bond of trust is broken it is very difficult to get back. If the husband has not grown from his mistake of having a mistress and feels 'that old feeling' coming over him again and cheats again then he will be the loser for the rest of his life.
cause she saw your mom naked LOL jk um... idk look it up on the internet you ding dong
Absolutely not! This could well have ruined a good relationship he had with his friend and it certainly would cause you to mistrust him as well and put a dent in your relationship as far as trusting him again. Trust is earned! You seem less concerned about your own feelings and whether he is worth taking back. Make him work for your attention and if he continues on with this text messaging then kick his hide to the curb!
The only way a wife can pay alimony is if she is rich, like those millionaire, or politics, but normally she don't.
How do you catch a trucker husband in the act of cheating?
As with all such problems, you must actually be there. A private detective is expensive but can bring results. If you're absolutely positive that cheating is occurring, then it's probably worth the investment. Shop for P.I.'s as you would a plumber-- get 3 estimates... unless, of course, you are limited otherwise. Truckers have earned their motto of "A woman at every truck stop", but this does not mean all truckers are like this. If you are absolutely sure that your husband is goofing off on you either hire that detective the other poster mentioned or follow him for a couple of hundred miles yourself. It doesn't take long before you would catch him in the act if he is cheating on you.
What is the statute of limitations on adultery in Tobago?
whats adultery? you need to use more terms that we understand
Should you get married because you are pregnant?
dont get married only because your pregnamt. you need to love the person. getting married needs to be a lifelong commitment and yes if your pregnant you should get married but dont let that be the only reason that you do. If you do that then it will only end up in a devorce and that would be worse in the long run you you and the baby. if you love the person and the baby is his then you should get married and make it a lifelong goal to be together forever.
How do I find out what your wife is hideing from me on myspace and facebook?
i have a tricky yet ingenious way of finding out her password. clean off key board let her type in passcode, then dust for prints and find the letters to her code but not order. or hide a camera. but either way, know that once you cross the line to figure out what shes hiding, know that theres know turning back, and if shes innocent and you get caught consequences will be harsh.
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Are you talking about additives not adatives? As far as I know additives is something that you use to added to enhance the food, or gasoline. I might be wrong but check it out.
Are you wrong to cheat on your man while he is in jail?
Let's think about this for a minute. Having asked the question, you are:
- thinking about it - and you should keep thinking about it only; I'll get back to this in a moment.
- or you have already done it and you are seeking justification for doing so. In which case, stay tuned and examine the potential consequences.
For what ever reason, your "man" was locked up. Okay, say what you want about his morals or ethics, he is doing the time for doing the crime. He may learn from this or he may not, but it is likely not much of a comment on his feelings for you.
Right now, while he is locked up, he is alone. Sure, he is surrounded by dozens, perhaps hundreds of other people, all guys, but he is more alone now than he has ever been in his life. Hard as he might be, and as unlikely as it is he would ever admit it, he misses you more than he has ever missed anyone. He thinks about you every minute of every waking hour of every day, and when he is asleep, you haunt his dreams.
You may miss him too. But wait! You are considering cheating on him while he is at his most vulnerable. There is a comment there to your moral turpitude, a comment you made.
Now, consider that 98% of the people locked up in the US today will one day be released. How much he misses you will depend greatly on how long he has been gone, no matter how often you have visited him. Let that percolate for a minute.
Consider also that one of the highest rates of crime in the US is for domestic assault or assault rising out of a domestic situation. The ratio of murder associated with these crimes is quite high as well. One course of behavior by no means justifies the other, however one must consider where one steps when taking a walk down a dimly lit path. You may not be responsible for the behavior of another, but you are responsible for your part in the unraveling of a situation like this.
There are consequences for every action. Your man is learning this now. If you cheat on your significant other while he is incarcerated, there will be consequences. What those are can only be determined by you, him, and the relationship the two of you have. The outlook, however, is not a good one.
All of that being said, do the right thing: either honor the commitment you made to him and remain true, or simple send him a Dear John letter and make a clean break. Regardless of which side of the line on which you now stand, the sooner you make the break, the better.
If she is talking to him constatly or trying to talk low then she probably is but if she is in the same room with you then she is not.
What does it mean when you see your boyfriend create a new email account?
cheating, or maybe he wants something for other reasons
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you should be able to get a divorce if you want to, especially if your husband has abandoned you, and hasn't told you of his whereabouts. call a few family lawyers in your area (or legal aid, look in the government pages of your phone book), and ask them about it, then proceed from there...good luck.
I would tell you to make her quit but you can not make her do anything that she does not want to. If she really cares for you tell her that you do not like the situation. If she would do anything for you she will quit on her own to make things better in the relationship. I have experienced this myself and my wife did not quit. This lead to her cheating on me later with the co-worker. Be very cautious with this is my advice.
AnswerYes, she should quit her job. Out of sight, out of mind. She needs to get away from the temptation and never see him again. If it means you both move to another state to save a marraige, that is more important. Do whatever it takes to separate them forever.
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It happened to me. exactly like the asker is saying, and she stopped because the coworker was not interested in her anymore. I started looking around and found out that it is possible she cheated on me since 2 years before cheating with that coworker. She probably cheated on me with up to 7 guys total, 3 being a reasonable number because of the incertainty of who and where and because of the convincing evidence i found several times. We have a son together, he is 2 years old almost. She even invited the coworker (before i found out) to our home and he had dinner and i gave him the biggest welcome one can give to a stranger... until i found out she gave him a bigger welcome.... oh i feel so stupid stupid... all those years in university, all this experience with women, all this TV watching and googling and life experience and I turned out to be a blind victim. I am not going to leave her because she loves me but i do not love her anymore... blood tests for the kids to determine who their dad is would be my advice before you confront her. once a cheater, always a cheater. it doesn't matter if you remove her of the workplace, she will find someone else (and if she is pretty or acceptable, someone else will find her).
do not ask her to quit her job, it will only result in your loss because if she gets stubborn and doesn't quit, then you lost, and if she quits, you gained nothing while the anger and reasons to cheat on you (from her point of view) increased a lot!
I looked through her stuff and the "lady" asked for an apraisal of our house (behind my back)... so imagine you are comfronting her, then you would scare her more.
I don't know if she will go to the divorce level but if she does, at least now, i am semi prepared and she doesn't know.... i don't want to lose the kid, half of his genes turned out to be mine (blood test is not 100% garantee but his blood group matched).
we will see how this ends. if you stay with her, prepare to meet the devil because today (2 month after she admitted to the affair) she is still behaving like a cheater. a few weeks ago i caught 700 dollars hidden in her drawer. she took them from my son's piggy bank and only left around 120 dollars in it!!! can you imagine? this is money we both put together for his future!
she said the money was to help a coworker who was closing on her house. i know the female coworker and the coworker herself cheats on her husband (my wife told me). so there is absolutely no justification for anything your wife will do from the moment she finds out you know about her. (actually there is no justification for anything she did in the first place), so prepare to live with a now cheating, tomorrow thief person in the same roof as you. you are better off going to the gym, getting some muscles and finding a better partner because a wife is supposed to be a partner in life and if your partner cheats, what would you do? would you ask him to change his desk to a desk further away from the company safe? he will cheat in other ways, just break the partnership.
Why does a man tell mistress he has no freedom?
He wants to stay married to his wife and is using the mistress for extramarital sex purposes.
Is your husband secretly texting another woman?
- When a person is cheating by texting they are generally very foxy and private so your best bet to catch your husband is to see what his pattern is for going out especially in the evenings or weekends and either you and a girlfriend follow him in your girlfriends car (so he won't recognize it) or hire a detective for a couple of weeks to follow your husband and see if he really is seeing another woman.
If a husband takes another woman to dinner is it appropriate?
Let's assume this other woman is not related to the man by blood. Even under the strictest of business relationships, it's still a bad idea.
If the dinner conversation will be too private to have anybody else tagging along, then he's betraying his wife's trust.
It's like pulling the pin on a grenade. It can be done safely, but you only do it if you want to blow up something.
Can your ex spouse charge you with adultery for while you were married after you are divorced?
Do you mean that if your are all ready divorced that your spouse charges you with adultery? Once the divorce is final, it is done. He/she can say anything about why you got divorced including that you had an affair while married, but that doesn't make it true. Many people do that as an excuse for getting the divorce and not taking any blame for the divorce.
