Cheating

Because both are highly addictive in some people. It depends on the individual. Some can go through rehab and come out the other end a stronger person and never do drugs or touch another drop of alcohol, but others have an addictive personality and although they really try hard they often will fall back into old habits. When I see people messed up on drugs or alcohol I often wonder what terrible things they may have gone through to make them this way. Is it simply an addictive personality or they are deadening a pain deep within. I feel it's both.

• No matter what country it is some men cheat on their wife or girlfriend and with the exception of a few countries women can also cheat on men. So yes, some Jamaican men do cheat.

• Hopefully you had proof that this woman's husband was cheating. If there is no truth to the accusations; the divorce happened then yes, her ex husband could have sued you because it's 'defimation of character' and you ruined not only his marriage but his reputation' and the courts would decide. However, if the husband did cheat and you witnessed it then you could be called in as a witness, but this generally does not happen.

You bet he is! Some men go through it as grouchy, a little depressed and sink into themselves, while other men flow through it with a fair amount of ease. Then there are the men that get a new hairstyle (providing they still have hair) new clothes and are eyeing all the young girls. As long as they don't take any action on this, it's quite normal for men and women to try and recapture their youth. Getting old ain't all it's cracked up to be! LOL It the medical field it is no longer classified as "midlife crisis" but, "male menopause." Don't you just love that one! LOL It's true. Men go through hot flashes, mood swings, but not to the extent as some women can go through. My brother is turning 57 and he was complaining to his wife that he was having hot flashes. She is also going through her menopause. She told him he was going through male menopause and of course he got huffy with her. He went to the doctors and lo and behold he was having "hot flashes" and was into male menopause! I thought I would wet myself when my brother begrudgingly told me. Many women realize men go through a male menopause, but most men (including male doctors) refuse to admit to it until they have to deal with the symptoms. My husband is a sweet guy, turning 60 this August and he too has been suffering from hot flashes, his appetite on and off, not sleeping all that well (night sweats) and a little forgetful at times. He admits he is in male menopause. It's not the worst thing that can happen to man or woman. However, this is no excuse for your husband to stray. If he is talking this way nip it in the bud and say something like, "Well, do you think I'm entirely happy all the time and if you think you can go out and find a young chick, then think about this one .... there are a couple of guys out there I've had my eye on too! Tit for tat Jack!" Seriously say these very words to him because men think they have their little lives wrapped up in a neat little box and they are the only ones that have these feelings of recapturing their youth. Let him know how you feel and don't let him get away with this! I can guarantee you that if you mention the fact you have had your eye on a couple of guys he will DEMAND who these men are. LOL It's a hoot. Enjoy the ride! Good luck Marcy

Answer Unless you were a hacker I don't think that this would be possible as the cell phone companies have taken measures to insure privacy and besides that you would need that person's password to access their phone.

Yes

"Many were invited, few were chosen." Parable of the dinner of sinners

First off! Don't jump to conclusions. Maybe your finding something out about your wife that you didn't know, maybe she's Bisexual. Maybe she had an unexpected mishalf with this co-worker, and their in a relationship. Your don't know intill you ask. Now from the seriousness in the question I believe that you don't want your wife sleeping with another female. Just ask her about it, and she might tell you. Now if she's says no, and you catch her, then yes, she's cheating. But talk about it, for all you know this might be an exciting new thing added to your sex life. I tell all my girlfriends that I love them, I'm not Gay or Bisexual, I"m married to a man, this is just how woman are.

It takes time to forgive your self trust me I know, but you still can't hold a grudge on your self so move on and start with an apology.

• Because your husband has cheated and continues to talk to the other woman then he still is cheating. You are in control of your own life and although extremely hurt by your husband's infidelity you should start sticking up for yourself and not enabling his behavior. Sit down privately with no distractions and tell him like it is .... it's her or me and if it's me then there is no further contact with her and we see a marriage counselor and if you refuse then you are filing for divorce. If he disagrees then see a lawyer and file for divorce.
• You should also accept the fact that your husband caused the conflict in your marriage. His lover did not owe you any fidelity. There are people everywhere who have no qualms about dating a married person. The fault lies squarely with the married person when they bend to temptation and stray. That behavior may be hard to change without a serious commitment.

If they are just texting each other and chatting there is nothing wrong with that, but if they are flirting with each other then there is a problem. You shouldn't have to confront the female neighbor, but have a very serious talk with your husband! Communication is the key. Be sure you have proof that something is going on between them before you accuse him. If so, then tell him that if he texts her one more time his bags will be packed and at the front door!

Whoa! Back the truck up! First off it depends if he's just cheated once, but if he's cheated on you more than once this guy is a loser and consider yourself lucky to be rid of him. You don't owe him anything either way! We are all just human and we can make mistakes and even some people can have an affair and are truly remorseful over it, but most aren't and that's what you have to find out from your ex. If you truly feel he has made just one mistake, then scrap the letter idea and meet with him. When you talk about him cheating on you watch his eyes. If he looks right into your eyes while talking about it, then he's probably telling the truth, but if he shifts his eyes, plays with his ring, etc., then he's lying! The eyes are the windows of the soul. Body language tells a lot too. Be smart and don't sit there wishing and hoping to hear the things you want to hear, but really watch this guy and be sure you aren't heading for another mistake. If he lives in another town or State, than make an effort to get together and don't do this through a letter. I believe when one makes mistakes (and I've certainly made mine in the past) that I face that person and look them straight in the eye. If you have nothing to hide there is no reason one can't handle it in this manner. Good luck Marcy I THOUGHT YOU SAID HE WAS YOUR EX.....NO LETTER NEEDED. NO CONFRONTATION NEEDED. JUST LET THE ANGER GO AND IF YOU SHOULD HAPPEN TO EVER RUN INTO THIS PERSON JUST BE CORDIAL.....YOU ARE MOVING ON. THATS THE HEALTHIEST THING TO DO. THE LETTER WILL LEAD TO MORE CONTACT AND THAT IS NOT GOOD. WASH YOUR HANDS OF THE SITUATON. E

• As long as the man that conned his way into your life by stealing your money; selling property he has no right to sell or gave you a false name and married you under that false name then lying or cheating on you is not a criminal offence.

I don't think you can. It might be better for you to call a lawyer and ask.

If he wants you to produce a phone bill, you should have nothing to worry about. If you aren't cheating on him it should all be fine. If you are cheating what is the point if you want to be with someone else divorce him, obviously he doesn't realize how good you are and wants to go for some other lowlife. If he is you deserve better, Get out there, Do your thing and hopefully it will all turn out okay.

Put salt on the tail and not a bullet. Put yourself out in public areas where unwanted attentions can not be easily expressed. Do not take another partner yet or your partner will think you had one already and that mind may go ballistic. If the relationship is over you both need to say: I enjoyed what we had, I'm really sorry it didn't work out because we did have some good times. Where we were going is just not the way I want to go. I thank you for our good times but the bad times outweigh the bad now. Limit new engagements until you have a friendship only relationship with your ex-lover.

If you've put up with it for 30 years there has got to be some other good qualities to this "good old boy!" You have to decide if you are angry over a culmination of problems in your marriage and you've finally boiled over, or, you're having a weak moment. Most men (and women) can lie about small things. For example: I asked my husband to tell his friend to call me with information I asked for. When my husband got home I asked him if he told this guy and my husband said he had. Well, my husband lied! I didn't get too upset because I know he didn't do it intentionally, but men will lie over the smaller things in life rather than deal with confrontation. If your husband lies about important things or is cheating, then yes, by all means ... get rid of the old goat! Good luck Marcy

Before the cell phone becomes popular, when we use block numbers or private, it will show on a monthly statement, but now they dont because of "Privacy Act" law. So if your wondering how the find the number, the only way is by texting your own cell phone from the blocked number.

How? it will be very hard because the trust between man and his wife was broken. There are some couple that end up divorce because their life isn't the same anymore. And some will take very long time because the betrayed spouse will be afraid and wonder what if? could it? husband might do it again. It will be hard for the betrayed spouse to trust again especially if the guilty spouse was emotionally connected with his ex mistress. Repairing your marriage after the affair might happen but it will take you a long time.

yes,totally.big time