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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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What if your friend is totally the opposite of you?
That's fine - if your friends you can teach one another things that the other knows and has interest in - try seeing one anothers sides and showing interest in them being different is good and opposites attract. Something brought you together as friends and only you two can continue to keep it that way. Don't judge them but try and understand.
What if you think your ex was the best sex you'll ever have and noone else will compare?
You need to decide which is most important to you. Whatever was the reason for the divorce needs to be weighted against the "best sex". The passion will eventually subside, but the need for a real, mature relationship is an essential part of life.
Remember what really happened. Be very honest with yourself. See the situation for what it really was. You were very much in love, the sociopath was using you. Yes, using you. They really do not know how to treat people correctly, it simply is not in their mental makeup. They have a disorder. You are very hurt because you care about this person. The sociopath does not care about others. I don't mean to be callous, truly. This is just the way this disease/pathology is
ANSWER:When you love someone, the love never really goes away it just changes. Over time this love for this person can become less overwhelming and then less important and eventually a much less significant memory.There's a joke that goes something like "to get over a man get under another". Well, if you fall in love with someone else you will automatically no longer be in love with the ex, unfortunately you don't have control over the next time you will fall in love again, so you must make do with the time healing solution for now which is no fun but it works somewhat well to the extent that it will reduce and probably even eliminate the pain associated with this feeling of loss. With time you will get used to the feeling of missing the ex. Keep in mind that you might miss him/her more than usual because sociopaths are so good at manipulation that you would end up more affected than in a relationship with someone else. A sociopath can elicit much stronger feelings in you than would happen with a normal person. You might end up being much more infatuated with the sociopath than you would have anyone else who was otherwise equally attractive to you (in looks and in the persona they presented to you). Such that you feel you love this person more than you have loved anyone else even when your logical mind says this should not be the case , that others you have been in relationships with before have treated you much better and deserved your love more. The sociopath is good at manipulating, so you are feeling these feelings as a result of the sociopath's skills. However and remember this: feelings are not reality, they are just feelings, sometimes they correlate with reality sometimes they don't, and a good manipulator can create feelings in you that are unrelated to reality. What's more important about feelings is that they come and go, and although you can't choose which ones come, you can choose to a small extent which ones you hold on to more strongly.
This feeling you have now will pass, eventually. It's tough and you can't believe it now, because you've probably gotten over others much more easily than this one, but this one is different, not in a good way, and that's why you got out of the relationship. The manipulator was so good that he/she has now left you feeling that you can't get over it, but that is just one of the manipulator's tricks. When you think about him/her, change the subject in your mind - think about something else quickly, keep doing this and one day it will be over. I really hope this works because I am going to try it for myself. I too I am trying to get over a sociopath and even though I spotted this personality issue very quickly, it wasn't quickly enough for me to come out unscathed. Good luck, you made it out of the relationship and that's the real victory.
ANSWER:Sociopaths know how to play innocent and from my experience, they target naive and somewhat inexperienced individuals who will succumb easily to their tactics. They get a thrill out of the sense of power and mastery over the person they are with at the moment. Their love is generally need-based. They will date you when they feel loneliness or some other type of need and will keep you around as long as you don't demand any sort of genuine intimacy that comes from truthful communication that may arise from a relational fight. Once you are no longer needed, they immediately turn their attention to a pool of women they already had in mind prior to meeting you. In fact, you were a part of that pool and you are actually no more special than the woman that they have dated before and after. They used the same tactics before you and will continue to do so afterwards, because they get a high from the feeling of respect from the adoration that they receive from their victim.
Don't even feel bad for the sociopaths because of the sob stories that they tell you. When a normal person undergoes a traumatic past, they don't go around talking about it to everyone they know. They only talk about it to a trusted few. Sociopaths announce it to their victims to gain sympathy and when it comes time that you need some sympathy from him, you will never get it. If you were lying on the ground helpless, he would hop over you and run to save his own life. He will not be that guy who helps someone in need unless others are watching or unless there is some kind of visible reward. He believes that as long as he has demonstrated some sort of good works by helping a just cause, his heart is exempt. He feels in this business transaction of having given money to the poor or gone on a volunteer trip that he has fulfilled his karmic transaction. He does not see the importance of personal beliefs, because they are of no use. You can't show off integrity, so what's the point in having it? Purely driven by selfish needs, this is not someone you can ever rely on to be there for you when you fall. In fact, he is a fearful coward. Those who feel love are able to face fears of all sorts on behalf of their lover. Love brings a man to take a bullet for his beloved. That kind of a strength a sociopath can never have. If there is trouble that affects him personally, you can be sure he'll be skipping like a calf to save himself and as long as no one saw it, it's fine. Plus, he will always have an excuse and it will be an external factor that's at fault. The next worse thing that can happen to losing this person you have loved is to having him.
What is the polite way to ask someone to leave?
If it's in a relationship just say were having differences right now and I'm really feeling as if I need my own space and I think we should stop seeing each other. If it someone who has worn out their welcome just say I enjoyed your company and I've given you plenty of time to get yourself together but now it's time for you to leave I understand this may not be good time for you but it is for me and you know if need me call me but you have the rest of the day to get your stuff out. or the end of the week or whatever. You know how to talk to someone so you know what you would like to say but say whatever it takes to get them out sometimes people take your kindness for weakness so don't just say it without authority say it like you mean it if it's just GET OUT!! then say that so just say it It's time for you to go GET OUT!!! Good Luck!!! Politely mention that its getting late or that you have things to do. Mention it twice and if they do not respond say," Im sorry but I have things to do so its been nice talking with you but now its time to leave." Also you can ask them what time it is, that is usually a kind hint to leave.
Why is your ex coming back to you for sex although he has had a new girlfriend for a year now?
It's possible that your ex is seeking physical intimacy without emotional attachment, or he may still have unresolved feelings for you. It's important to set clear boundaries and communicate your feelings to avoid any confusion or hurt in this situation.
Did 2ne1 really break up as been told by newspaper?
Yes, 2NE1 officially disbanded in 2016. The group released a statement confirming the news and expressing gratitude to their fans for their support over the years. Members have since pursued their individual careers in music and other ventures.
Why would your best friend spread rumors about you?
She/he might just be jealous of you, so cut them some slack and don't start doing the same to them. If you also have gossiped before about them, the information you share usually is not very secret, and if they hear about what you have gossiped about them, it might get them started. Don't do it in the first place and the friend will probably just stop.
Sending a comic strip may be a creative way to express your feelings, but it's important to ensure that the girl is open to receiving it and that it effectively communicates your message. Before sending anything, try speaking to her in person or writing a heartfelt apology explaining your perspective, feelings, and why you'd like her forgiveness. Communication and sincerity are key in seeking forgiveness.
No, a ten year old has no concept of 'dating' 'sex' or any other aspect of relationships. No, Kids who date at 10 are more susceptible to getting hurt in a real relationship. Also they are seriously too young. And you have issues whoever posted this....Am I correct i guessing that you are 10 or a parent of a 10 yr old who wants to date?
There could be a few reasons why your ex is reaching out to you. It's possible that he wants to make you jealous or to gauge your reaction. He could also be looking for validation or closure after starting a new relationship. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and decide if engaging with him is beneficial for you at this time.
How do you write to somebody to say you don not love them anymore?
- It appears the person you once loved lives in another town or city. What you will be writing is a 'Dear John letter' dubbed this during the WWI & WWII. It would be more mature of you to phone this young man and tell him rather than say it in a letter because you once had a personal relationship with him and he deserves to hear your voice and explanation. Do not take the easy way out and since you are not in love with him stick to your decision and move on in your life.
- A person who is needy is fragile and they do not have the self confidence or experience in life (mainly because they are shy or afraid of rejection) and tend to choose a partner that is more controlling because they feel safer. If the two should end up having a relationship eventually as that individual matures they are unhappy with the controlling factor in the relationship and seek more independence and the relationship may dissolve. When an individual has meets someone by preference they are confident and chemistry between the two clicks.
How do you get your boyfriend back when he accuses you of stealing?
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There are a few things which need answers here. What reason did he have for accusing you of stealing? What was it you were supposed to have stolen, and from who or where that he had cause to accuse you? Did others see you steal anything. If no one else can accuse you it is your word against his.
Ask yourself "Do I really want him back after accusing me of something I did not do?"
You may not have any proof that you did not steal, but then it sounds as if he has no proof that you did. It may be his was of using a drastic measure of dropping you. I suggest you give him a wide birth no matter your feelings towards him, besides why would you want him back after the cruel accusation he made against you. Get on with your life and know in your heart that you are better off without him. I am sure you are a more intelligent young lady to get over any retaliation by so called friends.
When you can have complicated in a relationship?
Complications in a relationship can arise due to various factors such as miscommunication, trust issues, conflicting goals, or external influences. These complications can make it challenging to navigate and maintain a healthy relationship. Open and honest communication, mutual understanding, compromise, and seeking professional help if needed can help address and resolve these complexities.
After breaking up with your girlfriend?
It's normal to feel a range of emotions after a breakup, including sadness, anger, and confusion. Give yourself time and space to process your feelings and focus on self-care. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family and remember that it's okay to take as much time as you need to heal and move on.
Why do you need a heart when a heart could be broken?
The main reason we all need a heart is to life and be alive. All humans and animals have emotion that's the way God made us. What kind of world would this be if none of us had any emotions? Cold and heartless.
How do you get closure when your ex ignores you completely?
- 'Ex' means you are no longer involved with that person and each party should go their separate ways. It appears that your ex has and is ignoring you because you no longer have a relationship. As much as this hurts you they are doing the right thing and you have to move on with your life. Realize that most people throughout their lives experiences breakups and it's not always the end of the world. Sometimes these breakups come in order for you to move on and meet the person you should truly be with. We don't always get closure to many things in our lives and we have to accept it and move on.
Umm, well, that depends. Maybe shes been hurt in the past. And then maybe shes new to it. Or maybe she don't care. But the only way you can really know, is if you sit down and ask her to explain herself. Most ppl r scared to sit down with a person they have feelings for, scared to be turnt down. Well you only live once, and youll never know unless you talk to her. The worst she can do is turn you down, but jus keep in ur mind, that life goes on, time heals all wounds. Live life while you can, theres sooo many more fish in da sea. Find out, then see what happens, but just don't waste time on her, if she ain't for you.. trust me on that one.
Let it go, if its meant 2 be, itll be back
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How long do you have to store your ex-boyfriends belongings before they become mine?
Laws surrounding abandoned property and how long you have to store it vary depending on the jurisdiction, so it is best to consult local laws and regulations. In general, you may be required to give reasonable notice to your ex-boyfriend about retrieving his belongings and keep them in a safe place for a certain period of time, typically 30 to 90 days. After that time has passed, the belongings may be considered abandoned and could potentially become yours.
There is no definitive information or announcement about LMFAO breaking up. However, the members, Redfoo and SkyBlu, have been pursuing solo careers since 2012, which may indicate a potential discontinuation of LMFAO as a duo.
How do you forget the one person that was suppose to be the love of your life?
You Cant........they will always be in your life and you will always remember them but, as my mother always said....life goes on also what might help is just hanging out with friends and meeting someone knew!
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If that person was/is really the love of your life you don't forget him or her. Not only will you not forget, you do everything in your power to stay with that person. Sometimes if things do not work out between the two people you don't forget the person but you do your best to move forward if it's not possible for you to be together (example: the other person does not want to be with you for whatever reason). If there is chance for the two of you to work things out then do your best to work things out. If one person is willing and the other is not then it's time to move on even though you will not forget that person.
As hard as it is you must act like they are not there, there is no way someone can get over a 5 year relatinship in that short amount of time before being with someone new, everybody needs time, all that's going to happen is he'l realise that the grass isn't greener, and you will need to make him chase and literally beg to come back, hes goin to make himself look stupid believ me, he'l regret it i promise but in the mean time keep telling yourself he will want you back but the question is will you want him back when you can see what type of person he is after 5 years together, be happy and write a daily daily diary in 3 months time read it back you wont believe how different you feel it'l make you a stronger person.
well you beg her to take your sorry ass back! did you even check with her if it was true? or just dump her when you first heard it?
I know exactly what you mean, i dumped my bf because some of my friends told me he did somthing that wasn't true, and they all convinced me to break up with him, so i did and now i could kick myself because i cant stop thinking about him. I'd talk to her, say it was a mistake, put yourself in her shoes and see how you would react in that situation. Hope this helped x
also if you can get her a present (like some flowers or something) and a card to show her how sorry you are.
It is important to prioritize your own feelings and self-worth. If your ex-boyfriend has expressed that his snowmobile is more important than you and then dumped you, it may be a sign that he does not value or prioritize your feelings. It may be best to focus on healing and moving forward rather than trying to get him back.
Can you brake up with a girl on a note?
Breaking up with someone is a sensitive matter that should be done in person or through a thoughtful and respectful conversation. Ending a relationship on a note can be impersonal and hurtful, and it denies the other person the opportunity to ask questions or discuss their feelings. It's best to have an open and honest conversation about your decision.
