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Abusive Relationships and Domestic Violence
An abusive relationship is a relationship in which a person is victim to the use or threat of being physically or psychologically abused. Here you can ask questions about abusive relationships such as how to spot it, and how to get yourself or others help.
3,885 Questions
How do you cope with a jealous partner who wants to control your every move?
Dear there are two ways you can handle that stupid guy or gal.
one is make him or her feel that he will no longer survive with you by grabbing all opportunities from you
second is to lag him or her behind you in case of every opportunity
check into local domestic voilence classes. Not anger management. Not for him but for your knowledge. He's seeking control and he just may loose control. You would not be unwise to seek answers from a specialist. If the event is bad do you really feel it will get better or worse. You will be baffled when you find out the truth and where this road may lead you. You may one day end up the purpatrator from ptsd and end up in prison.
Does Modusto and being Miss Hollywood have to be together?
NO! Modusto and Miss Nicole doesn't have to be together. I know for a fact Miss Nicole doesn't want Modusto and is very much in love with Vin Diesel. As Miss Hollywood she going thou some truma due from friends and family and trying very hard to recover. Anyways, She doesn't have to be with Modusto or Gabriel for that matter. As for the fake with the celebs right now will go to jail for steal Nicole name. Nicole has not met the celeb pro like yet. As to recovering absoultly nothing with drugs or achol. Never touch the stuff. oh by the way I am Nicole the one to be Miss Hollywood and very in love with Vin Diesel.
Answer 1
My, My, women are abused everywhere, you can't stop that until morality is given some importance over law. In Iraq they are subdued, oppressed and in the U.S. the system tells them to shed clothes and experiment all sorts of sexual stuff. Only the ways change. Iraqis see all porn movies being made in US and might think there are only prostitutes here.
Answer 2
Western countries have a number of legal protections and laws that allow women to actively pursue their abusers in court. Additionally, the government often sees it as a proper burden to pursue criminal charges against those who abuse women. Both these laws and this mentality are not present in Iraq. Women are supposed to be loyal to their husbands, regardless of their conduct. There is also the implicit view in Iraq that a woman is guilty for any abuse that happens to her, i.e. she enticed the abuser to violate her person. As a result, there is an incredible amount of shame that manifests in admitting to abuse. In addition to the shame being a personal issue, it also affects the remainder of the family, leading to possible disownment and, sometimes, honor killings. It is for these reasons that abuse in Iraq is far more prevalent and far more underreported than in Western countries.
Is is abuse when a husband totally refuses to communicate and just argue and puts his wife down?
No he is just jealous because he is living a crappy life so he is just taking his anger out on her.
I think many women go through this. I have been married to a wonderful man for 35 years, but it is true that all the sacrifices I do go unseen and unnoticed at times, although once in a blue moon he will buy me flowers or out of the blue tell me how much he appreciates my help. Most of the time men just don't think although I am sure most men really are grateful for what their wives do for them. I've had men talk to me about their wives and how wonderful and supportive they are and I always say, 'Why are you telling me, tell her!' They look shocked, but all agree and they do tell their wives. It isn't out of love that most guys don't say thank you they just never think of it. I also agree with you that often when a man does nice things for you it's at a great effort on their part to do so (the little darlings) so unless you show signs of appreciating any gesture they may make then they can get upset or angry. The bottom line is the fact that women often do more giving towards men than men give in return. The woman becomes angry because she feels let down so without knowing it when he does do something nice for her she will not give him the same satisfaction, but let him have a taste of his own medicine. There is really no perfect balance when it comes to getting praise for giving of oneself so unless you can give without strings, don't give at all! Women can chew gum, talk on the phone, cook a full course meal all at the same timeand men can't! LOL
If i am not interested in talking to a person anymore can i say to him don't talk to me ever.?
Yes, but choose your words carefully , especially if this person has been abusive to you in the past. Example ONLY: Say " Look , John, you know things are not going to change between us, so let's just say Hi and Bye and not have any personal conversation anymore. Please. It only makes it harder for both of us to move on with our lives.".It might be better to have a girlfriend with you if you have a serious concern for your safety.
It means that they are oblivious to the feelings, needs, and choices of other people. It means that they feel immune to the consequences of their actions. It means that, being "unique", they feel entitled to special treatment.
no.
it means that they are affronted and shocked that you would dare to say anything about them that 1. tells the truth about their abusive behaviour 2. is anything but idealizing of them.
What if the person whom you love shouts at you and start abusing himself?
he's prolly emo or suicidal. either way, get him a counselor or call 911
Yes, Hitler's father was abusive. Hitler was brought up in a very strict childhood. As a boy, Hitler said he was often whipped by his father. Years later he told his secretary, "I then resolved never again to cry when my father whipped me. A few days later I had the opportunity of putting my will to the test. My mother, frightened, took refuge in the front of the door. As for me, I counted silently the blows of the stick which lashed my rear end."
If you ignore your ex-narcissist will he start looking at another woman?
If he is a narcissist, he already has other women. He may have a main woman who can support him and give him what he needs to survive, but he is getting sex elsewhere and using other women already. A narcissist is all about what he can get from you. It doesn't matter how much you love him, he secretly laughs and mocks you. Once you stop giving him NS (Narcisstic supply) it's not that he will find another woman, he will simply go to another woman that he already has on the back burner. Narcissists are outwardly very confident but inside they are the most insecure and scared beings on the planet. Ignore a narcissist and he will come back to you when he has run out of supply. Ignore him again and again and he will get the picture and never contact you again. It works for me :) Once you realize your self-worth (Assuming you are a good and worthy person), you won't want a parasite like that in your life. I respect myself and know how much I have to offer, I will never settle for less again. You shouldn't either.
Its all about the AngleWell if he is a narcissist im going to have to say he will eventually after he gets done with boosting his ego in the mirror. No matter how self-indulged a male is his hormones will take over and the beautiful angle in the mirror wont be enough. Eventually the steroids start surging and the hunt resumes. I know from personal experience(considering im a guy) that if he is ignored he wont stay around long enough to see if your going to tell him what he wants to hear. If he is so crazy about himself and you are not paying him any attention that gives him 3 good reasons to look at other women. Im assuming that by ex-narcissist your talking about an ex-boyfriend who so happens to be infatuated with himself.- Hes got himself
- There are more fish in the sea(That he probably thinks he can catch)
- Hes the prettiest thing you have ever seen(or so he thinks that.)
Speaking from personal experience, it is when a adult male or female physically stimulates your penis or clitoris until you orgasm. I know because i was 5 or 6 years old when it happened to me and i will never be able to forget it unfortunately. Oral abuse can screw up a kid just as badly as physical sex because you never forget your first time. And you never forgive yourself for enjoying the gratification that comes with oral abuse even if your just a kid. Oral abuse takes away in hope of letting someone get that close again. Oral abuse is hard to deal with because you have to live with someone you don't know or do know (like a family member(s)) knowing what you sound like, taste like and look like naked.
It could complicate things terrifically. We would give serious thought to skipping it. He doesn't sound like a guy who would be really good at child support or parenting, so...
He should still get supervised visitation with random testing. Fatherless children still fair worse, and society pays the price. see link
None.
Unless you enjoy being abused and beaten, there is no potential. He will attack you sooner or later. He has the potential to kill you. If you read this and think : " Oh, no, he's so sweet and caring, etc etc", you are in for a bad surprise!
No one gets a five year sentence for "hitting a woman." It was a whole lot worse than that. (Not that hitting anyone is acceptable). More likely he inflicted serious injuries and is a repeated offender. The easiest way to predict future behavior is by looking at past behavior. I don't believe any type of abuser can be rehabilitated. Like wild animals, the potential to attack is always present. IMO, anyone who gets involved with one is "living on borrowed time."
Most abusers are serial, repeated offenders.
None at all. You may as well be the woman that he was incarcerated for hitting. My ex-boyfriend had assult charges pressed on him for punching his mom in the nose and breaking it. He was emotionally abuse towards me, and he would hit things (thankfully not me, though) when he was angry. The point is that if he hit one woman, there's a very good chance that he'll hit you, unless he willingly saught theropy and benefitted from it.
Who is the dental office is legally required to report child abuse?
If would think so, they are medical professional. they should do it morally anyway
**Any practicing Medical or Dental provider that suspects child abuse legally and ethically HAS to report it or face penalties or suspension of his or her license. By the same token, Registered Dental hygeineists (RDH), Certified Dental Assistants, Teachers, Nurses, attorneys and anyone working with children or working as a childcare provider are also legally and ethically responsible to report child abuse even if they only suspect it. Most medical providers learn in an ethics class that they are a voice (of sorts) of a minor.
In what state can you have more than one wife?
ANSWER:
I don't think you can find a state where they allowed man to have one more wife. Our western world differ other countries. We have laws especially religion and it will be against to what they teach us in the church. But I could tell you what we have are men who have mistress while they're married, and vice versa..
If you tell the narcissist he is upsetting you will he stop or hurt you even more and why?
He will hurt you even more, but in a way that you can't defend yourself against. Often he does it by claiming to be 'honest', 'doing the right thing' (for himself - not you!), or because God/religion told him to. Remember, he has no real empathy for anyone other than himself.
The reason why this is so hard to accept is that often in the beginning, when he wasn't sure of you, he was so very different. He then seemed so full of concern and feeling for you. You assumed that was the 'real him' and you trusted him. But in reality he was only trying to win you over. It is called the 'Idealisation Phase'.
If he is upsetting you now, you have entered the nightmare of the 'Devaluation Phase'. Nothing you can say or do will alter that. It's best to disengage, and find friends who will nurture you.
Remember, it's not about you. The devaluation isn't about you, and sadly the idealisation wasn't about you either. He is behaving like this to satisfy his craving for attention. It is and always was just about him.
Why is my boyfriend do munipulating things that hurt the relationship?
my boyfriend did the same thing.
i found out later that he was cheating on me.
their lives because they never learned how to communicate and they shout.
My mom is abusive i am 17 and live in Ky can i move out?
Unlegally- run away from home or tell your mom to stop being abusive
Legally- you can move out when you are 18. It's legal!!!
Good luck.
