Cheating

I think it the nature of the girls...

One of the possible reasons for a girl cheating you when you claim too love them is that they think of themselves very beautifull and they accutally have many guys like to be around them, to love them, and to be at the beck and call of them.

A girl is like a football there are many boys behing a single one.There are so many like us who love them , like them that they never pay much attention to anybody in particular

But if you are really cool you are sure to get their love and attention.........that's what i can say about htis matter....

because there are sooo many of them and its hard to just like one!! Girls cheat because the guy has been caught and she don't want to leave him, or because he is not doing everything to keep her happy at home the guy is lacking something and now she will find someone to fulfill that spot that the guy is missing at home.

You do nothing - you move on with your life. You should have known that as the "other woman" you were just being used for his selfish needs and there was really nothing else between you. He had no intentions of leaving his wife and being with you. Move on with your life and try to focus your interest in the direction of single men.

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It depend how long the two of you were having an affair. It depends on the situation with his wife. Or maybe his finally waking up that his lust is finally changing. Or you may not want to hear it, but could be that he found out that the grass is not really green on the other side. He may or maybe not that he is seeing another woman that is not his wife as well.

Well, how would you feel if you were married and your wife was having an extramarital relationship?

The answer is 'yes', he should end the relationship.... the husband got her first, and he can't be so selfish as to take her away from the other man. She married the other man, she has to live with him - whether or not she loves him. The other guy has no part in the relationship, and should get out of it.

Yes. Homosexuality has been known to exist in practically all races and every culture so of course there are gay black people as there are gays of every race and culture.

Absolutely NOT!

? Answer Maybe the mother married too young. or had children too young and now regrets her decsion to have children while she was so young. Could also be the way you treat her and like a man, if she's not sexually satisified at home, she's going to look for good sex somewhere else.

if you suspect it at all...go with your gut instinct...if you had no reason to worry about it you wouldn't be right now

Having intercourse because that's 'up close and personal.' Talking dirty is foreplay (could lead up to something) or flirting.

My personal opinion. Get rid of him. If he is living in the past with no respect for you, he's not worth the effort. Give him a kiss on the top of the head and tell him how lucky he is that she is "an ex girlfriend"

In Most cases No they have not.

It does however, depend on the state they are employed by.

Adultery is a minor/petty crime in some states, however, the states where it is a crime, consider it a "property" crime. This infuriates most women who rightfully do not wish to see themselves viewed as "property" by any legal terms.

Pennsylvania repealed it's adultery law that provided for a maximum penalty of two years in jail or 18 months in a mental facility. Michigan has a life sentence attached to its adultery law and Maryland a $10.00 fine. All these are considered "BLUE" laws and are rarely if ever enforced.

Police departments would have a hard time using these laws to discipline their officers as most define their rules of conduct around military standards and must prove the actions of the accused were prejudice to good order and discipline. IN some cases however, the department forbids and can discipline officers for conduct unrelated to the job that negatively impacts the department or the public perception of the department. A local department, the Beaverton, Oregon Police Department has this to say in their general orders: GENERAL CONDUCT. No member of this department shall act or behave in such a manner as to dishonor or disgrace him/herself in any way that can be associated with the department or profession. This would seem to clearly address the act of adultery, and even such unrelated acts as falling behind on bills.

Answer Some men for some reason that I can't understand do that to the people they love the most. They have to feel superior and in order to do so they have to talk down to you as though you are dirt under their feet. Personally I wouldn't put up with it for another minute. Set him straight. Tell him that you are finished with his crapping on you and that if he doesn't like it to hit the road. You might be surprised at how fast he climbs down from that big horse he's been riding around on while dumping on you.

I do hope so

There is no reason why they shouldn't my parents are still married 30 yrs later

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As far as I know few marriages do last after the affair's of ones partner, but with trust issue. But there are also that ends the marriage because of the affairs, and I'm one of them too. Life will not be the same anymore and the only smart thing to do is remove the problem and start all over again.

What's the matter with you! Just annoys me how girls think it's ok to cheat of guys, they actually have feelings too, they are a actually proven to stay more loyal than girls because girls are forever looking to upgrade there man, and look for new values such as if the guy you cheated with is e.g more muscular, more manly good looking then the girl will be drawn to him hence why you cheated! You don't deserve him but sorry you need to hear this, saying this doesn't make me a bad person it makes me truthful

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If you're feeling guilty, talk to him about it. If he really likes you he'll understand and forgive you. But only tell him if you don't feel anything for the other person. In that case, see who you like best and stick with them. Also try talking to the other person to try and sort things out.

if you dont take your partner its cheating you

Well 1st of all if love the person you shouldn't be cheating on them. and it all depends on what you did. Its really up to the person If they want to forgive you or not. Since a relationship is all about trust you can start by tring to regain that trust. Apologize in a face to face conversation not email or phone etc. tell the person your reason for cheating .... to give you a 2nd chance and you MIGHT get it and start by trying to regain trust like i said.

Why? Well because even though you two have been together for a long time, there might still be some little thing that is missing in your relationship. When you miss have intimate moments with your significant other, you tend to find it in others. When one person in a relationship finds friendship a person who listens to them they will cheat with that person because that is what is missing in their relationship.

What you need to do is evaluate what you both have in your relationship,

romance, sex, fun, relaxation, companionship, friendship and then see what key points are weakest and work on those to maintain them in your relationship so that either of you get board or frustrated with the relationship and start cheating.

There has to be a balance of everything that is important, but neither of you should disrespect the other, state your values and morals, and make them uncompromisable and make sure that you have an open honest relationship that you both can come to each other to talk about eachothers feelings, and any issues you find yourself in. Turn off the phones, the radio and the TV and take a moment for each other and the needs of one another.

ever hear of a calculator?

You should ask him why he won't leave her. If it's for the sake of his children then I'd respect that answer or is it because he loves this some else too. Either way it's time for you to move on and find someone who loves you and wants to be with you.

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First of all this man that you love is married and have two kids. Even his having an affair with you and told says he loves you but his wife didn't know about it, what makes you think that he will leave his wife and kids if his life is comfortable having his family and mistress. Did he ever told you that he is tired of his wife and kids that is why his having relationship with you. Married men who's having an affair and the wives didn't know about it, no way that they will leave their safety at home. But if the affair is been discovered, what do you think might happen, move out and run to you?

Gosh no because his life will be in so much mess that everything he built and own will be gone. If I were you, I will not believe to everything his telling you. Unless he show you his divorce papers and give you a ring asking to marry you, the chance that you have with him will be very slim.

I suppose some do, but I bet not all do. You can't generalize people by careers, or by anything, for that matter.

You can't it would just depend on your relationship, commitment and trust. Speak with him concerning your feelings and see how he responds to them.

It is unfortunate that people would do this but for some reasons they have of their own they do. Attention, lonliness, jealousy and possibly even control issues over the individual(s) the person have told.

why would any one want to die. if u want to die ure freakin stupid. FAGS

The fact that you have been living together for seven years shows that either he, you or both of you can't commit. If a couple loves each other the issue of being married shouldn't be a problem. He's immature, a cheater, liar and would rather blame you for his cheating than admitting he's simply a jerk. If he found you were too much drama for him, he had ever opportunity to act like a man and tell you it was over, but no, he had to cheat and that's lower than a snake's belly. Get rid of this guy! He will always cheat on you and even cheaters don't respect mates that hang around and take it. Bounce this guy out on the street and his bags after him.

There are many issues that are possible here. If she has yet to tell her parents that you are married then this is serious. I don't have a lot of background info, but I would say you two did not date long enough before you got married. If you did date a while then she must have shown signs of being insensitive. If not that means she was not being honest in your relationship. Either way you should have some red flags popping up warning you about marrying the wrong person. My advice: Seek counseling, or get the marriage annulled and move on.

well you dont,but you can join him! you start pointing girls to him that you think that he would look at! let him know " say look at that girl she as a pretty face? i like what she is wearing" so on and so on .good luck

Yes. First because you are breaking your vows to your spouse. Second you are placing the person you are cheating with in a position where you cannot commit. Third, you are borrowing trouble for the rest of your life if a child is a result. Outcomes of dishonesty are seen as bad since they destroy relationships involving trust and are so much harder to work out of than to get into.