Breakups

It depends. Being yourself and hoping for the best is always a way to go, but if you simply don't want to do that, follow these easy steps:

1. Look good for them! (I'm presuming that you are a girl, as am I). Don't look fake, please. Most guys look for real, genuine girls, girls that they can feel comfortable around. Try not to plaster on your makeup or wear eyeshadow shades like blue, or green -__- even black is a little risky. I would say light tan, brown, and pinks look best.

2. Find out what he likes..is he into country, alternative, heavy metal, hip hop, dubstep, reggae, etc. Listen up on his music so you can have something to talk about, and maybe buy a shirt that symbolizes it. (Ex. If he is into reggae, buy a Bob Marley tee or a shirt with the Rastafarian colors.)

3. Try not to act immature in front of him, but don't act too serious either. You want to show him that you are a fun person but not that you are five years old.

4. BE YOURSELF. Even though you may think that if you act like who you really are he wont like you, then he isn't worth it. Seriously, you want to be with someone who likes you for you, and not just for someone that you are trying to be.

I'm not too sure, but i think it means "I still love you babe!"

go with him if you like him alot and he asked you out that must mean he still you so just let him ask u out

Confronting them directly will only cause them to dig in and defend their position. The things that are taught to us as a child by our parents are our most valued possessions. There are only two ways to break them of the pattern:

a) Experiences. If a person has enough negative experiences, they will begin to question their beliefs.

b) Examples. If a person is shown examples of how their behaviour has negitively affected others, they may come to see the error of their ways.

In either case, the person has to be willing to change. Some people are so fixed in their positions that they can not change. It's a boiled frog effect. It takes a sudden and massive event (like divorce) to save them from themselves.

How do they NOT affect your health. Healthy, meaningful relationships with mutual respect and good boundaries can help contribute to improving your mental, emotional, and physical health. So, surround yourself with good people. Conversely, unhealthy, relationsh*ts (as comedian Dane Cook calls them) with no mutual respect and horrible boundaries can help contribute to the unravelling of your mental, emotional, and physical health and stability (or the remainder of what little stability you started out with in the first place). If you really want to get an idea, you should try and take a Physiological Psychology and/or a Sleep & Dreams college course. So many things have the potential to affect your overall health and quality of life, and life's too short to mess around with people who really don't care about you. Find the ones that do care about you and care for them in return. Find people who will add years to your life, not subtract. If you stick with people who don't take any responsibility for their life because they don't see their own worth, you will wish someone would subtract years from your life. It's not pretty. So, be positive.

It depends on why you both split-up. If he was abusive to you in any way then tell him to back off and leave you alone. Remain close to groups of friends and never go anywhere (for now) alone. It's adviseable you have tell either your parents or a trusted friend. If it continues then report him to the police and if you can give the police your ex's license number do so. If you simply didn't get along (argued too much), you both fell out of love with each other then it's up to you if you want to talk to him. Perhaps he doesn't feel you were fair in splitting-up over this and just wants to talk it out. If he cheated on you only the once it's up to you to consider if he's worth giving another chance too. People do make stupid mistakes in their lives. YOU are in control of this situation and it's you that is going to have to decide if you go after him by police to get him off your back or if he's one of the good guys that you want to give another chance too and at least let him rectify anything he has done wrong (but not abuse!)

Satanist looks like Madonna, Lady Gaga, Marilyn Manson and rest of the artist that sing crap.

There can be several reasons. The couple may not have enough of the same interests. They aren't intellectually balanced with each other. They can be more angry at themselves then the person they are getting angry at because they lack confidence. Lack of communication skills. Laziness in the relations or absence of any feelings for your mate's feelings. One of the two could just love to argue so even if you said "the sky is blue" the other person would tell you it was gray! Immaturity plays a big role as well. Learning to share thoughts and emotions. You sound like a smart person, so try sitting down with your mate and communicating (NO blaming or accusations) but stress you would like to better the relationship. Get the person to sit down and write a list of the things they don't like about you and then you do the same thing. Exchange lists. Mature people won't fight over it, but learn from it. If this doesn't work and the arguing continues then it's time to move on. Angry words can't be taken back and anger is simply wasted energy. Good luck Marcy

It's hard when an ex looses someone they used to love. Sometimes they still have a little hope the relationship can work again. And texting is a first start of getting the relationship back on track

If both of you basically get along and love each other then it's wise to perhaps text him back and ask to meet him in a public place such as one of your coffee hang-outs. Sometimes people think they want one thing, and it's not what they want at all. He could be having second thoughts or he could have told you he wanted to break off too since you were the one that suggested it. After all, you hurt his feelings and didn't leave him with much dignity. It's tough to hear you aren't wanted. You could very well have had good reason for breaking up, and this is what you have to think of now ... is he worth it? If you seldom got along or he was cheating on you or had a controlling demeanor then it's best to keep moving and stop answering his text messages. You can block on a computer you know. Good luck Merry Christmas Marcy

Of course both of you will still think of one another from time to time as you have shared a past together.

Depends on when the last time was that you went out on a date or had a conversation. It's really tricky to know how much space (time) someone needs in a relationship. On the wild side, maybe two weeks is too much space, but on the other hand, one week may not be enough. This is something that you and your boyfriend need to discuss together - in person - not on the phone.

Definitely NO! Advice the Credit card company that you want to cancel the card. Then have them issue new cards, one for you and one for your husband.

well about 3,099 relationships end a day because of cheating or because the male or female isn't interested anymore

She probably had a boyfriend in mind and did not know how to break up with you without hurting your feelings.

If you can prove that he's been mentally abusive (statements and letters from friends or family would help) then it would be up to a judge to decide whether the children should be subjected to a mentally abusive father. By the way, there are some who believe that allowing children to witness the physical or mental abuse between parents is actually a form of child abuse.

Here's a good start "your old lady" is either your girlfriend or wife! An old lady is ME!!!! If my husband called me his "old lady" or "baby" he'd have to wear sunglasses on his butt to see daylight! It's crude and it's rude, so what do you expect. Clean up your act and start acting like the guy that loves her. You really didn't come off in your post well for me, so I can only assume your "lady" is feeling the same. I'm not judging you, but giving you some tips on how to encourage your "lady" to come back into your life. You let me know if there is any hope for you. She's not comfortable with you and perhaps even a bit afraid of you (only you know how your relationship was when you were together.) When you are in a group she feels safe and more relaxed. It also depends if you are coming onto your "lady" to try and get her back. You probably say little when she's in a crowd, but a lot when you are together. Good luck Marcy

The only thing is have to say is tell her stop or just might as well break up with her if she does not stop when you tell her to.

The key for ex-offenders to getting their life back is through education! Obtaining a degree and/or a trade will transform your earning potential as well as your social standing within society. Although employers are less likely to hire former offenders that does not mean that they won't. You just have to try and have the right tools. Having a solid education as your foundation makes you marketable also using your past experiences as strength not weakness helps. In life we all make mistakes, some pay a higher price than other for those mistakes but reform is not unheard of. Also there are numerous programs that are out there to assist ex-felons get their lives back. Whether it be by starting your own business, getting a higher education, or just finding a job take advantage of what is offered to help you out of your situation. Remember a hand-up is always better than a hand-out! good luck!!

It could be a lot of things. Even though someone chooses to end a marriage, it is still sad to them if they truly care. The person may have cried because it is ending, maybe because it hurts too bad what things have happened prior to walking away, maybe he/she still has feelings but there is no hope, maybe they are sad because children will be hurt, or maybe because it is the end of a big part of that persons life. Just because he/she cried, it doesnt mean they want to mend the relationship. Crying can mean so many things. Ending any relationship is hard, scary. The unknown is scary.

When you're dating your best friend, just try your hardest to act naturally around them. It can definitely be awkward at first, but if you follow your natural instincts and don't bicker like some best friends do, the two of you should be a nice couple.

No, its not possible because there will always be that tension between you two. No matter the time lapsed you can't go back to be friends or just start being friends. There is a reason a relationship turns into a messy breakup!

First of all is it established that he is your boyfriend. And if so what is he doing dating anyone besides you? Why are you letting him dictate the terms of your relationship. Would he mind if you dated other men also? Does he get pissed and say "I dont care if you see other guys." Or is he so confident you'll stay he takes you for granted. In any case get a back bone and some selfesteem lay down some standards for youself. Or you may find yourself with his child wondering why he wont commit. TAKE HEART THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA!

his girlfriend probaly found out about you and she probaly told him that he can't talk to you know more