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What did my crush mean when he said he isn't looking for anyone right now?

sad but true..i don't think hes that "into" you..sorry

AnswerIt means that he wants to be single and is not interested in you the way you are in him.

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The man that you have a crush on is not looking for any type of relationship with you. He might have a girlfriend already and he is trying to be nice and respectful towards you so you wouldn't think his a rude man. Move on sweetie, there are lots of single men out there..

Within a marriage would it be considered cheating to frequent strip clubs occassionally?

If all you are doing is watching then no it shouldn't be considered cheating. But id look at the reasons why the man is frequentring these strip clubs. Does he find his wife less attractive than he used to? is he becoming bored of the marriage? or are the motives innocent?

AnswerLegally speaking, no, it isn't. But, this is an issue that the couple needs to discuss. The husband and the wife might not see eye to eye on this. She may question his fidelity and feel jealous and he may feel that looking does no harm. I would say that if you are worried how the court might react then don't worry, it doesn't look good but it is technically legal. If you are worried how your wife might react then there is only one person who can answer that question. Are we assuming it's the guy?Not sure how you "frequent" a strip club "occasionally"...but it sounds like you and your spouse need to sit down and discuss just why one of you feels the need to visit these places. An open and honest discussion may reveal issues that can be worked out together, or perhaps just understanding the need to participate in this activity will make it, if not acceptable, at least not so threatening. Give it a shot...and good luck.

How do you choose between your husband and your affair?

You have far more to lose emotionally and in every other way if you choose the affair. You know the answwer to this or you wouldn't have asked the question.

AnswerWith all due respect, if you can't decide who you love and want to be with, they would probably both be better off if you chose neither.

If either one of them made you truly happy you wouldn't be asking this question. Think about it. If you felt happy and fulfilled in your marriage, you wouldn't feel the need to cheat on your husband. And if your lover provided you with everything you felt your marriage was lacking, you would be trying to decide how to tell your husband that you want a divorce instead of trying to choose between him and someone else.

However, if you really need someone else to tell you what you should do...

Unless he's a real ogre, it's my personal opinion that you owe it to your husband to give up this other person and try to make your marriage work...but if he's such an ogre you wouldn't feel torn between him and someone else, right?

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First of all why do you want to choose between your husband and the man your having an affair with? Did your husband did something so bad that you decided to have the affair? If you don't have the love for your husband, I think it's time for you to let him go. He doesn't need all this pain from you. You can not choose who is the best or who is more loving. You are comparing your husband towards the man you had the affair, this is not fair towards your husband. You remind me of the man I married, comparing 2 different person is a no no to me.

What is the history of strip clubs?

The most I know about strip clubs would be during the great depression and probably 30 years before that. They had places called **ore houses (Didn't know if I could say that). But what they were for was workers who had been working at plants and farms. After their week of pay was given to them they would go into town and enter the strip club and buy a woman for a set price instead of having to try to marry a woman and have to deal with an unknown amount of debt when they divorced the person. It also depends on where you are from. In the United States, Strip Clubs have been around since about the turn of century. However, they were not called strip clubs; instead they were known as burlesque establishments. In Europe, "Strip Clubs" have been around since civilization started but they were usually in arenas. A good place to start might be strip club list.

If you have been seeing a married man for 7 months is that long enough for him to know if he should leave his wife he says he isn't making enough to support us?

Oh, oh, here we go again! This guy is yanking your chain! He has no intentions of leaving his wife. Why would he. He's got her money and he has you as his little toy. What's wrong with him where he can't better himself in the workforce???? Get away from this guy! It's best not to get mixed up with married men and even if you manage to get him to get a divorce you will always be plaqued with the thought that he could cheat on you too. Once someone cheats (it's cheap and it's hurtful) they WILL cheat again! If he really loved you he would have no problem getting a divorce from his wife and some how (as we all do) you could afford to be together. Kick this guy to the curb fast. Get your pride and dignity back and let her have this problem guy back!

How do you get over a cheater?

You don't, especially your trust. no one can get over the affect of your husband or your wife infidelity. It will take time to heal and after you accept the hurt, sometimes a "flashback" will occur no matter if you want it or not. Give your self time and space, and if it will help every time you think that the pain of the affair is coming back, write your thought, write how you feel, write the things that really hurt you from the affair. If you can do this, that will be one of the sign that your healing yourself.

Is cheating in school good?

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No matter how hard you find your school is, don't because it will not help you in the long run. Study harder, have fun while your young and fulfill your dream. Cheating while your in school will not make you a good student.

What should you do if you're dating a married man and he keeps saying he's going to leave his wife and he doesn't sleep in the same bed with her but you don't believe him anymore?

Most married men are total con artists and here is why: If a man gets a divorce 1/2 of what he owns (house, cars, pension plan, etc.) are hers! He will have to pay child support if there are children. He could have a business and usually businessmen put some of their company assets into their wive's names. It's complicated. He could lose a lot. Also, there are married men out there that don't want to try in their marriages, have a problem with growing older and want to date a younger woman, but still maintain their married life and I do believe this is what your guy is doing. Kick this guy to the curb! You're instincts are right on! Go out and find either a divorced or single guy. You deserve better. I never dated a married man for one reason only .... I wouldn't want to be the wife! You see, if he'd cheat on his wife, never had the guts to get an out-right divorce, then why on earth would I want a man that couldn't take responsibility for his own actions and his own life. I would never want to be the cause of a couple breaking up or breaking up a family. It never works! Good luck Marcy I am going through the same thing. When we met, he had separated from his wife. He told me he was married, but that the marriage was over. Which it was. We were together for 4 months, however, within that time, his wife grew increasingly unstable. She tried to commit suicide twice. Rang him up each time and told him. It was understandably awful. So he then went back. He couldn't cope with the guilt. So now he has been back for 6 months, he contacts me all the time and says he is going to leave her when she is stronger. That the marriage fell apart a long time ago. He too says he is not sleeping in the same bed. But in the spare room. How unhappy he is, how his wife is just happy he is there. As you know, we ladies will believe anything we want to.. We are not having a sexual affair and haven't had since he went back. I don't know if an emotional affair is just as bad. I don't feel proud of myself by continuing to listen to him and seeing him, we meet occasionally, talk, go out. Kiss & cuddle, hold hands. I still feel like a mistress even though we don't have sex and I hate that.. This has been going on as I say for over 6 months. I have lost 2 stone in weight and am in pieces over this. However, it seems to me that after 6 months, that is enough time to have as he says "shown her that their being together doesn't work, that she will be better off without him, and in turn be stronger". So, in answer to your question - I guess, you will never know. NO one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Myself, well, I have had enough. We are meeting tomorrow and I am going to tell him that this has to end, we have done this many times, but never followed through. We can't seem to stop getting in contact and that is fair on no one. If he was going to leave he would have by now. So my conclusion is that he has been stringing me along, just in case.. So, if you take my advice, you should do as I am doing. Once the trust has gone - you know it's over. I hope you can do this cos I have had a nightmare time. I wish you the best of luck.

Should you be worried if you find a white or grayish stain on your girlfriend's bed sheets or is she able to make such stains with her own bodily fluids?

  • Yes, sometimes women can cause this by their own discharge, or, just before or after their periods. Even if the sheets are washed the stain can be hard to get rid of. I wouldn't get too excited or worried over it.

What are the facebook car madness cheats?

The game Need for Madness does not have cheats. However, if you read the directions, it gives you good advice for advancing in the game. For example, in the game, pressing the "A" key you're able to see where the other cars are. If you press the "A"again, you see the guide of the track and where your next checkpoint is.

What happened in BBC mistresses?

What happened in BBC's "Mistresses" tv series? Well, the question is a bit vaguely worded. It isn't clear which season you mean, or which characters you wish to know about. Or if you are asking merely about the finale. At the end of season 2, Trudi had had sex with the bakery owner but suddenly dumped him, to return to the lying, cheating bigamist she had been shacked up with. Jessica had left her wishy washy tycoon husband, then found out she was going to have his baby. The assistant/mistress Jessica was too wimpy to kick in the teeth every time she gloated over sexing up Jessica's husband, hinted Jessica should get an abortion because "babies don't fit into Mark's lifestyle." Luckily for Jessica, Mark, AND the baby, both parents decided they wanted the baby and another shot at their marriage and relationship. Hopefully the evil assistant is out of the picture but it isn't resolved at the end of the finale. Katie nearly lost her supportive boyfriend when he saw cheating doctor guy kiss her on the mouth. The news about the affair came out, and cheating doctor's wife demanded Katie quit the hospital. Supportive boyfriend lectured Katie on her loose morals but in the end, he saw she was a good if flawed human being and he took her back. They will go to Sydney for his new job, together. Siobhan's weirdo stalker/millionaire law firm client tried to blackmail her by threatening to show photos of their trysts to her boss. Instead, Siobhan called his bluff and laid down a hand of aces - she gave the photos to his wife instead, strengthening his wife's divorce case, if perhaps ending Siobhan's law career in the process. Hari threatened to take the baby from Siobhan entirely but in the end both found some kindness for the other - Hari decided to leave entirely instead. Dominic re-entered the picture, vowing to help Siobhan in whatever battles she has to face and "to always be there" for her and the baby. So, does that help?

Is cheating bad?

Most people consider cheating as a bad and unwise action. Cheating means you aren't being honest--with yourself or others. Cheating makes a person feel like they've gotten one up on another person (such as cheating in online games), or like they've fooled another person (such as cheating in a romantic relationship).

Some people say, "What's the harm in a little cheating?" "Everyone cheats; why shouldn't I do it, too?" "Cheating is the only way I can get ahead---or get what I want." The problem with these statements is, cheating can be harmful. If caught cheating on a test, that offense can earn a failing grade. In some colleges, you can be put on academic probation--or thrown out of school. Military careers are ruined by cheating; a Court Marshal is never a reward for a job well done. Employers can't trust cheats so you'd lose your job if you cheat. Cheating in relationships often results in break-ups, as it should since trust and boundaries were broken. If cheating to "get ahead", it's always a slippery slope because cheaters do get caught and when caught, you'll be further behind than you were at the beginning. And overall, when cheating in any area, you will learn next to nothing of value, whether in games, in school, in a job, or in a relationship.

Is your partner unhappy with you if you are overweight and he always looks at other women when you go out together and would he cheat if given the chance?

Men will look at other women and women (if honest) will look at other men, but as long as it's "look, don't touch" it's fairly normal. However, if all his attention is off of you constantly you need to either communicate to how you feel about it or give him a taste of his own medicine. Start looking at other guys and making comments about good looking guys to your partner. Most guys will glance at the odd woman when out and do it discreetely, but it's down right rude when your partner is constantly looking at other women and don't put up with it! You could be a #10 and he'd still be looking. Just like a kid in a candy shop. Stop second-guessing how you look, and put the blame on where it belongs ... HIM!

What should you do if you've been married 33 years and your husband cheated on you and really fell in love and cries to you about her but chooses to stay with you?

If you have children, save the marriage for their sake. If not, then it is really up to you. You have to weigh a few things: do you love him? Is the relationship worth saving? Will he cheat again? Would he be willing to move to another state so he never has the temptation to see the other woman again? An affair is serious, it is betrayal and destroys most couples. It is the rare few who choose to work through it who will come out stronger in the end. I disagree with the first answer. This part may not apply to you but.. Do you really want to raise your daughter(s) to grow up and be so insecure that they would stay with a man that is crying about another woman?!?!? Or would you want to raise your son(s) thinking that marriage means nothing and that he doesn't need to respect his wife? Anyways after 33 years of marriage your kids would be old enough to see that you deserve to be happy and loved and treated like the queens we women are. Obviously 33 yrs doesn't mean much to him so I would walk away and find someone who will care about you so much that he would be willing to cry for you. I do have to say you are some woman for still being there and not throwing his ass out on the front door step the first time her name came out of his mouth. I would have kicked his ass out so fast he wouldn't have even known what hit him. Everyone deserves someone who will be true to them and be there for THEM, you are no different. Good Luck. I'm not making excuses for your husband, but there is no doubt he's going through "Andropause" (was called mid-life crisis before that) and it's similar to menopause (starts around the age of 40). They can have hot flashes, mood swings, become depressed, confused and want to retain their youth and often feel they haven't had a chance to sow their wild oats. Many men can go through Andropause quite smoothly and although may get a little moody or change a wee bit they don't always go out and cheat on their wives. After 33 years of marriage I think it's worth communicating with him and tell him flat out that if he doesn't go with you to marriage counseling or seeking out therapy together then he's has to get out of the house! By accepting his whining about this woman you are enabling him to continue with this and the reason he is doing this is he wants you to make the decision for him so he won't feel guilty about what he has done. Don't sit by and take it anymore. It's therapy or the door!

What do you do when you know your husband cheated on you and he is a pathological liar?

From your statement this sounds as if he's been lying for a long while. Pathological liars obviously have a problem and you aren't going to change them anytime soon. Because you are married you do owe your marriage to him a chance, so sit down with him and tell him he has a problem and unless he is willing to seek counseling or go to a marriage counselor it's over! You don't want to waste your life on someone that is constantly lying to you because it can not only get you into problems as far him possibly seeing other women, but also financial trouble.

If only 144000 celibate men will go to heaven Where do the women go Revelation 14 v 1 to 4?

The Bible is not say that only 144000 celibate men will go to heaven Revelation 14 v 1 to 4 to those men like Paul who rather than marry chose to serve God and do the work by spreading the Word exactly as Jesus taught it Some even before God came in the flesh as Jesus were enunch like Daniel and severved God and God only The women whether they are celibate or not which have repented and been baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins and receive the Holy Spirit which guides them and do His will will be received in heaven also See Acts 2 v 1 to 39 In the universal language of mind, the 144,000 refers to different parts of ourselves that must be understood in order to graduate from this physical existence. For an indepth explanation, see "the Bible interpreted in Dream Symbols. " isbn#0-944386-23-7

Did Juanita cheat on her husband and is that why he beat her?

One news article on the internet said she was upset because he was spending too much time with the MEN in his church!

Is it a good idea to set a husband up to see if he will cheat on you and has anyone done this?

What do you really mean by this? If you are planning to set some trap for your husband, don't be too suprised if that's the end of the marriage. After all, how would YOU feel if it was the other way round and your husband tried to trick you into being unfaithful? Even if you didn't fall into the trap, wouldn't you be extremely hurt and angry? There can no satisfactory relationship without honesty. Your husband mustn't cheat, but you mustn't 'set him up', either!

Why husbands cheat after 10 years of marriage?

Not knowing your husband or his own "reasons" all I can offer is known ones from general knowledge. Sometimes men like to feel wanted and when someone else shows interest in them that they may not be feeling at home it becomes enticing for them, maybe it hasn't been after 10yrs it could have been going on the whole time or most of it - he could be a chronic cheater, maybe he feels he can't live out his fantasies with his wife or can see her doing the type of things they want to do and do it with someone else, he could be bored at home and although comfortable, things in the bedroom haven't been the way he would like. The only you can know for sure is to ask him and try and have a calm conversation concerning this. If you are trying to forgive him and move forward with your marriage it would be in your best interest to go to counselling together.

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