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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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I think my girlfriend is cheating on me lately she won't stay with me after school and she's going to a place that a guy lives which she's in a relationship over Facebook because of a so called bet?

oh jeez, i had a similar situation about a year back, i ended up buying a gps tracker and finding out why she was out so late, i think u can assume why. i got my gps tracker from http://www.missionpossiblespy.com

What should you do if your boyfriend broke up with you and wont call you back but you want to work things out should you keep calling?

If your boyfriend broke up with you, that means it's over. If you keep calling, you are stalking or harassing him, and there are laws against that. Some women will give in if a guy keeps calling her, but men are different. Very rarely do men want to 'work things out' after they have broken up with you. It's over. Take this time to work on improving 'you' and learning to love yourself. Remember:

Don't waste your tears,

Enough has been shed for others these years.

Please don't despair; you'll find another somewhere.

Don't waste your tears.

Why does Mrs L try to be a teacher i mean all she does is cry and cry and cry?

Yeah Mrs. L is kinda lame like that. If all I do is cry and cry and cry then I'm pretty lame so yeah she is kinda lame. Lame people shouldn't try to be a teacher. I'm pretty sure that because she is still trying to be a teacher even if she cry and cry and cry and cry. Crying is dumb. I haven't cried since I was like 6 and I'm like 12 now. That almost 7 years of not crying. I'm a beast. One time I even scraped my knee and It was bleeding and I didn't cry. I mean what is Mrs. L crying about anyways? You should check her knees and see if they are scraped cause if they are it prolly hurts and she could be crying cause it hurts and she prolly isn't as tuff as me cause Im 12 and im tough and if i was bleeding even on both knees and an elbow is till wouldn't cry like that. if i was crying like that i sure wouldn't try to be a teacher couse i coulnt teech well. i am 12, so i coud prolly teach things like math and add and subtract and i wouldn't even cry when i did it. multiplication is kinda hard though right now but i mean i know what your saying about crying and stuff like that.

How can you move on when there's a baby involved?

You do what is best for your child and yourself - you have to keep going for the two of you and above all for your child. Join some mother & child groups and spend time doing things that keep you busy and happy, not only will you meet new people within the groups you will be spending time with your child and occupying your time which you will realize heals all wounds. It will just take some time and it will get better.

Do you often have arguments with your parents?

its solely dependent upon parents and children and there thinking...if they never listened to you in past..you are definitely going to have arguments in future as you will always think that you don't get importance in family..but if they have always listened to you..then its a chance you may have less arguments..but as teenagers, we often have arguments with parents, because we are constantly changing our views (but our parents aren't), so of course this leads to arguments.

Qualities for being a OBGYN?

Being a convicted sex offender disqualifies you so you may want to look into being a foot doctor.

What did Hershey and chase work show?

Simply put, DNA is the genetic material, not protein. At that time no one was quite sure which was which. A clever experiment by Hersey and Chase settled this question. Google that experiment.

How can you fix a broken relationship if you got pregnant by your ex-partner and had a termination and have since broken up and he's acting selfish like he's the only one who's had it rough?

If he's unwilling to put what happened in the past, there's not really much of a future with him. The tensions between you two, either just about the pregnancy or other issues as well, will continue to cause resentments and arguments.

You can't change the way someone acts, nor can you fix a problem if someone else doesn't want to work with you on fixing it.

Rough, meaning what? Rough because of the termination or because of life in general or the situation with your relationship?

Men can be so self centered and only into themselves. They think they have it rough and can only handle so much in life, while women can juggle so much.

If the termination was rough on him, obviously he cares/cared about you. Hopefully, he was there for you prior to the procedure and after. But men do not have any concept of what women go through mentally/emotionally/and physically with that procedure. If he wasnt there for you, maybe he is caring some guilt and the only way he knows is to act the way he is; selfish, self centered, and only into himself.

Did you both agree on having your pregnancy terminated? Is he blaming you?

It sounds like he does have some guilt about the situation. Give him time, and maybe he will come around. But you need to tell him what you are going through as well. You need to tell him you need his support, emotionally.

When I terminated my pregnancy, the clinic told me that most couples who go through this procedure do not stay together. There is guilt, remorse, and seeing one another on reminds them of what they did. Most couples can not get past the guilt. We were one of those couples.

Good Luck and my heart goes out to you.

If he is taking the termination so rough, why did you have your pregnancy terminated? And if he is acting selfish, why would you want to fix this relationship?

If it is meant to be he will turn all this around. It sounds to me, you two need to talk. You need to tell him how you feel and he needs to tell you how he does. Most men find it difficult to communicate on how they feel. Maybe he is dealing with guilt, or its something more.

Talk to him, and make him talk to you. If he cant, then let him go.

Sorry. I hope you work this out.

Why won't your ex grow up and get a job and leave?

why do that when they are taken care of already? stop taking care of them, pack their crap for them and put it outside.

Why would your ex-boyfriend want to keep the mobile phone registered to you that he uses and pays for?

Are they your contact details that he's using? Is he on a pay as you go phone or a contract phone where he has to pay every month? If it is a contract phone i would be quite suspicious because if he uses his phone and does not pay for it, you will be then one who will end up having to pay the charge as its in your name so ask him why doesn't he register it in his own name. kailey Dear Reader; It may be a means of keeping a tie on you. Tell him to be friends if he wants to be friends but with no unfinished business or strings attached. Dwight

My boyfriend who used to text me everyday stopped texting me and it's been 3 days now is he breaking up with me?

I don't know what so hard about a guy to just text back? It doesn't even take an entire minute and does he even call you? But then, don't assume, maybe he has a good excuse, trust your instincts, its always right.

When an ex doesn't contact you after the break up does it mean she doesn't think about you or is she just stuborn?

With every relationship there are memories so she has to be thinking of you in some way. She could be angry at you or she could feel badly about not being together (only you would know what caused the break up.) Depending on how long you have been apart it wouldn't hurt to contact her and just tell her you called to see how she is doing. Take it slow and easy and if she isn't dating someone take a chance and ask her out.

What should you do if your girlfriend of 4 years asked for space but you are having a hard time and is space a bad thing?

ur faceAnswerIf she is not dealing with some personal issue where she needs some time to handle it, like a death in the family or an illness or anything like that. If her reason is soley as a result of your relationship with her, then I would say its not a good sign. Reguardless of what anyone says about "needing some space", its usually to get away from the other person to figure out if that is who they really want to be with. I know in part because I have asked "For space" twice from two of my X's and both times I knew that things between us were not heading where I needed them to be. What can you do about it? Nothing really, you can never "force" anyone to stay you. So give her space. If your meant to be together, she will be back. If not, then she wont. But one thing is for absolutley sure, if you smother her when she has asked for space, you will seem desperate and needy in her eyes, and that is guarenteed to push her farther and farther away. AnswerWhy would she ask for space? To me that means she is pulling away. I only know this because this has happened to me too. AnswerI agree. my ex asked for the same thing after 7 years. Why does she need space? For me it turn out that was her excuse to end our relationship. She was hanging out with some other guy while I was 600 miles away in school. I wouls ask her to have a serious conversation. She is mature, I hope, to sit down and let you know what's going on. My ex wasn't mature enough to do so. She wasn't mature enough to look me in the eyes and tell me it was over. I got an email instead. I hope it's not serious. Best of luck.

to be fare, first you need to stop and observe a little closer. there are times I'm sure we are all guilty of being a little selfish. you need to first address any change in your own behaviour occurring that may have contributed to your partners request for space. perhaps your partner feels they just aren't getting nowhere in the relationship for some reason or another. or is going through a phase where she herself is experiencing some change. it can easily be mis read when there are strong emotions involved, and if not paid attention to, could well be the starting of your relationship to breakedown. my only advice would be,don't stop talkin,that's the only way you gonna know for sure. don't argue with what you hear if you don't like what's being said' listen and take it in,you take time to make sure you understand what is happening, it may well save your relationship. all the best. stay safe.

If you already planned and paid for a vacation with your recent ex who cheated on you should you still go on the vacation and if so together?

No, cancel out or tell your ex he/she is going alone and you can ask someone else (even a girlfriend/buddy.) Don't waste one cent on your ex! Vacations are for having a good, relaxing time and not hauling your problems along with you. Have fun!

What can you do if your girlfriend doesn't think you trust her because you ask her a lot of questions and should you stop asking her questions about her day?

I think you should look at all the possible reasons why she thinks you do not trust her. For example, do you follow her to places she wants to go alone? If you do, stop going to places with her. At first just a couple times, go with her. Then, you will realize she's not doing anything. As you do this, go with her less and less. You will understand, over time, she is not wanting to upset you but may feel you are suffocating her. All she wants to do is have some space to herself. There are the questions. Make her feel like she is having a conversation, not interrogate her. Start with you. It's improper but that's what you have to do until she knows you are giving her nothing but love. She is your number one, on top of the world, with only you. I think you should really sit down and explain to her why you ask her about her day. Is it because you really are interested in her...or is it because you don't trust her. If you keep asking questions and she gets mad, maybe you should lay off a little bit and let her know that you trust her by your actions. But also let her know the only reason you do ask is because you care, and are truly interested. Has she ever given you any reason not to trust her? If not, and I know this is hard to do if you are young, but give her a little more space and find something you can do without her, like going out with the guys to a show or a game. Then maybe the two of you can talk about your night out. Also, it wouldn't hurt to buy her a little souvenier at a game or even some candy if she likes it . You can then tell her you were thinking of her when you saw it in the vending machine. Sometimes you have to give them a little extra TLC. It may help your situation by letting her see you in a different light.

How do you make up with your girlfriend after a fight?

AnswerYou attempt to apologize of course, and talk about it. Communication is key in a relationship and it helps sooth a lot of complicated situations (unless she's not willing to talk).

Does ex ever come back?

yes, i know how you feel. but my ex came back. just beileve

How can there be so much fish in the sea if there is pollution and global warming and they are dying?

There are an enormous number of fish in the sea. the oceans cover two thirds of the earth and we know less about it then we do about the est of the universe. Today we can see the effect of taking fish from the sea with the number of fish being caught reducing each year. because they are being fished out and their environment is changing at the same time as the result of polution.

What are some signs he has moved on without wanting to hurt your feelings?

HE says he loves me but he never spends time with me. He never wants to have sex with me and im not ugly nor am i fat I am the sme weight and height as i was when we first got together in 2001. I show him i love him i make dinner for him everynight i get his clothes ready for him to wear in the morning I write him love notes. And i get nothing in return. I have told him all this i have tried to sit with him and explaine my feelings but he seems to just not care anymore but yet he says it is not me he does love me then he walks away. I don't know anymore i am confused and hurt. What is he thinking?

How do you tell your current boyfriend that you are leaving him for your ex-boyfriend who you think is THE ONE?

Tell hom how you feel about your ex and make sure you tell him to where he understands explain it dont say it and make sure your calm about it but dont say too much just enough and tell him you need to hold off on tushing into a relation ship because you dont want to be with somone when you love someone else and you need to see how things are between you and your ex

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