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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
What rights do you have by living with your boyfriend rent free?
Basically, your living there for as long as the relationship lasts. Well, it all depends if your on the contract or not, because if your not, as soon as you break up (touch wood you don't), he's more than likely gonna kick you out.. Just make sure you've got a backup plan (another place to live), just in case something does happen. Other than that, your NICEE! Your living with your boyfriend- RENT FREE! Enjoy it while it lasts!
When your ex boyfriend texts you and you text back and he doesn't text back what do you text back?
Don't text him back .You should let him text you. Don't run after anyone if he still likes you he will text you. If he does not well then you know where you stand with him.
What is if you call your boyfriend and switches off his phone does he still love you or not?
I would have to say no. Love is : "you before me". Doesn't sound like he's in that place. Should probabably look for a better boyfriend. Don't know him, but that's kind of a pric move. Probably more stuff like that down the road if you stick with him.
AnswerI would have to say no. Love is : "you before me". Doesn't sound like he's in that place. Should probabably look for a better boyfriend. Don't know him, but that's kind of a pric move. Probably more stuff like that down the road if you stick with him.Your husband has left you two times should you divorce him?
Yes, because he's obviously going to leave you again.
What should you say to your ex on facebook?
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To remain friends, after we broke up, he told me that he was dating someone and asked if we were still friends, I didn't reply. I really did care about him though and I bawled my eyes out. Later on. I took a photo of myself, I made sure that I looked really cute; my caption was, "I'm going to start fresh this year!"
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That all depends on how you feel about your ex. Unless you really want to be 'pals' after a breakup, don't say anything. Only if you feel that your ex is also a friend and you want to say something as any friend would, you should not use facebook. Facebook is not the place for anything really personal.
You said the magic words, "he asked for a divorce because IT WAS HIS DECISION!" Abusive men (or women) are about complete control and you are their victim. He is not about to let you have the final say or final action in your marriage. Here is what you do: When he's not there (at work) you see a lawyer and be sure you are protected regarding any properties are monies as well as children (custody.) Then you set up an appointment with an Abused Women's Center or phone your Mental Health and they will put you onto one. Abused Women's Center will sit you down with a counselor and they will usually have you go to a transition house or "safe house" and no one (unless you tell them) will know where you are with the exception of your counselor. Once there you can stay there (with your children if you have any) and they will expect you to take the programs offered because they are teaching you tools so you will not return to your abusive mate or choose another abusive man in the future. Your are stronger than you think hon. No matter how rotten he is, you can beat this guy at his own game. I did! He's controlling and frightening you, but take that one last big step and seek out the help I mentioned. Good luck Marcy
How much do women spend on getting advice about problems in relationship?
It depends how desperate they are, how old they are, and their job situation. For example, women who are more successful do not chase as much after relationships and thus do no spend much. Old women tend to be more desperate.
First you should confront him about it. Then if he denies it and you are having strong feelings that he is still with her, you should go with your first mind and move on. You will find someone better. First you should confront him about it. Then if he denies it and you are having strong feelings that he is still with her, you should go with your first mind and move on. You will find someone better.
How do you sort out finances when your husband leaves you?
* The best thing to do is see a lawyer and your husband's lawyer and your lawyer will decide who gets what and if any children are involved who they will live with or if there will be joint custody.
Yes, there is very little needed to get pregnant, if it does happen, the excess will flow back out of the woman.
Can you get engaged while still married but you have been seperated for 7 months?
You probably can, but I don't think you should jump into anything that quickly.
Is it a crime to take money form an someone by using promises of love and just conning the person?
If a person is saying they love you but are just trying to get money and you can prove it and after you give him the money he dumps you saying he lied and had a girlfriend can you do anything to get it back and is it a crime of receiving money by false means
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Is is morally wrong and shows poor character but most likely it is not a criminal act. However, depending on the circumstances you may be able to take them to court by filing a civil complaint in court. If it's not a huge sum of money, you can take them to small claims court or justice court. Go to your local justice of the peace and find out what you need to do to file a claim against someone. If you freely gave the money with no promise of being paid back by the person there's probably nothing you can do. Learn from it and dont' let someone do that to you again. If you're in a relationship, especially a fairly new one, and someone starts asking you for money, be careful. If you've been in the relationship for a while and you love each other then it's okay to help each other out some but if someone starts saying they love you and immediately starts asking for money I would be careful what you do. There are a lot of people out there who have no problem with conning money off of other people so you need to be careful when someone starts asking you for things and use your instincts to guide you.
If you are smart you will seek out a lawyer and let them know you are drained and need a vacation, but will be back on a certain date. Yes, it's possible that your spouse could claim you deserted him/her or any children involved and it basically is your mates word against yours.
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Why not wait until your legally separated or divorced for a really good vacation but in the meanwhile maybe take off to a local quiet B & B and relax for a few days here and there maybe have a few spa days here and there as well to relax this way you are not messing with any legal issues that may come back to bite you.
You know he has changed when he has been through counceling at least 6 months and the therapist agrees he is no longer his old self. If he says he didn't need therapy to change, don't fall for his crap.
AnswerEvery abusive man says that when he is faced with the reality that he has pushed away people that he thinks he loves. The question becomes, what REAL man would actually hurt the people that he loves. A REAL man is supposed to PROTECT his wife and family from harm. There is just no excuse for that kind of behavior.Once a man crosses that line there is no possibility that he can ever be trusted again.
AnswerYour right. That's what I have been thinking. Im spose to meet him tonight and I havent seen him in a year and half. I feel like hes already starting the maniupulation. He is trying to get me to tell him where I live. I wont meet him. The trust and respect is so far gone. I cannot go because a part of me loves him, i have to remain logical.What does it mean when your ex keeps telling you she cares about you?
It means just that and either she wants you back but wants you to say it or that she wants to keep you around as options. ...that she cares about you.
How do you get an ex back after many years?
It's a high risk that your ex is remarried or even moved out of town or to another country unless you know exactly where they are and if they have remained single. If you do then call them up and see if they'll meet with you. Sometimes space and time frames work for couples the second time around.
What are Signs of infatuation?
Feeling yourself feel like you can't be away from this person and getting clingy, or obsessive. Also when lust becomes the topic when you think about your supposed 'lover.'
What does it mean when your girlfriend ends it by email?
She doesn't want to be there when your feelings are hurt. Some people don't like to see that. They feel like it's a reflection on them, and they caused you grief.
My question is ... why are you still living together? If you have to go back home, or find another place ask him to be the man and leave until you find another place to live. No, he's not being mentally abusive because you are split-up and owe each other nothing, BUT, put it this way .... he's ignorant and has no consideration for your feelings. Sit down with him and tell him what you think of it, and ask him if he'd be man enough to leave until you can find another place to live. If it's his place, then I'd live with a relative, girlfriend (paying something for my keep even if it meant doing housework if I didn't have a job) rather than put up with this. Get out of there! Good luck Marcy I agree with Marcy 100%. If I break up with a man I live with, the bags are packed; whether they are his or mine. You're in a bad place, girl. This guy has got it made in the shade. You have put yourself under his control enough to let him make you feel abused, you probably clean the house, and he doesn't even have to answer to you for looking at other women - much less bringing other women into your domain. That's sick!!!! I've got one word for you, sis: DOORMAT. He'll keep wiping his boots off on your heart as long as you let him, and he'll feel no remorse because he thinks that surely, you know what you're doing...
What is a Legal letter to pay back money owed called?
A legal letter to pay back money owed is called a collection letter. It is better to have a collection letter come from a corporation that collects debts or an attorney. However, you can also write one yourself.
How do you view my boyfriend cell phone incoming calls or out calls?
well it is wrong because you are invading his privacy and that destroys the trust that he has with you. unless you are certain that he is cheating or something like that, just try to view his cell phone when hes not around.
How do you get your girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
be really nice to her and give candy and flowers tell her your sorry and bring flowers or roses and choclate or ask her out agin were you firts meet her. tell her your sorry and bring flowers or roses and choclate or ask her out agin were you firts meet her. tell her your sorry and bring flowers or roses and choclate or ask her out agin were you firts meet her.
What are the signs your exboyfriend still likes you?
he calls alot for no reason or tells you he was wanting to see how things are going and they keep you on the phone for a long time. and when you see them they cant take their eyes off of you - He talks about you to your friends and he looks over at you every once in a while when he knows your around. - He talks to you like your still going out. - He wonders where you are when your not where you usually are. - He talks to your friends just to be near you.
