Cheating

You didn't give us much to go on. Many women spend time together, but it doesn't mean they are cheating. If one woman is married or even both women it's not uncommon if there are relationship problems with the husband/boyfriend that one woman will reach out to another as far as staying at their home. If you have not caught your wife in a sexual relationship with another woman then it's best to keep quiet. If you have high suspicions then start communicating with your wife (but don't say anything about another woman in her life) and tell her you both need to either improve on your marriage or split-up. I disagree with the previous poster. IF you suspect your wife is having an affair regardless of which sex it needs to be brought out into the open and discussed because it needs to end if the relationship is to continue. How can you possibly ignore something like that, it would eat you up on the inside and explode on the outside if you pretend it never happened. But if you are just jealous because your wife is spending too much time with her friend then you are in the wrong, and your own feeling of insecurity are seeping through and will ruin your relationship and you should talk to your wife and possiby seek help from a counsellor. Everyone is entitled to friends and their partner has to deal with that.

You cant. Legally you cant open their bill, its not addressed to you and you cant get them from the cellphone company unless you know there info as far as social security number, birthdate and possibly password. If you know how to go into the call log of their phone you can get the most recent 20 calls of dialed, received and text. Use the menu button on there phone to get into the log and then the up and down buttons to scroll. Good luck. Why not just ask this person is they are doing what you think and be done with it......

IMO few. The cheat already has what they want, no need to make it legal. The old story once a cheat always a cheat sounds about right, not a good basis for a marriage.

holy crap what the hell did u do u perverted creep

Here is advice: * Get a PI to follow them through the day. If he is coming home at night it is most often the case they are finding a way during the day to meet so you won't suspect. (That is what happened to me. I suspected my partner, I had no proof but after getting a PI to follow him (and he wasn't doing anything wrong), and then confronted him with it he was in such a worried state, he said "well at least he didnt catch me doing anything" which made me think he was. Well I didn't catch him doing anything at that point. The PI said it is a pattern and it is often the case that this sort of stuff goes on during the day and they can track this down for you if you are at all worried. It may take days, weeks. Normally gut feelings are telling you something - definitely go with your gut.) * If your spouse has a mobile phone you could get it and look in the text's inbox and sent, if you have the internet check his emails and his yahoo massenager or msn, if you dont get anywhere ask the woman you suspect face to face and you will know if she is lieing to you or phone her, any one which is good for you.

No, if he loves you, you'll know he would never cheat, and in order to love him back. your gonna have to trust him.

* This question sounds extremely familiar to me and I do believe I answered it. Your husband said she was an ex, but they were just friends, and these calls had just started to happen. I do believe a suggestion by me was made that you turn the tables on your husband and ask him to invite her over for dinner. If I am wrong, then this is what you do. Since the ex phoned and you saw it on your Caller ID then phone her and invite her over for dinner when your husband is unavailable at home or work. This way she may not be able to let him know of the invite. Tell her it's fine with you and you'd love to meet her. Just think of the look on your husband's face when he walks in and sees his ex sitting at the dinner table chatting with you! This way you will know for sure if he is cheating on you or she truly is just a friend of his now (it can happen.) I can't believe you are putting up with this. It appears you and your husband have a lack of communication skills going on and it's time you started.

Are you serious, Stop using star patterns to justify your cheating... And Probably not.

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I believe most men still love their wife while cheating and still do if caught. Most men cheat for the adventure and not for love while some are trapped by a woman that wants them.

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Married men are different, they have their own reason to what they are doing. There are some husband that do still love their wife even he stop having an affair. And there are who also love their wife but at the same time fall in love with the other woman they are seeing.

In my own opinion a man who loves his wife will never hurt her or even destroy what they build together. There are some married men who falls out of love that is why he start looking for another woman that he thinks can love him and for him to love her. And there are some married men who loves the wife and still find another woman to love because of his ego.

If it can be done no one is a winner here, especially if there's children involve.

== == * I understand perfectly what you are saying and your wife is out of line! She must have other girlfriends so there is no need to be calling a guy at work or staying at his place even if your wife's friend was with her and your wife had nothing to do with him . Sounds like a cooked up story to me. I can understand men/women needing head space at times, but they don't have to phone a guy/girl or go to a guy's/girl's house to get it. It's time you and your wife sat down and went over your problems. I have no doubt both of you are at fault and not attending to the issues at hand in your marriage. You each should listen to the other's complaints and come to some common ground and act on it and if you can't do that then seek out marriage counseling. == == * I know many women who have never cheated on their men and they have been cheated on themselves and I am one of them! The stats show that men cheat far more on women than women cheat on men. I agree to a point that in this day and age many women are trying to keep score with the guys and acting like men instead of women or ladies. To me, two wrongs don't make a right. If you have been cheated on and it's obvious you have been because of your bitterness don't let a few women win out and ruin your image of women. You just aren't meeting the right women! Here's a clue ... stay out of the bars and club scenes and you might meet some nice girls.

If he lied about it, then he is keeping a girl secret from you. That is cheating. Confront him with facts and ask for honesty.

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If he lied about it, then you should probly question what else he has lied about. However, if he has done nothing physically with this other person, then i wouldn't consider it cheating. I guess it comes down to what your definition of "cheating" is. If he hugs someone else is that cheating?

Yes if he has worked and paid into social security. Do not wait. Call the social security office in your state and find out.

Understand, that you cannot collect your social security and your husbands at the same time.

They will explain it to you when you call.

Dump him, he might be cheating on you and even worse == Speak with him calmly and let him know you are aware of the site and see when he was registered on it as it may have been before you. If it was ask him to please remove himself (which is possible so don't let him say he can't) from it and if he does not respect your feelings then you will have to decide if you are going to put up with that. If he was registered after you were together it would be in your best interest to let him go and move on as mentioned above. Answer i think you should talk to him and if he say is is not cheatin on you.you can check who it is

Do you know if you really think about it, all dating site are a place where married man and married woman look for some fun and they do lie about their situation. I'll give you one good example, the man I married, without me knowing it, he joined a dating site. This site has a name and it supposed to be a christian site. This man I married lied to his profile, and a few of women he met was also lied on their profile. So this will be up to you, whether you are thinking of finding one for you...

Obviously, he's the common denominator in both failed relationships. Another indicator is who filed for divorce in both marriages. What physical or behavioral traits do the ex wives share? Was he well known to have any drug, financial or emotional problems? Both women may feel they're nothing like each other, but there is probably some way they both reacted to this man's actions that made him desire to renew a relationship with them. In any case, he found both of his wives good qualities and poor qualities equal, and when separated or divorced from both women, absence increased his attraction to the good qualities. He may be a person who can't accept failure; he may feel dependent on a spouse or former partner; he may prefer a "comfort zone" relationship with a known individual rather than try to meet someone new. He may have had emotional/drug/financial problems and preferred to be with partner who enabled him to some extent, even if they finally came to their senses and divorced him. Answer It depends if they divorced him or he divorced them. Either way it sounds like this man is either use to getting his own way, is selfish, immature and could be co-dependent on the wife he has at the present time. I'd say this guy is a lost soul and not ready for any sort of commitment. Stay away! He must have something for 2 women to marry him twice!

No it is not a bad thing, because in my opinion if a man claims he just doesn't love her anymore then I don't believe he ever did. You don't fall out of love like that. Think about your kids, what could they ever do that you wouldn't be able to love them. Same thing, I was married and truly loved the man, still do but it has just evolved to more of a "brother sister" relationship, and as the father of my son kind of love.

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It is absolutely not cheating. Although you should probably start putting out more in order to take up more of his free time.

There is only two reasons for this. #1 You are the jealous type and if it is a female traveling with him it could be completely innocent, but your boyfriend probably feels you won't believe him. I worked for mostly male boss' and I had to go to business meetings and sometimes those meetings took place in a hotel bar. However, it was all innocent; business was done and we each parted company and went home. #2 He is having an affair. By not telling you whether it's a he or she, he's hoping to buy time. I would sit him down and ask him again. If he refuses to answer then ask him why and tell him by refusing to answer such a simple question he must have something to hide. Take it slow and easy, and be sure you know what you are talking about before insulting him with your suspicions of him cheating on you. Good luck Marcy

no they can not or they might get fired. BUT I WOULD DO IT.

Depends how broadly or narrowly you define cheating, but you have decisions to make. Do you ignore it and think it was just one silly episode, or do you tackle him about it and risk a lack of trust between you for the rest of your lives?

every state considers adultery grounds for divorce.

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