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Jealousy
Jealousy affects everyone's life at least once or twice, and is one of the hardest emotions to control. Questions about the "Green-eyed Monster," including the causes, the emotions that jealousy can evoke, how to deal with it, and more are welcome!
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Why are you jealous of your boyfriend looking at other girls?
Because you like him a lot or you love him. And you want to be the only one hes looking at. You want him to only see you,his girlfriend. And in my opinion if he's looking at girls in front of you. He MIGHT be doing something more behind your back.
How can you have friends of the opposite sex when your boyfriend is jealous?
I totally hear what you are saying and the best advise that i can offer is try and introduce your partner to your male friends and then that way he will see that you all are just friends, and he may even want to have a friendship with them as well.
If your boyfriend is so jealous that he won't allow you friends of the opposite sex, you may want to seriously consider how good a match this is for you. As time goes on, many jealous boyfriends become more controlling and some become abusive. A relationship should be healthy and encourage freedom, not restrict it.
Of course guys can get jealous just how you can get jealous.When a girl is dating a guy and she starts flirting with this guy they are talking to he will get jealous don't you think. They also get jealous when you intimidate them by being smarter,taller better looking, and e.t.c.Its not that the guy is jealous its just he wants to be with you but every guys you talk to or hang out with is in the way of you guys being together. Why not just ask him why is he jealous or just ask him out see what he says.
== It's an instinct== I'm not really an expert on guys, but there's some advice that I do have for you that might help you out. If you have been dating that guy for a while, by now you have an idea of how he is. And trust me, you could find out the answer right away if you pay attention to what he does and how he acts in front of you. It's an instinct for a girl to know these kind of things, but you have to know how to use your skill. If you haven't been going out with him and you just want to know whether he's just trying to play you, I would have to know more about your situation. I can't just answer your question just because you're asking it; it takes a little bit more than that. Well I think that if a guy is lying to a girl, then he would be telling his friends, and if you ask his friends, then you should ask them and tell them not to tell him that you asked because that can cause a relationship to break up, or it can get really nasty. Also, just listen to you heart and you can tell the truth if the boy is good for you or not. If he really is a "playah," and there's some truth to his bragging, then you should not demean yourself by being with him, no matter how much of an ego boost YOU get by being his girl, because, if he IS a lady's man, then he's not really your man. If he's NOT a lady's man, and his words are just empty boasts, and he's just saying those things to make you jealous, then he's a sh!thead, because he's puffing himself up and making himself feel good at your expense, and that's selfish and inconsiderate.
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The thing you don't say is your crush a woman or a man. If you are a girl, woman ect, you have a right to have male friends and if he doesen't like it too bad for him or her, whichever it may be. The next time you ask a question, you might specify gender
1st: Do not yell at him, it will only make things worse
2nd: Calmly tell him and discus what it is that bothers you
3rd: If he continues the behavior notify him
4th: If he refuses to stop then he's not the one for you
Is idoltry and jealousy the same thing?
No it is not. Idoltry is more like being obsessed with something. Jealousy is kind of like wanting something that someone else has. Or it could be like you thinking that your blessing from God was minescule (sorry for bad spelling) compared to a blessing God gave to someone you know and wanting it. I hope that helps. :)
How does jealousy influence crime and violence?
Yes, If you don't want a fight to start just keep your jealousy to yourself and don't butt in other peoples business. It is a fact that many murders have occured because of jealous feelings.
I'm sorry to say but she's your ex girlfriend and it shouldn't be any of your business who she is talking too. She's a free young woman. Either communicate and see if you can get back together or stop being in denial and move on. Sorry, I wish I could have said something more positive.
A narcissist doesn't feel jealousy, but rather doesn't like losing his prey. He likes control and wants his prey back to continue to abuse and demean his victim. Narcissists have no respect for women whatsoever!
What to do about a husband of 25 years who is still jealous of a past 15 years ago issue?
I would suggest he go to counselling and offer to accompany him.
It depends on what event you were at and what the reason for the pictures were for. If you are out with a group of friends then there is no problem with him taking a pictures with himself and the girls. If you are ever in doubt just say, "Whats that all about?" Let him explain and then tell him you wouldn't mind one day if he took pictures of you with some of your male friends (would look good in your album.) Smile and say nothing more! Men can have hung around with guys and girls before he started going with you and perhaps this is all it is. Don't second-guess or become over-jealous because this will put the flame out on any relationship. In your own crafty way you are capable (without actually saying too much that you don't put up with cheating or open flirting when both of you are going together.
NOTHING, People who derive enjoyment from this sort of superficial stupidity are not worth any of your valuable time.
My wife had an ex-husband cheat but why is she jealous of me?
she probablly is jealous of you because you didn't have to go through the pain she went through
How do you say jealous in Korean?
jealousy - 질투 (jiltu)
I am jealous - 난 질투 오전 (nan jiltu o jeon)I am jealous of you - 내가 당신을 질투 해요 (naega dang sin eur jiltu haeyo)
I am so jealous of you - 당신이 너무 부러워 해요 (dang sin ee neomu bureo wo haeyo/0
I am jealous of her - 제가 그녀를 질투(jaega gu nyeo reur jiltu)
I am jealous of him - 내가 그에게 질투 (naega geu e ge jiltu)
Adjective:
1. 질투심 많은 (jiltu sim man heun)
2. 지키는 데 급급한 (jigi neun) 3. 다른 신을 섬기는 것을 허락지 않는 (dareun sin eur seomgineun geos eur heorakji anh neun)
Clarification I lived at this location 15 years and it has never been a problem - Since this new mail woman started her job- she complains about our car on the daily bases. I do not any other place to park the car. What can I do?
The only thing I can find that could be applied is
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How does it feel to be jealous?
When you almost want to steal the item you are wanting or you are mad at the person who got the item you wanted, just because they got that item and you didn't.
Can you call your mail woman mail carrier?
Female mail carriers are called "letter carriers", or "mail lady", or "mail carrier". If she is nice looking and you're feeling daring, call her "mail babe"....just kidding. All letter carriers like to be called by their name, so get to know your carrier and call him/her by name.
Interpersonal relations are complex. Without going into a lot of discussion and having time to explore feelings and personalities, there is no way to answer such a troubling question. Could you possibly convince her to go to marriage counseling with you? Let her know that you are committed to the relationship and that you just want to find out what, if anything, can be done.
It's a tough one. I sincerely wish there were some kind of simple answer to what you describe, but there isn't.
A marriage counselor may not actually solve any problems, but a few sessions may help figure out what's wrong and at least give you some form of answer.
Good luck.
AnswerRedbeard gave you excellent advice, but I would also like to add that to complicate matters more if your wife is 40 plus, then it's possible she could be having perimenopause (hormonal changes) or be starting into menopause (also hormonal changes and this is the ceasing of a period.) Hormones believe it or not in especially women are a great deal of the reason why they can act strangely at times and that's why most wives or women in general don't know what to say to their spouse about the way they feel.
PERIMENOPAUSE/MENOPAUSE SYMPTOMS: Moodiness, happy one minute, angry or depressed the next. Hot flashes (she will complain of being either too hot or too cold.) She may have problems falling asleep and if she does sleep she is throwing the covers off one minute and pulling them back on because her body has cooled down. She may be depressed. She may often feel she looks just great and the next minute reduce herself to tears thinking she looks terrible. She will cry over nothing and can't explain why. She may pick on you and there isn't anything you can do that's right. If any of these sound familiar to you then PLEASE talk to your wife and see if she'll consider going in for a physical and having a hormone test done (blood test.) She may well rip your lower lip over your head, but hey, this is a marriage and it's worth saving! Make suggestions such as she could take night courses in something she likes, to even going to college for extra courses.
Most people know so little about what hormones can do (even men go through Andropause similar to women's menopause, but not as severe) and some women connect going into Perimenopause or Menopause as "your life is over and I'm just plain old and useless." I've been through it and can contest that life is far from over and I've never felt more freedom. I opted out on hormone therapy because long-term can cause breast cancer, heart attacks and blood clots. I went "Homeopathic and antidepressants for a short time and found ways to deal with some of the symptoms. Instead of hanging around the house I'd exercise (Tai Chi) go out with friends, took night school courses and realized the whole thing was about just another chapter in my life and I now had a chance to find out what talents I really had. I found out I was good at writing and was encouraged by many family and friends to continue on with it, which I did and also I am good at art (drawing.) I have had a few articles printed in our local papers, and I am writing a script at the present time. Whether it's accepted or not doesn't really matter because I think it's good. I do artwork for the Abused Women's Center and a Pet Network. I never had a chance before to tap into those talents because I was far too busy.
Have that talk with your wife. If she will not reason with you then see if she will consider a separation first and not a divorce. This may give her time to clear her mind and find out what she does want.
Good luck!
How do you SHlrkereIT it is how you press hard and you will eventually hear a PLOP and some times you will hear a fart?
Do you mean what makes people jealous? You see, jealousy is a thing called an emotion and with emotions you don't know why you feel the things you feel... you just do. Now can we post logical questions please.... Or get a life!
Why are Ecuadorian men jealous?
what do you mean ecuadorian men? just cause a man's from Ecuador doesn't mean he's jealous. its pretty stupid to phrase your question that way
