Breakups

My friend, I have no qualification except from my experience in the roller coaster ride that is called life. I can only speak from personal experience as a man who's ex's have been female. If this question is from a LADY, my answer would be that if your ex still contacts you, visits or meets you, gives you presents or asks to take you away for weekends or holidays, then you should have no need to ask the question. But be aware of the fact that many guys can be very shallow (yep!! that's including myself when I was younger!)and live their lives from between their legs... if you get my meaning!!If this question is from a MAN, then you have my sympathy!! I have had a relationship in the past that totally turned my life on it's head. I was utterly wrapped up in a woman who I felt was my future, until she dumped me. This lead to losing my job, friends staying away because of my inability to let go, not sleeping and a hollow feeling combined with extreme envy for her new fella. I think it's fair to say that women can be more 'complicated' when it comes to emotions, but I found she was happy to communicate to a certain 'level', then she'd step away again. Each time we got to that 'level', I hoped that this time we'd go to the next step and get back together... but it never happened. What I'm saying in short, is that if a woman can look you in the eye and tell you she wants to be with you, your PROBABLY safe..... Sorry if this very long answer isn't what you wanted to hear, I'm sure theres a guidance councellor who's read your question and who will offer you the 'text book' definition in half the words!! Good luck anyway.

The first thing you need is lots of prayer. Next, a humble heart as you seek to mend. If you don't have this part, the situation will just get worse. Realize that you can only do your part, you can't do God's part or the other person's. For instance, you cannot force someone to forgive you or even listen to what you have to say. Sometimes a leltter to the person is better than a personal confrontation. Let the Holy Spirit guide you what method to use. Use creative means to solve differences. Our God is a creative God, therefore he will have a creative solution. His ways are above our ways, so we need his wisdom for these thorny problems.

no Sure, if you want to get hurt again. If you can accept that she is going to sleep with other men, there won't be any problem. No !!! You're already headed in the right direction already, don't go back. I totally disagree with getting back with her , i am a girl myself. But if she really loved you she wouldn't have cheated on you!

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It is very cowardly and they are too scared to do either and just hope this will go away - very sad. Don't give him the satisfaction of chasing him or worrying about it move on, leave him in the past and start dating again. Keep your distance from him and if he tries to contact you again - don't give him the time of day. You deserve better.

yes it can, when the mother of my kids left me we both had rebounds that worked out. she is still with him and its been olmost 2 years.

Sometimes guys don't want to be with you at the time but doesn't want anyone else to be with you either. It's nice that he wanted to stay friends but he can't have it both ways and don't let him as he is just trying to still be involved in your life and trying to control things with you. He obviously still has feelings for you but for some reason does not want to be in a relationship with you. It is best to keep your distance from him for a time to allow you both to sort out your feelings and be able to move on from this. You both need a break from one another.

I once had a girlfriend who broke up with me unexpectedly and it really really hurt me and now about a year later we have really started talking to each other a lot and I'm getting a strong feeling she likes me again but I'm really scared and it makes me cry because I want her but I don't know if she will do it again and i just can't deal with that. Only you know why you broke up with him and it should be for a good reason because you broke his heart. Women seem to think they have the corner on broken hearts, yet men can have deep and hurt feelings too; they just don't express it in the same vocal manner as a woman. I have no idea why you broke up with him, but if you simply met someone else you cared more at the time then consider the fact you have learned a very costly lesson. If it was your boyfriend with the problem to cause you to break off then why go back! Marcy If you really want to win him back, wait a while. Make him feel like you broke up with him for a reason, because if you start talking to him right away, it will only confuse him. Create space between you two and when you think you've had enough time apart, call him up. He may not act like he wants to hear what you have to say, but he is curious. Since you broke up with him, you should be the one to call him. Now do that and you will have him back! To the first poster. She broke the trust you had in her and don't be afraid to let her know that. Make her earn your trust back while still being pleasant with her, but don't EVER let her think you are a sitting duck for her to do this again. You set the rules and you tell her that every so often you need head space and don't let her think she can snap her fingers at you and have everything her own way. Women or men don't really respect people they can manipulate. Remember, people are only human and they can make mistakes so take it slow and easy and don't rush into another relationship immediately. Date her, but keep her guessing and make her earn that trust from you! People will always make mistakes, but when they don't learn something from that mistake the first time around then I'd kick them to the curb.

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• The word 'dumping' is a moral issue in itself because when someone says that it gives the impression that someone has been 'dumped' like a bag of garbage that is of no use and that word is hurtful to the person who has been left behind. Breaking up is a better word. If a person breaks up because they do not get along then there is no moral issue. If a person breaks up with another because one of them has been cheating then that is a moral issue. Relationships thrive on honesty; loyalty and good communication skills.

Any relationship requires time just to be together. If something takes away almost all the time people can spend together, then the relationship suffers accordingly. This is especially so if one person in a relationship specifically chooses something which they value over and above the other person and the relationship, and they ignore or don't even notice that it is killing love.

well if she is kissing up to you and flirting she just wants you back but if she isn`t doing much then she is using you for a place to stay You have to use your intuition. How does it feel. Does she help you around the house. Does she make the time to talk with you about things. Does she chip in for items for the home, food, things that break or need replacement. Does she seem happy, are you happy. Does she make excuses for not being able to be home on time or not doing things together. Do you feel like your place is only for her to eat, sleep and go to the bathroom?? You need to be your best advocate and look at whats going on around you. If you get that nagging feeling that she is using you, then ask her point blank, what the deal is. Tell her that is your place is just for a place to stay then she needs to find another mooch.

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Leave him...he's not worth it your time and effort...or ask him why he did that then if he's reasnable enough to be forgiven, then forgive him..but if he's not..leave him...a person who really love you is the person who will never leave you alone..that's just easy..

It depends if you are underage or not. If your grandmother was kind enough to take you in for all these years you had better consider what she is being unfair about and is she really being unfair? Just because you may not like some of the rules she is dishing out (I am sure she sets rules because she loves you and wants to keep you safe) is no reason to get into an arguement. It sounds like you feel you are mature enough to handle yourself so here is a thought ... mature people will sit down with the other person and actually express their feelings (without arguing) and between the two people they should be able to come to some agreement. If you yell, get angry you will never resolve any problems in your life. Mature? Then get talking to your grandmother! Marcy

R was the first boy I dated 6 years after my first love died in a car crash. I felt so comfortable with him, and he was amazing. However, a few months into our relationship, I was having anxiety attacks when he wasn't around - feeling guilty for loving again, worried that God would take him away too, thinking I wasn't worthy of love again. I began taking it out on him, snapping at him, purposefully causing fights. It got to the point where I was yelling at him every other day. Eventually he broke up with me, thinking that he was finally seeing the real me. I went through therapy and I began to feel so much better. And then R began calling again, out of the blue. 6 months after he dumped me. He mentioned he missed me, wanted to see me. Now we talk on the phone every week or so, hour conversations. But we never see each other, and I know he's scared of getting hurt again. How on earth do I explain to him that I've gotten better, that I still love him, and that I can accept his love?? -Finally healthy, but heartbroken.

If he lost interest, you don't need to worrying about him getting it back. But if you love him or like him a lot, more than likely, you will worry about him getting it back. I don't know why, but guys don't like it when girls act beat over them. So, act like you don't care (which will be very hard to do. Trust me I know) and occupy yourself with other things. I bet he will start coming back to you then. But don't give in too soon. People dont just lose interest overnite. Evidently he has felt some indifference towards this relationship all along but has just been sort of quiet about it and just going through the motions sometimes men arent so forthcoming about expressing their feelings especially when they have reservations about a relationship and it could be that he never had any incentive or nerve to end it until now. Try to remember that nothing is guaranteed in life least of all the love of another. We cant predict how people will act or react to us. Get out and get busy with your life and even if he comes back I would be very careful about getting myself recommitted to a guy whose only explanation for wanting out is because he got bored with me.

It isn't just narcissists who can do this, but some of us do it as well. For example: You leave your ex husband and later tell a girlfriend or your new boyfriend what a creep he was, etc. That's considered devaluating as well. Narcissists are perfectionists in their own mind (most aren't) and they also consider themselves always right (everyone else is wrong) and they feel they're intellectually superior to those around them (and most aren't.) Forget what this person is saying about you and those who know you won't listen and those that do were never your friends in the first place. Move on. I would think it's unlikely. What's possible is that you're being devalued from the onset, but you don't realize it until the relationship ends.

Frame her cheating on another guy

just tell it to him strait, but if you have to ask how to do it, maybe you should ask yourself if you really want to tell him that.

Uh, 'cause he had a mid-life crisis and thinks that marrying someone Asian is exotic. Nevermind that the woman is young enough to be his daughter and has had her face surgically reinvented.

He's an old fart and, without his money and connections, she would have trolled for someone else.

I'm 38, good-looking, professional, married, and have kids, and I wouldn't look twice at an man 20+ years older than I am. Women outlive men by 9.2 years, and widowhood isn't any fun, either.

This is the best I can do because I don't even know much about either. I've only seen Julie Chen, once, on Letterman, and I marvelled that I couldn't see her eyes because her false eyelashes were so dense. It was weird, like looking at a mannequin.

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A comment on the above. With the infidelity issues aside, why do people see a biracial couple as one people exotic as if an Asian woman is some sub-human animal that was caught in the wild and brought to civilized world.

So, what if you couldn't see her eyes. That's kind of one of many differences between different races. It's stating the obvious much like if you were to blurt out, how you marveled how African people have darker skin than you. So?

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Well, therein lies the problem. Your boyfriend has some serious issues with trust and communication. How is your boyfriend responding to your leaving? Is he angry thinking you might cheat on him? If that's the case, he's probably the one cheating on you. He might be turning this whole thing around with you cheating. Or is your boyfriend sad and not confident now that your are going to be leaving him. Is he afraid of rejection IF you do find another someone? Talk to him. This problem might just be solved if you sat down and talked and asked him why is he acting like that. Hope this helps.