Human Behavior

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I am sorry to say you've got to take the hint. If he is hanging up on you, he doesn't want to speak to you. I'm not sure if 'he' is your current boyfriend, husband, ex or whatever but either way you need to accept he doesn't want to talk. Maybe he just needs time, if you have recently argued or split up then giving him time is the best way; don't call him, if he decides he wants to speak to you he will call or come round. If not then accept that this is over and find someone who wants you for who you are - you deserve that kind of love.

Another answer:

A friend will never hang up on you even once. Hanging up on someone is emotional abuse. If someone does that to you, don't ever have anything to do with them again, since emotional abuse only escalates with time.

Buoyancy in water can be due to a number of factors. The biggst one being the difference in physical makeup between men and women. When swimming the heaviest part of our body is our pelvis which is why we generally more inclined to be in an up right position in water. (Generally for people who rarely swim).

Being the child bearers or the species, women tend to carry more fat around our pelvis and thigh area and because we have wider set hips we tend to float better.

Cultural differences can also come into play here as different ethnicities have a different type of genetic makeup. People of an Asian background are more likely to be narrower whereas people of a European background can be found to be more fuller figured.

To help with buoyancy all you need to remember is that because our pelvis is the heaviest part whatever we do to our head will affect our leg posionting and vice versa. A good head position for say freestyle would be to have your head under the water not just your face.

NOTE- I have tried my best to word this as good as possible but my apologies if I have offended anyone in my answer.

Yes, women do float easier then men because the women have more fat tissue than men and have a better distribution of it, their bones are less heavy and smaller, and their muscles are more flexible and lightweight.

Actually, for a man and woman who weigh the same amount, they have identical fat, bone, and muscle density. They just won't have the same amount of each. The prime difference is in percentage of body weight that is fat, as fat is significantly less dense than water (both muscle and bone being more dense than water). Even a woman in good shape will have at least 10% body fat, while a comparable man will have 5% or less.

I Guees, that's a burning question for all of us, male or female ...i guess my retort is:

ultimately, what are the primary and absolute needs in your relationship? that is: what is it you must have in order to feel happy, content and safe within a realtionship? Being male myself i sometimes find myself closed and secretive when it comes to relationships, However, i belive your statement is a bit generalistic since woman can also be as closed minded and secretive..i certainly don't belive men have a monopoly on this social missbehaviour.

the important thing to see is, wether you concern yourself with wether your ideal ideals are that of fantacy and not of a realistic address.

i too have asked asked as a man, are respect, communication and security all part of our grandparents ideal and not one that should be toyed with now??

If i was to start by mentioning my own thoughts, i would have to start with my need for respect, and as simple as that word may seem, ones ability to be able to communicate, honestly without the need to yell or, become aggressive, or even repress and shut down, seems to be an attribute that few people can can endure--male or female. its simple..DON'T Screw AROUND--be faithfull and loyal to your partner, speak of the other like you want them to speak of you, never demoralize or trivialize the others wants needs or concerns and beyond all: don't cast dispertions behind there back, no matter how trivial you feel they may be

Next, ones ability to communicate, in a fashion that promotes respect and forward motion during both comunication as well as the functionality of a relationship--quite often when debating issues that are emotional in nature, one party fails to see the legitimacy of the others concern; trivializing what the other feels to be a warranted concern( i admit I've done this myself--unintentionally of course)--and thereby failing to provide validation--and ultamatly frustrating the other and in your words becoming "closed and secretive" . it is said, and i agree full heartidly, that its important to not only recognize what there needs are but for them to recognize your own--what is said may not always be what you feel to be important; however, the person your with is (or at least should be), and what's important to him/her is important to you; i myself trully try to respect that and, expect the same when in a relationship, and when not recipricated human nature is to become closed and secretive --it doesnt come naturally but it is something iyou must work on--The last thing most people want is to hurt the one they care for.

Beyond all; however, a need to feel secure in your decision to show affection and knowing, that your vulnerabilities are protected. ( the social construct is that men shouldn't feel emotions on any real level, however, this is symply not the fact, and alot of men are conflicted and pulled by social wants and their own wants--the whole nature nuture debate on a different lvl . how wonderfull would it be to feel satifaction in simply knowing i love her without the need for reasurence; however, most are not that secure, one must know, feel and hear that they are loved; and, this can be done in a multitude of ways form simply saying once a day: i love you, to small gestures of romance and affection--a simple hug can never be gratuitous. it really sucks to feel that you love the other way more than they love you. the worst thing, i have found, is to become complacent after years, or sometimes months, in a relationship (male or female). if the person I'm with can show them simple characteristics they have the means to be someone quite special in my heart--and if they can't, well, like you said its easy at that point to become closed off in an effort to protect yourself

good luck i hope i helped and sweet dreams-we all have them

Women are emotional creatures that bond from verbal communication. Men generally aren't built for verbal, emotional conversation; but more for physical activities. It's not that we are secretive, but have no interest in sharing their feelings. If a guy opens up a little, a woman will pick-axe her way into his inner being. After learning that lesson, he is less apt to want to open up. Many women tend to be manipulative and go overboard in trying create scenarios based on some inner feeling a man may have expressed, turning a normal situation into a circus. Men have no need to visit their feelings, we don't usually know what our feelings are. Why think about something that don't want to, not see any point in what we will do with it if it comes up.

MANY BOYS AND YOUNG MEN enjoy dressing in girls or women's clothing. Some just like to experiment and like the way it feels, others develop a "fetish" for crossdressing, meaning they do it more often and it is arousing and brings some degree of sexual pleasure. If you are an average boy with other healthy interests, I wouldn't worry about it. It becomes a problem when you obsess about it, take little interest in other things and constantly think about it. It may be a phase you are going through, or you may like crossdressing so that you will live your life as a transvestite (a man who dresses as a woman all the time). Only you and time will tell. For now, I wouldn't worry about it. When you want to dress likes a girl, do it in PRIVATE, as you stated that you wouldn't want others to find out. It is something PERSONEL..But REMEMBER, if you choose to go out in public, you run the risk of someone finding out and you could be very embarrassed. Many people think that crossdressers or "gay" or "perverts". That is not true. Most are heterosexual. Many, many happily married men enjoy crossdressing. Recently, a high ranking school official was dressed as a woman and was stopped for speeding by the police. It was leaked to the media, and he was so embarrassed he quit his job and was suicidal. So if YOU value your privacy, keep it private. (P.S. It is also a problem if you are stealing girls panties and other clothes). That's not nice, or appropriate. <<>>

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I agree with the above answer but add one very important aspect..that is if you do get aroused, be very careful. It is very very and I mean very addicting. For me it began age 6 at age 17 the more I dress the more I want to dress and now at 22 to the point that now that is all I do is dress like a female and yes I am constantly aroused under my panties and skirts. I no longer own male clothing (thank goodness my girlfriend loves me to dress as a girl as well) and live as a female, work as a female and began hormones. I do not wan to have a sex change, are you kidding that is the pleasure point. I bring 6 to 8 pairs of panties with me to work everyday because I spend hours thinking about the silky panties I am wearing or the satin half slip my thigh high stockings my heels and my makeup and lipstick. So sounds like a great life right-wrong-I am completely addicted to the soft silky feeling of nylon, silk, satin and I need yes need to wear it 24/7. I even wear thigh highs to bed with my panties and long nylon gown. Be careful..my advice is to put the panties away and get a girlfriend.

Don't do what you know you're not supposed to do.

Seriously, though: sometimes you're just going to get scolded because you didn't know you weren't supposed to do something. Scolding is much better than physical punishment, even though it makes you feel really bad at the time. Try to remember that it's better to get a scolding than to hurt yourself doing something dangerous, or to get a worse punishment.

If you pay attention to the rules and follow them, you'll avoid most of the scolding.