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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Is Anna Jandrasopark still with her boyfriend?

Anna Jandrasopark is a singer from Thailand who is famous for her Jamp album as well as her numerous roles in TV shows, commercials and movies. Anna is also known as: Issaraporn Jandrasopark. Now you can probably find out on your own if she has an official fan site and maybe get her email, and an autographed pic too. Good luck there! ;-)

Should you send your ex-boyfriend a birthday card?

Ex-boyfriend and Birthday Card

In my opinion you should NOT. Once a person is your ex, all gifts and cards stop, and you get on with your life.

In my opinion, this is entirely acceptable, as long as this is just a freind-to friend-thing.

Is Marty Stuart and connie smith getting a divorce?

Not that I have heard as of yet ;however he has been seen in the company of his X girlfriend and manager Bonnie Garner quite alot lately.

Why do codes P0325 P0330 keep coming back on 1999 Toyota sienna?

Trouble code P0325 means: Knock Sensor 1 Circuit (Bank 1) Trouble code P0330 means: Knock Sensor 2 Circuit (Bank 2) Need to replace Knock sensor

How do you get over the news that your girlfriend is not a virgin?

you have to realize that she isn't a virgin, but she is with you now so its not that big of a deal, try not to think about it but make sure she is clean of STDs and not still attached to her last boyfriend

Try this article:

http://kuyakevin.blogspot.com/2007/01/what-if-i-find-out-that-my.HTML

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You just have to get over the fact that she most probably has been with other people. You shouldn't act different around her because of it otherwise she will end up disliking you because of it. You just have to live with it because it isn't going to change. You will get used to it. Don't worry and good luck! x

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it is hard but just relis she is with you now and she likes you not the person she lost her virginity to

To add to all the above answers: You have no business with who she was with before you. She's with you now so don't let her past ruin what you have. It was probably a big step for her to tell you that she isn't a virgin so be happy that she's that comfortable with you rather than that you aren't going to be her first.

I just found out that my girlfriend is not a virgin. We are in 8th grade. Just try to let it go. If she still loved that person, then she would not have broken up with him, but instead she choose you. She only loves you, not that othere guy. Good Luck

Where is the best place to meet your boyfriend's ex-wife?

Why are you meeting her? If it's about child custody or support issues between your boyfriend and his ex, let them deal with it privately. Stay out of the situation. If you are meeting her to confront her or to ask questions, it's overall a bad idea and won't turn out the way you want it to. The above poster gave you excellent advice. My first husband was cheating on me and eventually his last mistress had the guts to phone me to "discuss this 3-way relationship!" HUH? My husband was sitting in the living room with a wide grin on his face and it was at this instant I knew he was enjoying the ride of his life by idiotically thinking 2 women would actually fight over him. I looked at this grinning lump and said to his mistress, "Hey, no problem, you've got him and I'll even tie a big blue bow on his butt!" His mouth flew open, I kicked him out, moved and sued him for divorce. Don't meet with this woman! Either you are curious or she's fighting to get her husband back. Remember there is nothing greater than the wrath of a woman!

Why do most couples break up after having a child?

Having a child causes many breakups within two years because it requires a couple to refocus their relationship to supporting a baby. It is difficult to maintain the romance, time spent as a couple and to cope with the time a baby requires. Most people are truly exhausted during this period. Also, there are feelings of jealousy and abandonment by the man--this calls for particular maturity and understanding since the mom is not specifically excluding him; it is just that she is hands-on caring for another and, if not given rest and space, is beyond "taking care" of the husband, too. I think that successful couples talk about this, recognize it as a fairly shortterm situation, and do the best they can to support one another. Eventually, the child becomes less needy and there is time for other things. Respite time off is wonderful if there are close family members nearby and if the time is used well, without expectation.

What should you do if you met a guy at school six months ago and you want to do something before the school year is over?

You take the risk and ask him out to a movie or the "in place" your friends and you hang out at. Don't live with "what ifs" or "I should have." He could say no, but then again, he could say yes! Good luck!

Why is it that when you break up with an abusive partner he is in complete agreement but then he always comes back to you?

*sigh* The N is full of contradictions. They need you, they hate that they need you. They don't want you, but they don't want anyone else to have you either. They despise you because your normalcy reminds them of their own deficiencies, yet they want you waiting in the wings in case they need you...Round and round we go! As someone said "stop the insanity!" Stop all communication--do not answer phone calls, emails or mail. If you have to move, do so. Do not think you can be kind by explaining it all again: he heard it before, it is just that he is not in your reality. Although I told mine that we just didn't get along well enough to be together, he still held out hope. He spent time with my friends, emailed, went to a similar church. But, I stuck to my guns and he is gone.

What to do if a friend stabbed you in the back?

What did this friend do? Is this friend usually guilty of doing this kind of thing all the time? Call them on it, then it's up front. Maybe they didn't think it would hurt, and maybe this will make your friendship stronger than it was; that is, if they saw what a real frienship should be like in the process of hearing you out. It's called a revelation, and it could make you life long friends. If this sounds like a long shot, then it isn't worth worrying about, either get a new friend, lower you expectations of this person, or toughen up. A lot of times if it is just talk or something; the situation was different than you are feeling, and it's your friend's own baggage, and they meant you no harm. Tough call though!

Is there a good joke to cheer someone up with?

Ok a guy walks into a bar with a duck on his head and the bartender says `What'll it be Mac?` And the duck says yeah can you get this guy off my butt?

ANSWER:Whats the worst thing about the 69 position.

The view.

ANSWER:i really don't know a joke or riddle for ya, sorry. But my friend is depressed now and just tell him/her u love them and today is bad but tomorrow will be better- That's God's promise to us.

What does it mean if your ex tells you that is better that you dont see him?

Possibly because it causes you so much pain, or brings the pain of the breakup back to the surface.

If you are going through a break up with somebody you know is the love of your life and he thinks you cheated on him with his friend but you never have how do you make him believe you?

I don't think you can make him believe you. If you've tried telling him over and over again yet he still wont believe you maybe that's not the only reason he wants to break up? And should you be in a relationship where the trust isn't substantial enough to keep you together?

Answeryou can't make him, or you can do is be honest with him, let him know that you would never do that do him, and when he feels prepared to start trusting you, he know where you are. Trust is very important in any relationship, but you can't make him trust you. AnswerI think you can bring the friend over and make him say it too and than tell him that its hurting your feelings that he would EVEN think that!!Tell him he needs learn to trust you and ignore what other people tell him. Where is the trust in this relationship?If he cant trust you than he cant be in a relationship with you.Maybe its excuse because he wants a break up. I dont know.Good Luck.

How do you get over someone you have been in love with for 2 years loves you back have broken each others hearts settled things and now he says you hurt him too much and its better if you stop talking?

You listen to him. He is telling you the truth so that he can heal from his wounds. If you really do love him respect his wishes and get on with your life. Learn from your mistakes in this time apart and try never to repeat them. When you feel the "need" to contact him, phone a friend instead. Don't go back to him repeatedly and make him feel guilty for trying to heal himself, it's what he needs right now. If you go back, you risk losing his friendship forever. If its meant to be - he will come to you, and if he doesn't? You have your answer.

I tried for 3 years to become pregnant well today i just gave up on that thought and prayers cause it is true once you mess up when you are younger it will come back and haunt you prayers dont work?

My husband and I too tried for exactly 3 years and I gave up. The next month I found out I was pregnant and got pregnant shortly after telling God "I give up", then He blessed me. I was also young and stupid (had my first child @ 15) and made many mistakes. There are many underlying reasons for not being able to get pregnant. Your cervix may be too long which can hender that ability to get pregant (i have this problem) or you could have fibroid tumors (harmless and non cancerous) or a variety of other issues. Dont stress on getting pregnant anymore and please dont think your being punished for the past. If its going to happen it will happen all @ the right time.Answer

First Congratulations; For Doing Exactly What The Devil Wanted You To Do. God Cannot Lie And He Will Always Keep His Promise. Your Prayers For A New Baby In Your Time Frame May Not Be As In His. You Continue Giving Your Heart To The Lord, He Will Give You Your Reward. It May Be That It Isn`t Just The Right Time For The Baby. Trust Him He Will Always Have The Right Answers. May God Bless

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While what you did in the past might hinder your chances for conception, it's not impossible. Go to the Dr. and get checked out. Let them know you want to get pregnant. If all turns out okay for you, have your partner checked out. He might be shooting blanks. It doesn't seem so, but even for someone who has never done anything to prevent pregnancy, it is extremely hard to conceive a child. Keep praying and maintain a positive attitude. After all, there is always adoption.

If your brother and his girlfriend have split how can he get custody of his daughter?

He will probably have to prove that either she is an unfit mother, OR that the child will be better off with him. Most judges are on the side of the mother from the get-go, but that's not to say that they stay on that side all the time.

You want a list of broken hearted songs?

bad case of broken heart - ataris

painted on my heart - the cult

anne arbour

wish you were here - the get up kids

leaving

hello Houston - the starting line

youre so last summer - taking back Sunday

losing you

lonely hearts - new amsterdams

ooo wait! classic!

every rose has its thorn - poison!!

What should you do if your girlfriend's ex lover calls her and she says it's over but refuses to call him in front of you and tell him that it's over and not to call anymore?

Well it really depends because if your a girl then I would just tell her to call him and put him on speaker phone so you could hear everything because if he odesnt agree to stop calling hten you should as a best friend would do chew him out but if you were a guy then you would get his address go punch him in hte face tell him its over and get in a fist fight if he doesnt listen then chew him out!!! She's playing games with the both of you and whenever she has a conversation with her ex she is slapping you in the face. Put your foot down and tell her you've had it and it's time to make her choice and that you will not put up with her phone conversations to her ex. If it continues he can have her! I have no doubt her excuse will be that she can't control him phoning her and you tell her "All you have to do is say quit calling me and hang up and if he persists on calling you change your phone number!" Good luck Marcy If she truly has no interest in seeing or contacting him, she'd make it clear to him. Unless he's harassing or stalking her (it doesn't sound like he is) he wouldn't continue to keep calling her unless he was getting some response from her at some point in time. Do you truly feel you can trust her? If someone still has feelings for an ex, that's a big red flag. I think she is right in not letting you join in the conversation. If you are truly interested in her, then you need to trust that she has done the right thing. Honestly, she doesn't have any control over the other party and sometimes they don't get the message. By not calling him back, she is doing the right thing to move on. For a longterm relationship, you need to trust the fact that she is spending time with you and that he is history.

Has zack and Ashley ever had an affair?

Zac Efron and Ashley Tisdale have never had an affair with one other. Both Zac and Ashley were in the 'High School Musical' movies.

How do you know when its time to take a break?

When you are pondering if you should take a break

^ Or when you see a Kit-Kat..

Why would a narcissist end a good relationship and never return without even saying goodbye or explaining why he broke up?

Because that is just the way they are. Always say "They won't come back, but be prepared for what if?" In the 10 years I spent with my husband,(9 of those married) he left so many times I lost track. The time spans got longer and the states he moved to added up. In less than 3 years my husband lived in 3 states. Once again I have filed for a divorce (this being the 3rd time) and I pray every day that I go through with it this time. When he decided to leave this time leaving me with our 7 mo. old daughter I had asked him to cut back on his drinking. He called me at work and said he would and is everything going to be ok with us. He left for a week to his job and when he came back he told me he was going to do what he wanted and this and that and 3 days later he told me I was never going to change and it was all my fault etc. and he was moving out. Not once did I hear anything about his lying, constant cheating, hiding money,or treating every one like crap to make him look good. He actually rented a house,(deposit and 1st months rent), deposits for utilities etc. and never even lived there just to hear from him 12 days later (while he was on the road) telling me he was moving to another state. So him and a friend he was rooming with (who just happens to live in this state) came and got his belongings and now he is gone. The funny thing is he told me to stop trying to push him away from his daughter, and how he loved her whole heartedly and on and on moves 8 hours away. That's love right there. I have been charmed by this man so many times I always take him back. I've had alot of time to think about this though and realized if he won't change for a beautiful,dark haired, dark eyed little part of him, he will not change for no one and that's the reality. Hang in there, your days will get better!

What do you do when your ex-girlfriend wants you to move out of state?

If you love her and this is who you want to be with then go and get her. Often distant can be a factor that keeps two individuals that truly love each other and were meant to be apart. At least give it a shot because what you don't want is to let someone you truly love go and regret it or always wonder what could have been when you could have done something about it. If you love her and she loves you then go for it. If you believe in praying then pray about it. God Bless! CORRECTION: If you mean she is out of state and wants you to move to her state with her then this is my recommendations above. Seems to me you still love her if this is the case don't let your pride stand in the way of you being together. If it is more feasible for you to move where she is then by all means do that but talk to her and see if this is what you both want. Alot of times having too much pride can cost a lot of pain down the road. I had to read that question three times before I got what you meant, and only after reading the answer above. When I read it the first time (and the second), I was wondering why anyone would care what his ex-GF wants him to do. I was also thinking that although it's reasonable for a girl to say, "I don't want to see you anymore," it's totally unreasonable for her to say, "I don't want to see you anymore -- so get the hell out of this state!" I too was surprised that you mentioned an ex giving you ultimatums. Either you just split-up because of this problem or she's still running the show. Your life is important too so if you don't want to move out of State then don't! If she really cared about how you feel there is always an answer to every problem. Move on, it isn't worth it!

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